Hye Doun

A Publication of the Armenian Nursing And Rehabilitation Center, Inc., Emerson, NJ April/May/June 2012

Commemoration of the 97th Anniversary of the Armenian Genocide: Story on pages 8-9

The Presidents Message

Board of Trustees
ANDREW TORIGIAN President of the Home and Chairman of the Board of Trustees TED TAKVORIAN, Esq. Vice President PETER BONJOUKLIAN Treasurer JOHN VANISKHIAN Assistant Treasurer KHOREN NALBANDIAN, RPH Recording Secretary ANNETTE TAMALIAN-ALMOND Corresponding Secretary H. CRAIG FROONJIAN, DMD Ombudsman SONIA MARDINIAN, RPH NABIL J. NOURI NORA ZABEL TOSSOUNIAN, MD Board Members GREG TOUFAYAN Alternate Board Member MATTHEW RUSSO, LNHA Administrator JAN MRANI, M.D. Medical Director

We Are Getting Closer!

Andrew Torigian

rom the day in January 2011, when the Emerson Planning Board gave its approval, we have been working diligently on our required application to submit to the NJ Department of Environmental Protection (DEP). Now, forty-five days later, the Emerson Planning Board has memorialized its approval and cleared the way for our formal application to the DEP. It is my pleasure to inform you that the hard work of our site engineers, Al Lapatka and Dave Sudoki, our environmental engineer, John Thonet, our environmental attorney, Dennis Toft, our architect, Bob Cozzerelli, and our administrator at the Armenian Home , Matt Russo, has made it possible for us to complete the Compliance Statement and Freshwater Wetlands Documentation for General Permit No. 11. and we can now submit our completed application to the DEP. As we await the decision of the DEP we continue to serve our residents with the wonderful care and respect they deserve. See the letter on page 3, one of many we receive each month. We thank all our staff members for their dedication and devotion to our patients. We look forward to seeing you at our June 28, 2012 Annual meeting where all the details will be given to you. q

Hye Doun Editorial Board

Andrew Torigian Chief Editor Louisa Janbazian Editor Matthew Russo Advisor

Howard Torossian Photographs Layout & Design by Caspian Seal Caspianseal.com Printed by PRINTSOLUTIONS Englewood, NJ 201.567.9622

The Armenian Nursing and Rehabilitation Center sits on three spacious acres nestled in wooded, suburban Emerson, Bergen County, NJ. Our Address is: Armenian Nursing and Rehabilitation Center 70 Main Street, Emerson NJ 07630 Phone: 201.261.6662 Fax: 201.261.5509 You are invited to call and make an appointment to discuss the individual needs of your loved one. Directions: By Bus: Port Authority: Bus #165 to Emerson By Car: Exit #165 on Garden State Parkway. Right turn onto Oradell Ave. Left turn onto Kinderkamack Rd. Turn right onto Main St. Follow contours of road. Home on left. From GWB: Take Route 4 to Kinderkamack Rd. Right turn onto Main St. Follow contours of road. Home on left.

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From the Administrators Desk

As a Matter of Fact...
Matthew L. Russo, LNHA, Administrator

Everybodys entitled to their own opinion; theyre just not entitled to their own facts. -Author Unknown
ith our current DEP submission most recently Hye Doun! We talked about the homes progress briefly there has been a lot of decision making but before long she commented, I dont know how you based on concrete data. Its becoming the do it. They (the Armenians) are so opinionated. I norm in our neck of the woods and what we are finding could only smile, Dont we all have opinions? most important today is making sure our facts are real. Opinions are personal views and judgements we Wise leadership has focused the greater part of our make drawing our own personal conclusions. The problem attention on factors that are within our control and with opinions is that they are often based on what hasnt we are giving most of our attention to executing the occurred or existed yet. They can be tricky and they may here and now efficiently. While lead to disappointment or being the new building project has Opinions are personal views and proved wrong. The facts are taken our attention away on a what guide us today and once judgements we make drawing our they are fully recognized can larger scale we are fortunate to have put strategies in place in own personal conclusions. The ones opinion be weighed. What advance to pursue the growth is important to focus on, and is problem with opinions is that they common knowledge around we expect routinely. here is that everyones opinion A few weeks ago I took part are often based on what hasnt in a family memorial golf outing occurred or existed yet. in decision making is respected, for a cousin, Billy, lost on my since ultimately the decisions we wifes side to epilepsy. At the gathering following the make today bind us tomorrow. event I had the opportunity to sit down with my cousinMany people make up our business model in the spirit in-law, Lucille (Abdoian) Brennan. While she knew Im of cooperation on a day to day basis. We place a spotthe director of the nursing home bearing her heritage, light on our decisions in our pursuit of growth for a more she was even more pleasantly surprised to see my successful and brighter future. picture sitting on her mothers coffee table in atop the Thats my opinion! q

