th. Nu chu tun th quy tc ny th hu nh chng ta s khng bao gi gp rc ri trong giao tip, s c v s bn b v s lun hnh phc. Cn ngc li, vi phm quy tc ny, bn s gp kh khn trin min. Quy tc y l: Lun lun lm cho ngi khc cm thy h quan trng. William James ni: Nguyn tc su xa nht trong bn cht con ngi l s thm kht c khen ngi. y chnh l iu khin con ngi tr nn khc bit vi mun loi v thc y nn vn minh nhn loi pht trin. Nhng cuc nghin cu ca cc trit gia trong nhiu thp k qua v quan h gia ngi vi ngi u dn n mt nguyn tc ng x quan trng. Zoroaster dy nguyn tc ny cho cc mn ca mnh Iran cch y hai mi lm th k. Khong mt th k sau , cng nguyn tc y, Lo T ri Khng T truyn ging Trung Quc. c Pht thuyt ging chn l bn b sng Hng nm trm nm trc Cng nguyn. Kinh sch n gio cp t tng ny mt ngn nm trc . V cch y hai mi th k, trn nhng ngn i Do Thi, Cha Jesus cng truyn ging chnh iu y. Nguyn tc c l quan trng nht y ca nhn gian c th c tm gn nh sau: Hy i x vi ngi khc theo cch mnh mun c i x. Ai cng mun c tn thnh, c tha nhn gi tr ca bn thn. Ai cng mun c cm gic mnh tht quan trng trong th gii cht hp ny. Ai cng mun c ngi thn, bn b hay cc i tc khen ngi chn thnh v tht lng ch khng 145