Let's Reserve Sex for Marriage By Henry Makow Ph.D. January 08 !

00" How far we've trave#e$ in "0 years% &n '("" you wou#$ raise eye)rows )y a$vo*ating extra+arita# sex. ,o$ay +any wi## )e horrifie$ to hear +e suggest that sex shou#$ )e reserve$ for +arriage. Don't as*ri)e this o-inion to +y .fun$a+enta#ist /hristian u-)ringing. 0as one rea$er re*ent#y -ut it.1 & a+ a -ro$u*t of our $ysfun*tiona# Ju$eo Masoni* .se*u#ar. re#igion an$ -ra*ti*e$ .sexua# #i)eration. 0or trie$ to1 for +ost of +y "" years. 2s & fina##y have a satisfying +arriage & rea#i3e tra$itiona# +ora#ity ref#e*ts -rofoun$ -sy*ho#ogi*a# an$ s-iritua# truths. & have a hun*h that *onfining sex to +arriage is the *ornerstone of so*ia# an$ -ersona# hea#th. /onverse#y sexua# #i)eration is 4ust )a$ for us. &'+ not trying to *ra+- anyone's sty#e here )ut rather to #en$ su--ort to -eo-#e who are #eaning in this $ire*tion anyway. & )egin with the assu+-tion that hu+an #ife is sa*re$. Peo-#e are not ani+a#s +a$e to rut an$ root. 5e are *reate$ in 6o$'s i+age. ,his +eans we are not finishe$. 5e are $esigne$ to )e*o+e higher +ore gra*ious )eings. &n the a*t of -ro*reation we )e*o+e surrogates for 6o$. 5e *reate #ife. Sex is sa*re$. &t is not +ere#y a )o$i#y urge. &t is +otivate$ )y a s-iritua# $esire7 the nee$ to over*o+e our iso#ation an$ )e*o+e 8ne with another hu+an )eing in Love. Ma#e an$ fe+a#e *o+-#e+ent an$ )a#an*e ea*h other. 2 *hi#$ is the fruit of their unity. 8)vious#y this s-iritua# nee$ *annot )e fu#fi##e$ )y *asua# sex. Pro+is*uity is the antithesis of #ove. 5hen we have #ove we $o not fee# the nee$ to roa+. Perha-s +arriage is not a#ways essentia# )ut *ertain#y sex )e#ongs in a #ong9ter+ *o++itte$ #oving re#ationshi-. :;M&<&<; 2<D M2S/=L&<; PS>/H8L86> ,he atte+-t to foist -ro+is*uity on a wo+an goes against her natura# instin*ts an$ *auses hurt an$ *onfusion. By a**e-ting a +an's see$ she is )e*o+ing one with hi+ even if there is no *on*e-tion. 0See a#so +y .Sexua# Li)eration is 2nti95o+en. 1 :or a hea#thy wo+an sex is an a*t of se#f9surren$er. &t is the u#ti+ate gift she *an )estow an ex-ression of her #ove an$ *o++it+ent. Se#f9surren$er is the key to her sexua# satisfa*tion. 0See +y .,he Power of Sexua# Surren$er. 1 2 wo+an $oes not +ake this sa*rifi*e #ight#y. ,rust is the essen*e of her #ove. She trusts her hus)an$ to #ook after her )est interests. She *hooses her hus)an$ *arefu##y. :e+ininity is the art of se#f9effa*e+ent. 2 fe+inine wo+an -uts her hus)an$ an$ *hi#$ren's we#fare ahea$ of herse#f 0an$ *areer.1 She is rewar$e$ )y their #ove an$ $evotion. She is the nu*#eus of the nu*#ear fa+i#y. 2 wo+an's sa*rifi*e is how #ove enters the wor#$. &t +akes a +an want to re*i-ro*ate an$ sa*rifi*e for his fa+i#y. Se#f#ess #ove gives )oth +an an$ wo+an +eaning an$ -ur-ose. 5e are young an$ sexua##y attra*tive for a re#ative#y short ti+e. &t is #ove that war+s our hearts for the )etter -art of our #ives. <o won$er the ene+ies of #ove the servants of Satan our -o#iti*a# an$ *u#tura# #ea$ers want to $estroy heterosexua#ity an$ +arriage. ,hey want to +ur$er the sou#. 5e have entere$ the twi#ight 3one.

