We're gonna kind of make this like the hanky code.
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way for those activities to be topped or bot-
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badass smart lke that. If something doesn't apply
to you and your partner(s), mark it N/A. If there's
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WANT TO
GIVING /
TOPPING
RECEIVING /
BOTTOMING
Tribadism (scissoring
rubbing naked genitois
together w/ a partner)
Masturbation
Chest/Breast/Nippie
Holding hands eee
Kissing (please Chest/Breast/Nippie
discuss where) biting
'Necking’ (kissing on Masturbating in
the neck) front of a partner
Activities that leave
marks (please oe
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discuss where) pes
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“ploy-nghting” testes
shoulders, legs) vulva
Chest/Breast/Nipple eae
ploy 'gers insice vol
Dry humping/clothed
bbody-to-body
rubbing
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Vagina! fisting
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sting
Ejoculating on
someone's body
Ejoculating in
someone's body
Using vibra
Using diidos olone
Using vio
a partner
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Watching porn with
a partner
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Use this space to write/draw/collage/art-ify your
oO way into what turns you on. Maybe it's something
650.0 you think is "expected" or maybe it's something
aoe you think would surprise a partner. Everything
you.can think of is worth including.
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PEM Ren Ne coe Rate te Oa
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Please refer to my gender as:
Please refer to my genitals os:
It's acceptable to refer to my
gender as;
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It's ccceptable to refer to my
genitals os:
Pease never refer to my
gender os:
Please never refer tomy
genitals as:
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SON
When | want you to stop, | say:
When I want you to keep going
When | want to check in with
you, I say:
uy
(enthusiastically). | soy
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When you want me to stop,
hearing the following makes
When you want me to keep
going, hearing the following
When you want to checkin with
‘me, hearing the following makes
yw
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not into it, being able to tap into what you know other parties
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WHAT I'M GONNA
During sex, Ike to image I:
During sex, | like to image you:Using protection? 2 ‘Kiss ond Tel! t Orgy
duringoralsex | tating frends |
: : 1 aboutwnat happens 1
: : 1 inthe soot) :
Bottom : : 1 Using protection |Top
uring intercourse
STV/HIV Testing
Penetration
Polyomory Power Play
: 2 Pain Monogamy + Fetish
{Using latex goves 7 1 "Fuck buddy" + Threesome
WHERE | DRAW THE LINES
Draw lines through the boxes where your bound-
‘aries are and write small explanations. What kind
of lines you draw are totally up to you, as is what
you write. In blank boxes, create your own words
‘that you'd like to draw boundaries around.THINGS I'M INTO,
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WHERE WE
THINGS WE DO TOGETHER
DURING SEXYTIMES:
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