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1. Chp nhn mi th nh vn d n vy. ng hi vng tnh hung hay s vic s

khc i. ng c gng thay i n, hy i u vi thc t.
2. Chu trch nhim. Bn phi chu trch nhim cho suy ngh v hnh ng ca bn.
3. Hy hnh ng bi chnh bn, khng phi gi. Bn khng th thay i ngi khc,
bn ch c th thay i chnh mnh.
4. Khng ku ca phn nn. Khi ti ku ca phn nn v mt th g , ti khng thy
c trch nhim i vi n. iu thc s khng tt, hy dng vic ku ca phn
nn, tm ra nhng th cn tr bn v khc phc n.
5. Xy dng mt hnh nh mnh m, mt hnh nh m bn yu thch. Hy xc nh r
rng hnh nh m bn mong mun tr thnh. Hy t hi mnh ti mun tr thnh
ngi nh th no. Lun mng tng mt cch r rng v sinh ng nht bn
lun cm thy chnh bn thn bn ang sng nh vy.
6. Gi nhng tiu chun ca ring bn. i khi bn khng nhn c s ng tnh
ca nhng ngi khc , nhng bn c th t tt c nhng ngi khc sang mt
bn. Bn ang cnh tranh vi chnh mnh gi nhng tiu chun ca bn, khng
phi tiu chun ca ngi khc.
Hy nh rng quyn quyt nh l ca ring bn. ng lo lng ngi khc s cm
nhn v nh hng th no. l cuc sng ca bn v bn c trch nhim lm
bt c iu g m bn cho l ng c v t c cuc sng m bn mong
mun.
7. Dng quan tm n nhng vic lt vt. Nu ngi khc khng chp thun nhng
ci m bn lm sau th l vn ca h, khng phi ca bn. ng th phn
tch hay suy ngh nhiu v n. Nu c y khng thch bn, l s mt mt ca c
y, khng phi ca bn ( hoc c y l les). Ti c th cho c y nhiu th hn l
c y c th cho ti.
8. B i khi nim tht bi bng cch hc hi t n. Khng cn phi vn hoa nhiu
v s tht bi. Bn khng tht bi l mt bi hc m bn cn phi hc lm
sao khng lp li n. Phn tch mt cch hp l, bn s thy rng bi hc m bn
hc c gi tr hn rt nhiu so vi chi ph m bn phi tr.
9. So snh s thnh cng v tin b ca bn vi chnh mnh, khng phi vi ngi
khc. Bn ch nn quan tm n nhng th m bn mun t c, khng nn
quan tm n vic nh bi hay vt qua ngi khc. Hy c con ng ca ring
bn v kin nh vi n. Tp trung vo mc tiu cui cng ca ring bn v kt
qu m bn mun. Cnh tranh vi chnh bn thn bn v ng lo lng v vic nh
bi nhng ngi khc. Ci thin bn thn nng tm bn thn ln mt cp cao
hn.
ng chi ngi khc v nhng tin b ca h, Hy hc hi t h. Khng ghen t
vi kt qu ca h. Ch cn tp trung vo nhng g ng n v cn thit t
c mc tiu cui cng ca bn. So snh s tin b ca bn vi chnh mnh v
ng lo lng v nhng ngi khc. Ch cn ngh mt cch trung thc rng ti
lm nhng g tt nht c th.
10. Lin tc hc hi v c thc tm kim ng cp tip theo. Hy lun quan tm n
ng cp tip theo n l g v lm th no bn t c n. Tm v kt bn
vi nhng ngi khng quan tm n cp hin nay ca bn v h mt ng
cp cao hn bn.
11. T nhn bn thn nh mt ngi c a v cao. Xy dng hnh nh bn thn nh
vy. Lun thc v hng ti khi nim bn l ngi c a v cao trong x hi.
ng quan tm n nhng ngi khc ngh g v bn. Hy lm mi ngi xung
quanh ci, bn s nh ngi sao v c c s ch . Lm cho mi th tht vui v
v kt ni mi ngi, lm cho mi ngi ci v chnh bn thn mnh cng s vui
v.
12. Dng xin li. Bn khng bao gi nn xin li c c s chp thun ca ngi
khc. Mi ngi s tn trng bn khi bn bit xin li th no vo ng thi im.
o cn quan tm g c. Khng cn tm kim s ng thun, hy lm nhng g bn
mun,
13. Dng ngay lp tc tm kim s ng thun. iu ny ghit cht s hp dn.
Khng cn xin php hoc tm kim s xc nhn bn ngoi. Hy lm nhng g bn
mun lm, khng phi iu m ngi khc mong i bn lm. Khng tm kim s
 ng thun bn ngoi c ngha l bn t tin vo bn thn v quyt nh ca bn.