Dear Administrators and staff, We cannot begin to thank you enough for the care and compassion you showed to our Mom, Anahid FroonjianFritsche during her stay at the Armenian Home. As her family, we felt comfortable knowing that you were always there and had her best interest at heart. To the kitchen staff, we thank you for taking the time to make special meals that Mom enjoyed. The maintenance & custodial staff were always pleasant.The nurses and aides were like no other. You are angels here on earth! To the administrative staff, and everyone behind the scenes, we are appreciative for the concern, advise, and the time you took to talk to us, console us, and truly listen to our concerns. You are doing a phenomenal job maintaining a safe haven for our senior population. We thank you all. No matter what your job is---YOU are making a difference in the lives of many; not only the patients, but for their families,and we thank you for the love that you shared during the time we spent with you. God Bless you all.With love and gratitude, Carol A. Froonjian-Imbriaco, Dr. H. Craig Froonjian & Families
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Health

The Weather And Our Health

ith temperature recently reaching into the 80s and 90s we take steps to avoid heat exhaustion and heat stroke. Heat stroke and heat exhaustion are serious conditions that may require hospitalization. In extremely hot weather, it is vital to drink plenty of water and fluids, spend time indoors and minimize any physical activity. Also pay special attention to small children and elderly family members to make sure they are hydrated and safe. Prolonged heat and humidity can present a serious health hazard, especially for the elderly and persons taking certain medications. Each year more than 1,200 persons are treated in New Jersey emergency departments for heat related illness or sunburn. In New Jersey annually depending on the average outdoor temperature, the majority of those hospitalized is male, age 65-84. To avoid complications from excessive heat: 1. Drink plenty of water or other non-alcoholic beverages. 2. Make sure children and the elderly are drinking water, and ensure that persons with mobility problems have adequate fluids. 3. If you do not have air conditioning, spend time in airconditioned places such as libraries and malls.

Shakeh Bautista, RN, Director of Nursing

4. Wear loose and light colored clothing. Wear a hat when outdoors. 5. Avoid any outdoor activity during the hottest hours of the day. 6. Dont leave children, frail elderly or a disabled person, or pets in an enclosed carnot even for a minute as temperatures can quickly climb to dangerous levels. 7. Talk to your health care provider about any medicine or drugs you are taking. Certain medications can increase the risk of heat- related illness. People suffering heatstroke can go from appearing normal to extremely ill in a matter of minutes. Victims may have hot, dry skin, a high body temperature of 106 degrees or more, an absence of sweat, and a rapid and strong pulse. Victims may become delirious or unconscious. Persons suffering from heart stroke need immediate medical attention. Heat exhaustion is a milder illness that may take several days of high temperatures to develop. Victims may have pale, clammy skin and sweat profusely. They may feel tired, weak or dizzy and have headache or sometimes cramps, but their body temperature will remain close to normal. Have a healthy and happy summer. q

Inspirational Messages at the Alzheimers Conference

n May 11th, the Alzheimers Association held its 2012 Education and Research Conference for the Greater NJ Chapter at the Palace at Somerset Park in Somerset, NJ. Keeping consistent with past years, the conference began with an exhibition showcasing multiple home care agencies, hospice companies, long term care and assisted living facilities as well as many other health care companies. This gave health care professionals a chance to meet and educate each other on their companies and facilities with the hope of developing working relationships. After perusing the room, it was time for the educational portion of the conference to begin. Attendees heard from various key note speakers presenting new developments in the diagnosing of Alzheimers disease and other forms of dementia as well as how such diseases physically affect the brain and what that means for the ability to complete everyday tasks such as driving. In the afternoon, everyone dispersed in to smaller breakout sessions, each one on a 4 HYE DOUN | April/May/June 2012

Beth Aymar, MSW, LSW

different topic. I had the pleasure of attending an intimate workshop where we sat with a panel of early stage, early onset Alzheimers patients and their family members. This was an eye opening experience and gave us an opportunity to learn from the panelists themselves about the struggles they face on a daily basis while they are still capable of sharing such information. One panelist, a middle-aged woman who attended the conference with her sister, gave perhaps one of the most powerful and eye opening statements of the day. When asked for the most important piece of advice she could give caregivers and others working with Alzheimers patients, she stated, Be patient with me. I can no longer do things the same way as you and I dont have the ability to change that. As caregivers, we have so much responsibility to attend to that we sometimes lose sight of this important message. We need to recognize when its time to take a step back and realize that life is a journey. Sometimes we need to adjust the rhythm of our steps in order to walk side by side.q

