Assertive: "We were supposed to meet at 11:30, but it's now 11:50. Now I have less time to spend (with you) because I need to get back to the office in 20 minutes."
Argumentative: "You're so rude! __________)
Assertive: "I'd really appreciate it if you'd stop that." (I message)
Argumentative: "You need to stop that!" (You message)