iu ny l cc k hp dn ph n.
Mt s ngi chi khng thua v mt s ngi chi ginh chin thng. C
th khng phi lun lun d dng, nhng hy l ngi chi dnh chin thng.
Nhng quyt nh ng thng khng phi l quyt nh d nht v quyt nh d
nht thng khng phi l quyt nh ng. l cuc sng ca bn v bn phi
c trch nhim vi n, khng phi bt k ai khc. V vy hy lm iu ng.
14. Dng vic chp thun t c mt ci g . Hy mi ngi tm kim s
tn trng v chp thun ca bn. N nn l phn thng khi h tm kim n. ng
ly ct t ngi khc, v khng lm nhng iu s gip bn c c s ng
ca h.
15. Dng vic mc c t c s ng thun. Hy tr nn ch ng v lnh o.
Hy tr thnh ngi tch cc chi phi ngi khc. cho mi ngi tm kim s
ch ca bn v lm theo bn trc khi bn tng cho h s tn trng. ng tn
trng mi ngi ch h tn trng bn, hy h tm kim iu .
16. Phn bit r qu kh, hin ti v tng lai. Cuc sng bn ang sng l hin ti.
Hy xem xt ngn hn, trung hn, di hn v s hi lng lu di ca tt c mi th
m bn ang lm. Hy lm nhng g bn cho l ng v lu di. Sng cho thi
im hin ti. Bn lun c khuynh hng nh gi qu cao s mt mt hoc phn
thng trong tng lai. Khng sng trong s hi mt iu g . Ch cn i ph
vi n khi n pht sinh. ng lo lng gii quyt cc vn trong tng lai trc
khi chng pht sinh.
17. m mnh vi cc m hnh thnh cng vi nhng ngi, sch hoc video. Ly
cm hng v bao quanh mnh vi thnh cng v tm nhn ca nhng g bn mun
t c trong tng lai. Hy hnh dung mi th, pht trin thc. ng lm bt
c iu g m ko h ch. Tp trung vo s thnh cng v nhng g bn mun t
c trong thi gian di.
18. Bit con ng v mc tiu ca bn trong cuc sng v theo st n. Nh rng
nhng th bn ang lm l tt c. Tp trung vo. Ghi nh nguyn tc 80/20 v tp
trung vo 20% nhng iu em li 80% thnh cng cho nhng mc tiu ca bn.
 Khng nn c bt k s sao lng no xuyn sut con ng m bn mun t
c
Bt k ngi no c gng ui theo 2 con th th s khng thu c g. Hy nh,
khng c tham lam. Tp trung lm mt vic ti mt thi im, iu em li
hiu qu cao.
19. i du lch, khm ph cc a im mi v cc nn vn ha. Hc t h v gp g
nhng ngi mi, m rng tm nhn ca bn. Ln danh sch tt c nhng th bn
cn hc v thc hin n.
20. Mi ngy => tm thy trung tm ca bn. Tr thnh trung tm v lm cho bn tr
thnh trung tm. Chm vo tng cuc sng ca bn. Thin, Hc cch kim sot
suy ngh ca bn. Nhn thy hi th ca bn v hc cch kim sot n. Lm cho
m hnh ca bn thc t nht c th v bin n thnh trung tm cuc sng ca bn.
21. Tp trung vo cc k nng ct li ca bn. tr chi bn trong v chin thut ca
bn s c pht huy. ng lun tm kim s hi lng ngay lp tc. Hy vch
thi gian hc nhng iu ng n v lm nhng th cn phi lm.
22. Chp nhn v nm ly nhng iu lo ngi nh mt c hi nhn thy nhng th
mi m nh nhng ngi mi. Khi bn lm iu g mi, bn c ra khi lnh
vc ca bn. Hy lm nhng g bn cho l ng. ng lo lng v vic bn s
trng nh th no nu bn tht bi hoc mi ngi s ni g. Ch lm n khi bn
cn phi lm n. Bn s ch hc hi c t vic thc hnh mt cch ng n.
Hy kin tr, tm hiu v nm ly thi k qu . Bin n thnh mt tr chi, so
snh vi chnh bn thn bn. Lo u l mt trng thi t nhin ca qu trnh chuyn
i.
23. Tm hiu tn hng nim vui ca qu trnh tm hiu nhiu hn l kt qu ca
vic tm hiu.
24. Ngay lp tc dy ngi khc tt c nhng iu tuyt vi m bn hc c. Nu
bn dy, bn s hiu v tip thu n nhanh hn rt nhiu. C th vit blog v nhng
iu bn hc c, c mt qun s ring hoc ni iu vi mt ngi bn.
25. Khng bao gi chi ra, rn r hay ku ca phn nn. Lun lun nh iu .
ch l ci nhn ca bn v s vt, s vic m khng phi thc t n l nh vy.
