1

4SI
GNSAG
IRLWA
NTST
OME
ETS
OME
ONE
In1989,psychologi
stsf
rom Webst
erUniv
ersi
tydi
scov er
edsomet hingaboutmenandwomen.Theyfoundwhenaguywal
ksupt
oagir
l,i
t'
salmostal
way
sat
heri
nvit
ation.Yetmenwerealmostnev
erawareoftheseinv
itat
ions.Mostguysthi
nkt
heyactal
lonthei
rown.Thet
rut
his,
whenmenapproach,
iti
sasare-
sponsetosignalsputoutbywomen.

Tak ethatcut
egirlyou'
vebeent
hinki
ngof
.Thinkshedoesn'
tli
keyou?Ther
e'
sagoodchanceshedoes.
..Andyouaren'
tgett
inghersi
gnal
s.I
nfact
,resear
cher
s
from theUniver
sit
yofKansasfoundmenfai
ltoident
if
y58%oft hewomenwholi
kethem.Ther
earealotofveryf
rustr
ated,
lonel
ywomenoutther
ebecauseof
this.Womenwhol ongforamantocomealongwhoact ual
l
y"getsi
t.
"

Sowhatsi
gnsdowomenuse?Her
ear
e14oft
hemostcommonoft
hem:

1.Hairt
oss.Shet
ossesherhead,
fli
ppi
ngherhai
r.Ev
enwomenwi
thshor
thai
rdot
his.90%ofwomenwhor
ecei
veanappr
oachf
rom amandot
hehai
rtoss
f
ir
st.

2.Smi
le.Thesmi
l
eist
hesecondbi
ggestsi
gn.70%ofwomensmi
l
ebef
oreamanappr
oachest
hem.

3.Dar
ti
nggl
ance.Anot
hermajor
,commonsi
gnal
.She'
l
lmak
eey
econt
actwi
thy
ou.
..Thendar
therey
esaway
.Ifherey
esl
ookdown,
thi
sisbest(
submi
ssi
ve)
.
Buttot
hesi
deisokayaswel
l.

4.Loudl
augh.Womenwi
l
latt
imesusel
oudl
aught
ert
oat
tr
actmen'
sat
tent
ion.

5.Headt
il
t.I
fshewant
stomeetaman,
oft
enshewi
l
lti
l
therheadt
oonesi
de.

6.Neckpr
esent
ati
on.Anot
herhead-
rel
atedmov
ement
.Whensheshowsherneck,
shesi
gnal
str
ust
.Womenwi
l
ldot
hisasanot
herappr
oachsi
gnal
.

7.Pr
impi
ngorpr
eeni
ng.I
fsheadj
usthercl
othes,
mak
eup,
orhai
r,
she'
sget
ti
ngher
sel
freadyt
orecei
veanappr
oach.

8.Shor
t,sust
ainedgaze.Awomanwhoi
smor
econf
ident(
orv
eryi
nter
est
ed)mayl
ockey
eswi
thaman,
thenhol
dhi
sgaz
eforamomentbef
oreshebr
eaks
i
t.

9.Li
pli
cki
ng.Shel
i
cksherl
i
ps,
anonv
erbal
wayt
osay"
yummy
"or"
tast
y.
"

10.Par
adi
ng.Gi
rl
swhowantt
omeetmenwi
l
lof
tenpar
adear
oundi
nfr
ontoft
hem,
ormar
chr
ightupt
othem.

11.Hi
pswi
ng.Awomanwi
l
lrol
lherhi
psi
namor
epr
onouncedwayasshewal
ks.
Thi
scal
l
sat
tent
iont
othehi
p-wai
star
ea,
amaj
orar
eaofi
nter
estf
ormen.

12.Pel
vist
il
t.Ast
andi
ngwomanwi
l
lti
l
therpel
vi
s(hi
ps)atanangl
e.Thi
sisanot
herwayt
oputaman'
sey
esonherhi
ps.

13.Eyebr
owflash.Theey
ebr
owf
lash(
wher
etheey
ebr
owsmov
eupwar
d,t
henbackdown)i
sfastandusual
l
yinv
olunt
ary
.Ithappenswhensheseessomet
hing
orsomeoneshelikes.

14.Nost
ri
lfl
are.Womenwi
l
lfl
aret
hei
rnost
ri
lsi
nint
erestt
hesamewayt
heyf
lasht
hei
rey
ebr
owsi
nint
erest
.

Keepaneyeoutf
orthesesi
gns.Whenyouseethem,act!Remember:si
gnal
scanbedirect
edatYOU,orcanbeundi
rect
ed-si
gnal
sagir
lputsoutt
hereforany
el
igi
blemantopi
ckupon.Youwanttolookforbot
htypes:thesi
gnal
sagirl
putsoutbecauseshewant
sy out
oappr
oach,andt
henonessheputsoutforany
manwhocatchesthem t
otakeact
ionon.

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l
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ual
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i
rti
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,&But
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,D.L.(
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cour
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