It was Christmas. It was dark and early. The room was cold.
The duvet that
enveloped me was freezing, and damp. For a while I watched the water droplets that had formed from the condensation on my window. I pretended that they were racing each other and made bets on which would win. The outside of the window pane was covered with sleet. I had always disliked sleet. How could two such beautiful things as snow and rain form to make something so ugly? It puzzled me. I had difficulty choosing between which I preferred; rain or snow. Both were equally beautiful, equally appealing. Rain was familiar and comforting. It reminded me of staying inside beside the lighting fire, comfortable, cosy and safe. But snow was exciting, thrilling even. Perhaps its appeal was because of its infrequency, its unpredictability. I had no desire to stay inside when it was snowing. I wanted to make every second I spent in it last, eternally. Stretch it, wring it out, until it had nothing left to give me. And then I could go back to staying inside and watching the rain and basking in its intimate, domestic repose. I tried to decide whether or not to move from the comfort of my icy bed. Eventually the temptation proved too much. My room was so small it only took my 3’ self a couple of steps to cross the room. I jumped up to reach the door handle and it clacked the door open. I knew I would be berated for waking up my grandparents, but I went into my Mums room regardless. Her room was directly opposite mine, and the painted white door was ajar so that she could hear me if I awoke during the night. I was prone to nightmares and she was prone to being overprotective. I tiptoed into her room. She was snoring softly. She lay on her back and I watched her for a little while as she drank the air of the room. Hers was even smaller than mine. I was worried that there wouldn’t be enough left if I breathed it too, so I tried my best not to. Her chest moved up and down evenly and steadily with each intake of breath. I tried to find the source of her snoring. It sounded guttural. Like the noise my granddad made when he was eating in front of the TV. I decided it must have been from her throat, so I touched it and felt it vibrate beneath my cold, tiny hands. She felt warm, and I was freezing, so I climbed into the bed beside her. Her blankets were cold as my duvets had been. And the mattress was cold on the parts she had not slept on. It was a double bed but there was nobody beside her. I crawled into this void and curled up close to her. I remember smelling her, but I don’t recall what it was she smelt like. Perhaps it was simply warmth. She was still asleep but she knew I was there. She opened her arms the exact right amount for me to fit in comfortably but not feel suffocated. Thinking back on it I guess that was the epitome of her parental techniques. Her eyes were closed but her eyelids were wet. She had been crying. It was unlike my strong and independent mother to cry, but today was an exception. Today would be her first Christmas without him after fourteen with him. And when I would leave later, to spend what was left to spend what was left of the day with him, she would be alone. At 33, spending your Christmas with your family of origin while your family of procreation celebrated it without you was an unbearable thought. So she could be forgiven for crying today. I knew that it was Christmas. I knew that that meant Santa and presents. And I knew that the living room doors wouldn’t be locked. But the temptation of satisfying my curiosity and seeing whether or not Santa had been was not stronger than staying exactly where I was. I didn’t want to leave her. I needed to look after her. After a while though, I began to grow impatient. I peeled back her eyelids to wake her up. The skin felt so elastic and thin that I was worried it would snap and break, that I’d hurt her. Her eyebrows furrowed into an angry, guilty frown. She looked at her watch that lay on her locker, and without telling me the time she got up and put on her slippers. She turned back to look at me. “Well come on, don’t you want to see if Santa came?” she yawned, smiling at me. I knew what she wanted then. She wanted to share in my excitement, to see the smile on my face as I ripped open the wrapping paper that bound my gifts together. She wanted to think that I was happy so that she knew she had the potential to be happy too. So I gave that to her. I didn’t question why Santa had brought me a nurses uniform instead of the toy kitchenette I’d requested. Instead I demanded that she dress me in it immediately and told her that when I grew up I wanted to be a nurse just like her. I smiled, I laughed and I played, just to see her beam back at me with pride and elation and the knowledge that she had the strength to do this, that she could move on, and one day be just as happy as I appeared to be. I don’t remember my Dad picking me up or Mum dropping me off. All I remember was playing with him in the snow that day, until my cheeks burned with the cold, and the snow melted through my gloves and my hands were sopping wet. But I refused to go back inside. I wanted to savour the experience. The snow, and him, to exhaust them, until they both had nothing left to give me. He brought me back home. I always made him get out of the car and walk me up to the front door so that he would have to see Mum. I couldn’t help but think that if only they spent more time together, that they would fall back in love; the only Christmas present I’d ever really wanted. Mum told me I couldn’t write that down on my letter to Santa. When I asked her why she told me that even magic wasn’t stronger than love. I watched him drive away then, in the rain. I accepted that if something as magical as Christmas couldn’t bring them together, then nothing could. A few hours later the rain turned back into sleet. After watching the rain fall on the snow covered grass and wash it away all day with my mother, a thought occurred to me. Rain and snow never appeared together. They couldn’t co-exist. They were in a constant battle with one another. The only reason they ever crossed paths was to make sleet. Sleet would always be their one and only connection. One day soon Rain would find her Sun. There would be sun-showers, and they would make rainbows. And Snow would find his Ice. Winter would come for him, and he could decorate the world with his beloved. They could both be happy, just not together. I looked at the sleet again and suddenly it wasn’t so ugly. It was a testament to what had been. And when it was conceived from two such beautiful components, who’s to say it didn’t have the capability to be beautiful too one day? That’s the point where my memory fades, in a sleety haze of hope.