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AUTHORS:
Correspondence to: Dr Nigel Sherriff, Trust for the Study of Adolescence, 23 New
Road, Brighton, BN1 1WZ, UK. E-mail: nsherriff@tsa.uk.com, Tel: 01273 693311
It is now well acknowledged that parents can have a central role in supporting
sensible alcohol use and reducing alcohol misuse amongst young people.
relation to alcohol actually takes place within the family. Drawing upon interviews
with the parents of young people aged 13-17 years (n = 40), this article describes
the strategies and tactics that many parents use in communicating, monitoring, and
supervising alcohol use within the family. The findings revealed that many parents
lack the guidance needed to convey ‘sensible drinking’ messages to young people,
and wish for greater information and support about many different issues
associated with young people and alcohol. The research also highlights potential
Policy background
Alcohol use remains widespread amongst many young people both nationally in
the UK and elsewhere (Coleman and Cater, 2003; Hayes and others, 2004;
Newburn and Shiner, 2001; Slater and others, 2006). Reducing the early uptake is
particularly important given that research evidence suggests that the later
adolescents delay their first alcohol drink, the less likely they are to become regular
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With the long-term goal of changing the culture of youth binge-drinking, recent
stipulates that if young people are going to drink, then how can we ensure that they
stay safe and reduce the likelihood of associated harms? (Coleman and Cater,
Indeed, in 2004, the Prime Minister’s Strategy Unit published the Alcohol Harm
Reduction Strategy for England (Cabinet Office, 2004), which outlines a framework
for tackling the problems associated with alcohol misuse in England. The strategy
identification and support for individuals with alcohol problems; preventing and
start changing the ‘drinking to get drunk’ culture. In its framework, the Strategy
(p.19), by parents providing young people with “clear and accurate information,
alcohol.
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Alcohol and families: what do we know?
There is an increasing awareness of the role that parents can have in affecting the
development of their children’s drinking behaviour (e.g. Barnes and others, 2000;
Hayes and others, 2004; Wood and others, 2004), and in reducing the incidence
and impact of alcohol misuse upon young people (Orford and Velleman, 2002;
Spoth and others, 2001). For example, there is a considerable body of evidence
demonstrating that adolescents who are poorly monitored by their parents begin
alcohol consumption at an early age, tend to drink more, and are more likely to
develop problematic drinking problems (e.g. Barnes and others, 2000; Beck and
others, 2003; DiClemente and others, 2001; Guo and others, 2000; Thomas and
well as lower rates of problematic (mis)use (e.g. Barnes and others, 2000).
In general, there is clear evidence that sensible parental drinking, combined with
lead to a reduction in alcohol-related harm (Beinart and others, 2002; Foxcroft and
Lowe, 1995; Newburn and Shiner, 2001). Yet despite the clear links between the
family environment and adolescent alcohol usage (e.g. Ennett and others, 2001;
van der Vorst and others, 2005; Yu, 2003), a number of important gaps in the
literature remain. Although many aspects of family life have been investigated as
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risk and protective factors for adolescent alcohol (mis)use (e.g. factors such as
parental drinking, authority, attitudes, nurturance, and monitoring, and other wider
influences and norms; see Hayes and others, 2004), there is a relative dearth of
specifically, little direct attention has been given to describing how parent/young
Two recent studies by the Trust for the Study of Adolescence (TSA) have provided
some insights into family processes and alcohol (although this was not the aim of
either study). For example, a study by Stace and Roker (2005) found that many
parents find it hard to supervise alcohol consumption, and when it does occur, it
research into young people’s ‘risky’ drinking also identified that most young people
would value more discussion and communication with parents and carers about
alcohol. Both studies showed that many parents lack guidance in conveying
sensible drinking messages to young people. The research described in this article
explored this issue further and had two main aims: First, we wanted to explore the
strategies that parents use to communicate about alcohol within the family, and
wanted to explore what information and support parents wanted in this respect,
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and develop appropriate materials to meet this need (see Cox, Sherriff, Coleman,
Methodology
The study took place over one year from the beginning of April 2005, and consisted
of both secondary and original research. In the first instance, secondary analyses
of 180 interviews (115 young people and 65 parents) from two existing TSA data-
sets (Stace and Roker, 2005; Coleman and Cater, 2005) were conducted in order
to elicit themes likely to be of relevance for the original aspect of the study. In an
area of such little research, this secondary analysis was essential in providing a
‘head-start’ in order to focus the lines of the investigation. The data generated by
these two projects were analysed using NUD*IST (a software package to assist in
qualitative data analysis) and focused on issues that were mentioned by parents in
the interviews. Five main themes emerged in relation to how parents and young
people.