Activities Corner

Whats hot this summer at the Armenian Nursing & Rehabilitation Center?
Sandy Cortelyou, Director of Activities ollowing our summer tradition at the Armenian Home, we will be having monthly barbeques on the last Friday of each month. Our own chef Ashlee Ray will be cooking up burgers and dogs on the grill. During the barbeques, the residents will have the opportunity to sit outside on the porch and have their meal. Each day after lunch while the nice weather is upon us, we take the residents outside to sit on the porch for approximately 20 minutes. Since the porch can only accommodate ten residents at a time, we alternate giving everyone a chance to enjoy the beautiful weather. During July and August we are happy to announce that the students from St. Nersess Seminary will be coming back to visit with us. These are high school and college students on retreat who will take time to come and have a Spiritual Service with us. After the service, they enjoy lunch with the residents as well as sitting with them and sharing life experiences. In addition to barbeques and patio time, we have various outings planned, including trips to various restaurants, the mall, and to the zoo. The residents enjoy these outings and if any family members would like to join their loved ones, please contact me. On August 17, the Armenian Home is once again welcoming the July Quiver Traveling Farm from Penns7/4 Salute to America Program burg, Pennsylvania. Everyone who attended this activity last year had 7/11 Beach Party a fabulous time. Some of the ani7/12 Tri County Connection Singers mals that came were sheep, ducks, 7/18 The Harmonica Club to perform geese, a turkey, calves, chicks, bunnies, and a piglet. The residents were able to hold, pet, and feed the August small animals. The residents do not 8/1 Luau have the opportunity to see these 8/2 Students from St. Nersess to visit types of animals often so this is a 8/8 Shopping Day! rare treat for them! Please mark 8/16 Students from St. Nersess to visit your calendars for Friday August 17th at 2:30 and join in on the fun! 8/17 Traveling Farm! All family members and friends are invited and encouraged to participate in any activities that September take place at the Armenian Home. 9/3 Labor Day Party! Please do not hesitate to join us and 9/7 Patriot Day Arts & Crafts Project! if you should have any questions 9/11 Remembering September 11th or comments, please contact my 9/21 Armenian Independence Day Celebration! office at 201-261-6662. Thank you, Have a fabulous summer!

Upcoming Events!

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In The Kitchen

First Annual Mothers Day Brunch

Ashlee Ray, Food Services Director

n May 13th, we were pleased to host our first Mothers Day Brunch for residents and their family members! As we know, it can be difficult to transport our loved ones to a special restaurant for a holiday meal. With the help of Sandy Cortelyou and her staff, the Dietary department brought the restaurant to experience right here to ANRC!

Zepure Mardekian and family.

In honor of our wonderful moms, we served up many different foods from breakfast favorites like Eggs Benedict, bacon, and fresh fruit, to lunch items like the Armenian favorite Lamb and Beef Kebab with yogurt sauce, Baked Atlantic Salmon, and many other delicious dishes. Residents especially enjoyed our desserts like diabetic friendly strawberry chiffon cupcakes, and chocolate rugalach pastries, yum! Our staff at the ANRC worked very hard to make this event happen. In recognition of their hard work, I would first like to thank one of our cooks, Gerrome, who helped to prepare such fantastic food. Thank you also to my staff, Hajnal, George, Peter, Matt, Mark, Ruth, Marites, and Donald, who helped us to make this go off without a hitch. Special thanks to Sandy and the activities staff members Jamie, Barry, and Lucine, for all of their hard work from room set up to serving food. I also want to thank maintenance service staff members Bob and Steve to for their assistance as well as everyone else working on this day. Since everyone had such a great time, we cant wait to do this again next year! Happy Summer! q 6 HYE DOUN | April/May/June 2012

Barbara Boothby and family with Gerard Belmonte.

Arsena Jabajian and family.

Florance Manzo and family.

Rose White and family.

Josefa DeSouza and family.