26. Th hin khch quan nhng iu xu xa ca bn bn iu khin n thay v n
iu khin bn. Nhiu th bn khng kim sot c ton b, ng lo lng v iu
, v hc cch m bo rng n s khng bao gi iu khin c bn.
27. Tr thnh ch k, nh bn c th tr nn ho phng. t bn thn l u tin
hng u trong cuc sng v lm nhng g ng n cho bn thn bn t c
nhng mc tiu m bn mun t c. Hy c lp v tp trung vo chnh bn
thn bn.
28. m mnh vi cc tm gng thnh cng v loi b cc tm gng tht bi t
cuc sng v tm tr bn.
29. Tip tc lm nhng vic thnh cng v dng lm nhng vic khng thnh cng.
ng cho rng, th xem chng c thnh cng hay khng. Chia nhng th th
nghim v nh du thnh ngi chin thng. Ch tm vo nhng bi hc m
bn hc c, vit chng ra v lm nhiu hn bt k ci g khc, nu khng thnh
cng, loi b n khi cuc sng v tm tr bn.
30. Duy tr s im tnh ca bn. Kim sot cm xc ca bn. Tr nn cn bng. Nu
bn nh mt cm xc ca bn v mt iu g , iu c ngha bn phi lm
n. Nu nhng ngi khc ni khng/hong lon/s hi, thay vo bn phi tr
nn bnh tnh vi 1 ci u lnh.
31. Chng t bn thn bn ht ln ny n ln khc rng bn c th i ph vi s t
chi. Hy nh rng nu mt c gi khng mun bn, l s mt mt ca c y
ch khng phi ca bn. Bn c th mang li cho c y nhiu th hn l c y c
th mang li cho bn. Nu c y khng mun ti, l sai lm ca c y hoc c
y l les :D
32. Hc cch hi sinh s tha mn ngn hn cho thnh cng lu di. Ln chin lc
t c nhng mc tiu v nhng mc c th. Quyt nh ci g bn cn lm,
lm th no lm n v bt c iu g t c mc tiu trn, k c vic hi
sinh nhng s thoi mi trong ngn hn. V khng gi v lm mt ci g ,
lm iu vi tt c s tp trung v n lc thc s.
33. Hc cch vui v v khng ti nhng g xy ra xung quanh bn. Bn to nn
thc t ca bn. Hy vui v ln
34. Gi tr bn thn v thi gian ca bn quan trng hn bt k ngi ph n no
khc. t u tin bn thn bn ln u tin v trc bt k ai. Khng chp nhn
bt c s thiu tn trng no vi bn hoc thi gian ca bn. Lun lun lm mt
phn tch nh gi v u tin lm nhng ci g mang li gi tr tt nht.
35. Pht trin nhn thc ca bn. Hnh thnh mt tm nhn, tm nhn 360 (i khi
l nhn ra tt c xung quanh)
36. Hc cch kim sot cm xc ca bn. Lm sao lun trong trng thi hnh phc
v vui v. Chu trch nhim v cm xc ca bn v khng cho bt k yu t bn
ngoi no tc ng n n.
37. Tr thnh trung thc v ng tin cy mt cch ng kinh ngc. Hy trc tip v
thng thn ni vi mi ngi nn lm th no. Nu h lm iu g sai hoc mt
ci g bn khng chp nhn, hy ni cho h bit
38. Tm hiu xc nh a v x hi ca ngi khc bng s giao tip v ngn ng
c th. Nhn i ch khc trong khi ni l mt du hiu ca a v cao. Tip xc vi
nhng ngi lnh o v kt bn vi h. Tr thnh ging nh h.
39. Tr thnh chuyn gia trong nhng tr chi t di la bn thn ca bn. Ghi nht
k v lm nhng ci m bn thy cn phi hon thnh.
40. Cn bng gia hc tp, thc hnh v thc hin. Hc => lm => phn tch => ci
thin => lp li. Thc hnh hon ho lm nn mt ngi n ng hon ho. V
thc hnh hon ho l lm mi th nghim t v lun tinh chnh mi th t ti
cp tip theo. Lm mt cch ng n, khng gi v lm bn ang lm n.
41. Khng ngng ci thin bn thn. Hy bt u, th nghim, ri ci thin n. Tip
tc ti u bt c iu g bn lm. Bn khng phi hon ho, tip tc qu trnh
s c tc ng ln n thnh cng chung ca bn, v thc y thnh cng ca bn
ti mt ng cp cao hn.
42. Dng vic tng tng im mnh v im yu ca bn trn nhng ngi khc.
Lm mt danh sch nhng ngi bn ght v nhng ngi bn khm phc. Sau
lit k nhng iu m bn ght hoc ngng m h. Sau lm nhng iu m
bn ngng m ngi khc nh mt thi quen ca bn v c gng loi b nhng
