Will you turn into a Godzilla in rage?

Assalamualaikum brothers and sisters.

One word to discuss: Anger.
We all know what anger is, and we've all felt it; whether as a fleeting annoyance or as fullfledged rage.
Anger is a completely normal, usually healthy, human emotion. But when it gets out of
control and turns destructive, it can lead to problemsproblems at work, in your personal
relationships, and even in the overall quality of your life.
So, everything will be depending on how you handle your anger, and where you vented out
your anger. Will you still be a cool person or will you turn into a Godzilla in rage?
The Facebook.
This social media, Facebook is the famous medium nowadays for people to venting out their
displeasure, irritation, rage, anger, vexation, irks, wrath, fury, annoyance and what-so-ever
words related to the word anger.
Are you one of them?
I, personally think it is not professional at all.
Using the caps lock, and doubling tripling the exclamation marks.
Sometimes, I just want to reply,
"Hey. It is not you the only one who can do the caps lock. I CAN DO IT TOO."
But, of course, that statement will only come from a hatred emotional heart.
Rasulullah S.A.W. taught us, to not have any vengeful thoughts, for we are taught to forgive
those who have been hostile towards us.
We should be shameful, for whatever things we have wrote during the time when we were
angry. Read it back.
Sometimes, when people are mad over something, they can't think straight. Whatever came
to their mind, will be only perceptions, and own thoughts.
In fact, perceptions are never true. What we see with our eyes, is never true, until we
confront it. Why do we made such perception and thought, and then, being mad and all
without knowing or even asking for the truth?
We'll think we are right, but in fact, we're making ourselves look so pitiful.
Posting our anger on Facebook, will done nothing. Not only we'll hurt those we've

mentioned, we've also humiliated them, and in other words, we've shown the world that
we've did some stupid act with our ignorance.
More importantly,
What are we? A coward?
Posting our anger to someone on Facebook, WITHOUT confronting with him/her first?
That's a coward to me.
If we really are 'concern' about that particular person, go and meet him/her DIRECTLY on
the face.
Ask them why is this and why is that.
Doing the talks behind them will done nothing.
We should change.
It's so easy to judge others, but, it's so hard to judge ourselves.

Any questions?
Islam has the answer for everything, insyaAllah.

What Rasulullah said about anger?

Reported by Abu Hurairah (RA): A man asked the Prophet (peace be upon him) to give him
advice, and he (peace be upon him) said, Do not get angry. The man repeated that several
times and he (peace be upon him) replied (every time), Do not get angry.
[Bukhari]

But, what if I cant control my anger?

Reported by Abu Hurairah (RA): Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) said, The strong
man is not the one who wrestles, but the strong man is in fact the one who controls himself
in a fit of rage.
[Bukhari & Muslim]

How to control my anger then?

Narated By AbuDharr : The Apostle of Allah (peace be upon him) said to us: When one of you
becomes angry while standing, he should sit down. If the anger leaves him, well and good;
otherwise he should lie down.
[Abu Dawud]

What s in there for me if I am able to control my anger?

Reported by Mu`adh bin Anas (RA): The Prophet (peace be upon him) said, "The one who
suppresses anger and has the power to give effect to it, will be called out by Allah, the
Exalted, to the forefront of the creatures on the Day of Resurrection and he will be asked to
choose any of the virgins (Hur) of his liking".
[Abu Dawud and At-Tirmidhi]
All of us certainly have the ability to change.
Its the strong will thatll start the spark of changing. Lets 2015 be the year of change.
Wallahualam.