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Critically evaluate the claim that ‘Sex Tourism’ is an economy that
‘sex tourism’ and the ‘sexual needs of men’ need to be defined and contextualized.
This essay will thus begin with a clarification of the term ‘sex tourism’ and present
a brief history of its practice in places we consider today to be havens for ‘sex tourists’
The ‘sexual needs of men’ is undeniably a more difficult concept to define, and
perhaps it can be argued that it can never or should never be definable. As we have
moved away from regarding sexuality as purely biological and began to accept it as a
social construction it would be risky to claim that the ‘sexual needs of men’ can fall
have attempted to explain the sexual needs of men largely through psychology, and
this essay will utilize some of these studies, primarily those of Lynne Segal who
Stoller on the motivations of men who make use of the services of prostitutes. Like
with most issues of sex and gender, categorizing the sexual needs of men is a highly
contentious field, with radical feminist perspectives which rest primarily on men’s
need for domination disagreeing with those who see men’s sexuality as a tamer and
on men who pay for sex, and thus discourses on prostitution have largely disregarded
men’s gendered status (Brooks-Gordon, 2006) ‘the male client has remained a
marginal figure and studies of men involved in prostitution account for less than one
masculinities, and thus an essay dealing with western masculinities and sex tourism
will inevitably have to discuss notions of fetishism and eroticization of the Other. It is
sex tourism and the eroticization of the exotic that this essay will attempt to provide
a conclusion with regard to the initial claim of sex tourism being an economy that
Sex Tourism
researcher that the venues of the predominant forms of sex tourism are in South East
Asia, the countries of Thailand, and the Philippines regularly appear in examinations
of the practice. Nagel (2003) asserts that the reason for this geographical inclination
is due to what she terms the ‘military sexual complex’ (ibid. p.191) Thailand and the
Philippines were sites of the US military’s ‘rest & recreation’ bases during the Korean
and Vietnam War, the large influx of single men into these areas was a pull factor for
sex workers, many of them from impoverished rural areas (ibid, Bishop & Robinson,
1998) Williams (1999) argues that after the end of the Vietnam War the
means to pay off its depts., encouraged what became, in effect, the peace-time
O’Connell Davidson (2006) states that by the 1980s, a ‘visible segment of the
tourism markets in Thailand and the Philippines consisted of men from the affluent,
developed world who were attracted by the cheap commercial sexual opportunities
available in these much poorer countries’ (p.224) O’Connell Davidson prefers to keep
the definition of sex tourism limited to the purchasing of sex by affluent tourists in
poor countries, it is a form of tourism that she states relies upon and reproduces
‘racist and sexist fantasies, as well as economic and political inequalities’ (ibid)
steering away from this definition of sex tourism as men who take organized sex
tours to Southeast Asia will result in a blurring of the boundary between ‘sex tourism’
and other forms of tourism, as ‘sex and tourism are so often intertwined’ and there
are strong associations between ‘travel and sex...in the age of mass tourism’ (ibid.
p.224-225)
Men
Lynne Segal (2001) seeks to find out the causative factors of male dominance in
society, is the quest for domination phallic as some psychoanalysts and feminists put
it.