g m bn ght ngi khc.
43. Loi b tt c nhng thi quen tiu cc v bt u thch nghi vi nhng thi quen
tch cc trong cuc sng ca bn. thc rng nhng thi quen l tt cho bn
thn bn, lm nhng g cn thit sa cha mi th theo cch m bn mun.
44. Nhn ra khi bn ang mt kim sot bn thn. Ch cn dng li. ng ni nhng
g tiu cc vi chnh bn, ng tr thnh nn nhn ca chnh mnh. Ch cn ngh
ngi, suy ngh logic v lm nhng g mnh cho l ng. ng ngh ngi khi bn l
cm xc tt (???)
45. To lnh th ring ca bn. o cn bit ngi khc nh th no.
46. Dn u, tm nhng ngi c tim nng cao v sau gip h t c nhng g
tt nht h c th. Truyn cm hng cho nhng ngi khc khi nhn vo bn. Lm
vic chm ch hn bt c ai khc. Lm vic thng minh hn bt c ai khc. Truyn
cm hng h t ti trnh ca bn.
47. Dng vic l tng ha ph n. Khng c ngi ph n no l c bit v c a
v cao ring. a v ca bn l cao hn. C ta s c vinh d c c bn trong
cuc i c ta v ti c th cho c ta nhiu hn nhng ci c ta c th cho ti. C
ta khng bao gi vt qua c ti, khng bao gi ht.
48. Dng vic l tng ha cc mi quan h. Khng c ngi ph n no c bit,
ngi m bn khng th khng c. Khng cho mt mi quan h nm gi cuc
sng ca bn hoc ngn chn bn lm nhng iu m bn mun t c. y l
cuc sng ca bn, khng ai s lm thay bn. Tr nn ch k vi nhng u tin ca
bn v t chng mc cao nht vo nhng g m bn mun t c. ng
bt k iu g ngn cn bn lm iu .
49. Hy vn ca c y l vn ca c y. Hy vng vng v ng manh ng.
ng c gng khc phc vn ca ai . Hy h tr nn trng thnh v
t h gii quyt vn ca mnh.
50. ng c gng em vt cht ra kim sot mt c gi. khng phi l mt
beta male. Hy cho c y kim tm nhng phn thng t bn, lun lun l
nh th.
51. Ngng c gng gy n tng vi ph n. Khng tm kim s ng thun. ng
chi tiu nhiu hn bn mun. Khng khoe khoang. Khng tng h nhng mn qu
 v s quan tm - ci m h phi c gng ginh c. Hy h c gng v hi
iu kin i vi bn.
52. Nhn cho ng. Hp thi trang, hy ti chi tit v v sinh. Ph n khng bao
gi quan trng ha nhng gi tr bn ngoi v s dng nhng logic tr con
tng tng nhng iu trn. Ch cn ch n nhng chi tit nh v cho h
n tng vi n.
53. Kim sot cm xc ca bn xung quanh ph n, l khng phn ng v h li
dng qua cc bi test ca h mt cch d dng. Hy hi mt ngi bn n nu ti
lm bt k iu g khc thng. Hy i x vi s lng m ca c y hay bt k
iu g khc thng nh l bn vi 1 a tr ( Ny, n y, ti ch bn lu
lm ri ) Hy t tin, bit giao tip bng mt, mm ci.
54. Lm cho bn thn thnh ngi th v nht v l ngi hi hc vi nhng ph n
tng gp. Tr thnh mt ng bu. Tm hiu nhng th m hp dn ph n nht
( Cold reading, personality and stuff => c nhiu tp ch ca cc c gi )
55. Thit lp cuc sng ca bn bn lin tc t ng gp g cc ph n. Hy to ra
nhng s thch, i n nhng a im m c th gp nhiu ph n trong khong
thi gian ri. Lp mt danh sch c im cc c gi v phn tch ni no c th
tm thy nhng c gi nh vy. Hnh dung nhng g bn mun v thc hin n.
56. Hy suy ngh phong ph. Hy suy ngh bn s lm th no nu c 100 ngi ph
n gi in cho bn. Bn s hnh x th no nu bn c tt c cc ty chn. Gi
v th cho n khi bn thc hin c n.
57. ng tr nn nhm chn hoc c th d on c. Hy lm nhng th in r.
Lm nhng th cho s tiu khin ca bn. i n tt cng v sng cuc sng m
bn mun sng mo him v vui v.
58. Tm hiu cch ni v k chuyn mt cch th v v bt c iu g. Hc cch lm
sao hng hi, nhit tnh v bt c iu g v ni v n mt cch vui v, hi
hc. To ra s b n v s ch i xung quanh iu v lm n nghe c v kinh
hong. S dng chin thut copywriting.
