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Muscle Abs Nutrition
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Contents
4 Muscle
14 Abs
19 Weight Loss
The material here is designed to help you make informed decisions about your health. It is not
intended as a substitute for any treatment that may have been prescribed by your doctor. If you
suspect that you have a medical problem, please seek competent medical care.
22 Nutrition
Before you undertake a new health program or fitness regimen, we encourage you to discuss your
plans with your health care professional, especially if you have not exercised for several years, are
over 35, or are overweight.
42 Health
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54 Wealth
58 Style
60 Grooming
66 Sex
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Muscle
Theres no way around it: To gain muscle and lose flab, you have sweat buckets. And
rethink your grocery list. But the ultimate cost (in time, especially) depends on what
you know. In our never-ending quest to help you get in the best shape of your life, we
tapped the countrys top fitness minds and combed through cutting-edge research to
find the 25 most effective ways to reveal the stronger, leaner man inside you. In short,
were about to fast-track your fitness.
Upgrade Your
Eating Plan
Rethink Your
Nutrient Intake
g
A / Nuts, avocado: 1 to 2 servings (1 serving = cup nuts,
2 Tbsp nut butter, avocado)
B / F
ats, oils: 2 to 4 servings (1 serving = 1 tsp olive oil or other
oil, 1 pat butter)
C / D
airy: 2 to 4 servings (1 serving = 1 cup milk, 6 oz yogurt,
1 oz hard cheese, cup cottage cheese)
D / Fruit: 2 to 4 servings (1 serving = 1 medium whole fruit,
cup dried fruit, 1 cups fresh fruit)
E / Starchy foods: 2 to 4 servings (1 serving = 2 bread slices;
1 cup rice, pasta, beans, or corn; 1 cup cereal; 1 small potato).
Guys who are extremely active or struggling to add muscle
can double up on these.
F / Low-starch vegetables: 3+ servings (1 serving =
1 cup, raw, of any vegetable besides potato or corn)
G / H
igh-protein foods: 4 to 8 servings (1 serving = 3oz meat,
1 scoop protein powder, 3 eggs)
2 Load Up on
Green Energy
When athletes start eating more vegetables, they
dont fatigue as easily,
says Tony Gentilcore,
CSCS, cofounder of
Cressey Performance in
Massachusetts. Its common to see them setting
personal records in the
weight room within a few
weeks. His favorite trick:
Throw a handful of spinach
into a blender and combine
with 2 cups almond milk,
some frozen berries,
rolled oats, chia seeds or
flaxseeds, and a scoop of
protein powder. You wont
even taste the greens.
3 Get More
Vitamin D
4 Spread Out
Your Protein
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Build More
Muscle
6 Work Your
Entire Body,
Every Time
When it comes to building
strength, how often you
work a muscle is just as
7 Lift Something
Weird
8 Master
the Pullup
9 Move More
Weight
(Right Now)
11 Run Like
You Lift
Crank Up
Your Cardio
Dont do the same thing
every day, says Dave
Dellanave, owner of the
Movement Minneapolis
gym. Vary your training
stimulus to avoid plateaus. That might mean
tempo runs one day, hills
the next, and finishing the
week with intervals.
12 Fine-Tune
the Treadmill
13 Trade Long
Runs for
Intervals
14 Combine
Strength and
Cardio
End strength workouts
with finishersquick
metabolic drills that boost
your heart rate and calorie
burn. Try this one: Do a
single kettlebell swing,
then 10 goblet squats. Next,
do 2 swings and 9 squats.
Keep going until you hit 10
swings and 1 squat.
15 Run a Mile
in Under
6 Minutes
Lose More
Weight
16 Scale Up Your
H2O Intake
Youll burn more calories.
Drinking 16 ounces of
chilled waterthe volume
in a typical consumer
bottlecan raise your
metabolism by 30%, say
scientists in Germany and
Canada. Better still, the
metabolic boost can last
up to 90 minutes.
17 Make Small
Changes
18 Dial Back
the Running
19 Never Stop
Moving
considerable: as many
as 2,000 extra calories
burned a day.
20 Sleep More,
Eat Less
Boost Your
Performance
ove like
21Ma Spider
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22 B
uild More
Power
Many guys confuse
strength and power, says
Mike Robertson, CSCS,
co-owner of Indianapolis
Fitness and Sports Training. Power is the ability to
express strength quickly.
