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77 Secrets of Love
The SECRETS
To Make Every Man
Adore You, CHASE You, LOVE You,
and COMMIT To You
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Content
Introduction...................................................................................................11
Chapter 1: Awaking To Your Strongest Self...............................................17
1 Lovefare Is Warfare...................................................................................17
2 Clear Purpose Attracts Men.......................................................................19
3 Purpose Of A Romantic Relationship........................................................21
4 Simplicity Gets You Results......................................................................22
5 Take The Shortest Path To The Castle.......................................................23
6 Knowledge is Power...................................................................................24
7 Never Change Who You Are.....................................................................25
8 You Can Do it: Ill Show You The Way....................................................26
Chapter 2: Detox Now....................................................................................27
9 Three Female Instincts That Will Enslave You.........................................27
10 Terrified of Being Alone..........................................................................29
11 My Clock Is Ticking.............................................................................31
12 Money, Power, and Status........................................................................34
13 Repetitive Reinforcement.........................................................................37
14 The 3 Cs That Are Not So Cute...............................................................39
Convincing Your Man....................................................................................39
Complaining To Your Man............................................................................40
Controlling Your Man...................................................................................40
15 Two Vital Distinctions You Must Know.................................................42
Controllable vs. Non-Controllable.......................................................42
16 Need vs. Desire.................................................................................47
17 Final Step of Detox: Erase The Past.........................................................50
18 Forget the Past Embrace Your Fabulous Future!................................51
Chapter 3: Emotional Intelligence................................................................52
19 Emotional Intelligence for Dating............................................................52
20 It is your Emotional Intelligence..............................................................53
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70 Importance Of Practice...........................................................................134
71 Keeping Your Options Open..................................................................135
72 Online Dating.........................................................................................137
73 Technology.............................................................................................138
74 How to Flirt............................................................................................139
75 Sexual Appeal: the Double Edged Sword..............................................140
76 Never Quit..............................................................................................143
77 The True Beauty of an Unforgettable Woman.......................................144
Bonus Report 1: Characteristics That Naturally Attract Men................146
Introduction.................................................................................................149
Sex Appeal and Beauty are Two Different Things.....................................151
The Other 13 Essential Characteristics That Make You Irresistible..........153
Unattractive Characteristics........................................................................160
Final Thoughts.............................................................................................163
Bonus Report 2: How to Deal with the Emotionally Unavailable Man....164
Introduction.................................................................................................167
Here are Direct Clues:.................................................................................169
Here are Some Indirect Clues......................................................................170
What Does His Avoidance of Emotional Bonding Tell You About Him? 171
Why They are Who They are?.....................................................................172
His Insecurities about Himself....................................................................173
He Seeks External Sources of Validation....................................................174
Why are We Attracted to Him?...................................................................175
What to Do: Plan A or Plan B?...................................................................176
What He Looks for in His Romantic Partner..............................................177
Characteristics that He's Attracted To.........................................................178
3 Characteristics He's NOT Attracted To....................................................180
Finally, the Million Dollar Question...........................................................182
Conclusion...................................................................................................184
Bonus Report 3: The Sensual Woman.........................................................185
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Introduction.................................................................................................188
On Understanding Your Own Body............................................................189
Ways to Get in Touch with your Sensuality................................................191
On Understanding a Man's Body/Mind.......................................................193
Sensual Techniques.....................................................................................195
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Introduction
Dear Friend,
Let me start this book by asking you a few questions. Have you ever felt
frustrated because your man will not give you straight answers? Are you annoyed
when he tells you Nothing is wrong, but you KNOW something is
DEFINITELY WRONG? Have you ever wondered what he is REALLY thinking
and what hes not telling you?
Why cant a man just tell you what hes REALLY feeling? And why do they
get annoyed or defensive when you ask them? Wouldnt it be great if men came
with a users manual that told you exactly how to READ them?
Well, Im with you on this one! Things would be so much clearer and
simpler if guys communicated with us in a way we understood. But this dream of
ours will only come true if we women live on Mars! If you have read Men Are
from Mars And Women From Venus, youll know that men and women are on
completely different levels when it comes to communication styles. Men are
confusing to read, hard to understand, and easy to misread.
After a lot of in-depth research, Ive compiled this eBook to help you
improve how you can READ and UNDERSTAND men, so you will face fewer
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misunderstandings and question marks. But it does not end there. I will take you
one step further to the place that very few women have ever been to: the holy land
of seduction.
The women who have been there were legendary seductresses. You may
have heard of some of them: Cleopatra, Wallis Simpson and the now infamous
Camilla Parker-Bowles. These women were neither the smartest nor the most
beautiful (please tell me you know someone who looks better than Camilla!)