59. Hc cch lm sao tr nn t ph v hi hc. Tn tnh, tru chc gi. Hy hc
hi t James Bond. ng kiu ngo m hy hi hc. Lm n nh l s tiu khin
ca bn.
60. C nhng ngi bn n. N gip bn c s chn la trc v l mt mi quan h
x hi tt. Tr thnh chng trai m h mun c vy quanh. Cng ging nh ph
n, hy thng thc chng. L tng nht l c vi ngi trong s h ging nh
ngi ph n m bn mun c lm bn gi bn.
61. Hc cch a ph n qua cc trng thi tinh thn, cm xc v th cht. Ban cho
c y cm xc, s m tt c cc cp . To ra mt trng thi tinh thn m c
y cn. To ra mt ci gi hon ho t c y ln.
62. Tm hiu mt cch chi tit ton b qu trnh giao phi ca con ngi. Hc tng
bc m h lun lun lm v sau hc cch a h n cp tip theo.
63. Hc cch c tnh hung trc khi hnh ng hoc kt ni. Tr thnh ngi c tr
thng minh cm xc v hc hiu ng lc nhm ( group dynamics)
64. Tru chc bng mi cch m bn c th. Xy dng nhng phn ng tch cc nh
trng bn nh mt chng trai hi hc v in r, ci m h mun chnh bn
thn h
65. Hnh thnh tht. Chnh xc v o c. ng xu h hay ti li vi nhng kht
khao ca bn. Nu bn kim tra ngc ca c y v c y phn nn v iu , ch
cn ni: ti ang nhn vo nm v ca bn
66. Thit lp ranh gii cng sm cng tt. Nu c y lm iu g bn khng thch
hoc chp thun, bust her balls, hy c thnh tht m ni.
67. Nhn qua ni dung bit iu g ang thc s xy ra. nh gi h thng qua
hnh ng ca h, khng phi li ni. Hy ch . Hy nh nhng g mt bn thy,
tm tr ca bn tin rng ng iu xy ra. Lun hi, iu g ang thc s
xy ra y. Nu c y to ra mt v kch, n nh l mt i din c bn ca con
ngi c y.
68. Tham gia vo nhng cm xc v c th ca c y, khng phi tm tr c y. ng
s dng logic ph n l nhng sinh vt cm xc. Thng tr v lnh o. Lm cho
c y cm thy mi th - k nhng cu truyn, hi hc v mo him. Hy ng
chm.
69. Lm mi th mt cch mo him. N s tr nn vui v. Lm nhng iu th v.
Hy khu gi s t m, hi hc v tuyt vi.
70. Thuyt phc bn thn rng nhng iu ang xy ra l hi hc khng th tin c
v sau thuyt phc c y v n. Cn phi t vui v l mt trng thi ca tm tr
v t c mc nng lng cao hn. iu s thu ht mi ngi.
71. Lm mi th cho c y mun nhiu hn. Kt thc mi th mt nt cao v c
y s mun nhiu hn cho n. Khi c y ni mun nhiu hn, hy ni n ln gp
tip theo. Gi s mong i ca c y. Hoc, ti phi ra i.
Ngi ph n s mong i ban ph hp vi cuc gp tip theo. Thay v ngt li
ca c y v ni, hy nghe ti. Hy ni: ln ti.
72. Khi bn c mt th thch, tr li vn c bn. Cc tr chi bn trong l quan
trng nht. Khng hnh ng trong tuyt vng.
73. Khi bn bt u tht bi vi mt ph n. Dng li, li li v c y n vi bn.
To ra s khan him. Mi ngi mun ci m h khng th c. Ko kim ra khi
tay. S thn mt ny sinh s xc phm. V vy hc cch duy tr mt khong
cch.
74. Lun lun c 3 ngi bn gi m bn mun c xung quanh bn
75. Tm hiu nhng g c y thc s mun. Tru chc c y, li li v lm cho c y
thc s mun n trc khi bn tng n cho c y. Lm cho n tht vui v.
76. Hc cch lm cho cuc tr chuyn ca bn tht th v vi ph n. Nh rng c
ta khng phi i tng tr thnh bn gi. Nhng bn vn phi l mt anh
chng vui v m c y mun i chi vi. iu ny s thu ht nhng ph n khc.
77. Tm hiu nhng g ngha tr thnh ngi n ng thi k phc hng (c kin
thc trong tt c cc lnh vc). Tr thnh ngi n ng ca nhng cuc phiu lu
(mo him). Trau di nhng s thch v tp trung pht trin chng.
I usually pretty much hate David DeAngelos stuff and he comes off a snake oil salesman
rather than someone genuine to me. But after being poked a LOT by a friend of mine I
watched one of his videos.

