Nhng bi hc en ti no m cuc i ch cho

bn?
1. Khng bao gi k vi ngi khc 100%, k cho h 70% v bn thn bn cn 30% cn li
c giu i.
2. Bt c ai bn yu u c th cht. Bt c lc no. Hy yu thng h.
3. S cng bng l tri vi quy lut t nhin. Khng ci g 100% hon ton l cng bng.
4. Hy sng cuc sng m bn mun sng v thm ch nhng ngi quan tm n bn cng
khng th sng i cng con ng ny vi bn.
5. Con ngi ch mun nghe nhng iu tt. V vy, nu bn gp vn , rt kh tm ngi
cho bn th l.
6. Hy tn trng bn thn bn, ngi khc c th ti sao bn li khng ch?
7. Mi ngi c mt ci mt n cho bn thn m nhng ci mt n ng vai tr khc
nhau i vi nhng ngi khc nhau. Ngi yu, gia nh, ng nghip, bn s thy bt
ng v s khc nhau ca con ngi trong nhng bi cnh x hi khc nhau.
8. Nhiu ngi s bin thnh qu d ch v li ch c nhn ca h. khng phi l li ca
bn khi kt thc mt mi quan h vi ngi . Hy qun iu i!
9. Vn khng phi l nhng con im cao m bn t c v ci khng phi l tt c
mi th. Ngi ta ct l quan tm n k nng x hi ca bn. im s ch chim vai tr
mt na.
10. Mt ln bn lm tn thng h, h c th s khng bao gi qun. H s lun nh bn
lm h tn thng nhiu nh th no. Mt hnh ng d khng ng k nhng c th hy
hoi c mt hu qu ng sau n.
11. Th din l mt vn . Chng ta sng trong mt th gii ng ln n. Gia nh, bn b,
ng nghip ca bn s nh gi bn trong mt vi phm vi.
12. Rt kh c th lm hi lng tt c mi ngi. S lun c nhng ngi bt ng quan im
vi bn m trung thc m ni th bn ang khng sng mt cuc sng m khng c k
th. Tt hn ht hy l mt ngi c ngh v chnh kin hn l mt ngi i lm hi
lng ngi khc.

English translation

What are some of the dark lessons that life showed you?
1. Never tell people 100%, tell them 70% about yourself, and 30% should be
hidden.
2. Anyone you love can die. Any time. Cherish them.
3. Fairness is unnatural. Nothing is 100% fair.
4. Live life the way you want to live it. Because even people who care for you cant
be with you every step of the way.
5. People only want to hear the good, not the bad. So if you have issues, itll be
hard to find people to confide in.
6. Respect yourself, because people can see if you dont.
7. Everyone has a mask and they play different ones to different people. Lovers,
families, coworkersyoull be surprised how different people can be in different social
contexts.
8. Some people are evil for the sake of it. IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT IF YOU
END UP IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH THAT PERSON. GET OUT OF IT.
9. It doesnt matter how good your grades are, because grades arent everything
and people pay more attention to your social skills. Grades only take you halfway.
10. Once you hurt someone, theyre not likely to forget. They will always remember
how much youve hurt them. One negligible action can have devastating consequences.
11. Appearances DO matter. We live in a condemnatory, judgmental world. Your
family, friends, coworkers, bosses will judge you for your actions to some extent. Which
brings me to
12. It is impossible to please everyone. There will ALWAYS be someone who
disagrees with you, and frankly, youre not living life if you dont have enemies. Better
be someone with your own thoughts and opinions than a people pleaser.

https://www.quora.com/What-are-some-of-the-dark-lessons-that-life-showed-
you/answer/Vanessa-Ying