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6 Developing Credibility 14
7 Emotions 23
8 Identifying Emotions 27
Impact 29
Introduction
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being Emotionally street-smart Introduction
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being Emotionally street-smart Hierarchy of Needs & Wants
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being Emotionally street-smart Hierarchy of Needs & Wants
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being Emotionally street-smart Barter way of life
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being Emotionally street-smart Barter way of life
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being Emotionally street-smart Barter way of life
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being Emotionally street-smart Credibility currency for
barter
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being Emotionally street-smart Credibility currency for
barter
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being Emotionally street-smart Understanding advanced
Needs
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being Emotionally street-smart Understanding advanced
Needs
Love
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being Emotionally street-smart Understanding advanced
Needs
Respect
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being Emotionally street-smart Understanding advanced
Needs
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being Emotionally street-smart Developing Credibility
Developing Credibility
Credibility is what makes you capable (in eyes of
others) of delivering expectations and hence,
worthy of investment by others to help you
satisfy your Needs. We will explore the potential
of two methods of satisfying the same.
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being Emotionally street-smart Developing Credibility
Credibility Exchange
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being Emotionally street-smart Developing Credibility
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being Emotionally street-smart Developing Credibility
Level of closeness
Needs involved in relationship
Relationship in barter - all (Level of Credibility
Needs involved Exchange; High-
Medium-Low)
Friendship
Boss
Spouse
Children
Best Friend
Extra marital
affair
Colleague
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being Emotionally street-smart Developing Credibility
Team Member
Sibling
Teacher
Student
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being Emotionally street-smart Developing Credibility
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being Emotionally street-smart Developing Credibility
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being Emotionally street-smart Developing Credibility
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being Emotionally street-smart Developing Credibility
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being Emotionally street-smart Emotions
Emotions
Out of all the experiences we carry, our journey
with Emotions is the oldest. Emotions have been
with us since birth and we all have our
understanding and Individual theory about what
they are, how they work, how to make the best
of them, etc. The simple way Emotions can be
defined is representation of satisfied or
unsatisfied Needs. When you Desire something
and achieve more than expected, you experience
positive Emotions like joy, happiness, delight,
etc. and in the event of not achieving what is
Desired, you experience negative Emotions like
sadness, anger, frustration, etc.
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being Emotionally street-smart Emotions
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being Emotionally street-smart Emotions
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being Emotionally street-smart Emotions
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being Emotionally street-smart Identifying Emotions
Identifying Emotions
While we understand basics of what Emotions
are and how they work, to master understanding
of Emotions it is very essential to articulate your
experiences accurately and name the Emotion
you are feeling. Once we learn to identify and
name an experience as an Emotion, it becomes
much easier to determine the origin of the
Emotion; i.e. to determine which achievement is
not in sync with which Desire expected and is
far away in which direction. This realization
helps us improve our Individual theory making it
more realistic.
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being Emotionally street-smart Identifying Emotions
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being Emotionally street-smart Risk taking appetite The
Emotional impact
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being Emotionally street-smart Risk taking appetite The
Emotional impact
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being Emotionally street-smart Experiencing negative
Emotions Manage v/s
Control
Manage Control
According to According to
Dictionary.com, Dictionary.com, Control is:
Management is: To exercise restraint or
direction over; dominate;
The act or manner of command.
managing; handling,
direction. To hold in check; curb: to
control a horse; to control
Forecasting one's emotions.
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being Emotionally street-smart Experiencing negative
Emotions Manage v/s
Control
Commanding
Coordinating
Reaction to undesired: Reaction to undesired:
Accept, give it what it needs Suppress, Ignore, Avoid
and then move on to what and focus on what is
is desired. desired
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being Emotionally street-smart Experiencing negative
Emotions Manage v/s
Control
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being Emotionally street-smart Ever growing Needs and role
of Emotions a complex
system
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being Emotionally street-smart Ever growing Needs and role
of Emotions a complex
system
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being Emotionally street-smart Ever growing Needs and role
of Emotions a complex
system
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being Emotionally street-smart Ever growing Needs and role
of Emotions a complex
system
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being Emotionally street-smart Ever growing Needs and role
of Emotions a complex
system
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being Emotionally street-smart The classic conflict Heart or
Brain
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being Emotionally street-smart The classic conflict Heart or
Brain
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being Emotionally street-smart The classic conflict Heart or
Brain
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Notes
References
1. http://www.emotionalcompetency.com/nee
d.htm
2. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Maslow%27s
_hierarchy_of_needs
3. http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/l
ove?s=t
4. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Maslow%27s
_hierarchy_of_needs
5. http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/r
espect?s=t
6. http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/c
ulture?s=t
7. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Maslow%27s
_hierarchy_of_needs
8. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Maslow%27s
_hierarchy_of_needs
9. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Contrasting
_and_categorization_of_emotions
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