Ch 2: Xy dng mi quan h tt Ch 3: Giao tip vi khch Ch 4: Giao tip a vn ha Ch 5: X l phn nn
Nguyn tc giao tip c bn
Giao tip Giao tip l cch bn kt ni vi mi ngi xung quanh thng qua : cch ng x, cch n mc, li ni. Giao tip cng l cch bn th hin c tnh, con ngi ca mnh ra bn ngoi. Giao tip cng l cch bn hon thnh cng vic ca mnh thng qua ngi khc. Mt vi s tht v Giao tip 1. a phn cc rc ri v trc trc thng gp trong cuc sng u c nguyn nhn l do giao tip km. 2. a phn cc ngi giu c nht th gii v Vit Nam u nh nhng mi quan h m h c c t s giao tip 3. a phn nhng ngi giu nht th gii u lm trong ngnh Giao tip 4. a phn nhng th qu gi v tt p nht cuc sng ca bn u phi xy dng bng Giao tip: Tnh thn gia nh, Tnh bn, Tnh yu. Hc Giao tip Hc Giao Tip l phi hc nhng nguyn tc ng x c bn, nhng cch thc hnh ng, n ni, hc cch lng nghe, tn trng ngi khc. Hc Giao Tip cn l hc cch th hin c tnh, con ngi bn trong ca mnh mt cch n gin, d chp nhn v khng gy kh chu cho ngi khc. Hc Giao tip cn l vic rn luyn lin tc cc cch thc lm hi lng ngi khc m khng lm mt i nhng quyn li ca bn thn. Hc Giao tip cn l vic hc cch kim sot bn thn mnh khng gy phin h hoc tn thng cho ngi khc. Giao tip C Bn 1. Trong giao tip, bn phi lun gi bn thn mnh sch s v khng c mi kh chu. Hai b phn cn ch nht l bn tay v ming. Tay phi sch v ming khng hi. l l do bn nn c nc ra tay v bnh xt thm ming thng xuyn trong gi sch. 2. Bn khng bc bc n gn ngi khc m khng bo trc bng nh mt, tay hay li ni. Khng bc vo phm vi an ton ca ngi khc (c ly 1 bc chn) nu khng phi bn b thn thit. Cm k chm vo c th ngi khc khi cha c s ng ca ngi khc. Nhng hnh vi nh v vai, xoa u, nh vo lng ch c th c thc hin khi c hai u cng nhn nhau l bn b thn thit. 3. Bn buc phi ni li Xin li khi A. Bn buc ngi khc phi lm mt hnh ng khng mong mun hay khng tnh ton trc. ( v d: trnh ng cho bn, tr li cu hi ca bn, ly gim bn ci g ) B. Bn chn ngang tm nhn hay cn ng di chuyn ca ngi khc. C. Bn lm phin, gy nh hng v lm mt thi gian ca ngi khc bng nhng hnh ng ca mnh. Lu : Khng phi bn c li th mi xin li. Xin li l hnh vi vn minh chng t bn bit hnh ng ca mnh gy ra iu khng mong i cho ngi khc. Trng hp bn tht s c li, th khi li xin li buc phi i km hnh ng khc phc hu qu, li ha khng ti phm v c li xin li phi cs chp nhn ca ngi c xin li. 4. Bn buc phi ni li Cm n khi ngi khc lm bt c iu g cho bn, bt k c phi l nhim v ca h hay khng. Ngay c khi h lm iu v li ch ca h, bn vn phi cm n v rt cuc, n vn em li li ch cho bn. Vit Nam, bn b thn thit hay ngi trong gia nh t khi cm n nhau, nhng trong cc trng hp ny, bn cng cn phi ni li cm n, v n th hin s bit n ca bn. S bit n ng vai tr rt quan trng trong vic xy dng mt tm hn bnh yn v mt nhn cch tt. 5. Trong cc tnh hung thng thng, bn nn lu gi khong cch vi ngi xung quanh. Khng ng qu gn h tr bn b thn thit. Nu phi tin li gn ai nh bc vo