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Emerging 'Pure Relationships' in Modernity - Towards A New Mental Health Level
Emerging 'Pure Relationships' in Modernity - Towards A New Mental Health Level
Emerging 'Pure Relationships' in Modernity - Towards A New Mental Health Level
Sumant Majmudar MSW, M S University, Baroda; MS,Columbia University School of Social Work, New York, USA
Understanding: a framework
Through analysis of empirical, observable relationships Orientation: -Agents reproducing structures which constrict but also enable -Modernity, reflexivity, self-identity. Pure relationships as a response to predicaments, perils of oncoming modernity and emerging fragile self identity Giddens, Winnicott, Beck, Foucault, Goffman, Bauman, Bourdieu, Wittgenstein, Regis Debray
Problems
Problems as expression of not only social but personal Suicides, new variation: parents along with children, 'lovers jointly Overflowing aggression in social encounters Fast track life Loneliness High stress Addictions Sexual (LGBT, Queer movement, Nepal legalizing same sex marriage TOI Dec 3, 09) and Gender identity issues
Swayamvara for senior citizens by VMAS, (TOI, Sept.7, 08, again in Oct.09), a new opportunity for reconstructing self-identity Globalizing Big Bang experiment in Geneva news influencing local people with an adolescent suicide in a village in Madhya Pradesh and in cities in Gujarat with doomsday fears of earthquake, death, of building collapse, apprehension, BP soaring high, visiting temples, children being not sent to school (TOI, Sept.11,08) Ganapati idols drinking milk local news sweeping, within hours, to global Gujaratis queues in worship to watch the spectacle
From tradition to modernity: From reinterpretation and clarification of action to self confrontation of social practice, action by agents under global, distant influences individually and in groups Disembedding from time and space with intrusion of globalization, information, communication Both individual and collective experience, though local, mediated through global influences. Distance and virtual relationships Elders-Mahajans- knowledge vs. expert systems, deskilling, mastering new skills Reembedding of expert system Trust. Risk: natural risk, manufactured risk Doubt, uncertainty, Juggernaut steamroller of modernity. Fear of loss of specificity, loss of self is real.
Self-identity
In modernity: self-identity not inherited, not static but fluid with increasing choice A reflexive, self-confronting project, continually worked on and reordered against constantly shifting experiences of day-to-day life. Both affects and helps to construct body and self Keeping a self-narrative going, ongoing story of self, struggle to live up to chosen self identity Liberating with self fulfillment But troubling with cognitive dissonance Ontological insecurity (of being) (R D Laing, Erikson, Giddens): a disturbed sense of order and continuity in events and life, related to trust; capacity to give meaning to life, an event inconsistent with meaning triggers off insecurity
Burden: experiencing stress of strong emotions; can be terminated at will, needs to be worked on continuously, good until further notice
Spheres:
-Sexual (focused on coupling from Bahu to wife - & in some cases less on marriage) -Parent-child (gradually children not just seen but heard and respected too) -Friendship
(Habermas), free of coercion & violence, mutuality of respect, discipline yes but on a different footing, being in charge of oneself, trust
Conclusion
Modern self-identity brings with it stress, anxiety, and an enduring need to protect self But it also both supports and is created by development of intimacy, emotional communication and trust through self disclosure Social work, counseling, therapy, self-help groups emerging as ways to support the selfunderstanding and true self, the narrative of the self-identity, the constant emergence of self Social work response to these changes?