“To what extent does the actual reality of men’s sexual lives, the deployment of
the penis, give men power and control over women? Can we assume that there is
something about men’s shared experience of the physical presence of the penis
which underlies the way men in general relate to their bodies, and gain a sense of
‘masculinity’ and power? Or [is there] something else in common to men’s
experience of sexuality which constructs a shared masculinity, and hence ‘male
dominance’? (p.104)
male sexuality and male dominance. She argues that the instances where sexuality is
connected with emotions of domination have not been challenged socially and thus
this false link is cemented. This view of masculinity would view men as perpetually
age that part of being a man is to compete and conquer, to be strong and suppress
men’s early developmental experience have left them with a deep fear of intimacy
(the ability and willingness to share one’s inner life with another person) This fear of
intimacy and emotional expression is the framework for the definition of a ‘real’ man
(Seal and Ehrhardt, 2003) and ‘real’ men initiate and control heterosexual
Dworkin (1987) and Smart (1996) suggest that male heterosexuality itself is based
on a power imbalance, and men are attracted to women because of their perceived
difference. Jeffreys (2009) argues however that this power imbalance is under threat
due to changing roles in the prescribed sexual and social scripts of women, ‘men’s
ideal of a passive woman, which allowed them to see themselves as teachers and
p.14o)
Stoller (1976) was one of the first to put forward a psychological motivation for
hostility’ (ibid. p.4) This ‘perverse act’ was rooted in psychosexual trauma in
childhood, and the perversion was then acted upon when adult reality resembled the
The trigger could be social or marital humiliation or frustration which drives the
man to first fantasize his perversion and then seek to realise this fantasy and gain
pleasure. The driving act behind the realization of the perversion was revenge, the
victim of this humiliation (the man) reverses the roles and effects, formerly the
Stoller asserts that fetishism compels patronage, and fetishism is the ‘model for all
perversions’ (ibid) ‘one who cannot bear another’s totality will fragment (that is split
and dehumanize) that object in keeping with past traumas and escapes (ibid) A
feminist extension of that argument will be that western men who cannot bear the
totality of women will dehumanise them, thus the western woman is dehumanized by
proxy through the exploitation of Southeast Asian sex workers. O’Connell Davidson
(1998) supports this in her argument on the eroticization of the ‘dirty whore’:
“Added to this eroticization and ‘fucking dirty whores’, is the ability of the man to
command, as a result of economic power, a woman or a child to submit to sexual
acts for payment. Prostitution is valued, therefore because it strips women of that
autonomy and contact with the ‘debased whore’ becomes an act of vengeance
against a ‘good woman’s demands of monogamy and sexual restraint” (p.158)
Joane Nagel (2003) in Race, Ethnicity and Sexuality argues that in order to
de-normalize the sexualities of those they consider ‘others’. This is done usually by
claiming that the ‘other’ men are hypersexualized or hyposexualized and the ‘other’
ethnosexual lines by men from the dominant ethnicity (this would give license for
sexual contact between white men and non-white women) but forbids men from
‘other’ races/ethnicities from engaging sexually with women from the dominant race,
the purity and safety of white women by sexually menacing nonwhite men’ (Nagel,
2003 p.22) this discourse confirms social male dominance and the patriarchal
system on which American society is built. The term ‘American’ in Nagel’s
description can easily be substituted with ‘Western’ in order for one to understand
the structure of ethnosexual danger on a wider scale. So while during slavery white
American women were protected from the menacing ‘black buck’, white men freely
raped black women with no fear of legal retribution. (ibid) The assertions of the
applied on a global scale today, the patriarchy still exists, white slaveowners are now
white businessmen, and the female black slaves are now young Thai and Filipina
women.
“Ethnic differences also characterize the sex worker/client relationship, since sex
with an exotic Other is one of the chief attractions for sex tourists, just as dreams of
being rescued from poverty is a central fantasy of sex workers” (ibid, p.203)
Gargi Bhattacharyya (2002) argues that geopolitics greatly informs the desire in
sex tourism. In exoticism, the desired object is your slave, your enemy, your absolute
other (Bhattacharyya, 2002 p.107) she further states that there has to be a power
disparity between desirer and the desired- ‘without the sense that the object of desire
is lesser, dangerous and forbidden- alluringly other and beyond any everyday social
contact- there is no exoticist dynamic (ibid p.106) each scenario demands that the
object has less agency and access to mainstream power as the one who desires (ibid,
p.107) Indeed, a Dutch agency organizing sex tours described Thai women as ‘little
agency, and lack of status of the desired serve to increase their erotic ranking, ‘the
exotic object gains erotic status through association with a more mundane lack of
status’ (ibid, p.110) with this strange power relation the ‘eroticisation of the exotic’ is
on a grand international relations platform, with the west seeking to reaffirm its
Bhattacharyya’s assessment of the nature of ‘othering’ and its use in the practice of
sex tourism serve to confirm that while sex tourism does meet the needs of men,
these needs are not fundamentally sexual, they are however needs that have been
and are then converted to sexual desires which the phenomenon of sex tourism
fulfils.
