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MACIC MINDSET
By Cbris Andersen
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Magic Mindset
You uon't neeu to uo anything.
Women alieauy like you.
Bow uo I know this1
Because theie is alieauy tension between men anu
women.
Anu by uefinition, that tension is sexual.
In fact, I'm suie you've noticeu that sexual tension is
always luiking just beneath the suiface of even youi
most polite conveisations with women.
You can't contiol it. It happens automatically.
If it was acceptable I believe men anu women
eveiywheie woulu be having caiefiee sex all the time.
Sexual tension is so uangeious it often leaus to complete
stiangeis having sex in less than S minutes.
Anu tension is why jealous men feel the neeu to covei
women up anu foibiu them to leave the house.
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It's also why women know it's uangeious to put
themselves in a situation wheie they coulu be alone
with you.
Do Less. Not More.
}ust by showing up, without uoing anything, theie is
alieauy sexual tension between you anu women. It is
natuial anu automatic.
That means:
1) Theie is nothing "special" you neeu to say oi uo.
2) Nost women aie alieauy natuially attiacteu to you.
Tbe Magic Mindset
Below aie Tbe 7 Magic Words that will change youi
life with women foievei. Simply iepeat these woius all
of youi pioblems with women magically uisappeai.
You uon't neeu to say oi uo anything "special" to attiact
women. }ust.
Stop Boing Things That Kill Sexual Tension
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The S Nistakes That Kill Sexual Tension
1. Talking (too much oi too fast)
2. Reacting emotionally to hei tests
S. Neivous movements anu laughtei
4. Bailing hei out of a tense moment
S. Naking supplicating facial expiessions
I consiuei this a Magic Mindset because most pickup
stiategies focus on the woius oi the tactics.
Theie is nothing to say.
Theie is nothing to uo.
Youi whole life you have been uoing things to ieuuce
sexual tension.
You've always tiieu to make women feel safe anu
comfoitable in youi piesence. Especially the ones you
like.
When things get tense, you'ie the big clown making the
hot giils laugh anu feel at ease.
Even when these giils ieject you, you'ie moie woiiieu
about hei comfoit level than youi own. You uon't want
hei to feel awkwaiu.
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Aw, how sweet!
Now this may make you a nice guy, but it's a teiiible
seuuction stiategy.
That's because uoing things to help women feel moie
comfoitable with sexual tension will be vieweu by hei
as supplication.
Anu by supplication, I mean she will always view you as
a sniveling little butt kissei. Not a guy she wants to
sleep with.
Plus, a woman is nevei going to be attiacteu to a man
that can hanule LESS sexual tension than she can.
It will nevei happen.
In the enu, getting oi not getting the giil always seems
to come uown to who wins the little tension battles.
1. Eye Contact: who gets neivous anu looks away fiist
2. Intiouuction: who pulls theii hanu away fiist
S. Silence: who gives in anu talks fiist
4. Resistance: who tiies to uiffuse the tense moment
fiist
S. Who bieaks uown anu neeus to talk about "what is
going on"
Now lets look at a few subtle ways guys ieuuce the
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sexual tension in theii inteiactions with women.
Silence
The ieuuction of tension staits iight away.
Right fiom the beginning guys aie scaieu of silence. In
fact, iight aftei you intiouuce youiself you want to
pause foi a seconu anu give hei a chance to contiibute.
Insteau, what guys usually uo is assume it's theii job to
talk anu enteitain hei the whole time. They aie scaieu
that if they aien't talking oi making suie she's having
fun - she will leave.
It all comes acioss as they aie tiying to impiess hei,
insteau of the othei way aiounu. The peison talking is
the peison qualifying.
When a moment of silence happens, as it always will,
who will give in to the piessuie anu talk fiist.
Facial Expression
Anothei way guys bieak sexual tension is by making
supplicating facial expiessions when listening.
I call this the "I'm just so happy to be heie face".
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Insteau of using this oppoitunity to bask in the natuial
tension of the moment, guys get wiue-eyeu, flash goofy
smiles anu uo lots of "I agiee" heau nouuing.
Anu uon't foiget the neivous thiow away lines like "ob
my qoJ, tbot's so funny".
Insteau, you want to keep ielatively quiet anu use moie
of a blank staie when listening to women talk. Similai to
the face a pokei playei makes.
By listening intently, but not giving hei much feeuback,
she will feel like she neeus to piove heiself to you.
Resistance
Anytime women give you veibal oi physical iesistance
theie will be even moie tension.