Most of this stuff was curated and he was pretty weak in explaining it, so I am still not a
fan and I doubt that I will spend time on any more of his stuff. Even though he markets it
as a PUA course, it is an overall personal development product.

In any case here are the notes I made from 77 Laws of Success Videos. You will find
some nuggets in there.

1. Accept everything the way it is. Dont wish things or situations were different. Bitching
about stuff will not change it. Confront the reality.

2. Take Responsibility. You are responsible for your thoughts and actions.

3. Go to work on yourself, not women. You cannot change other people, you can only
change yourself.

4. Evict Your Inner Wussy. When I bitch or complain about things, I dont feel
responsible for them that might be a secondary pay-off for being a wussy. But it is
wrong. Stop being a wussy. Figure out whats stopping you and start working on fixing it
up.

5. Build a Powerful, capable self-image that you love. Picture of you that you carry inside
yourself. Get a clear picture of the person you want to be. Ask yourself am I the person
who I want to be? Make it as clear and vivid as possible so that you can feel yourself
living it.

6. Move your frame of reference inside. You dont have to get externation validation for
anything. You should look on the inside to figure out if everyone else is on the right page.
You are in competition with yourself and have to keep things to your own standards not
the standards of others.

Have an inner locus control Make the decisions with are right for your own life, dont
worry about how others are affected by them or will percieve them. It is your life and you
are responsible for it so do whatever is right to achieve and live the life that you want to
live.

7. Stop making identity meaning out of external events. If others disapprove of what you
do then it is their problem, not yours. Dont try to analyze it much or make a
genrealization out if it. If she doesnt like you, it is her loss not yours (or she is a
lesbian). I can provide a lot more to her than she can provide to me.

8. Eliminate failure by learning from it. Dont attach any meaning to the failure. You
have not failed I am not a failure because something has not worked out. Plus there is
no failure it is just a lesson you have learnt in how not to do it. Be logical in analysing
things. You will see that the lesson you have learnt would be far more valuable than the
cost you have paid.

9. Compare your progress and success only to yourself, not to others. You have to worry
about achieving what you want to achieve dont worry about beating other people.
Decide your path and stick to it. Run your own race. Focus on achieving your own end
goals and results that you want. Compete with yourself and dont worry about beating
others improve yourself. Take yourself to the next level.

Just dont give a fuck about others. Get motivated by their progress that they are doing
something to achieve it. Take inspiration and learn lessons. Dont envy their status or
results. Just focus on doing what is right and needs to be done to achieve your own end
goals. Just like golf, compare your progress to yourself and dont worry about
others. Just think did I do the best I could, honestly.

10. Evolve constantly and consciously always seek the next level and paradigm. Keep
looking for the next level. You have never arrived. Keep thinking what is the next
level and how do I reach there. Find and be with people who dont give a damn about
your current level because they are at a higher level than you are.

11. See yourself as high status. Build a high status self image. Go in expecting that you
will be the high status person in the room. Dont care about others because you are the
shiznit and the coolest and most awesome, fun motherfucker in the room. You are the
rockstar and will have the attention of others. Make things fun and connect people
make people smile and have fun yourself.

12. Stop Apologizing. You should never apologize to get another persons approval. It
makes people respect you when you know how to apologize at the right time. Just dont
give a fuck truly. Dont seek approval and do what you want to do and just how you want
to do it.

13. Stop Seeking Approval. Neediness kills attraction. Dont ask permission or look for
external validation. Do what you want to do and not what others expect you to do. Not
seeking external approval means having confidence in yourself and your decisions. This
is a highly attractive mindset for women and men (nohomo).
Some people play to not lose and some people play to win. Take the right decision,
which may not always be the easiest, and play to win. Right decision is not always the
easiest and the easiest decision is not always right. It is your life and you are responsible
for it, no one else. So do the right thing.

14. Stop Giving Approval in Order to Get It. Let people earn your respect and approval. It
should always be a reward when they earn it. Dont take shit from others. And dont do
things that will help you get their approval.

15. Stop Trading Status for Approval. Be in control, lead. Be the person who is net-
positive dominant. Let people earn your attention and make them go through hoops
before you give them respect. Dont respect people just to make them respect you. Let
them earn it.

16. Untangle past, present and future. Life for now and for the moment. Consider short
term, medium term and long term gratification of everything that you are about to do. Do
what is right in the long run. Live for the moment. You always tend to overestimate the
future loss or reward. Dont live in the fear of something happening. Just deal with it
when it arises. Dont worry about solving the future problems before they arise.

17. Surround yourself with success models. Be it people, books, audio or videos. Get
inspired and surround yourself with success and vision of what you want to be in
future. Visualize things. Grow consciously. Dont do anything that is of no use. Focus
on success and what you want to achieve in the long run.

18. Know your path or purpose in life and stay on it. Rememberber what you are doing it
all for. Focus. Remember 80/20 principle and focus on things that make the biggest
impact on you achieving the goals that you want to achieve. Dont have any distractions
have a tunnel vision on what you want to achieve.

Any man who tries to chase two rabbits gets none. Also, dont multitask. Focus on one
thing at a time, it is lot more efficient.

19. Travel. Explore new places and cultures. Go learn from them and meet new people.
Expand your horizons. List everything that you learn and impliment it.

20. Every day -> find your center, become centered and make yourself the center. Get in
touch with your ideal life. Meditate. learn to control your thoughts. Notice your breath
and learn to control it. Make your model and reality as real as possible and make it the
center of your life.
21. Focus on your core skills, your inner game and tactics will fall in place. Dont always
look for instant gratification. Put in the time to learn the thing properly and do what
needs to be done.