There is also an aspect to exoticism that ‘assumes a partial knowledge on the part
of the fantasist (ibid p.110) for there needs to be some sense that the desirer is
conversant with the culture of the desired. Bhattacharyya argues from a British
perspective that while Thailand and the Philippines don’t have strong colonial links
with Britain, the presence of the ‘military sex complex’ in the 1960s and 1970s and
‘Rest & Recreation’ bases helped develop a myth of Thai and Filipina sexuality that
was not limited to US military personnel but was transferable and understood in
western societies. The continued cultural transaction between the USA and the UK
(and indeed between the western world) helps spread and solidify myths about
‘others’, ‘once demeaned groups have gained alternative acclaim in the sexual arena,
the exoticist suggestion infuses their social character and becomes part of their
dominance: “Prostitution tourism1 offers men from rich countries the opportunity to
confirm their masculine dominance over women, who are claiming equality in the
west and prepared neither to accept masculine authority nor to adapt themselves so
dutifully to men’s sexual demands (p.138) it therefore reaffirms their superior status
For the dynamic of sex tourism to work, the desired woman must be as different
from western women as possible i.e. ‘willing to accept masculine authority’ and
becoming familiar or too much like the mundane stuff of back home (p.121) Enloe
(1993) talks about sex workers in the Philippines and Thailand having to ‘earn new
sexual skills in the 1980s that they hadn’t needed in the 1960s because...their male
customers...had acquired new tastes (p.156) These new sexual skills ranged from
1Jeffreys refers to Sex Tourism as Prostitution Tourism as she views the issue as fundamentally caused by male
quest for dominance- referring to it as sex tourism she argues gives agency to the women whom she contends
have no agency.
‘foxy boxing’ where Filipina women wrestled each other for the till they drew blood
The sex tourist expects there to be a marked difference in the sexual skill and
willingness of the sex workers between those in the west and those in Southeast Asia,
MountBurton (1995) suggest that western men purchasing sex in their countries
were turned off by the failures of the prostitutes to ‘disguise the commercial nature of
The commerciality of prostitution seems to be the strongest case for agency of the
prostitutes, however paying for sex disturbs the balance of male power therefore
limiting the enjoyment of the sexual experience. For the experience to be heightened,
total domination must exist, which means that western men must fulfil their sexual
script of charming a woman into bed (Segal, 2001)The nature of Southeast Asian
prostitution allows for the clients to construct narratives suggesting they are not
directly paying for sex (O’Connell Davidson, 2006) this is facilitated by the fact that
apart from sexual intercourse, sex workers often perform non-sexual labour, such as
shopping, tidying, washing, translation for the client (ibid, p.226) the client can
confirms researcher’s findings that clients fantasize that women sex workers have
The [imagined] denial of a financial transaction in exchange for sex denies the
Southeast Asian sex workers any agency, however arguable the notion was in the first
place. Framing the use of prostitutes as a brief relationship serves to reaffirm the
client’s masculinity- he is doing what ‘real’ men do and it is his physicality and not
his money that has earned him the company of the woman. This restructuring of
power, of user and used is most apparent in this remark: “In the third world, even
the “third rate” American or European tourist is king or queen” (O’Connell Davidson
that some clients framed their encounter as helping elevate the women from poverty,
all imagined frameworks put the men in positions of power “it’s sad to see these girls
with no choice in life, waiting for their next customer...there’s nothing you can do to
change it, but you can still be one of the kind and generous ones who help”.(p.179)
O’Connell Davidson argues from a Marxist definition of power, and states that sex
tourists do not see themselves as part of a larger power dynamic, instead viewing
This framing is also suited for those who ‘disapprove of or are sexually turned off
O’Connell Davidson’s and indeed Stoller’s (1976) assertion that fantasies often
analysis and should therefore not be considered a gendered field. Kempandoo’s work
on Global Sex Workers argues for the agency in prostitution, not only due to the fact
that the women are getting paid to provide a service, but she also rejects some
arguments of coercion being the stimulus of some sex workers to enter and remain in
the trade. This idea of agency on the part of the sex worker and the evidence of
western female sex tourists (in the Caribbean and The Gambia especially) appears to
lend weight to Nagel (2003) and Bhattacharyya (2002) position that the most
important factor in sex tourism is not necessarily fuelled by a fundamental desire for
orgasmic sexual pleasure but rather a desire for sexually sampling the exotic-
However, Kempandoo’s studies also show that male sex workers do not self-
identify as prostitutes, and are not socially defined as such either. They go by
euphemisms such as ‘player’ ‘beach boy’ or ‘island boy’ (Kempandoo, 1998 p.24)
Additionally, with female sex tourism, the encounters between the western female
and local males are usually framed as romantic relationships rather than being solely
sexual. A large proportion of female sex tourism can thus be classified as ‘romance
This form of sexual tourism does not challenge the patriarchal structure in the
local society as the male sex workers can still see themselves as ‘controlling the
heterosexual’ interaction, the often have other jobs and as they do not have pimps
they can choose to walk away or refuse a specific sexual demand without any fear of
paying male sex workers to perform established male sexual scripts, male dominance
goes unchallenged.