To increase yoursand
to jump higher, throw
farther, and sprint faster
begin your workouts with
a few explosive moves like
vertical jumps, Olympic-style lifts (cleans, push
presses), or medicine ball
slams. Youll soon notice
that your workouts carry
over into sport and life,
says Robertson.
23 P
lace a Priority
on Recovery
24 M
ake Rest
More Active
Performance. Focus
on problem areas with
moves that hit different
muscles than the primary
exercise. Do body-weight
squats between sets of
bench presses, for example, or mountain climbers
between sets of chinups.
Youll fire up sleeping
muscles, loosen tight ones,
and move more smoothly,
says Robins.
25 Increase
Your Agility
The 4-Week
Double-Duty
Workout
Directions
Do three workouts a week, alternating between A and B
with a day of rest in between. Perform the workouts as
circuits, doing each exercise for 60 seconds and moving
from one to the next with 30 seconds of rest. Do up to
six circuits per workout, resting 1 minute between them.
For an even greater challenge, combine both workouts
into one big circuit, says Gaddour. Follow the same
work-to-rest ratio, doing up to three megacircuits per
workout, three times a week.
Workout A
Make it easier
Squat onto a bench.
Lie on your back with your feet flat and a dumbbell in each
hand [A]. Drive through your heels as you raise your hips and
extend your arms up [B]. Hold for 2 seconds and slowly return
to the starting position.
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Make it harder
Increase the weight, hold a
dumbbell in each hand, or
squat deeper.
Make it easier
Decrease the weight.
Make it harder
Lift one leg off the floor.
Switch legs after 30 seconds.
Workout B
Make it easier
Decrease the weight.
Make it harder
Increase the weight.
Hold a dumbbell in your right hand [A]. Step forward with your
left leg and lower the weight to your left foot [B]. Stand back
up. Step out to your left and lower the weight to your left foot
[C]. Switch legs after 30 seconds.
Make it harder
Increase the weight.
Make it harder
Increase the weight.
Make it easier
Decrease the weight.
Make it easier
Use only your body weight.
Make it easier
Keep your chest farther off
the floor.
Hold a pair of dumbbells at shoulder level and assume a staggered stance, left foot forward [A]. Lower into a quarter squat
[B] and explosively stand, pressing the weights overhead [C].
Switch legs after 30 seconds.
Make it harder
Alternate crawling forward,
backward, and side to side.
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Make it easier
Decrease the weight or assume a parallel stance.
Make it harder
Increase the weight or drop
into a full squat.
Master
the Move
Make it easier
Decrease the weight.
Make it harder
Increase the weight.
4 Dumbbell Hand-to-Hand
Staggered Hip-Hinge
Hold a dumbbell in your left hand, left foot forward [A]. Bend
at your hips and pass the weight to your right hand [B]. Raise
your torso and repeat, passing the weight to your left hand.
Switch legs after 30 seconds.
Make it easier
Decrease the weight or assume a parallel stance.
Make it harder
Increase the weight or perform on one leg at a time.
Place your feet on a bench and pike your hips [A]. Slowly raise
your left hand and touch your right shoulder [B]. Repeat with
your right hand and left shoulder. Keep alternating sides. (See
Master the Move, at right.)
Make it easier
Assume a standard pushup
position.
Make it harder
Perform with your legs fully
extended against a wall.
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Abs
Directions
Do each workout once a week, resting a day in between. Warm up with a 5- to 10-minute run and 20 hip swings (swing each leg side to side in front of you 10 times). Do the
metabolic phase in each workout as a circuit, moving from one exercise to the next
without rest. Do 3 circuits for Workout A and 4 circuits for Workouts B and C. Then
rest 3 minutes and finish with the strength phase.
Workout A
Metabolic Phase
Stand with your feet shoulder-width apart and hold a dumbbell in your right hand in front of your
hips [A]. Push your hips back, bend your knees [B], and raise up explosively, pulling the weight
up your body. When it reaches your chest, dip under it and catch it at your shoulder [C]. Press
it above your shoulder [D]. Do 5 reps. Add 5 pounds each week.
The Six-Pack
Fat Blaster
Stand with your feet shoulder-width apart and your arms at your sides [A]. Push your hips back
and lower your body into a deep squat, placing your hands on the floor [B]. Kick your legs back
into a pushup position and do a pushup [C]. Return to a squat and then jump forward as far as
you can [D]. Do 10 reps. Add 2 reps each week.