Received with Thanks

ARMENIAN HOME DONATIONS Mr. Charles Babikian Mr. & Mrs. Alan Dell Ms. Lainie Ognibene Mr. & Mrs. Charles Sarajian Mr. & Mrs. Hacik Sariminasyan Total $815.00 N MEMORY OF THERESA LUCCHESI Mr. & Mrs. Czerepak Mr. & Mrs. David Dias Mr. & Mrs. Nelson Dias Ms. Josephine Dias Mr. & Mrs. Andrew Lucchesi Ms. Kathleen Rinaldi Mr. & Mrs. Peter Scarano Mrs. Annette Venanzi Total $520.00 IN MEMORY OF ELIZABETH UFHOLZ Mr. & Mrs. Joseph Baumuller Mr. & Mrs. George Cimis Ms. Amy Le Total $250.00 IN MEMORY OF ANAHID FROONJIANFRITSCHE Ms. Adrienne Babigian Mr. & Mrs. Gary Boyajian Mr. & Mrs. Ronald Boyajian Mr. & Mrs. Jody Brooke Mr. & Mrs. Frank Centrella Ms. Irene Fugger Mr. & Mrs. Anthony Guarriello Ms. Angela Imbriaco Mr. & Mrs. Berge Karaguezian Mr. & Mrs. Richard Sarajian Ms. Carolyn Seibel Mr. & Mrs. Vartan Shirvanian Ms. Clara Stoll Mr. & Mrs. John Tashjian Ms. Janet Tashjian Ms. Lori Tashjian-Kress Mr. & Mrs. Andrew Torigian Mr. & Mrs. John Vaniskhian Total $770.00

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A New Face
Jessica Langan, BA, Business Development Liaison

t is my pleasure to introduce myself as the newest member of the Armenian Nursing & Rehabilitation Center (ANRC) team. My name is Jessica Langan and I have been appointed as the Business Development Liaison position. One of four girls, I was born and raised in Glen Ridge, New Jersey. I graduated May 2011 with a degree in psychology from Moravian College, Bethlehem, Pennsylvania. While pursuing my educational experience at Moravian, I knew I wanted to work in healthcare, but to what extent I was unsure. By reaching out and helping others during an internship at Valley Youth House I worked with teens and found working on behalf of those in need can be rewarding. As graduation approached, my mentor at Moravian College and I discussed options within healthcare that would be a good fit for me and my professional goals. I was introduced to the ANRC well before my employment and during those college years when in 2009 my grandfather resided at the home following hip fracture surgery. For roughly three months I noted during my visits with my grandfather the staff for being friendly, accommodating and committed to giving my grandfather great care. The seed was planted

that this environment could be a place for me to achieve my vocational goals. The recollection of the short time I spent as a customer at the Armenian Home made a strong impact on my decision to inquire about employment. When the Business Development Liaison opportunity recently became available, I was eager to become the chosen candidate. Included in some of the vast responsibilities of this position, I have been working mainly in admissions by assisting prospective families with questions as well as assisting the homes marketing effort in the Bergen County healthcare community. I hope to improve our visibility, assist in our growth and fulfilling my personal and professional goals. The Armenian Nursing and Rehabilitation Center is an amazing facility with many staff members employed here for over 20 years! I have met many new friends being the residents, families and staff and I am very excited to be of service here. I look forward meeting you during your next visit at the Armenian Nursing & Rehabilitation Center, and dont forget to Like us at our new Facebook page! The link is http://www.facebook.com/1938HyeDoun. If you have any questions about our home, please feel free to give me a call and Ill be happy to help you! q

Commemoration of the 97th Anniversary of the Armenian Genocide at the ANRC

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Archbishop Oshagan Choloyan, Prelate Of The Eastern Prelacy Visits the ANRC

he week before Easter, the Armenian Nursing and Rehabilitation Center (ANRC) in Emerson, NJ had the distinct pleasure of hosting once again the visitation of Archbishop Oshagan Choloyan, Prelate of the Eastern Prelacy of the Armenian Apostolic Church of America. He was accompanied by Bishop Anoushavan Tanielian, Vicar of the EasternPrelacy; Rev. Fr. Hovnan Bozoian Pastor of Saints Vartanantz Church in Ridgefield, NJ; Rev. Fr. Mesrob Lakissian Pastor of Saint Illuminators Cathedral in New York City; The Archbishop and the Clergy began the services with the participation of the Residents singing together the Lords Prayer in Armenian. Then it became a very joyous occasion as Archbishop Choloyan began the Blessing of the Bread, Water, and the Salt. Those present knew that the message given by His Eminence was one of Hope and Salvation which gave them great gratification and comfort. Upon completion of the liturgy, Archbishop Choloyan went to each resident as each one of them was eager to kiss the Cross. Madagh and Grapes were served to all and brought an end to a very inspirational service. Andy Torigian, President and Chairman of the Board of Directors of the ANRC expressed his deep appreciation to Archbishop Choloyan and thanked him and the clergy for their uplifting visit. q

