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MOTIVATION IS YOU

Motivation is
YOU

Ashutosh Bhatia

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This book is
Dedicated to YOU

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Setting up goal is a wakeup


call. Get up & go for it.

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Preface
I have never been motivated myself
ever till I got to know what is
motivation.
People
around
me
always guided me around lot of
major factors of motivation, but it
was strange for me that none of the
factor or process worked on me.

I was losing all my hopes in life and


was sure of quitting what I was
doing. I decided that I am not
capable
enough
of
doing
or
achieving things.

I have never been a topper in school


and was never considered among

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bright students. My parents were too


much concern about my future and I
was always been given examples of
some of my friends and cousins (you
know a common trend followed by
parents)
yes,
sometimes
a
comparison can be a motivational
factor, but for me it didn't worked
and somehow I was able to pass my
schooling with no great results. My
parents were not happy but yes I
was happy as I was feeling like I am
out of prison. For me school was a
prison when I actually realised I was
fool in thinking so.
I know my parents were not happy
with my results but yet they always
motivated me "yes you can do, do

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better next time." but my next time


never came.

I was sure I have something which I


need to do but something was
missing within me and I was not
able to understand the factor which
was missing.

I wanted to do best and wanted to


make my parents feel proud, I knew
that I will be able to but how?
When? What was missing? I never
knew this till I read a story
somewhere... it all started and I
knew what was missing.

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"Am I dead or alive, am I


here or there"

About a hundred years ago, a man


looked at the morning newspaper
and to his surprise and horror, read
his name in the obituary column.
The news paper had reported the
death of the wrong person by
mistake. His first response was
shock, Am I here or there? When he
regained his composure, his second
thought was to find out what people
had said about him. The obituary
read "Dynamite king dies" and also
"he was the merchant of death".
This man was the inventor of the
dynamite and when he reads the

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words merchant of death. He asked


himself a question, " is this how I
am going to be remembered?" he
got in touch with his feelings and
decided that this was not the was he
wanted to be remembered from that
day on, he started working towards
peace. His name was 'Alfred Noble'
and he is remembered today by the
great Nobel Prize.

It really made me think, what is


something I can do so I am
remembered and my family is proud
of me.

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Ask yourself

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Ask these from yourself and


here beings the first step:
What is your legacy?
How would you like to be
remembered?
Will you be spoken well of?
Will you be remembered with
love and respect?
Will you be missed?

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It's not about life, it's about moving


from one place to another. When
you move from school to college,
college to profession institute, from
masters to corporate and each level
you leave few memories and few
people, you need to give something
to everyone so that they remember
you. Something they cherish about
you. Do something for society
everyday.

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"If you can imagine, you


can achieve."

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You might amaze yourself


with what you discover you
can do.

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"Never give up, never


look back.
Be always on your feet.

Just say, "I must, I can


and I will,
And success will be your
treat."

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Believe in yourself.

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BELIEVE IN
YOURSELF

The first and foremost factor is


"YOU", you need to have faith in
yourself. Have belief in yourself. You
need to understand that if you have
capability of dreaming big than you
also have the zeal to achieve the
same.

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"Motivation is ME, the


motivation
starts
from
you. Don't search for the
factor which motivates
you, the factor is already
within you."

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DREAM & GET OUT


THERE

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DREAM & GET OUT


THERE
We humans are far different from
anything ever observed. We have
the amazing capability to perceive
the world around us, and use what
we know to make something from
nothing, either in our mind, or in
reality. Our minds have endless
capacity for knowledge, and there is
no limit to how much we can learn
and create.

We are always overlooking the


advanced capabilities of our own

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minds,
never
imagining
the
important thing: how much you can
do if you tried. With no limit, we

have no reason to stop building, and


stop imagining.

Get out there, and do something


amazing, because in the end, there
is no wrong way to live your dream
in the fullest.
You have what is needed to achieve
your dreams. Never think you can't,
be motivated always & think "Yes I
can, I will" and the success will be
there soon.

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Yes I can, I will.

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GOAL

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SETUP A GOAL, A
SMART GOAL.