3 Pullup
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Workout A
Workout b
Strength Phase
Metabolic Phase
4 Front Squat
Grab a barbell with an overhand grip thats just beyond shoulder width and raise your upper arms until
theyre parallel to the floor. Let the bar roll back so
its resting on just your fingertips and the front of your
shoulders [A]. Squat until your thighs are parallel to
the floor [B]. (See Squat Right, below, for the finer
points.) Do 4 sets of 5 reps. Rest 1 to 2 minutes
between sets. Add 5 pounds each week.
Assume a pushup position with your hands on two medium-size medicine balls and your feet on
a bench or step thats about 12 inches high. Your body should be straight from head to ankles
[A]. Brace your core and lower your chest until its even with the balls [B]. Push back up to the
starting position and repeat. Do 10 reps. Add 2 reps each week.
Squat
Right
Dont Grip
the Bar
The bar should
rest on just three
fingers of each
hand. Your shoulders should support the weight,
not your hands,
says Durkin.
Raise Your
Elbows
Keep your upper
arms parallel to
the floor, elbows
slightly inward.
This will keep the
bar in place and
reduce stress on
your wrists.
Set a bar to waist height and drape two towels over it so theyre about shoulder-width apart.
Grab the towels close to the bar and hang at arms length with your shoulders directly below your
hands. Bend your knees so your feet are flat on the floor [A]. Lift your chest to the bar, squeezing
your shoulder blades together [B]. Do 10 reps. Add 5 reps each week.
3 Jump Rope
Sit into
the Move
Push your hips
back and squat
between your
knees. Bending
or shifting your
weight forward will
stress your knees.
Point Your
Toes Out
Keep your knees
in line with your
toes as you lower
your bodythis
will keep your
knees from
rotating inward,
increasing risk of
injury.
Workout b
Strength Phase
Set an adjustable bench to 45 degrees and lie on your back, holding two dumbbells above your
shoulders [A]. Lower the left dumbbell to the side of your chest [B]. Press it up to the starting
position and repeat with the right dumbbell. Continue alternating. Do 4 sets of 8 reps per arm.
Rest 1 to 2 minutes between sets. Add 5 pounds per dumbbell each week.
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Workout C
Weight Loss
Metabolic Phase
Hold a kettlebell in your right hand between your thighs, feet just beyond shoulder width [A].
Swing the bell between your legs [B] and then raise up explosively, pulling the weight up your
body [C]. When it reaches chest level, punch your palm toward the ceiling so the bell flips over
your forearm [D]. Do 10 reps, switch arms, and repeat. Add 5 pounds each week.
2 Pullup
Workout C
Strength Phase
3 Sumo Deadlift
4 Jump Complex
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Make Protein
Your Appetizer
Build Muscle
While You Sleep
Outsmart Cravings
Repressing certain food
urges is crucial to eating
less, and you can help
yourself by choosing the
right carbs. In a study in
Curate Your
Gut Bacteria
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It activates cell-surface
receptors in your intestines, which eventually
results in a greater release
of a fat-burning, appetite-quashing hormone
called leptin.
Try It
7 Best Bread
Nutrition
8 Best Flour
King Arthur Organic White Whole Wheat Flour
In your quest for good health and a great body, the supermarket can be a powerful
allyor an insidious enemy. We analyzed more than 1,000 supermarket foods and
awarded points for products that are low in calories, high in protein and fiber, and
made with whole ingredients. Then we pared down our selections and held taste tests
to determine the final winners. In the case of a tie, the item with the shortest ingredient list won.
9 Best Rice
Uncle Bens Ready Rice Whole Grain Brown
10 Best Pasta
Bionaturae Organic Whole Wheat Gobbetti
11 Best Cereal
Whole grains ratchet up the fiber count. Layer with #20 and #80.
12 Best Granola
13 Best Bagel
They contain a good hit of fiber and protein. Top with #19 and
smoked salmon.
Pair with #102, #67, and #63 for a 245-calorie dog that beats out
a ballpark frank in flavor.
5 Best Pita
6 Best Grain
16 Best Tortilla
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Frozen Foods
29 Best Beef Entre
Philadelphia Whipped
Fage Total 2%
31 Best Burrito
23 Best Eggs
34 Best Waffle
24 Best Butter
35 Best Fruit
36 Best Vegetable
Shave some fresh and youll never buy another green canister.
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37 Best Appetizer
Bumble Bee SuperFresh Spicy Shrimp Romesco
48 Best Olives
49 Best Pickle
41 Best Breakfast
51 Best Soup
Amys Organic Light in Sodium Split Pea
55 Best Chili
56 Best Dip
The onion, garlic, peppers, and spices really turn the heat up.
