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Kimberly Sanchez
English 201
18 July 2017
I. Domestic violence should not be considered a womens issue, but rather a mens
issue.
A. Toxic masculinity
themselves
just leave?
II. To understand that domestic violence is a mens issue, we must understand the term
toxic masculinity.
(Miniter, Frank)
B. See collectively, we as men are taught to have less value in women, to view
C. Even from the creation of earth, according to the Christian bible, Eve was
created from Adams rib and solely for the purpose of company.
D. in domestic violence, men have been largely erased from so much of the
E. The sentence has gone from the central focus of John to Mary: John beat
F. Manhood comes with huge expectations: good job, big house, nice car,
attractive wife. When one of these things does not come into factor and the
man is set to believe things must come out his way in order to be successful, a
III. We would be lying if we said culture did not affect a mans perspective and role
identity.
B. In Mexican culture, men are expected to take care of the women and take her
away from her household and provide her with a better life.
E. Culture has significantly impact the role of man throughout our lifetime.
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IV. Most domestic violence abusers were once subject to violence during their childhoos
A. Studies now indicate that about one-third of people who are abused in
C. Daddy learned this behavior from his mother. (Shattered and beaten)
D. My parents both grew up in violent homes. Even before I was born I knew I
E. Alicia was given this fate, passed down from generation to generation,
F. Men violent with their intimate partners were very likely victims of violence
G. Children minds are like sponges, they absorb everything they see, hear, and
children, who eventually grow up thinking the violent environment they are in
is normal. Daddy hits mommy because she doesnt have a clean home,
daddy just wants us to live in a clean house; daddy cares for us.
V. When we think about domestic violence, we think about the women: Why doesnt
A. We fail to ask about the men. As if the only reason the violence started was
B. each day in the United States, more than three women are murdered by
their husbands or boyfriends and statistics show 85% of women stay in violent
C. Most women are scared to leave their abusers because they feel is they leave
the situation could get worse, even resulting in death. They feel they can
D. Conor used my anger as an excuse to put both his hands around my neck
and to squeeze so tightly that I could not breathe or move. (Steiner, Leslie)
E. Some women stay because they would rather take the abuse than to allow
F. Some women just simply do not feel they have anywhere else to go. They feel
G. In the story Shattered and Beaten, Barbara decides to stay in the abusive
dormant during the first few years of Alicias birth. People want to believe
that people can change, that promises can be kept; this is not the case for
everyone.
doesnt she just leave? But what we should really be asking is: Why has he
VI. In order to bring awareness of the mens issue of domestic violence a few solutions
A. Men need to break free from the man box. (Porter, Tony)
need to be role models for the men listening. Men with power are looked upon
E. Communities need to build programs and advocate towards men who have
F. Having these solutions, lectures, conferences, and awareness will help guide
mens issue.