Tao laban sa Tao

Malinaw na nailahad sa pelikulang ito ang hidwaan sa pagitan ng magkapatid, mag-ina, mag-asawa at maging sa
magkakaibigan.

Hidwaang Mag-ina
Yes Mom can we please dont talk about her. Cause they dont want to be here

Pagsusumamo ni Jessie.

Wala rito ang kapatid mo dahil Putol na pahayag ni Amy

Kasalanan ko! Common say it,its my fault. Kung di ko sana kayo sinuway eh di sana nandito pa si Joanna. Ako may
kasalanan di ba? Eh di sana nandito pa siya hanggang ngayon. Ano? Kasalanan ko di ba? Kasalanan ko. No! Sige na!
Sabihin niyo na sa akin na kasalanan ko ito! Kasalanan ko kung bakit niya tayo kinalimutan. Kasalanan ko kung bakit
hindi siya sumama sa atin. Kasalanan ko kung bakit ibang pamilya ang pinili niya. Kasalanan ko ito! Kasalanan
kotong lahat! Ayan Mommy inamin ko na. Ehhhkaw? Kailan mo aaminin na ikaw ang dahilan kung bakit
nagkandaletsi-letsi ang pamilyang ito?Naibulalas ni Jessiesa tindi ng nadarama.
Pagkatapos niya iyong maibulalas ay isang sampal ang natanggap niya mula sa ina. Mahihinuha natin sa sagutanng
mag-ina na matagal ng ikinukubli ni Jessie ang bigat sadibdib dahil alam niyang siya ang sinisisi ng kanyang ina
sapagkawala ni Joanna. Kaya nabigyan siya ng pagkakataong mailabas ang tunay na saloobin sa ina. Sa kabilang
banda naman, ayaw naman direktang sabihin ni Amy sa anak nasiya ang sinisisi nito. Ngunit magkaganun pa
man,naipakikita naman niya rito sa pamamagitan ng kanyangmga kilos ang matamlay na pagtrato niya rito.

Hidwaang magkapatid.

Ana! I told you not to touch my things pagalit na saad ni Jessie.

Ate sandali. Ate sorry gusto ko lang naman Putol na pahayag niJoanna.

Gusto mong agawin lahat sa akin! ani Jessie. Hindi ate! Wala akong balak agawin Pagsusumamo ni
Joanna.
Sinungaling ka talaga. Alam mo bang bata pa lang tayo mang-aagaw ka na hanggang ngayon mang-aagaw ka pa
rin ! dagdag ni Jessie.
Akala ko kasi ate matutuwa ka ehh.. nanginginig na sambit niJoanna.
Mukha ba akong natutuwa? Pakialamira ka ehh. Ginugulo mo lahat. Gusto mo kasama ka sa lahat. You want to be
friends with my friends? You cant! Because they dont like you.
You want to be part of the swimming team? You cant! Because hindi ka namin kailangan!
You want to be part of everything I am? You cant!
Dahil ayoko ! tuloy-tuloyna pahayag ni Jessie.
Jessie, puwede bang kumalma ka lang? Ganyan ka ba magalit
dahil sa isang laruan lang? Ang O.A mong mag-react. Puwede bang easy ka lang okey ?
Awat ng kanilang nakatatandang kapatid na lalaki.
Dont tell me to take it easy. Because you dont know how I feel
Huling pahayag ni Jessie.