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Legal and health issues – information about what parents know about the
law in relation to young people and alcohol, or about health issues (e.g.
alcohol units).
Difficult issues – examples of how parents address ‘difficult’ issues that arise
Sample
A total of 40 parents were interviewed for the research, and were reached through
universities, and the local council. Only parents with teenagers aged 13-17years
were selected to take part in the study. Given the age at which young people start
1999) these parents are likely to draw upon recent alcohol-related issues,
Participants were purposively selected to ensure that certain groups were included
in the research. Consequently, the final sample was diverse and included parents
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who differed by age; socio-economic status; ethnicity; location (urban vs. rural);
and use of alcohol (ranging from abstainers to heavier users), and; child’s current
Interviews took place either in the participant’s own home or in the TSA offices in
lasted for approximately 30-45 minutes and were semi-structured around the five
main topics elicited from the secondary analysis. All interviews followed a schedule
consisting of the five topic areas i.e. communication, supervision, modelling, legal
and health issues, and difficult issues. The interview schedule was designed to act
All parents agreed to the tape-recording of their interview, and data from the audio
were coded using the NUD*IST data analysis package to provide a consistent
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Ethical considerations
expenses, payment, and organisational matters. All TSA research staff hold current
Results
In this article we outline a number of significant themes that emerged from the
Communication
Research evidence on alcohol and the family indicate a number of factors that are
likely to influence young people’s drinking. For example, Highet (2005) found that
strategy in helping young people develop and sustain a sensible relationship with
alcohol (see also Ennett and others, 2001; Foxcroft and Lowe, 1991; Hayes and
others, 2004; Wood and others, 2004). In our research, we asked parents about
the different kinds of techniques or strategies they used for talking about alcohol
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within the family. Parents reported that one of the main ways of initiating
incident when a friend or family member was drunk or ill as a result of excessive
alcohol use, and using this as a timely basis for discussion within the family:
‘We have talked about it when one of the older one’s friends drank way too much once….so
we were able to talk about it after that.’ (mother of one, age 14 years)
Parents talked about a wide range of messages that they try to communicate to
young people in relation to alcohol use. One of the main messages was that of
‘moderation’, and that when used in a safe and sensible way, alcohol can be a
normal part of adult life. Other messages parents felt were important to portray
related to personal safety, the law regarding young people and alcohol, and the
health implications of misusing alcohol. Less common, but very important to some
parents, were messages to do with the amounts of alcohol young people drink, the
type of alcohol, and the fact that alcohol can become addictive.
with young people about alcohol. Parents said they often felt worried that if they
explicitly asked young people not to do something, they would be more likely to do
the very thing that they have been asked not to do. Furthermore, parents reported
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the need to try and reach some sort of communicative ‘balance’. For example,
many parents said that they did not want to pry or interfere, and wanted to ensure
‘I think it’s the same old thing, if your parents tell you something, unless you are the perfect
child, you’re either not gonna take any notice of them, or you’re gonna go and try whatever
Parents were also asked whether anything had helped with communication about
‘little and often’ about the consequences and implications of alcohol use, and
providing young people with clear messages and information. Moreover, parents
talked about the need to ensure that young people are given the chance to initiate
conversations when they are ‘in the mood’ for talking. Negotiation about rules and
boundaries were also considered very important. This negotiation required the
parent to respect young people and view them as young adults, whilst at the same
time ensuring that communication lines are kept open between young people and
their parents. Parents also said that ‘normalising’ alcohol use, rather than
‘… it was always our intention to talk about alcohol in a way that he doesn’t feel he’s being
talked down to. And allowing him to express interest, concern, ask questions and so on. So,
it’s always been an open discussion between the two - well, three of us.’ ( father of one, age
15 years)
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What was clear from these findings was that for many parents, drinking is
perceived as a normal part of family life, and many parents reported engaging in
purposeful discussion and negotiation with their young people as a way of initiating
them into safe and ‘sensible’ drinking. However, what was also clear was that many
parents concerns, about how to start conversations about alcohol and how to
communicate effectively with young people about alcohol use, were often to the
communicating and negotiating about alcohol use within the family, and wished for
Supervision
Evidence from the literature tends to suggest that parental supervision and
(Barnes and others, 2000; Hayes and others, 2004; Highet and others, 2005;
Newburn and Shiner, 2001; Stice and Barrera, 1995; Wood and others, 2004). For
with lower levels of alcohol use (Barnes and Farrell, 1992), and a reduced
likelihood for the onset of heavy drinking amongst young people (Reifman and
others, 1998).
