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Expectations are communicated through words and actions that help children build social
skills. What are some guides for communicating expectations?
∙ Model respect and acceptance
∙ Encourage empathy and compassion
∙ Encourage cooperation and teamwork
∙ Insist on self-control
∙ Communicate rules in an easy-to-understand way --- e.g., place rules in one of three categories
– (1) Be safe, (2) Be kind, (3) Be neat
Limits are established through rules. What are some guides for setting behavior limits?
∙ Make rules short
∙ Focus each rule on one main point
∙ State rules in terms of positive behaviors expected
∙ Set rules that are reasonable
∙ Avoid making too many rules
∙ Define both acceptable and unacceptable behaviors
∙ Enforce rules in a consistent manner
∙ Flex rules to adapt to needs of individuals and situations
∙ Tell children when they have broken a rule/done something wrong
∙ Give attention to children who have been hurt by others who have broken rules