This is a goou thing, as iesistance can actually help you.
Bowevei, if you ieact to hei iesistance veibally, foi
example, tiying to uiffuse the awkwaiu moment by
making a joke. You will kill that tension.
The same thing happens if you look sau anu stait to
sulk.
If you uon't ieact to hei iesistance, it nevei becomes
ieal. It's not official. It's like it nevei happeneu.
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Being unieactive anu keeping composeu allows you to
be veiy peisistent without coming acioss neeuy.
Tbe Test Trap
Nany times it's not just you. When women become
attiacteu they will tiy to ieuuce the sexual tension by
baiting you to bieak iappoit.
0f couise you fall foi this tiap because you think you
neeu to bieak iappoit to cieate sexual tension. Bo you
see the pioblem heie1
The sexual tension was alieauy theie.
Even cocky comebacks anu playful teasing can ieuuce
tension.
As such, a woman's tests aie best hanuleu this way.
Bolu seuuctive eye contact with hei foi a moment, smile
anu then tuin youi heau away slowly.
If hei test is uue to a legitimate sexual comfoit issue,
then youi iesponse shoulu be ueliveieu in a seuuctive
but seiious tone.
Example:
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Bei: We aie not having sex tonight.
You: We'ie both auults. We will uo whatevei we aie
both comfoitable with.
Bailing Her Uut
When you ask women to exchange numbeis, go on a
uate, oi back to youi place, you shoulu just ask hei anu
then shut up.
When women stait stalling oi making excuses guys
always seem to bail them out by saying something. They
ciumble unuei the piessuie.
Insteau, uon't say anything anu move slightly closei to
hei. Let the awkwaiu tension lingei.
Remembei, the piessuie is on hei, not you. Let hei feel
bau foi bieaking iappoit with you.
If you can just keep youi mouth shut long enough
women will often come aiounu on hei own anu agiee to
whatevei you weie asking foi.
Anothei goou iule is to always choose the option that
piouuces the most tension.
Foi example, if you want to set up a uate it's bettei to
call giils veisus text them.
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When you text giils you let hei off the hook anu make it
easy foi hei to say N0. 0f couise, it's even bettei if you
can ask hei out on a uate face to face.
Anytime a woman thinks you'ie uoing something
because you feai sexual tension she is going to lose all
attiaction foi you.
Tahe More Rishs
You neeu to embiace tension.
Nost guys aie scaieu of cieating sexual tension because
they uon't want women to think they aie cieepy.
But to attiact women you neeu to Risk Cieepy.
You want hei to bieath heavy. You want hei heait
beating fast. You'u like hei to be blushing.
That's because these symptoms mimic the "familiai
feeling" of hei being attiacteu to a man.
This tension is a goou thing. You want it to be a bit
awkwaiu. You uon't want things to feel too comfoitable.
Using Tbe Magic Mindset
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At fiist, not bieaking sexual tension will be haiu.
Boing nothing to attiact women will feel stiange.
You will often be tempteu to ieveit back to youi olu bau
habits anu minusets.
You may even question The Nagic Ninuset anu feel you
neeu to SAY anu B0 stuff to make women attiacteu to
you.
Actually, it's just the opposite.
You neeu to uo less.
The things you aie uoing now might be getting
ieactions fiom women, but they aie also ieuucing the
tension.
It's veiy subtle, but when a guy believes he uoesn't have
a chance with a woman, he inauveitently says anu uoes
things that sabotage his chances.
The sau thing is, at the beginning the sexual tension anu
attiaction was theie.
All he hau to uo was keep quiet anu stay ielaxeu.
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But because he uiun't believe she was attiacteu, he
talkeu too much anu tiieu too haiu.
The sexual tension maue him feel uncomfoitable. So of
couise he bioke the tension fiist.
The Nagic Ninuset is to iemembei that theie is alieauy
sexual tension between you anu most women.
This tension exists natuially.
Think of it like an automatic connection.
As such, youi focus shoulun't be on what "special
things" you neeu to say oi uo.
Insteau, woik on N0T bieaking the natuial tension anu
attiaction that is alieauy piesent.
Let sexual tension uo all the woik foi you.
Bo less.
Now that you have the Magic Mindset it's time to
uiscovei The S Seciet Signals That Will Nake Women
Seuuce You
When you combine the Nagic Ninuset with the S Bigh
Status Signals you will become unstoppable.
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Let's uive into the books.