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What is the level of your relationship with your friends of the opposite sex?add
What type of relationship do you want your spouse to have with your friends?add
What are the things that you do in your free time?add
Do you love to have guests in your home for entertainment?add
What are you expecting from your spouse when your friends come to the house?add
What is your opinion of speaking other languages in the home that I do not
understand? (with friends or family)add
Do you travel?add
How do you spend your vacations?add
How do you think your spouse should spend vacations?add
What do you read?addAfter marriage, do you think that you are one to express
romantic feelings verbally?add
After marriage, do you think that you want to express affection in public?add
How do you express your admiration for someone that you know now?add
How do you express your feelings to someone who has done a favour for you?add
Do you like to write your feelings?addIf you wrong someone, how do you apologise?
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If someone has wronged you, how do you want them to apologise to you?add
How much time passes before you can forgive someone?add
How do you make important and less important decisions in your life?add
Do you use foul language at home? In public? With family?addD
o your friends use foul language?addDoes your family use foul language?add
How do you express anger?add
How do you expect your spouse to express anger?add
What do you do when you are angry?add
When do you think it is appropriate to initiate mediation in marriage?add
When there is a dispute in your marriage, religious or otherwise, how should the
conflict get resolved?add
If you have children, what relationship do you expect your spouse to have with your
children and their parent?add
What is the best method(s) of raising children?add
What are the best methods of disciplining children?add
How were you raised?add
How were you disciplined?add
Do you believe in spanking children? Under what circumstances?add
Do you believe in public school for your children?add
Do you believe in an Islamic school for your children?add
Do you believe in home schooling for your children?add
What type of relationship should your children have with non-Muslim
classmates/friends?add
Would you send your children to visit their extended family if they lived in another
state or country?add
What type of relationship do you want your children to have with all their
grandparents?add
If there are members of my family that are not Muslim, that are of a different race or
culture, what type of relationship do you want your children to have with them?add
What are your views on travelling to visit the tombs of Muslim saints?add
Do you attend Islamic Courses or Lectures? If yes, how often?add
Do you follow a particular Madhab, if so which one and why?ad
Do you believe in actively calling people of other faiths towards Islam? If yes, give
an example of how.add
Do you believe it is Fard (obligatory) or optional for a woman to wear Nikab?add
Have you fulfilled all the 5 Pillars of Islam? If not, please explain why?add
What are your thoughts on forms of marriages where a man has 2 or more wives?
(Polygyny)add
Is Music permissible in Islam? Please explain your answer.add
Will your parents accept whomever you choose to marry?addWho should cook at
home in general? (Wife, husband or joint responsibility)add
What is your view on celebrating the Prophet Muhammad's (PBUH) birthday
annually in the Month of Rabi-ul-Awwal?