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However, in our research many parents said they found supervision and control of
alcohol more difficult to deal with than communication per se. Moreover, parents
said they wanted more information and support about how best to supervise
alcohol use in the family. When asked about specific limitations or rules in relation
to alcohol supervision, few parents had any. For example, some parents said that
in most circumstances a parent simply has to trust a young person and that young
‘It’s difficult to impose any limits, ‘cos you’re not actually physically there and with
teenagers, you have to give them a measure of independence and encourage them to sort
of, regulate themselves, to a degree, with parental encouragement and boundary setting.’
Many parents did attempt to limit the type of alcohol young people were allowed.
Here parents differentiated between ‘softer’ alcoholic drinks such as beer and
lager, versus ‘harder’ drinks such as spirits. Parents also made reference to alco-
pops, with many concerned that young people did not recognise their alcoholic
content:
‘Well, it’s usually - I’ve always said, you can drink beer, weak beer. Not strong beer and not
those horrible alco-pop things. I would never ever have them in my house, or spirits.’
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Parents reported a number of difficult issues that they had encountered in relation
to the supervision of young people’s alcohol use within the family. Some parents
said that they did not want to impose harsh limitations on their children, particularly
if it would make young people stand out and appear different to their friends. Other
parents reported that one of the main difficult issues to deal with was negotiation.
Several parents commented on the dilemma that if a young person is going to drink
alcohol anyway, then to what extent should a parent supply alcohol or allow alcohol
in the home. These issues were closely related to safety, with some parents saying
that they would prefer a young person and his/her friends to drink alcohol in the
home, as opposed to drinking outside of the home, which might lead to them
‘In fact, I probably aid and abet, because every Friday I buy a tray of cans which they have
to pay me half for, ‘cos it’s cheaper than them getting it from the off licence, so probably in a
way, I’m being a bad mother ‘cos I’m helping them get it.’ (Mother of one, age 17 years)
included: other parent’s attitudes towards young people and alcohol, a young
person’s reaction to limitations or rules that a parent may try to impose, and
knowing whether they (parents) should be worried about young people’s alcohol
use:
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‘I really don’t know if I should be or I shouldn’t be [worried] because there are people who
are doing lots worse - sort of, taking drugs and drinking a lot more, and given that he’s
doing well at college and he works hard… I don’t know if his drinking is a problem or not.’
person’s use of alcohol. The main successful approach involved using some form
of negotiation. Many parents said that negotiating with young people, and letting
them experiment with alcohol in a safe and supervised environment, was the most
‘At her age, we negotiate. Well, because she’s a young adult and it’s part of growing up,
isn’t it? And being an adult and being seen to be an adult. For me to respect her - for her to
able to put her case to me, and me to put mine to her. And for us to find something that,
hopefully, works for both us. I just think it’s a good life lesson, anyway.’ (mother of two, age
In our research, most parents ranged from abstainers to heavier drinkers in terms
of their own alcohol use, with the majority drinking at moderate levels. Many
parents said that their children were fully aware of parental alcohol use, and felt
that this had no (or very little) impact upon their children’s own drinking behaviours.
Where parents talked about their children seeing them drunk, the majority felt that
this amused young people, rather than impacting negatively upon them. When
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asked to say what young people might learn from witnessing or observing parental
use of alcohol, the majority of parents felt that young people were receiving mainly
positive messages. These messages were associated with moderation, and seeing
‘I think he’s learned that it’s OK to drink in moderation. And that’s the message I hope he
gets, ‘cos he doesn’t see me drinking all the time, usually just social. And so, that’s what I
Most parents were more concerned about the influence of factors outside of the
home, than the influence of their behaviour as parents (such as the media and
advertising, peer pressure, schools, and the British ‘drinking culture’). By far the
most commonly reported influence was cited as being the young person’s peer
group. Many parents recognised that friends and social groups are key in
determining the use of alcohol by young people, and some believed that young
people are more likely to listen to their friends than they are their parents.
Such views are not unsurprising given that during adolescence, there tends to be a
shift away from parental influence, with peers taking on greater importance (e.g.
Coleman and Hendry, 2004). Yet, although peer influences can be a powerful
perhaps erroneous to assume that parents have little or no influence on their young
people in relation to alcohol use. Research suggests that young people tend to
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imitate the alcohol consumption of their parents. For example, Yu (2003) has
Moreover, Zhang and others (1999) has shown that young men in particular, tend
behaviours is complex and can not be easily separated. For example, the influence
of peers may mediate the influence of parenting on adolescent alcohol use, and
(e.g. Barnes and others, 2000). Moreover, parents may influence an adolescent’s
choice of peer group (e.g. Bamberg and others, 2001; Curran and others, 1997)
which in turn may predict later changes in adolescent alcohol use. In a review of
others (2004) therefore argue that there is a need for parents to be provided with
adolescent alcohol use…’ (p.xiv). Although peers are a central influence on young
people’s alcohol related attitudes and behaviours, they do not negate the influence
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We also asked parents about some of the legal and health issues in relation to
young people and alcohol use. Many parents said they felt confident that both they
and their young people were aware of the broad legal issues associated with
alcohol use, for example age at which you are allowed to buy alcohol, drinking in
pubs, etc. However, the vast majority felt that they were not aware of alcohol units,
and agreed that their children were not likely to be aware of the concept of alcohol
units either.
