Arturo Hernández Morales

José Alejandro de la Rosa Pérez

Kenia Hernández
Aydee García Galván
Estefanía Ramírez Ruiz
Perspectives of love
There’s an old poem by Pablo Neruda that I’ve always been captivated by, and one
of its lines says “Love is short, forgetting is so long”.

My experience in love have taught me difficult lessons, especially my experiences

with crazy love, those relationships that went from zero to a hundred miles per hour
and then hit a wall and exploded, and it was awful, ridiculous, desperate and thrilling.
I’ve lost myself so many times in these kind of situations, love for me is the best and
the worst feeling ever at the same time.

We are always looking for someone, sometimes we are waiting for all day for a train
that is never coming and sometimes, we just found something that we use to call
love. There is something about being young and needing someone so badly, and it’s
that you jump in head first without looking, there are so many emotions involved such
as happiness, passion, affection, sadness, frustration, jealousy, confusion, but
suddenly everything changes in a blink of an eye, we realized that we saw sparks
that were not really there, felt stars aligning without having any proof, saw our future
before it happened, and then see it slip away without any warning. We stop believing
that love was made for us that we need to be drowning through the storm, that life
does not make sense if we are not with someone and let me tell you that all those
thoughts are the worst mistakes that we can make. We’ve been believing that we
just can find love in someone else, but have you ever thought about to find it in
another places? Love is in the things we like to do, in our families, in our friends, in
the nature like when we enjoy to walk at night feeling the air blowing our faces, in
music, in whatever you can imagine.

There’s something to be proud of about moving on and realizing that real loves
shines golden like starlight and doesn’t fade or spontaneously combust. We need to
be strong and firstly love ourselves, because sometimes love is a ruthless game
unless you play it good and right. In this essay it’s going to be showed the different
perspectives of love.
Romantic love

Love is not just looking at each other, it is looking at the same direction. The love
involves feelings, when we express love, we develop a strong emotional attachment.
But biologically love is a powerful neurological condition, like hunger, for example.

All of us have experienced love. We have loved parents, brothers, sisters, friends,
even pets. But romantic love is different. It is an intense, new feeling unlike any of
these other ways of loving. Loving and being loved adds richness to our lives. When
people feel close to others they are happier and even healthier. Love is such a
powerful human emotion that experts are constantly studying it. They have
discovered that love has three main qualities: attraction, closeness and commitment.
Romantic love is when attraction and closeness are combined. Lots of relationships
grow out of an initial attraction and develop into closeness.

Now I am going to talk about one of the most important things in a relationship: trust,
is the base of everything in a relationship. Trust is a choice to be available, vulnerable
and transparent in a relation and having communication is one of the most important
factor in the process of building trust. Trust needs openness and if you are planning
on building a trusting relation you must plan not to keep secrets and being open to
the other person.

The friendship

Friendship comes from the word friend which comes from the concept love.

In friendship values are grown such as loyalty, unconditionally, love, sincerity,

commitment and confidentiality. Clearly there are different degrees of relationship in
friendship, there are from simple friends who help us sometimes, greet us and with
whom we struck up some casual conversation, even the best, that family that we
choose, our brothers non-biological, those people that when see you cry they ask:
“who do we kill?”

Sometimes we simply need someone to be there. Not to fix something, or to do

anything in particular but just to let us feel that we are cared and supported.

Mother's Love

This love is totally different from others; it is a pure, honest and beautiful love. For
our children we are able to give them our own life, to hear their laugh, their first
words, and all those thing that are enough to make our days wonderful and special.
Every day with them are spectacular, it’s a fact that there is a person who depends
on us. We need to be a great example and move forward to give the best in every
aspect. Sometimes there are difficult moments, but there are million reasons to keep
on. Children are people who from the first moment you know they came into your
life, our lives change in a huge way, many things change but something we must be
sure that we’ll never be lacked of love.

Love for pets

The saying assures that "the dog is the best friend of the man", however, this known
phrase also can be applied to the rest of the pets. People who loves pets have
discovered one of the purest feelings there. The pets don’t understand our earth and
how it works, but they get excited waiting for us, receive us and look for our attention
for a few seconds. They are a great and unconditional friends because They give
everything without ask something in return, they wait for us when we are not home,
their love is loyalty and fidelity, they are eternal children with whom you spend funny
moments, when you are sad they try to make you smile or just be with you, they
don’t know about envies and resentments, they need a roof and food, they will be
your great admirer, they won’t care for the ridiculous names like rufino, furia and
cheese, they will protect you from any danger, but the most important thing is that
they need love, attention and care. They are friends that will never betray you
because they don’t know evilness and the hypocrisy.

I have always loved pets, therefore, currently I have five dogs, four of them are
chihuahuas and the another one a chow-chow, their names are Mayito, Avril, Kira,
Zait and Kendra, Mayito is the older one and Zait is the younger. They always make
me laugh with crazy things and antics. I get licked by them as demonstration of
affection. They celebrate with a move tail with anything I do, Even though it is the
dumbest thing. I’m never alone because they are always with me in any place of the
house.
Al momento que supe que tendría un hijo, demasiados sentimientos nacieron en mi
sabía que el camino no iba a ser nada fácil pero sin embargo teníamos que salir
adelante los 3 juntos como la familia que somos.

En otro aspecto de esta situación un gran dilema fue el seguir estudiando ya que
debía atender mis responsabilidades en ambas cosas, mi familia y por supuesto mi
escuela, claro que quería seguir estudiando para asi porder asegurar nuestro futuro
y para poder satisfacer mis metas que algún dia me fije.

Se llegó el dia de conocer a mi hijo exctamente fue un dia 22 de Agosto del 2014.

En el primer momento que conoci a mi hijo entendi el verdadero valor de la vida y

del amor, sentí que todo mi mundo se detenia al ver su hermoso rostro, ese rostro
pequeño que me daría la mayor de las alegrías.

En lo particular mi hijo, es un niño encancantador por las mañanas al despertar su

primera acción es darme un beso hace que mi ánimo cambie inmediatamente y
claro después pide su desayuno.

Sinceramente él ha sido lo mejor que me ha pasado y sobre todo lo mejor que tengo
en la vida es mi razón para vivir.

At the time I knew a child would, I had too many feelings in me, I knew that the
road would not be easy but nevertheless we had to get ahead 3 together as a
family we are.

At the time I knew a child would, I had too many feelings in me, I knew that the
road would not be easy but nevertheless we had to get ahead 3 together as a
family we are.

In another aspect of this situation a dilemma was to continue studying and I should
meet my responsibilities in both, my family and of course my school, of course I
wanted to continue studying for so porder secure our future and to meet my goals
that some day set me. the day I met my son was a day came exctamente August
22, 2014.

In the first moment I met my son understood the true value of life and love, I felt my
whole world stopped to see her beautiful face, that little face that would give me the
greatest joy.

In particular my son is a child enchanted morning waking his first action is to kiss
me makes my mood change course immediately and then ask her breakfast.
Honestly it was the best thing that happened to me and all the best that I have in
life is my reason to live