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SETUP A GOAL, A
SMART GOAL.
Everyone wants to get something
sooner or later, if you wish to achieve
something or anything sooner or later
you need to setup a goal. A goal which
is defined by purpose, a goal that is
measurable. A goal that fulfils your
dream.

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WHAT IS A GOAL?

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WHAT IS A GOAL?
Setting up goal for a student I want to
pass
my
highschool
with
good
percentage is NOT a goal, setting up
goal, "I want to pass highschool with
above 80%." This is a goal.

Set up a meaningful goal, a goal which


is measurable.

"Goals are your dreams." always


remember person who succeed in life
had dreamt of what they have now and
they have not stopped dreaming till
now. The dreams come every day.
Have you ever imagined why you

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dream every day? The way you have


dreams everyday, you need

to understand you need to setup goal


for everyday, a goal for a day is what
will make you achieve goal of long
term.

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MEANINGLESS
GOALS.

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MEANINGLESS
GOALS.
A farmer had a dog who used to sit by
the roadside waiting for vehicles to
come around. As soon as one came he
would run down the road, braking and
trying to overtake it. Once day I asked
the farmer do you really think your
dog is ever going to catch a car" The
farmer replied, "That is not what
bothers me. What bothers me is what
he would do if he ever caught one."

Many people in life behave like that


dog who is pursuing meaningless
goals.Set up goals which deal with

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your dream, dream for them and set


goals to achieve them.

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PLAN YOUR GOAL.

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PLAN YOUR GOAL.

You need to rule your dream, your


goal. Divide your long term goal in
parts, make these parts a short term
goals. Now start targeting for short
term goals and you will see the
magic of planning.

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Goals must be SMART

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Goals must be

SMART Specific

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1) S - Specific, Make your


goals which are specific. Setting
up target like " I want to lose
weight" this is wishful thinking not
a specific goal. It becomes a goal
when you pin down to "I want to
lose 5kg in 90 days."

Make your goals specific not


wishful.

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Goals must be
S

MART Measurable

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2) M Measurable,

The

goals must be Measurable. If goals


are not Measurable then accept it
now that those are not achievable,
the results at the end will not be
what you were looking for and you
won't be able to justify your goal.

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Goals must be
SM

ART Achievable

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3) A - achievable, Stating I
can bring stars for you my dear, is
not achievable, that might look
wonderful when you hear. Goals,
which look nice from far, amaze you
when you think about but in reality
somewhere in your heart you know
that it's not practical or achievable
than don't ever try to go for it. You
will lose. Make goals which are
achievable.

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Goals must be
SMA

RT Realistic

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3) R - Realistic, Be practical
in setting up your goals. As I stated
before it should be achievable same
way it should be realistic. If you
have setup the goals which are not
realistic in nature for sure at the end
you will realize your goals were not
set properly & you wasted all your
efforts.

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Goals must be

T Time Bound

SMAR

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5) T - Time Bound Goals cannot start without a date


and end without a date, goals need
to have date associated with them. I
want to lose weight, I want to be a
millionaire, I want to quit bad habits,
imagine these type of goals which
we place every day for ourselves,
and other side of coin states "you
have never achieved them" goals
without targeted dates are not
achievable.

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Dreams are
achievable, make your
dreams goals. Goals
can only be achieved
when they are realistic
and are targeted with
date.

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How to be focused.

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Analyse Yourself

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Once you have setup your goal, you


are all set to take up the first step.
The first step to achieve your goal is
most important. You need to make
inventory.

"Make inventory of your


strengths and weaknesses"

Take a piece of paper and list of all


your strengths and weaknesses.
Write it on a piece of paper and
make an action plan to overcome
your
weaknesses
which
might
become hurdle in achieving your
goals.

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"The goals are easy to achieve if


there is no hurdle in between." but
practically that is impossible as life
comes with hurdles and challenges.

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Remember what your


weakness as you walk
everyday with your
goal.

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Always remember
your goal.

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Most important with the start is that


you always need to remember your
goal always. The day should not
start without remembering your goal
and shouldn't end without recalling
it.

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Remember

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Remember your goal.


Remember
target
countdown in mind.

with

Remember your weaknesses.