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57 Best Guacamole
58 Best Hummus
70 Best Mayonnaise
59 Best Spread
60 Best Salsa
Frontera Tomatillo Salsa
Snacks
Break the tomato salsa habit. This one adds a smoky, peppery kick.
71 Best Pretzel
61 Best Jam
Per 30 g (18 pretzels): 120 calories, 5 g protein, 22 g carbs (4 g fiber), 1.5 g fat
72 Best Cracker
62 Best Syrup
Per 30 g (15 crackers): 120 calories, 4 g protein, 19 g carbs (3 g fiber), 3.5 g fat
73 Best Popcorn
63 Best Ketchup
74 Best Jerky
64 Best Marinade
77 Best Cookie
67 Best Mustard
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78 Best Nut
91 Best Beer
0 calories
In our test of 30 brews, this bottle balanced calories and antioxidants best.
Amstel Light
This fruit-forward white pairs well with seafood and Asian cuisine.
Drinks
The bright fizz adds interest to plain old water. Try it with sliced
cucumber too.
0 calories
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0 calories
Yogi DeTox
0 calories
0 calories
0 calories
Proteins
Cooking Staples
This Southeast Asian condiment adds salty depth to stir-fries, marinades, and dressings.
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Finish any dish the way chefs dowith a sprinkle of these delicate,
salty flakes.
0 calories
Neutral flavor and a high smoke point make this oil great for
stir-frying.
Per Tbsp: 120 calories, 14 g fat
Most men believe that if they find the right recipe, dinner will turn out great. But the
truth is, with the right foods, you dont even need a recipe. Stock your kitchen with
these 25 meal makers and youll always know whats for dinner.
0 calories
Potent Produce
1 Frozen Kale
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2 Canned Tomatoes
3 Canned Chickpeas
4 Frozen Raspberries
5 Pickles
Sultans of Salty
6 Fish Sauce
7 Prosciutto
15 Greek Yogurt
Super Standbys
9 Soy Sauce
16 Tortillas
adds a wallop of earthy umami to a surprising range of dishes. (See #125 in The
125 Best Foods for Men, page 34.)
Use It Add a shot to sauted mushrooms,
caramelized onions, steak marinade, or
your next batch of chili.
10 Cheese
Fat Foundations
11 Extra Virgin
Olive Oil
12 Bacon
17 Farro
sweet potatoes, or combine it with sauted onions and bread crumbs to stuff
mushrooms.
13 Butter
14 Peanut Butter
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19 Chicken Broth
Why Because it beats MSG-packed bouillon, which is a salt lick, cubed. (See #114
in The 125 Best Foods for Men, page 33.)
Use It Simmer noodles, rice, or beans
in broth with vegetables for a fast soup,
or use broth in stews or as a flavorful
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How to
Elevate
Any Meal
20 Country-Style Bread
Flavor Saviors
21 Smoked Paprika
22 Chile-Garlic Sauce
23 Dijon Mustard
1
24 Salsa
25 BBQ Sauce
Why Spicy, sweet, tangy, smokybarbecue sauce boasts a range of flavors few
condiments can beat. (See #69 in The 125
Best Foods for Men, page 29.)
Use It Spike vinaigrette with it and dress
a salad of romaine, Cotija cheese, pico de
gallo, beans, and grilled chicken.
The Herb
Sauce
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The Tart
Sauce
The Buttery
Sauce
The Smokin
Hot Sauce
The Big,
Bold Sauce
Dads Special
All-Purpose Sauce
In a medium saucepan placed over
medium-low heat, melt 1 stick (1/2 cup)
unsalted butter. Adjust the heat to low
and then stir in 1/2 cup Worcestershire
sauce, 1/2 cup lemon juice, 4 smashed
and peeled garlic cloves, 1 dried arbol
chile pepper, 2 teaspoons kosher salt,
1 sprig rosemary, and 3 sprigs thyme.
Makes 11/2 cups
Get Sauced
You can pair these sauces with any meal, really (we dont like rules),
but heres what the chefs say.
Chimichurri
Mustard
Dill Sauce
BrownButter Lime
Fish Sauce
Chicken
Tejano
Red Sauce
Game
Lamb
Beef
Salmon
Mackerel
Whitefish
Shellfish
Potatoes
Vegetables
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Dads Special
All-Purpose
Sauce
Health
150
Triglycerides
Numbers to Live By
It doesnt matter if you
flunked algebra and cant
balance your checkbook.
Just track these numbers
and watch the health benefits multiply.