Sa batuhan ng mga pahayag ng magkakapatid,makikita natin ang tindi ng galit na nararamdaman ni Jessiesa
kanyang kapatid na si Joanna dahil iniisip nitong naisagawin ng huli ang kung ano man ang mayroon
siya.Mapapansin rin natin na nais lang naman sana ni Joanna namapasaya ang kapatid ngunit iba pala ang magiging
kapalitnito. Umawat naman ang kanilang kuya sa kanila ng saganun maibsan nang kaunti ang tensyon sa pagitan
nila.
Technically speaking, divorce by definition nullifies marriage. For me, it defeats the purpose of getting married. In a wider sense, I do not approve of
divorce because there is annulment and I believe it is enough if marriage is not working between the couple. Divorce would be the primary hindrance
in promoting family values. The problem is women and children are constantly getting abused, so if that is the case, will separation be enough? I
believe if we really want to end the problem regarding abuses, we should rather penalize the wrong actions. But most of all, uplifting morals and
values would be the long term key towards this problem.
According to my interviewee, divorce nullifies the whole sanctity of marriage. It completely eradicates the peoples values and it makes people
vulnerable for the fact that it makes people lax that there will always be a way out of a marriage, by this; divorce is foreseen as a solution to every
marriage problem there is present. I believe that the sanctity of marriage should be kept, but what about those people who are in an abusive
relationship? Will we let him or her be stuck in a marriage she/he is not happy in? I strongly believe that marriage makes the world go round. It is the
happiness to both couples ( at least for starters). And it completely sacrifices the single lives of both couples. This single life is more often than not
missed by both of them, that is why there is a presence of a little bit of resentment. I believe that it has been the case ever since marriage and
commitment is invented. Commitment is a big thing and as clich as it may possibly sound, commitment is big responsibility. It does entail having a
big responsibility because it makes use of commitment and love with one another.
In my poll that I have posted here in my blogger site, 83 % said yes to divorce while 16 % said no to divorce. This only says that no matter
what race or what religion, it will always be human nature to be self-greedy, to think about oneself first before others. Divorce, though, is not being
greedy, it is being safe and it is giving you a new chance to live life the way you want to live it. I believe that divorce is a life yet to be lived by those
who need it, not by those who want it. There is always a fine line between needs and wants, by now you should have known the pros and cons of
divorce. What do you think? Do you think it is a need or a want? Do you think it is morality or pure personal will and greed? I continue to stand firm
on my belief that divorce is a choice not an obligation. It is a form of help not the sole solution. It is the epitome of freedom in a sense of necessity.
Divorce is pro-choice, pro-chances and pro-change.
Commuting with four carpool buddies offers ample opportunity to discuss life, so one day I posed the question: whats
the difference between commitment and faithfulness? After a few rounds of debate the jury was in: commitment is our
intent to stay in relationship with our wives; faithfulness is the practice of doing so.
That said, lets admit that a committed spouse is not necessarily a faithful spouse. Men in particular succumb to
the idea that they can have their Kate and Edith too. Kate is the stable spouse with whom they raise kids, attend church,
and go gray with over time. Edith represents the workplace friendship or sexual fling. In their mind they are
committed to both, but in practice, faithful to neither.
What is Commitment?
If it is not a guarantee for faithfulness, whats it worth? But commitment has much worth. Commitment is like training
for a race. Training doesnt guarantee winning, but it brings a host of benefits.
Research tells us that the more deeply people are committed to their spouse and marriage, the more likely they are to:
sacrifice for the sake of their marriage
report that they are satisfied with their relationship
feel less trapped in their marriage
enjoy longer-lasting marriages
They also tend not to scan the horizon for alternative partners.
Commitment transforms our talk
Commitment translates powerfully into our marriages through our talk. Dave and Michelle live on the west coast where
Dave serves as discipleship coordinator at a Christian college and Michelle recently left a pastoral role to take care of
Jonas, their first-born. Here's an example of what their commitment to each other looks like:
I woke up at 5 a.m. and spent time with Jonas who was crying so Michelle could get an hour of peaceful sleep. I gave
her a call from the office half way through the day. She e-mailed me and told me she appreciated my help around the
house.
Dave and Michelles manner reflects a tall stack of married couple research. Committed couples tend be more
emotionally supportive than uncommitted ones. They know when their spouse is hurt, or crabby, or elated, and they
validate those feelings as genuine and legitimate. Unsupportive spouses challenge their mates feelings with statements
such as You shouldnt feel that way, or Quit feeling sorry for yourself.
People who are committed also share their thoughts deeply. They go beyond the weather and sports to describe what
they're thinking, feeling, dreaming, and planning. However, couples who believe that their spouses should be able to
mind read (i.e., know what they are thinking without having to tell them) struggle relationally.
Committed Couples Enjoy Expressive Interaction
Their behavior shows affection, empathy, and the kind of warmth toward each other that translates into feelings of
companionship, sexual responsiveness, and support. In other words, committed partners engage. They put down the
paper, turn off the TV, offer two-eye attention and connect with their spouse.
Committed spouses also pay more attention to little things to show their love and concern. Michelle and Dave agreed
that simply saying, I love you, phoning during the day, or going on dates affirms their commitment. They also write
notes, rub each others feet, pray together, and try to listen well. Conveying commitment isnt showy, but subtle and
common. But we still have to do it.