Case 1

Miss J is currently studying to achieve her first degree. She

pursues to do postgraduate and excel in her career. She has set her
mind not to get married since that she finds that marriage will
hinder her success. Is she a balance person? What are the pros &
cons of her decision.

Compone
nt
Self

Family

Comment

Suggestion

Not balance
Lack of happiness no one to
turn to
Lonely
Missed perception on marriage

Need reminder on the importance

of others component.

Neglect family
No bonding with the family

Plan ahead to include all the

Explain the needs of having a

family/the meaning of marriage

components in life.
Study/wor Spend too much time
k
Obsess with career
Friends /
social

Neglect friends
Missed out the joy as a young
adult
Different social background
and concept over relationship