Stop Sabotaging
Yourself
14
Fiber Intake
Hours of Sleep
10,000
Steps per Day
Dodge Diabetes
100
Glucose Tolerance
<5.7
Hemoglobin A1c
130
Non-HDL Cholesterol
Keep Your
Hormones
Humming
250
DHEA
DHEA Range
20s
280640 mcg/dl*
30s
120520 mcg/dl
40s
95430 mcg/dl
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Testosterone
Low T wont just make you fat and limp. Italian scientists
say it may boost your risk of early death. You need 300
to 1,000 nanograms/deciliter (ng/dl) of total testosterone and 9 to 30 ng/dl of free testosterone. Scientists in
Turkey found that men who exercised daily and supplemented with magnesium increased their T production
in just 4 weeks. To hit your target of magnesium400
milligrams a day if youre a man 30 years old or younger
and 420 milligrams if youre olderload up on the foods
listed below.
Food
Wheat Bran
Almonds, Dry Roasted
Serving Size
Magnesium
(Mg)
1/4 cup
89
1 oz
79
1/2 cup
78
1 oz
74
1/2 cup
67
Oatmeal, Instant,
Prepared with Water
1 packet
61
1 medium
48
1/2 cup
43
1/2 cup
43
1 medium
32
Spinach, Cooked
Cashews, Dry Roasted
0.4
Healthy Range
0.44.0 miu/l*
2.34.2 pg/ml**
0.81.8 ng/dl***
Pay Attention
to Spots and
Streams
<4
Benign Prostatic
Hyperplasia (BPH)
1 2 3
1 2 3
needed to wake up to
urinate between bedtime
and the time you got up in
the morning?
0
1 2 3
1 2 3
Moles
Tamp Down
Inflammation
<1 mg/L
High-Sensitivity
C-Reactive Protein
(hs-CRP)
7.0
Uric Acid
13
Homocysteine
Gauge Your
Fitness and
Fatness
>33
VO2 Max
1825
Higher than 44
2635
Higher than 40
3645
Higher than 37
4655
Higher than 33
<20
Body Fat
0.5
Waist-to-Height Ratio
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Exercise
Working out boosts
production of the proteins
that stimulate brain-cell
growth, says John J. Ratey,
MD, author of Spark: The
Revolutionary New Science
of Exercise and the Brain.
Run a Memory
Upgrade
Bench-Press for
Brainpower
Strength-training for
60 minutes, three times
a week, for 6 months can
help improve short- and
long-term memory performance and attention
as you age, according to a
Brazilian study published
Redline It to
Renew Neurons
Diet
Your brain guzzles fuel,
and to keep it from
misfiring, you need to eat
the same foods that keep
your heart healthy. These
include lean protein, good
fats, whole grains, and
plenty of antioxidant-rich
and inflammation-fighting
vegetables and fruits. What
follows is the perfect day of
eating for your brain.
Brain Foods
Breakfast
Handful of blueberries
and 8 almonds
Blueberries are high in epicatechin, which has been
shown to promote blood
flow, improve mood, and
hone focus. The almonds
provide protein and fiber.
Lunch
2 oz dark chocolate
Dark chocolate (at least
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Beverages
Water
Sipping water every 15
minutes throughout the
day may deter feelings of
fatigue caused by dehydration.
Coffee
Caffeine may protect
memory and improve
focus. Limit yourself to a
single cup 30 minutes before you need to be at your
peak. The effect can last
up to 6 hours, but studies
show that higher dosages
of caffeine (4 to 5 cups of
Brain Games
Cognitive performance in
almost every category declines after your mid-20s.
But you may be able to
make your brain more resilient if youre constantly
learning new, mentally
complex things, says Denise Park, PhD, codirector
of the center for vital
longevity at the University
of Texas at Dallas.
Exercise Your
Intelligence
Sneaky
Cancer Culprits
Health threats can come
in many disguises. We pull
the masks off six that are
hiding in plain sight.
French Fries,
Chips, Bread
Acrylamide
Acrylamide, a form of a
chemical used to treat
wastewater, lurks in
French fries, chips, bread,
and even doughnuts.
When some carb-rich
foods are cooked at high
temperatures, the amino
acid asparagine reacts
with sugars in the foods,
forming acrylamide, says
Timothy Fennell, PhD,
toxicology director at
RTI International. Your
bodys chemical reactions
to acrylamide can lead to
DNA mutations that may
raise your cancer risk.
Shield your cells
Strategize in the kitchen.
