CI NGI NH B HOC M MNH, C MAY MN KHNG? MARRY A PERSON LIKE YOUR MOTHER OR FATHER, LUCKY OR NOT?

In the childhood, while men often dream of marrying beautiful girls like models on television, women desire to be with men like heroes of great masculinity. Hardly do we think that we want to tie the knot with those resembling our parents. We, maybe, hate the image of our fathers for their lack of caring for mothers and sympathy for children, occasionally. Seeing fathers go home, be couch potatoes and let mothers do housework, little females keep running away from house and expect to lead a different life with a man with more tactfulness. Trong thi th u, trong khi n ng m c ci nhng c gi xinh p nh ngi mu trn tivi, ph n li ao c kt hn vi nhng ngi n ng nh anh hng y nam tnh. Him khi m chng ta ngh chng ta mun kt hn vi nhng ai ging b m ca mnh. Chng ta, c th, ght hnh nh ca nhng ng b v h thiu quan tm vi m ca chng ta hay s thng cm cho nhng a tr, i khi l nh vy. Nhn thy b ca mnh v nh, l nhng c khoai ty ngi trn gh bnh v m ca mnh lm cng vic nh, nhng c con gi b nh ch mun trn nh v mong i c mt cuc sng vi mt ngi n ng nam tnh hn chng hn. Yet, after years of struggling with ups and downs of life, it turns out that such grown-up children end up marrying those who are similar to their parents. To some extent, social studies have shown that in fact, since our early years of life, our brain has been shaped with the image of dreamed men or women without our cognition. Despite being irritating to us in childhood, repetitive behavioral pattern in our parents, is unconsciously embedded in our mind. Such clout is dramatic to the point that we are, in adulthood, seemingly attracted to those with the same personalities or appearance like them

Nhng qua nhng nm thng thng trm ca cuc i, dng nh l nhng a tr trng thnh v cui cng li kt hn nhng ngi ging b m h. mt chng mc no y, nghin cu x hi cho thy rng thc s th t nhng nm u i ca chng ta. There are some other reasons for this nuptial coincidence. Perhaps, as a result of living with us for long, our parents understand us deeply and bear our weirdness. Hence, when growing up, we may retain long-term relationship with men who get used to our quirks, might feel uneasy, but still accept this fact. Meanwhile, some men who deeply fall for us at first sight want to escape us soon if realizing that such odds are irreconcilable. In several rare cases, luckily, some children, as a result of being raised by wonderful parents, hold significant admiration for them and tend just to marry those of the same traits. Whatever the reason is, the recent demographic survey again indicates a shocking number that up to 50% of couples marry their partners who have strong resemblance with their parents in one way or another.

C mt s l do cho s trng hp trong hn nhn. C l, v sng vi nhau mt thi gian di, b m chng ta c th hiu su sc chng ta v chu c s khc ngi ca chng ta. Do vy, khi ln ln, chng ta c th duy tr quan h lu di vi ngi n ng m quen vi nhng s k d ca chng, cm thy khng d chu u, nhng chp nhn thc t iu ny. Trong khi , mt s ngi n ng ngi m yu chng ta mt cch su sc lc u li mun ri b chng ta nu nhn ra rng nhng s k d ny l khng th ha gii c. Trong mt s trng hp, mt cch may mn thay, mt s a tr, nh mt kt qu ca vic c nui dng bi nhng ng b b m tuyt vi, c s ngng m vi h v c xu hng kt hn vi nhng ngi c cng tnh cch.

D l do l th no i chng na, survey gn y mt ln na cho thy mt con s thc s shock ln ti 50% kt hn vi ngi m c s tng t vi b m h cch ny hay cch khc.