But there is one thing they know and understand better than 99.9% of
women in this world: They know HOW TO INFLUENCE MEN. In other words,
they know how to align men to their way of thinking and make them want to
satisfy each and every one of those womens little wishes. They also make men fall
so deeply in love that, in the case of Wallis Simpson, King Edward VIII gave up
his throne to spend his life with the woman I love.
This is the power to influence men. This is the value of aligning men to your
way of thinking. Its the power that will deliver the man of your dreams and the
love life you could only hope for right to your doorstep. Tell me this is something
you dont want to learn and master!
To assist your learning, Ive spent a lot of time filtering through a huge
amount of information, simplifying it and condensing the most useful, practical
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advice into the least amount of material for you. I want you to quickly digest the
information and start applying it in the real world to see how powerful it truly is.
Ive carefully selected 77 secrets and grouped them into different categories
to correspond with the 3 most common sources of all the dating/relationship
problems:
I want you to look back at your life and think about one example where
youve successfully influenced another person. Did you know that person well?
Well enough to know what his or her hot buttons were? Did you keep pushing
those hot buttons to get the other person to respond? Did you try to adapt your
communication style to what that person was most responsive to? Exactly!
Without understanding what your man responds to, you cannot influence
him, change him and make him do what you want. You may have some luck here
and there, but without knowing where to aim, how many Cupids Arrows do you
have to waste until you finally hit the target? Once you know what the hot buttons
are, you CANNOT POSSIBLY fail in attracting and keeping men. How can you
fail when you target the things that men are most responsive to? How can you fail
when you know exactly how to elicit certain responses from men?
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How can you fail when you can READ MEN LIKE A BOOK and know men
better than they know themselves? You cannot fail in attracting and keeping a man
when you fully understand them. The only reason that you might fail is: You
Dont Know Enough Yet!
Unless they are plain evil, most men do not purposely try to break your
heart.
They dont actively find ways or secretly plan to ruin your personal life. But
there is one thing all men do: They REACT! They react to you, the things you say,
the things you do and, most importantly, they react to the hints you give them.
What do I mean by this? A man cant get into your mind. He is not your
alter-ego and does not know what you are thinking. But when you interact with a
man, you constantly give him hints that lead him to derive how you think, what
you think and who you are.
From your communication styles, body language and facial expressions, an
experienced male can quickly gather tons of information about you. He only reacts
to the information you give him. This is good news for you.
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If a man can only form his perception of you from the information you give
him, you are in total control. The key is to figure out how to allow only the good
information to flow out and keep a lid on the bad information.
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These 77 secrets are your friends, your tools and your strategies to influence,
impact, and change men. Study them, use them and apply them. Then practice,
practice, practice, until youve become so good at what you are doing that within
10 minutes of meeting a guy, youve already come up with a detailed mental plan
to lead him from the first date to the altar. Its 100% possible! Ive done it, many of
my readers have done it, and now, you can, too.
Are you ready for the first secret?
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Chapter 1:
Awaking To Your Strongest
Self
1 Lovefare Is Warfare
Out of all the things in the world, a woman has the most at stake in the battle
of love: her time, her reproductive resources, her life and her happiness. A woman
can be the most successful CEO, but if her love life is a mess, she will always be
disappointed. During a recent survey, more than 75% of the female executives on
Wall Street claimed they would be willing to ditch their high-powered career for
the man of their dreams.
These point to the fact that lovefare is the one battle a woman cannot afford
to lose. In ancient times, when a woman lost her man to another female, she would
face death. She needed a strong hunter to provide food and resources to survive.
Things are not as deadly serious in the modern world, but if you want to
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completely succeed and make it in today's world, your love life needs to be
handled, and handled well.
Understanding how to get a competitive advantage in the battle of love is not
about playing games, tricking men or misleading anyone. It is about winning and
winning for your own sake, your own happiness and your own quality of life. It is
about refusing to be the sad woman who, at the end of the day, says that she was
unlucky in love.
There are no unlucky women in love, only lazy women who refuse to spend
the time learning what really works. The whole purpose of Secret 1 is for you to
understand the importance of learning how attraction works. I want you to take it
seriously and start taking responsibility for your own happiness.
Luck and success follow those who take responsibility and who never blame
their circumstances.
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When you are 100% clear about what you want in life, amazing things start
to happen, including strong success, deep happiness, good fortune and high-quality
men, just to name a few.
Becoming laser-beam clear about your goals, what your life purpose is and
what your place in this world is, will create the magic to transform your dreams
into reality.