Make a habit before you sleep
to cross check have you
worked even a single step
towards achieving your goal.

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"I am not happy today, I am feeling


dull, I am really irritated. Etc" all
these talks or thoughts lead to
negativity and will never let you
achieve your goals.

Remember if you have negative


thoughts travelling they will take
your dreams away.

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7 Things
that affect your mood

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1)
Spending
time
negative people.

with

2) Watching disturbing news.


3) Major time on social media
or apps lead to unhappy or
disconnected you.
4) Disorganised room, table
or dirty cloths.
5) Watching horror or crime
serials before bed.
6) Your food habits.
7) Comparison with others.

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The motivation is not a


mantra, it's the synonym
of 'YOU', understand you
are yourself a
motivational factor.

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We know that we must have to


achieve Success in life and we tend
to not take action. We have many
reasons for not achieving what we
want. Many times though we know
that logically we are right we tend to
move away from it, the reason being
Emotions. Emotions are what drive
us
everyday,
every
moment.
Imagine that you are on your bed
and your mind knows that it is good
to do exercise, you talk to yourself,
"Do you want to do it today? Or shall
I start tomorrow?" and you know
this emotion that creeps in decides
your fate. This small difference could
create a huge impact in the quality
of your Life.

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Time of Adversity

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Time of Adversity -

Learn to Smile

We human have the tendency to


deal at the time of adversity and
circumstances in a negative manner,
this is the way we humans are
programmed, We want to lash out
every time something bad happens
to us. But that is not the way to
handle life, at least not a happy,
joyful life.

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Time of Adversity -

Have Faith
In the most difficult & bad time, you
need to accept and have faith in
yourself, the time you lose faith you
lose smile. There is nothing wrong in
trusting yourself. You are the master
of yourself & you know best about
yourself. During the hard time first
and foremost you need to remember
that you should recognize your
skills. And there is no end of your
skills, you need to always have trust
in yourself & say "There are more".
The first and foremost factor which
will give you the zeal.

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Sometimes bad phase & failures are


good & should come occasionally in
small or big way, Instead of viewing
your failures as failures, view them
as learning opportunities. Everything
that goes wrong in your life is an
opportunity to learn, so embrace it.

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Time of Adversity -

Dont blame God or


Destiny.
God & Destiny never want you to be
in trouble or bad phase, its your
acts which lead to you in bad time,
and as we dont have ability (being
human) and calibre to accept our
mistakes so we always have the
habit to blame god & destiny, since
birth we have been listening god
didnt wish, so it happened , Its
bad time, will pass away. Think
once , how bad time will pass when
you your acts are not working for it.

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Its your bad time & you are sitting


holding the story of good time in
your hand, thinking what good you
have done in past, but this will never
lead you or make you come out of
the bad time.

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Time of Adversity -

Keep Smiling
Funny things, funny people, funny
books, funny shows, interesting
friends, hang around with these
things. The most interesting part for
these is that once you start laughing
you will not be able resist yourself.
Smiling is always a choice we have,
and believe me its easiest thing to
do. Smiling will not change your bad
time but for sure it will change the
way you look at adversity. I meet
lot of young talent across and they
come to me stating Ash, you dont

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know what I am facing, its easy for


you but not for me.
Yes right, this is the time when I ask
people to smile, your smile will put
up the brave face, keep going, be
motivated and try to make best of
the bad situation you are in, this
moment will not last for long if your
actions towards resolving dont stop.

You can smile anytime, anywhere


with or without any reason, try it
now, have believe that you can
smile.

The simple act of smiling would put


you in better mood & will let your

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brain take some positive action to


overcome the problem you are in.

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Time of Adversity Ask yourself why?

You need to know why you are in such


a situation where the motivation for
you is not working, things are going
wrong. You need to know what have
you done wrong to get into this
situation where you are sick of yourself
more than anyone else, think about
your acts or actions from past, accept
your mistakes.

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6 Things you need to


do daily.

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1)
Give time to god, thank him
for being with you for atleast 5min a
day.
2)
Write a note on what you did
to achieve your goal.
3)
Have faith in yourself I can,
I will, I have to.
4)
Always smile without
reason once in a day.

any

5)
Recheck your mistakes from
past & follow the exercise.