thang my, xp hng, bn nn xin li trc. C ly giao tip ng vai tr rt quan trng trong giao tip. Nu l khch hng hoc mi quan h x giao, bn nn cch h tm 2 cnh tay, tc l bn phi to cho h mt khng gian di chuyn v hot ng thoi mi. Mt s trng hp khc s i hi nhng c ly khc nhau tuy nhin u c im chung l phi to khong khng thoi mi nht cho ngi khc thc thi cc hot ng ca h/ Ch 2 : Mi quan h tt l g? Mi quan h tt gia + Hng dn vin v khch du lch. + Ch nh v Khch du lch.. Ti sao vic xy dng mi quan h tt li quan trng? 1. Mi trng thn thin 2. Thc y tri nghim vn ha 3. Xc nh cc nhu cu ca khch d hn 4. Nhiu c hi hn 5. Lm qu trnh x l phn nn d dng hn Lm th no xy dng mi quan h tt vi khch? 1. Hy thn thin 2. Xc nh khch cn v mun g 3. Chia x cc cu chuyn hay, thng tin th v 4. Thng bo cho khch cc dch v 5. Lun ti ci v ngh gip khch 6. X l phn nn nhanh chng v trit Nhng iu nn lm khi xy dng quan h 1. n mc p 2. Ti ci 3. Cho v bt tay chn thnh 4. Nn nhn khch khi tr chuyn 5. Xng h tn ring 6. Ni to nghe 7. Nh tn v mt 8. Nghe chm ch v din gii cc cu hi hay i hi ca khch 9. T tin Nhng iu khng nn lm khi xy dng mi quan h - Ni nh qu - T ra qu thc dng - (v d bn hng) - T ra xin x - Pht l khch - Th l vi khch - Mt t tin Ch 3: Giao tip vi khch du lch Ti sao vic giao tip li quan trng? 1. Hiu nhau 2. Mi cho/ bn cc dch v cho khch 3. Trnh cc phin h 4. To mi trng tt p 5. p ng nhu cu thng tin ca khch. Nhng cch giao tip thng dng 1. Ngn ng c th 2. Hnh nh 3. Ni 4. Vit Nhng cn tr trong giao tip 1. Phong cch v tnh cch ca bn 2. Thiu chun b, trnh by ti 3. Thiu r rng 4. Ngi nghe khng sn sng nhn thng tin 5. Qu nhiu thng tin 6. Yu t sao nhng, v d ting n Cch vt qua cc ro cn 1. Ro cn vt l: luyn dng cch giao tip trc tip thng xuyn hn 2. Ro cn v nhn thc: tha nhn chng ta c nhng gi tr khc nhau 3. Ro cn v cm xc: xy dng lng tin 4. Ro cn v vn ha: tha nhn chng ta theo nhiu nn vn ha 5. Ro cn v ngn ng: dng ngn ng c th, c ch. Ch 4: Chu v Chu u Chu u: nhn vo mt nhau = ci m, thnh tht Trung ng: Thn thin nhng cn tn trng s ring t. ng ng chm vo nhau khi giao tip. Chu : nhn lu vo mt nhau = du hiu th l Nu khch lm iu g khin bn b tn thng ... 1. Ni trc cho khch bit v nn vn ha bn a v thng l 2. Nu khch lm g l k, hy nhc nh vi h quan im ca bn 3. Hy rng lng v ng ni cu 4. Ngn chn khng ti din Nu bn lm iu g khin khch b tn thng ... 1. Tho lun vi khch v vn ny 2. Gii thch v vn ha ca bn v xin li khch 3. Khng ti din Ch 5: X l phn nn Ti sao khch phn nn? 1. Cung cp sai thng tin 2. Dch v km 3. Khng hi lng v tour 4. B p gi Khch cn g khi phn nn? 1. Nhu cu c nhn: 2. c ngi khc nghe 3. Hiu h 4. Tn trng h Nhu cu lin quan n li phn nn: 1. Gii quyt c vn 2. C c ci h b t chi 3. C hnh ng gii quyt vn X l phn theo phng php HEAT 1. Hear ( Nghe) 2. Empathize (Thng cm) 3. Apologize(xin li) 4. Take action (gii quyt)