To prove my point, I want you to do a simple exercise. Think back to a time
in your life when you were confused about what you wanted at that particular
moment. What happened afterwards? Did you like the end result? Did you feel that
you could have done so much better? Did you witness how things went from bad to
worse because it all started with a vague, confused and non-defined purpose?
I used to have never-ending bad luck with men. Sometimes I even wondered:
how could this happen to me? If I had bad luck once, shouldnt my good luck be
waiting round the corner? Unfortunately, I witnessed how my bad luck turned into
worse luck because I wasnt clear about what I wanted. I allowed myself to get put
into the role that the man at the time wanted me to play.
When you are not clear about what you want, you become the supporting
character in someone elses life. Your life is about you, your vision and your life
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goal. Clarity attracts the type of man you want. When youre crystal clear about
how you envisage your love life to be, you send out a magical invitation to the
perfect man to join your life.
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The whole purpose of sharing life with a man is based on one thing and one
thing only: This partnership makes you happier than living life by yourself.
Otherwise, it doesn't make sense. Love is not a bitter fruit. It is this sweet,
delicious thing that makes you a better and happier person.
And remember this is true for him as well. If you are in his life, it has to be
better than him just being on his own. It happens too often that women puts so
many demands on a man during the dating stage that he stops and asks himself:
Am I really better off WITH her?
This is very often the heaviest on a mans mind when he considers whether
you are girlfriend-material and wife material.
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The simple way is often the best way to solve a problem. Most people tend
to overlook the simple solution because they cannot believe an extremely
complicated problem can be solved in such an easy way. In the realm of love, I
want to tell you that the simple way is almost always the best way to solve all your
men problems.
A client of mine used to feel deeply trapped in her marriage with a man who
worked all the time. She felt her husband had no feeling or time for her
whatsoever. She felt unloved, unappreciated and worthless. She could not see a
way out and came to me for help. The solution was quite simple: (1) She either
adjusts how she feels about her marriage and, if she cant, (2) she gets out.
Once you believe the simplicity of solving your problems, you will start
seeing how clear and manageable your love life truly is.
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Im a firm believer that you should spend the least amount of time trying to
get to where you want to go, and the most amount of time enjoying the fruits of
your labor. Some of my female readers (who I love very much) have a thing for
taking the laborious path in love. It seems like they are more comfortable about
earning their way by taking the long path.
You need to start giving yourself permission to take the easiest, shortest path
to love! If you are the Cinderella, youll want to take the shortest path to the castle
and spend the most time dancing and catching your Prince Charming. Its the same
way today. Believe in your good fortune. Believe that good things can happen to
you. And, most importantly, believe that you can get to the castle and live happily
ever after by taking the shortest path.
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6 Knowledge is Power
In a way, dating is no different from your career. Think about how many
years youve devoted to your education, the long hours and late nights building
your professional network. You put so many years of hard work into your career.
Dont you think your personal life deserves the same nurturing?
Like learning about the skills you need to be successful in your career,
dating and relationships require you to spend time trying to understand the
opposite sex.
Knowledge is power: This phrase cant be truer than in the world of
romance. As Heraclitus, the Byzantine emperor said, There is only one wisdom:
to recognize the intelligence that steers all things.
Are you ready to harness that power?
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77 Secrets Of Love
Alexandra's first and most successful eBook collection. Get the lowdown
on the most basic and most important secrets of love and relationships. A
must-read for anyone who wants to improve all areas of their love lives!
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Long-Distance Relationships
A comprehensive guide about long-distance relationships: How to handle
one, how to know if it will work out, and specific techniques that increase
your chances of eventually settling down together. Click here
Play Hard-To-Get
Sick of always chasing men? Get the upper hand in your relationship by
learning how to play hard-to-get -- and make THEM chase YOU!
Everything you need to know about the chasing game is in this powerful ebook collection. Click here
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77 Secrets Of Seduction
The "sequel" to 77 Secrets Of Love, this e-book collection goes deeper into
the more specific, more intimate secrets about making a man love you.
Learn how to get past his mind, and win his heart! Click here
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Mixed Signals
Every woman who has ever been in a relationship or dating knows that the
mixed signals transmitted by men can drive you crazy. They say one thing
and do another. How do you figure out what he is trying to say? This
eBook will help you learn to interpret what he is really saying so that you
respond right. Click here
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Strategic Sexuality
As a woman, you have an inner power to tap from that would not only
propel you in life, but in love as well. Some call it an Inner Goddess,
others call it feminine energy. It is real, it is powerful and learning how to
tap into it will change who you are, what you can do, and how others
perceive you. Click Here
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