Laundry
Detergent
1,4-dioxane
Your detergent removes
stainsand may leave
behind a toxic chemical.
In 2011, an environmental
group discovered 1,4-dioxane lurking in laundry
detergent. The chemical
isnt a proven cancer causer in humans, but it has
triggered liver and nasal
tumors in rats. Worse, you
wont find 1,4-dioxane on
Wrinkle-Free
Dress Shirts
Formaldehyde
Formaldehyde keeps
corpses looking their best;
it also keeps wrinkle-free
shirts spiffy. And while
dead men have no cause
for concern, the living
might. Theres evidence
Styrofoam Cups,
Containers
Styrene
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Brown Rice
Arsenic
Electronic
Cigarettes
Nitrosamines
Career
4/ Fail Forward
Well-intentioned advice
from other people may
drown out your thoughts.
Escape their rut and discover your own path, says
Marriner. You do this by
hitting the road. It could be
for 4 weeks or 4 days. The
goal is to gain perspective
and hear your voice.
2/ Define Your
Interests
3/ Think Broadly
Make Your
Pitch Perfect
Live in
Permanent Beta
master plan from Ben
Casnocha, coauthor of The
Start-Up of You.
Build Your
Network
Intelligence
Go Beyond Casual
Explanation
Regardless of whether or
not a project flies or fails,
pitch and pitch again. The
most successful entrepreneurs think of themselves
as intrapreneurs, Casnocha says. So stay agile,
adapt, and reinvent your
job every day, he says.
Fine-Tune
Your Office
Relationships
Leverage your contacts,
please your boss, and maybe even learn to like your
coworkers!
Hone Your
Connections
Fast Break
Ditch the
Training Wheels
Use Gossip
for Good
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University researcher
Ethan Moitra, PhD. We
had to adapt our behavior
based on our relative position within it. Nervousness ensures that were
respectful to those whose
opinions we value. Prob-
Own Up to
a Mistake
Handle an
Office Face-Off
Confidently
Show
Dependability
or her projects or presentations. Or scan the execs social media feeds for shared
interests and drop them
into conversation: Youre
a Packers fan? Theyre
killing me this season.
Inspire Your
Coworkers
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Take Charge
Wealth
Money Mantras
of the Filthy Rich
5 Smart Is as
Smart Does.
2 I Can Do
Anything I Set
My Mind To.
1 My Future
Depends on Me.
Men who agree with this
statement tend to have
higher incomes and net
worth, says Brad Klontz,
PsyD, a financial psychologist at Kansas State
3 I Got This.
Research on successful
entrepreneurs reveals that
theyre a tad overconfident,
says John Nofsinger, PhD,
a professor of finance at
Washington State University. People gravitate to
men who hold strong convictions, he says. They have
the cojones to take risks
and reboot after failure.
4 Its a Stumble,
Not a Fall.
6 I Regret
Nothing.
7 I Get Anxious
about Money.
8 Money
Is Money.
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9 Everyone Has
Something to
Teach Me.
10 To Understand
Is to Progress.
11 What Doesnt
Kill Me
12 This Sewer
Smells like
Lavender.
13 Competition
Stays on the
Court.
In sports, competition
is fun. But competing
with money is a terrible
idea. Trying to beat the
marketor your friends
apparent wealthleads
to short-term thinking
that could wreck your
portfolio, notes Benjamin
Hockema, a certified
financial planner. Focus
on your financial goals
and thats it.
14 What I Know
Can Hurt Me.
15 Money Has
Limits.
Money is an important
tool for reaching many
of lifes goals, but it wont
buy power, security,
self-respect, or freedom,
says Olivia Mellan, PhD,
a financial psychotherapist. I call these money
myths, she says. Dont
buy into them or youll end
up making rash, emotional
decisions.
16 Its More
Important to Be
Interested Than
Interesting.
Your firm wants innovators, but you wont be one
if you fall back on existing
methods, says Andrew
Boynton, PhD, of Boston
College. Start working
to understand success in
other industries. Innovation is about adapting
ideas so they apply to your
problem or opportunity,
he says.
17 Stress Can Be
My Friend.
Career problems can
provoke our fear of being
18 Every Second
Counts.
Money problems never go away easily, but dwelling on them wont help. The
thing about financial worry is how pervasive it is in your life, says Stanford
psychologist Kelly McGonigal, PhD, author of The Willpower Instinct. It colors everything and is impossible to turn off. But you can make the most of your brains
quirks to outflank the fear.
Take a Baby Step The human brain is surprisingly stupid, McGonigal says.