n April 24, 2012 Requiem Services took place at the ANRC in memory of the one and a half million Armenians slaughtered by the Ottoman Turks in the Armenian Genocide. Taking part in the services were Very Rev. Fr. Vazken Karayan of the Holy Cross Armenian Church, Union City, NJ; Rev. Fr. Diran Bohajian of St. Leon Armenian Church, Fairlawn, NJ; Rev. Fr. Hovnan Bozoian of Sts. Vartanantz Armenian Church, Ridgefield, NJ; Shant Barsoumian Christian Ed. Director of the Armenian Presbyterian Church, Paramus, NJ; Deacon Benjamin Najarian,Deacon Hachik Sariminasyan and choir members Victoria Sariminasyan and Ohanes Kartalyan of St. Leon Church. After the services a hokejash was blessed and served to all. Andy Torigian President and Chairman of the Board of ANRC thanked all those who took part in the moving services. q

Director of Activities; Rev. Fr. Hovnan Bozoian, Pastor of Sts. Vartanantz Church, Ridgefield, NJ; Bishop Anoushavan Tanielian, Vicar of the Eastern Prelacy; Archbishop Oshagan Choloyan, Prelate of the Eastern Prelacy; Andy Torigian, President and Chairman of the Board of Directors of the ANRC; Linda Amerkanian, Secretary of the FAH; Matt Russo Administrator of the ANRC.

Standing from L to R: Sandy Cortelyou,ADC,

Those in Photo on page 8 From L to R:

Victoria Saraminasyan, Ohanes Kartalyan, Deacon Benjamin Najarian, Shant Barsoumian, Rev. Fr. Diran Bohajian, Very Rev. Fr. Vasken Karayan, Rev, Fr. Hovnan Bozoian, and Deacon Hachik Sariminasyan.

Blessing of the water, salt, and bread; From the left Rev. Fr. Hovnan Bozoian; Bishop Anoushavan Tanielian; Archbishop Oshagan Choloyan;and Rev.FR. Mesrob Lakissian.
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ANRC Volunteers
On April 19, 2012 we held our annual Volunteers Dinner to thank all of our generous volunteers who come here throughout the year. We enjoy having them here and cannot thank them enough. Cheers to you volunteers!

Rev. & Minister Perry with Linda and Charles Amerkanian

Ed Heaney, Deacon John Hogan, and Father Miles

Linda and Charles Amerkanian

Hugh and Vivan Thibou

Standing L to R: Linda Amerkanian, Maryann Bonjuklian. Seating L to R: Alice Philibosian, Seta Boudoughian and Armine Pechdimaldji

Kevin & Dylan Mulvena

Hye Doun loses Rose Tamalian in May at the age of 101

ose Tamalian was born in Dikranagert, Turkey and came to the United States with her parents when she was only 2 years old. She was a life-long active member of the Holy Cross Church in Union City. Rose was often found cooking at the Annual Fathers Day picnics at the Armenian Nursing and Rehabilitation Center (ANRC). After many years of volunteering at the ANRC, Rose became a resident of the ANRC and became the unofficial Armenian Interpreter in Nursing II for many residents over the years who did not speak English. When she became a resident at the ANRC,no one anticipated Rose would live at the ANRC for over 14 years (partially due to her great sense of humor and great care at the Home). In May, 2010, Rose had a birthday party (above) at the ANRC and the candles on the cake spelled out Happy 100th Birthday Rose!. Most of all, Rose was happy in her role as mother of ANRC Board Member, Annette Tamalian-Almond, and Grandmother of Amanda Almond. q

From L to R: Annette Tamalian-Almond. Rose Tamalian. Oriana

Sartor, Catherine Sartor.

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On March 25, children from the Church of The Virgin Mary came by to visit the residents of our home.

Anne Beddoe, Millie DeFranciso, Regina Dowling, Gerard Belmonte

Zepyur Mardekian

Barbara Boothby

Ken Buchner

On May 25, students from the Hovnanian School came to the home to celebrate Memorial Day with the residents!

Rose White
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Armenian Nursing and Rehabilitation Center, Inc.

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On March 28, the residents enjoyed a performence by Sima Trio (Sami Merdinian Violin, Ani Kalayjian Cello, and Sofya Melikyan Piano).