We Are Beautiful

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Naturally a human being always demands for "MORE".
There are certain wishes of his that take him away from realities....
For instance, every girl in particular wishes.....”I wish I was fairer”…”I wish I was higher”…” I
wish I was prettier”…
The word "I WISH" some times becomes a reason of not being thankful.....
I've heard a lot of girls saying “Allah didn’t give me beauty"... “I am not pretty at all”....

If we look at this behaviour of girls from one angle it seems as if they say it right.... since girls
face a lot of problems regarding getting married... if they are not pretty, or high or wealthy they
seems right on their part....as we all know the terms and conditions the guys usually have..
BUT
This is not the reality ...I mean it’s really foolish to say or not being thankful to Allah on this
matter.... ALLAH in the Quran says

ٍ‫حسَنِ تَقْوِيم‬
ْ َ‫خلَقْنَا الِْنسَانَ فِي أ‬
َ ْ‫لَ َقد‬
“Certainly We created man in the best make. (95:4)”

If Allah is saying it in the Quran that we are being created in our best forms then it must be true
... Allah is the creator ...He knows more that how we should be...
But the Moral of the story doesn’t come out to be like being thankful on what you have because
it is difficult to be thankful because we are in habit of seeing those above us in the materialistic
matters…

The solution lies in changing our thinking... we should change the way we think...
We are suppose to change what beauty actually means ... beauty doesn’t mean being pretty or
even if it does, the word "pretty" should speak for itself....

We can be pretty in a lot of different ways... we can be pretty in our acts ,in our hearts ,in our
thinking, in our friendships, in our relationships and above all in our feelings .....We should feel
pretty not look pretty ....as everything goes the way we think of it or take it...
"BEAUTY LIES SKIN DEEP"

If beauty lies skin deep then what is the beauty that we speak of....
Let me tell u what it is...
The real guilt lies in our behaviour towards certain aspects ... like if we talk of beauty we always
think of being beautiful from the outside ... you should look good if u are to be called beautiful...
but this is all foolish on our part ....we can be beautiful from with in the skin .... Or from the
inside.....

When we do a good deed, what do we name the feeling that we get, when we get great grades
what is it that comes to our heart, what exactly is happiness ... I found them all as a feel of being
pretty... tell me what do u think?????
From now I’m’ sure we all are beautiful and we r going to feel pretty for always and we r not
going to pay attention to such materialistic in our life because the apparent beauty is going to
fade when we die but the felt beauty will never last...A FAIR FACE MAY FADE BUT A
BEAUTIFUL SOUL LASTS FOREVER…..we should feel love for all the people in our hearts
as this act of ours is going to take us towards Jannah...
Love for other people can take us to Jannah ... giving love doesn’t cost anything.... so we are
going to love everyone to make them feel special and pretty and we are going to change
everyone’s mind ....

May Allah Bless us All....

Originally Written by Sis Saira Khan
Muhammad.Awais.Tahir@gmail.com
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