It has a kind of internal checklist, and whenever you make any step toward a
goal, it relaxes. Take advantage of this by setting a laser focus on one thing you
can do. Even just viewing your accounts and tallying up your debt to fully grasp
the problem will help. Any progress at all will free you up, she says. If you start
to see yourself as heading down the right road, your determination will rise.
Take a Risk Men are programmed to hold on to things they already possess.
We feel more pain from losing something we have than pleasure from acquiring
an equivalent that weve never had. In one demonstration of the effect, study
participants were given coffee mugs and then offered cash to give the mugs up.
They demanded a much higher amount than a separate group was willing to pay
to acquire a mug in the first place. If youre clever, you can twist this predisposition to help ratchet up your nerve to try something risky. Take advantage of your
brains loss aversion by being very clear about the reward youre chasing, advises
McGonigal. Imagine that the reward is already yours. Savor the payoff as if its
already happened. Your brain will shift its focus: Now it doesnt want to lose that
reward, so its more willing to take risks.
19 I Dont Trust
My Instincts.
20 My Cash Is
Cold and So Am I.
Whether youre into
stocks or real estate, your
instinct will be to run
with the herd. Dont. Go
against it, buying when the
market is down and selling
when its up. Consider
your goals, the markets
long-term performance,
and the time you have to
invest.
21 I Travel Light.
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22 Im a
Resource.
23 I Spend When
It Matters.
24 My Future Is
Bright.
25 Im Just
Happy to
Have a Job.
An attitude of gratitude
can improve not only job
satisfaction but also your
performance, says W.
Timothy Gallwey, author
of The Inner Game of
Work. Focus less on the
problems with your job
and more on its benefits
to you and your boss,
colleagues, customers, and
the like. Now use your job
to improve your impact
on these people. This adds
dignity and motivation to
your work.
Style
Down Jacket
Wool Overcoat
Utility/Toggle
Sweater
Cashmere Knit
Corduroy Pants
Accessories
Sports Watch
Casual Watch
Dress Watch
Weekender Bag
Briefcase
Sunglasses
At Work
Dark Suit
Necktie and
Tie Bar
Wing Tips
Chinos
At Play
Leather Jacket
White T-Shirt
Theres a difference
between an undershirt
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Boots
At a Party
Navy Blazer
Dark Jeans
Turtleneck
Grooming
A Perfect Shave
Pretend you dont know anything about shaving. Actually, you probably dont: The
techniques many men bring to the mirror are so crude that it shouldnt be called
shavingits more like scraping. And when you scrape, you invite razor burn and
nicked skin. Before you raise steel to stubble again, read these five rules.
Start Strong
ILLUS TRATION 1
Be an Early Adopter
ILLUS TRATION 3
ILLUS TRATION 2
FACT OR
FICTION?
ILLUS TRATION 6
Baldness
is inherited
from your
mothers side
of the family.
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ILLUS TRATIO
ILLUS TRATIO
ILLUSTR
I LAL TUI SOTN
R A1T I O N 6 . 2
ILLUS TRATION 6
FACT OR
FICTION?
I L L U S T R AITLILO
UN
S T2
RATION 7
ILLUS TRATION 3
ILLUS TRATION 6
FACT OR
FICTION?
ILLUS TRATION 7
White wine
can also stain
your teeth.
Its a fact. Coffee and red wine top the list of stain-inducing
drinks, but your sauvignon blanc isnt so innocent. Both red
and white wines are acidic and can create an environment for
the teeth to absorb some of the wines color, says Arthur Glosman, DDS, a cosmetic dentist based in Hollywood. The acid in
wine breaks down the enamel surface of teeth, and that makes
it easier for stains to attach. But we know you love a glass
or two of wine with dinner and perhaps a cup of coffee with
dessert. No problem. Have the waiter bring out the cheese tray
(or carve up some cubes at home). The cheeses help create a
barrier against acidic wines by neutralizing the pH on the teeth,
reducing the staining power of the wines, Glosman says.
Put It in Reverse
In Your 30s:
Extend
Your Peak
Time is a precious
resource during this
decade, and your mirror
may not get enough of
your time. A Mens Health
survey found that most
guys in their 30s spend
just 20 minutes a day
in prep modewhich
could hold them back
professionally. Groomings impact increases in
direct proportion to your
job position, says Dan
Kilgore, a Boston-based
principal with Riviera
Advisors, a recruiting
company for Fortune 500
firms. A lack of it can be
fatal to your career. University of Texas research
even found that the most
attractive men stand to
make 17% more than their
ILLUS TRATION 4
Banish Dandruff
Step It Up
Reduce Shampoo
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Layer It On
In Your 40s+:
Refine
Your Look
Strands of gray and crowsfeet are often interpreted
as signs of distinction. But
when a younger guy angles
for your job, they can feel
like signs of vulnerability.
