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lmost all school districts seem to deal with similar problems, such as low student achievement, overcrowded classes, and expensive school repairs. As unpleasant as these problems can be, very few teachers leave the profession because of them. Instead, you are far more likely to be affected by the stress caused by the fallout from poor classroom relationships than by any other problem. Although classroom relationships are complex in nature, they can easily be grouped into two different types: the relationships that you have with your students, and the relationships that exist among your students. In this section, you will first be able to learn some basic strategies to help you establish positive relationships with your students. You will then learn how to help your students learn to relate well to each other.
In todays classrooms, however, teachers play a very different rolethat of a guide on the side. Todays teachers are expected to help students learn by encouraging them to think for themselves, solve problems, determine meaning based on what they already know, and be much more self-directed than those students of the past who were expected to be passive receptors of knowledge. Being a teacher also involves making decisions about how you want your students to perceive you. Just as actors create characters when they are at work, youll need to develop a persona for yourself as a teacher. If you can create a strong impression as a professional educator, your school life will be much easier. You will realize that when your students criticize you, they really do not know you at all. They are only reacting to your professional selfa person who has to set limits and correct mistakes. When you begin thinking about the different ways you can create a strong image of yourself as a teacher and develop positive relationships with your students, if you first think of yourself as a facilitator, guide, coach, or learning partner, youll find that it is easer to plan how to relate well to your students. After all, you will no longer be expected to stand at the front of the room and lecture; instead, you will have the opportunity to interact with your students as they engage in meaningful activities that you have designed to help them learn.
You should show that you care about your students. Your students want you to
like them and to approve of them, even when they misbehave. Sometimes it is easy to lose sight of this when you have so many demands on your time. It is crucial that your students feel that they are important to you and that you care about their welfare. Get to know them as people as well as pupils you have to instruct. Do not be afraid to let your students know you are interested in how they think and feel.
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You should have a thorough knowledge of your subject matter. Knowing your
subject matter may not seem to have much to do with developing a successful relationship with your students, but it does. If you are not prepared for class, you will focus on what you do not know instead of on what your students need to know. The worst result of a faulty or inadequate knowledge of your subject matter is that your students will lose respect for you and no longer trust your judgment. Be prepared for class each day. You should take command of the class. If you do not assume a leadership role in your class, others will. Often there will be a continuing struggle as students try to dominate each other. Although you should not be overbearing, you should be in command of the class. You can and should allow your students as many options and as strong a voice in the class as possible, but never lose sight of your role as the classroom leader. Your students wont. You should act in a mature manner all of the time. This does not mean that you cannot have fun with your students; however, if having fun with your students means indulging in playful insults, then you are not acting in a mature Love every child. Your love may be the manner. Here are a few of the other only love some children get. Remember immature behaviors that will destroy that many if not most of the children you your relationship with your students: teach bring a lot of baggage to school that Being sarcastic was never even close to being a part of Losing your temper your world growing up and that you dont Being untruthful understand. Teach them anyway. Being unprepared for class Charlene Herrala, 31 years experience Ignoring students Playing favorites You should maintain a certain emotional distance from your students. Being a teacher is much more than being a friend to your students; they have peers for friends. You are a teacher and not a peer. The emotional distance you keep between yourself and your students will enable you to make choices based on what students need instead of what they want.
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From The First-Year Teachers Survival Guide, 3rd Edition, by Julia G. Thompson. Copyright 2013 by John Wiley & Sons, Inc. Reproduced by permission.