Sth wants you to have it more that you want to have it.

the one who is need is always in lower part of power.

I don't need life, life needs me.
I don't want, need wimen, they want me.
The one who needs, only needs it.
The one who doesn't need, or has can only gain, or be indifferent.
There is the polarity of needing and receiving. You can only be on one part of t
he spectrum.