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6)
Stop blaming anyone for your
bad time but appreciate people for
your good time.

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Learn It NOW!

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Positive thinking
is not enough.
Its not only the positive thinking which
matters, to get positive results from
positive thinking, you should also take
positive action. Positive thinking would
make you happy, good-natured and
optimistic. It will also make you aware
of opportunities but Positive action
would make positive thinking work for
you and bring the results you want.
Take action, to make things happen.

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Dont let your


mood control your
life.
Lot of people have the tendency that
they come up with answers like I am
not in a mood, I dont wish to do
anything rightnow, not feeling good.
Especially for them its important to
understand that you dont have to let
your mood control your life. Time
never stops, it goes on, Letting moods
control your life is like sitting in a boat
and letting the waves and currents
take you wherever they please.

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Developing inner strength and selfdiscipline is like attaching a powerful


engine to your boat. With this powerful
engine, you will be able to navigate the
boat of your mind wherever you want.

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Hope is the rope.


Yes its true; as soon as you lose hope
you lose the way. Never lose hope, no
matter how bleak things look. Hope is
the rope that will pull you up. It is your
connection, your stairway, to get your
dreams and expectations realized.
Never leave the rope of hope.

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Time is money.
Your money is important & you need to
spend it wisely. The money you earn is
important to you & you spend it wisely,
your pocket money as a student is also
something you cherish to spend but
wisely. The money is bank is
withdrawn on important occasions,
same is with time. Spend your time
wisely, dont waste your time in
gossiping around & wasting it on things
which have no meaning or are not goal
oriented. Spend it on something that
helps you, adds value to your life, gets
you somewhere, and helps other
people.

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Habits lead to
success.
What you do every day will turn into
habit. Choose habit that lead to
success & repeat them every day with
time they will become automatic, not
requiring efforts or attentions in
sometime. Your habits are very
important & lead to your success.
Wrong of bad habits lead to investment
of time which has no outcome & is of
no relevance. The wrong habits often
are easy to adopt & attract very
quickly. You need to understand what

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habits will lead to success & help you


get on to your goal.

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Happiness is your
business.
Remember happiness is your business
& key to success, The happy faces are
accepted by the world more quickly,
Live fully in the present moment. When
you live in the past or the future you
arent able to make things happen in
the present. Have the happy face in
present moment & lead to get on to
your goal.

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Have your own


attitude.
You dont have to be influenced by
someones attitude, remember you
have your own attitude, and bring the
same out. The attitude lead to the way
you deal with things. Why? Because
you woke up! Asked How are you
today? your answer should be
Fantastic,
excellent
or
great.
G.R.E.A.Td. stands for Getting Really
Excited About Today.

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You are excited


because you woke up
you can see, hear, walk,
talk Today could be
your last day. Why not
make it the greatest
day of your life?

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GO FOR IT
Remember

MOTIVATION
IS
YOU

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Ashutosh Bhatia
Ashutosh Bhatia (ASH) is an established
IT entrepreneur hailing from the Pink City
Jaipur. An avid reader from his early
years, Ashutosh has been contributing to
various periodicals and published during
schooling at St. Xaviers, Jaipur. He is a
motivational speaker & writer. He belief
in motivating students from early age &
take it ahead till corporate level so as to
benefit in making a responsible human
across globe.
Ashutosh is a multitalented person, who
along with his exploits in the IT Sector as
a CEO, he had been involved in many
extra-curricular activities throughout his
school & College. After completing his
Masters in Computers, he started his

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venture in IT and has since ventured into


other businesses as well.
He is a great story teller and would take
you on an impressive ride through the life
of his characters. His first novel Crorepati
Turns Roadpati within first 6 months
became national bestseller. He is since
then working hard on coming up with
more motivational book by end of 2016,
his
upcoming
reads
are
again
motivational & will be for sure inspiring
for society.
He has worked with all kinds of clients,
professionals, students, media person
and what not. His clients have always
been content with his speeches and are
pleased to be infused with a new found
confidence. He is a dynamic and
experienced speaker and has researched
a lot in this field.

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