S8/&2L &MPL&/2,&8<S Born in '(?( & have seen the *hange in so*iety $ue to .sexua# #i)eration.. 5hen sex was *onfine$ to +arriage it +eant you $i$n't $o it un#ess you rea##y *are$ a)out the other -erson. ,he s-iritua# or hu+an e#e+ent was guarantee$. &t ensure$ that +en an$ wo+en *onsi$ere$ +arriage 0an$ fa+i#y1 as the natura# next ste- in their $eve#o-+ent whi*h it is. ,o$ay the sex -artner has )e*o+e a te+-orary *onvenien*e. ,he wo+an is a re*e-ta*#e@ the +an is a vi)rator. Sex is g#orifie$ +astur)ation. Marriage is -ost-one$ in$efinite#y. ,hanks to .sexua# #i)eration . everyone is a -otentia# sexua# -artner. 2## hu+an re#ationshi-s have )een $egra$e$ to sex. <o one is off #i+its even *hi#$ren. ;veryone you +eet is a -otentia# sex -artner or -re$ator. 5hen sex was *onfine$ to +arriage -eo-#e *ou#$ re#ax an$ re#ate to ea*h other on a higher -#ane as hu+an )eings. ,he *riti* &rving Ba))itt sai$ .5hen a *ivi#i3ation fa##s a-art it *o##a-ses )e*ause of unfettere$ sex.. H;,;R8S;A=2L&,> 2<D H8M8S;A=2L&,> 2s +y rea$ers know & )e#ieve the sexua# revo#ution was rea##y ho+osexua# in nature. &nvisi)#e for*es want to $e-o-u#ate an$ $esta)i#i3e so*iety )y -ro+oting gen$er *onfusion 0fe+inis+1 an$ ho+osexua# $ysfun*tion. & $efine this $ysfun*tion as arreste$ $eve#o-+ent *ause$ )y the ina)i#ity to for+ a -er+anent )on$ with a +e+)er of the o--osite sex. 6ay or straight we are )e*o+ing ho+osexua# )e*ause we *annot a*hieve the s-iritua# union or -er+anent inti+a*y that we rea##y *rave. Sex is +istaken for #ove an$ re-#a*es it there)y assu+ing a $e*e-tive i+-ortan*e. 5e are o)sesse$ with it. 5e 4u$ge -eo-#e stri*t#y )y their sex a--ea# an$ are *rue##y in$ifferent to those who are not -hysi*a##y attra*tive. 5o+en get eating $isor$ers. ,he age$ are treate$ with *onte+-t. 5e *o+-ensate for fai#ure to fin$ -er+anent #ove )y +aking a -u)#i* $is-#ay of -ro+is*uity. ,his is su--ose$ to )e a sign of free$o+ or i$entity. ,B an$ +ovies testify to this -erverse tren$. &n +any *ases ho+osexua#s now are $efining heterosexua# nor+s. 0.Sex an$ the /ity.@ .Cueer ;ye for the Straight 6uy.@ .Dinsey7 Let's ,a#k 2)out Sex.1 5e are in *onstant $enia# a)out our +a#aise an$ the for*es that ens#ave us. . 0See +y .&s this 6ay Behavior Si*kE 1 &n *ontrast heterosexua#ity is +onoga+ous ex*#usive an$ -rivate )y nature. &t is *on*erne$ with -ro*reation nurturing an$ -ersona# $eve#o-+ent. &nvisi)#e -owers are neutering so*iety. ,o#erating ho+osexua#ity is no #onger enough@ we are now reFuire$ to ex-eri+ent with it. Heterosexua# +arriage is eFuate$ with ho+osexua# +arriage as if )eing gay an$ straight were the sa+e. See +y .5hy & a+ Prou$ to )e Ho+o-ho)i*.1 :e+inis+ is a +ask for #es)ianis+ tea*hing wo+en to usur- the +a#e ro#e an$ s-urn the fe+a#e one. =niversities instru*t young wo+en to fear not #ove +en an$ *hi#$ren. :e+inist fa+i#y #aw fosters father#ess fa+i#ies. ,here is no Fuestion that si*k -eo-#e *ontro# the govern+ent an$ +e$ia. H;,;R8S;A=2L =<&8<

&f a wo+an wants to )e .in$e-en$ent . she nee$n't get +arrie$. Heterosexua#s shou#$n't *onfuse eFua#ity with eFua# -ower. ;Fua#ity +eans that )oth -artners have an eFua# right to $ignity an$ se#f9fu#fi##+ent. But this is a*hieve$ in $ifferent ways. Heterosexua# union invo#ves an ex*hange of fe+a#e wor#$#y -ower for +a#e #ove. ;ssentia##y the wo+an says .& wi## o)ey you.. ,he +an says .& wi## #ove you.. ,hus two -eo-#e )e*o+e one. 8f *ourse he *onsu#ts her. How e#se *an he #ove herE 2 wo+an $e+onstrates fe+inine -ower in +yria$ ways )y her war+th )eauty gra*e -ersona#ity inte##igen*e in$ustry an$ $evotion. &n +arriage a wo+an entrusts her -ower to her hus)an$. ,his is the on#y kin$ of wo+an a +an wi## take a -er+anent interest in )e*ause she is -art of hi+ #ike his right ar+. He $oesn't s-oi# her )ut he treats her very we##. ,his is the unity +ost -eo-#e seek. &t is the sour*e of #ove an$ sta)i#ity. &t +ay not )e the on#y way to fin$ ha--iness )ut it is one that has a#ways worke$. &t is -ossi)#e on#y when sex is reserve$ for +arriage. 999999999999999