Research by Pruit and LaFont (1995) shows evidence of ‘othering’ and the
‘eroticization of the exotic’ on the part of the local male sex workers, issues such as
weight and age that may serve as barriers to full sexual pleasure in western cultures
are eroticized by the sex workers, the ‘fat’ and ‘older’ white women are thus denied
status and agency by the sex workers, who can then construct a narrative of ‘helping’
these women achieve sexual satisfaction that has been denied of them back home-
‘foreign women who may not satisfy standards of beauty at home find themselves
Despite being financially inferior, male sex workers can rely on unchallenged
scripts of the normativity of male sexual dominance in order to gain more agency in
sexual transactions, this is a luxury that has no parallel in the sex trade in places like
Thailand and the Philippines, the constructions of sex trade narratives there would
always serve to deny the women agency and status, while elevating the male sex
tourist as either a concerned and generous helper, a desired and attractive lover, or
simply as a man with money and thus the capability to demand sexual pleasure-
these manifestations of male dominance in sex tourism highlight its very gendered
status.
McLeod (1982) in her study of British men who use local prostitutes found that a
provides them to escape conventional male heterosexual roles with their heavy
emphasis on masculine prowess and dominance’ (p.59) this result does not
correspond with the findings of researchers like O’Connell Davidson who conducted
similar research with British men partaking in sex tourism in Southeast Asia who
profiled the men as often aggressively racist, sexist and homophobic (O’Connell
Davidson, 2006 p.228) she found the men were motivated by the opportunity to ‘live
“The men O’Connell Davidson interviewed were not just angry at European
prostitutes but had what she calls a ‘misogynistic rage’ at western women in
general for acting as though they are men’s equals and not worshipping them as
kings. The rage is at ‘women who have the power to demand anything at all,
whether it is the right to have a say over who they have sex with and when, or the
right to maintenance payments for their children” (Jeffreys, 2009 p.140)
This difference in motivation to procure sex financially between sex tourists and
local British punters demonstrates a distinction in the pull factors between local and
foreign prostitution, the evidence presented so far regarding sex tourism points to
more than fundamental sexual gratification- the pull factors of sex tourism are
fetishization of aspects of the sexuality of Thai and Filipina women, the chance to
recreate unchallenged male dominance and the eroticization of the power disparity,
these factors cannot be summarized as mere ‘sexual needs of men’ they are a product
of a specific historical, cultural and political narrative- sex tourism meets the needs
Sex Tourism can be seen as racial, economic and cultural disparities and tensions
between East and West been transfigured into the specific act of sexual intercourse,
Conclusion
The impact of male sex tourism cannot be compared in scale and frequency with
Male sex tourism compounds the problems of cyclical poverty and exploitation
especially in Southeast Asia, and oftentimes children are abused. However, is the sex
tourism industry so profitable because of the ‘sexual needs of men’? why do men
have to travel thousands of miles to fulfil their sexual needs? Yes, the ‘openess’ of the
sex trade in Southeast Asia allows them to indulge their desires without legal or
societal restraints, however the total cost of a trip to Thailand or the Philippines
would far outweigh soliciting the services of a local prostitute, and there is no
stiff competition from the Southeast Asian brand. The arguments presented in this
essay point to different pull factors than simply a guaranteed orgasmic release. The
of the re-masculinization of men who feel stifled by the social and sexual ascent of
western women.
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