9/26/2017

GOD

Session 1

Course Learning Objectives

To help participants develop sensitivity about
dynamics in inter-personal relationships
To help the participants understand the
dimensions of group dynamics and team
effectiveness
To make the participants see the symbiotic
relationship between the individual, group
and the larger organizational context

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Introduction To GOD and Interpersonal Dynamics

In Organizations

Objectives of This Course

Interpersonal & Team dynamics and
Organizational Strategy
The Need for and Nature of Interpersonal
Dynamics
Group Development using Johari Window

Case: Ramesh Patel at Aragon Entertainment

Limited (9-412-042)

Intra
Inter personal
Intra group and

Intergroup
Nature of work demands on individual and
complexity demands working across
functional boundaries, adhocism
What skills are becoming important
Working across boundaries

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Johari Window
Joseph Luft & Harris Ingharm
Self Disclosure

Known Unknown
to Others to Others

Open Hidden
Known
to Self

Unknown
to Self
Blind Unconscious

Feedback

Session 2

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Interpersonal Dynamics

-Transactional Analysis
- Life Positions

Class Activity: - TA Personal Inventory and

creating a Self-Developmental Plan

Pre Read : Articles on Transactional Analysis and

Life Positions

EGO ST A T E S

CP
Controlling, Disciplining, Restricting

Parent P Caring, Loving, Helpful, Nurturing

NP

Facts, Logic, Deliberations, Inquiry

Adult A
(Independent of Age Maturity)

NC
Impulsive, Instinctive, Demanding

Child C LP Creative, Manipulative, Intuitive

AC Adapted to parental order will create

Guilt, Rebellion, Obedience

Spectra Interventions

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Parent Ego States

Controlling Caring
Right Wrong Take care.

Good Bad Please remember to ..

Never Always Ill help you..

You should not Dont be afraid

You must never Dont be late

Careless Its ok to.

Sensible You may need this

Thats the limit.. Call on me..

Spectra Interventions

Child Ego States

Natural Child Little Professor Adapted
Bosses wanting This car looks as if it Complying
things the way they is made for you.
want and at the time Withdrawing sulking
they want Helpless acting to
draw help and Procrastinating
Self-indulgence sympathy
hence disregard to
others Defies with
Not like to stay excuses.. Yes mom
within givens & Ill be there in a
Use aggression create new minute
towards less boundaries, rules
powerful
Distort reality
At times live with without knowledge
Impulsive decision wishful thinking to submit to
making authority

Spectra Interventions

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Adult Ego State

What is that?

What is the reason?

Why did it happen?

What choices do we have?

Lets define it.

Lets find it out. We experiment with this..

What is the reference point for this?

Let us evaluate options on validated criteria.

Spectra Interventions

How to Maintain Adult to Adult Communication

Ask open questions What is the bigger issue?
Can you tell me more?

Ask specific Questions What is the end result?

When did it occur?

Ask for clearer Could you tell me exactly

explanation when?
Isnt it a matter of section
80C and ..?

I think there is recent

Check the facts study.
Are the figure correct?

Spectra Interventions

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How to Maintain Adult to Adult Communication

Admit openly your You are right I got it wrong.
mistake Here is my wrong data

Yes it is difficult but I can

Use Caring Parent help you in
There is reason for getting
upset, however..

Leave options open for Perhaps we can try

other course of action Next time, could we..?

Combine three EGOs I understand implication (A)

It may worry you (P)
I hope you are not feeling
being tricked. (C)
Let us then go over it again
(A)

Spectra Interventions

Self Concept

YOU
OK Not OK
Confident Distrustful
OK
Assertive Devalues
Trusts Always right
Values Angry
I AM

Argumentative

Not
Poor Self Image Despair
OK Inferior Feeling Hopelessness
Depressed
Withdrawn

Spectra Interventions

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Four Basic Psychological Attitudes

Im OK They know their worth and expect

other people to be cooperative
Youre OK
Constructive to win

Im OK Tendency to blame others, put

down, humiliate, tease
Youre not OK

Im not OK Feeling of being powerless &

insignificant
Youre OK
Avoid people or become parasite
Often depressive

Im not OK Despair and loss of interest in life

Youre not OK Confused and unpredictable
Tend to go around in circles

Spectra Interventions