22. Accept and Embrace the transition anexiety as an opportunity to see things from a
beginners perspective automatically. When you do a new thing, you are out of your
comfort zone. Do what is right. Dont worry about how you will look when you fail or
what people will assume. Just do it if you have to do it. You will learn only by practicing
it correctly. Just keep at it learn and embrace the transitionb. Make it a game compete
with yourself. Anexiety is a natural part of transition.

23. LEarn to enjoy the process of learning more than the actual result of learning.

24. Teach others every great thing that you learn, immediately. If you teach it, you learn it
a lot faster and can internalize it much better. Maybe blog about it, have a private
mastermind or talk about it with a friend.

25. Never whine, bitch or complain. Ever. That is just your perception of things and not
really the reality of how it is.

26. Objectify your demons so that you control them instead of them controlling you.
Something you dont have control over. Dont worry about them and learn to conciously
make sure that they never control you.

27. Become selfish so that you can become generous. Make yourself a priority in your
life and do what is right for yourself and achieving the goals that you want to achieve. Be
independent and focus on yourself.

28. Surround yourself with success models and eliminate failure models from your life
and mind.

29. Keep doing what works and stop doing what doesnt. Dont assume, try and see
what works. Split test everything and stick to winners. Keep track of the lessons that you
learn, write them down and do more of whatever works. If it doesnt work, just eliminate
it from your life and mind.

30. Maintain your composure. Control your emotions. Be complete and be balanced. If
you lose your emotions on something, that means you have to work on it. If others freak
out, you instead have to become calmer and a cold-calculating machine.

31. Prove to yourself over and over that you can deal with rejection. Remember if a girl
doesnt want you, it is her loss and not yourself. You can bring a lot more into her life
than she can bring into yours. I am the shiznit. If she doesnt want me, something is
wrong with her or she is just a lesbian.

32. Learn to sacrifice short-term gratification for long term success. Do it

strategically to achieve specific goals and milestones and not just for the sake of
it. Decide what you need to do, how you are doing to do and do whatever it takes to
achieve those goals, including if it means going out of your comfort zone or making short
term sacrifices. And dont pretend to be doing something do it with full focus and real
effort. You are not mind-fucking youself. Look realistically @ things.

33. Learn ot always enjoy youself no matter what is happening around you. You make
your own reality. Make it fun.

34. Value yourself and your time more than any other women. Put your priorities first
and before anyone. Dont tolerate any disrespect of yourself or your time. Always do a
valuation analysis and do what is of highest value / priority.

35. Develop your awareness. Form a peripheral vision / 360 degree vision.

36. Learn to control your emotions. Be happy, be in a state of bliss and be fun. Take
responsibility for your emotions and dont let any external factors impact them.

37. Become unbelievably honest and authentic. Be direct and blunt tell people how it is.
If they do something wrong or something you dont approve, tell them. Call girls out if
they shit on you.

38. Learn to identify the social status of others by commiunication and body language
instantly. Looking away while taking is a high status symbol. Connect with leaders and
befirend them. Become like them.

39. Become and expert on your own self-deception games. Become aware of the games
you play with yourself. Keep a journal and do things what need need to be done, dont
mindfuck yourself.

40. Balance learning, practicing and doing. Learn -> Do -> Analyze -> Improve ->
Repeat. Pefect practice makes a man perfect. And perfect practice means taking
things seriously and always fine-tuning things to the next level. Do it the right way,
dont pretend that you are doing it.

41. Constantly improve yourself. Get started, put it to test, improve it. Keep optimizing
whatever you do. You are never perfect, keep doing things that will have major impact on
your overall success and keep pushing it to a higher level.
42. Stop projecting your strenghts and weaknesses on others. (Tip!) Make a list of people
you hate and those you admire. Then make a checklist of what you admire or hate in
them. Then make those things you admire in others as your habits conciously and try to
eliminate what you hate in others.

43. Eliminate all negative/distructive habits and start adapting positive/constructive habits
in your life. Become concious of your own habits and self, do what it takes to fix things
the way you want them to be.

44. Recognize when you are losing control of yourself. Just stop. Dont talk negatively to
yourself, dont victimize yourself. Just take a break, think logically and do what is right.
Dont think when you are emotionally high.

45. Make your territory yours. Dont take any shit from anyone.

46. Lead. Find people with high potential and then help them achieve the best they can.
Inspire others to look at you. Work harder than anyone else. Work smarter than anyone
else. Inspire them to reach your level.

47. Stop idealizing women. No woman is special or has spme specific high status. Your
status is higher. She will be privileged to have you in her life and I can provide more to
her than she can ever to me. She can never walk over me ever.