Parents raised other concerns about legal and health issues in relation to their
children and alcohol. These included emotional vulnerability, safety, and the
behavioural effects of alcohol (e.g. fighting, being out of control, and drink spiking).
Several parents also made reference at this point to gender differences in relation
to young people and alcohol use, and about the potential increase in vulnerability
and risk for teenage young women associated with alcohol use.
many parents also reported wanting more information with regards to the legal and
health implications of alcohol use. Some parents said that this information should
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‘Yeah, I think it’s good for children to know that as well. How many units are in certain
things, ‘cos they probably wouldn’t even realise. Especially like with the alco-pops drinks
that are like fruit juice and with alcohol mixed in. You certainly wouldn’t know what sort of
unit that is and how much that they can have of that. Even though they’re not supposed to
be drinking it, but yeah, I think that would be useful information.’ (mother of one, age 13
years)
Discussion
This article has examined how some parents communicate with their children
about alcohol, and how they seek to supervise ‘sensible drinking’ in the family.
Given the recognised important role that parents can have in shaping the culture of
drinking in the future, the concerns and worries expressed indicate areas of where
concerns over the implications (short and long-term) of alcohol use, the location of
drinking, alcohol type, and mass-media portrayal. Also, concerns over how to start
subjects may be challenging were also raised, alongside a number of more specific
difficult issues.
The research described is important in that it provides new information about how
parents view communication about alcohol in the family, and the issues that alcohol
working to reduce alcohol misuse within the family. It is also significant that most of
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the parents interviewed said that they wanted more information about young
people and alcohol use (for similar findings see Research Works, 2005). They also
these issues. There is no reason to believe that this group of parents are in any
way unusual in wanting more information and advice in these areas, and it is
therefore important that more support is made available to parents to help them to
open up conversations about alcohol. In addition, parents want help to monitor and
The authors have addressed these support needs in one particular way. Based on
variety of information and support material for parents, and practitioners working
with parents (see Cox et al., 2006b). This Guide is a 16 side A4 ‘magazine’ style
document that is printed in full colour, and includes photos and illustrations. The
Guide includes articles based on the research, addressing parents’ concerns, and
detailing their ‘hints and tips’ for monitoring young people’s alcohol use. It also
includes some of the practical information that parents in the research asked for,
such as alcohol units and information on the legal aspects of young people and
alcohol use. A number of quotes and practical examples are included, making the
Guide parent-focussed, lively, and engaging. The guides are now available from
TSA, and are aimed at individual parents, and those who work with parents; the
guides could be usefully used in individual work as well as group work with
parents.
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Future r
esearch
The study highlighted a number of important areas for future study, two of which
and Minority Ethnic) individuals. Many of those who were approached to participate
in the study cited cultural reasons for not wanting to take part in the research. More
specifically, this was reported as being due to cultural taboos which forbid drinking
in certain communities, and sometimes even talking about alcohol at all. With an
that young people from such communities (if they do drink alcohol) could be at
particular risk from alcohol-related harm, given the lack of parental guidance. It
facilitate the recruitment of BME groups whom may adopt quite culturally different
Second, the research highlighted a number of ‘tips’ and strategies that parents may
find helpful in reducing alcohol misuse amongst their children. For example, the
research provides examples of how parents are able to start conversations about
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alcohol, the ‘little and often’ approach to communication, and being open and
honest whilst talking about alcohol with their children. A useful extension of this
effective means of parenting, and preventing and reducing alcohol misuse amongst
young people. The research presented in this article is therefore the first step
towards identifying parental strategies that are proven to ‘work’ and can be
Acknowledgements
The authors are very grateful for the financial support received from the Alcohol
grateful to all the parents who gave up their time to be involved in the project and
to members of the advisory group for their considerable expertise and advice.
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Contributors’ details
has a range of research interests mainly around young people, gender, identity,
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Dr Lester Coleman is the Research Team Manager at TSA. He manages a number
of projects around young people’s health and well-being, including alcohol misuse,
has practical application, and has produced a number of ‘good practice’ guides and
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