The long hours at work,
the lack of sleep, and the
sunscreen-free weekends
on the back nine can all
Groom Smarter
ILLUS TRATION 1
Itll buff your skin and improve its tone, Beer says.
A glycolic acid cleanser
or peel will also help clear
your skin of dead cells by
speeding cell turnover, say
researchers in Italy.
FACT OR
FICTION?
Do an About-Face
ILLUS TRATION 5
ILLUS TRATION 2
ILLUS TRATION 3
ILLUS TRATION 1
ILLUS TRATION 2
ILLUS TRATION 3
ILLUS TRATION 2
ILLUS TRATION 5
FACT OR
FICTION?
You cant
shrink the size
of your pores.
ILLUS TRATION 5
ILLUS TRATION 6
ILLUS TRATION 4
ILLUS TRATION 5
ILLUS TRATION 3
ILLUS TRATION 6
ILLUS TRATION 6
ILLUS TRATION 4
FACT OR
FICTION?
Shaving often
makes facial
hair grow back
faster, darker,
and thicker.
ILLUS TRATION 2
ILLUS TRATION 3
ILLUS TRATION 4
ILLUS TRATION
ILLUS TRATION
ILLUS TRATION 7
ILLUS TRATION 7
ILLUS TRATION 7
FACT OR
FICTION?
The smell of
a fragrance
varies over
time on the
same person.
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Sex
Beginners Lust
The first time can backfire,
especially if you have skyhigh expectations. You
are trying to make a good
first impression, which
could lead to performance
anxiety, says clinical
psychologist Marianne
Brandon, PhD. The key
is to stay out of your mind
and in your body. That
way, you wont withdraw
into negative thinking
during your first sexual
experience together.
It takes only a little
preparation. When you
finally do end up between
the sheets with her, be
ready.
Step 2
Banish
Distraction
Step 1
Build the
Excitement
Step 3
Practice
Mind Control
We asked 1,566 women what text message theyd most want to receive the day after their
first sexual encounter with you. Heres what they said.
NICE TRY
BINGO!
0 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10
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Step 4
Make Her
Comfortable
Step 5
Step 6
Talk about It
other, or cuddle.
That rush may also put
you in a sleepy mood, but
Garrison urges you to
fight through your desire
to snooze. Address the
need for pillow talk by
directing a conversation.
Ask a heartfelt question,
like How do you feel right
now? says Garrison. If
youre too tired for a long
6 Bedroom Blunders
Solved!
Sometimes things go wrong between the sheets. But you can bounce back: We know,
because we asked more than 1,000 women what runs through their minds immediately
after some common sexual screwups. And as it turns out, theyre quite forgiving. With
the right recovery plan, youll be back to business in no time.
crisis meter
You blurt
out, I
love you!
Recovery Plan
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Another
girl keeps
calling you.
Recovery Plan
You call
her the
wrong name.
Recovery Plan
You cant
unhook
her bra.
Your sheets
could use
changing.
You fart
while doing
the deed.
Recovery Plan
Recovery Plan
Recovery Plan
Dont freak out if you cant perform. In our survey, women ranked equipment failure as a medium-low worry. Ian
Kerner, a sex counselor and coauthor of The Big, Fun, Sexy
Sex Book, explains how to stay in the game. (For persistent
problems, see a doctorthe cause may be physical.)
You Finish Too Fast
If youre about to lose
it, stop thinking about
your penis, pull out, and
play with her breasts or
clitoris. If its too late, just
return the favor.
Touch
The Peak Sense
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Smell
The Scent
of a Man
Hearing
Sexual Sound
Effects
Sight
You on View
Taste
The Flavor of
Excitement
2027491
Research Foundation.
In one study, when a
potential male pheromone
was placed under chairs,
females clumped in that
area.
So sweat together:
Exercise activates your
apocrine glands, the site
of pheromone release in
primates. Each woman
reacts differently, but his
research shows that musk
can decrease vaginal blood
flow; women may associate the scent with jerks.
Instead, dust your bod in
baby powder, which can
elevate vaginal blood flow;
or for a first date, wear
eucalyptus, camphor, and
menthol. These scents
increase empathy, says
Hirsch.