48. Stop idealizing relations. There is no special girl who you cant do without. Dont let
a relationship take over your life or stop you doing things that you want to achieve. This
is your life, no one is going to do stuff for you. Become selfish about your priorities
and put top level on what you want to achieve. Dont let anything stop you from it.

49. Let her problems be her problems. Be stable and be unreactive. Dont try to fix
someones problem for them. Just let them become mature themselves and handle their
own shit themselves.

50. Dont try to control a girl with material things. Dont be a beta male. Let her earn the
rewards always.

51. Stop trying to impress women. Dont seek validation. Dont spend more than you want
to. Dont brag. Dont give them gifts and attention that they havent earned. Make them
go through hoops and qualify to you.

52. Look the part. Be stylish, pay attention to details and be hyginic. Women never take
things at face value and use chick logic to figure things out. Just pay attention to small
details and let them be impressed with it.
53. Control your emotions around women, be unreactive and handle their shit tests easily.
Ask female friends if I do anything weird. Treat her insults or any weirdness and you
with a little kid.

(( Hey you, come over here. I have been looking for you for a while. )) Be confident,
learn the right eye contact. Smile.

54. Make yourself the msot interest and fun person a woman has ever met. Be a
showman. Learn what women are most attracted to (cold readings, personality and stuff
-> see the chick magazines).

55. Setup your life so that you are constantly meeting women autmatically. Have the right
hobbies, go to the right places and try to meet women during coffee breaks. Make a list of
the girl I would be attacted to and then analyze where you can find such a girl. Visualize
what you want and then look conciously for it.

56. Get into the abundance mindset. Think how would you behave if you had 100
women calling you. How would you behave if you had all the options. Fake it till you
make it.

57. Dont be boring or predictable. DO CRAZY SHIT. Be awesome. Do thigns for your
own amusement. Go to the extremes and live the life that you want to live be
adventurous and fun.

58. Learn how to tell and interesting story about anything. Learn how to be enthusiastic
about anything and say it in an amusing / fun way. Create mystery and anticipation
around things and make them sound awesome. Use copywriting tactics.

59. Learn how to be Cocky and Funny. Flirt. Tease her. Be a funny douche. Learn from
james bond, nip/tuck, californication and mad men. Dont be arrogant but rather a
douchebag who is a lot of fun. Do it for your own amusement.

60. Have female friends. It helps you with preselection and a good social circle. Be the
guy they want to be around with. Like women and enjoy them. Ideally have some of them
like the women youd want to have as your girl.

61. Learn to turn women on mentally, emotionally and physically. Give her emotions,
sexualize and turn her on at all levels. Create a mental state that she needs. Create a
perfect crib that will turn her on.

62. Learn the entire mating process of humans in detail. Learn the steps that they always
go through and then learn to take them to the next level.
63. Learn to read situations before acting or communcating. Become emotionally
intelligent and learn to understand group dynamics.

64. Tease in every way that you can. Build postivie responses so that you come out as that
fun and crazy guy that they want around themselves.

65. Be honest, authentic and ethical. Dont be ashamed or guilty of your desires. If you
check out her boobs and she asks, just say I am looking at your tits.

66. Set boundaries as soon as possible. If she does something that you dont like or
approve of, bust her balls. Be honest.

67. Look past the content to see what is really going on. Judge people by their
actions, not their words. Pay attentions. Remember what your eyes see, your mind
believes dont let that happen. Always ask whats really going on here. If she
creates drama, it is basically a representation of who she is as a person.

68. Engage her emotions and body, not her mind. Dont use logic girls are emotional
creatures. Dominate and leadership. Make her feel things tell stories, be fun and be
adventurous. Be physical.

69. Turn everything into an adventure. It is going to be fun. Do fun things. Be curious, be
fun and be awesome.

70. Convicne yourself that whats gonna happen is unbelievably fun and then convince
her of it. Having fun is a state of mind and being on the higher energy level. That attracts
people.

71. Do everything so that she wants more. End everything at a high note and when she
wants more of it. When she says more: say it next time. Keep her wanting more. Or, I
gotta go.

Woman will be expecting you to fit a next appointment. Instead cut her off and say, listen
I gotta go. Lets talk next time.

72. When you got a challenge, get back to basics. The inner game is the most
important thing. Dont act out of desperation.

73. When you start losing it with a woman. Stop, step back and let her come to you.
Create scarcity. People want what they cant have. Pull the needle out of arm. Familiarity
breeds contempt. So learn to maintain a distance.

74. Always have 3 female friends that you like to have around you.
75. Find out what she really wants. Tease her, step back and make her really want it
before you give it to her. Make it fun.

76. Learn how to make your conversations interesting for women. Remember she is not
in search of a make girlfriend. But still be a fun dude she wants to hang out with. This
will attract other women.

77. Learn what it means to be a rennaisance man and then become one. Become a man of
multiple adventures. Cultivate multiple interests and focus on overall development.