Professional Documents
Culture Documents
- I’ve been doing this “church thing” for over 50 years and over half of my
life I’ve been a pastor AND I know from first hand experience that the
Church is FAR from perfect and we will ALWAYS face the need to be
gently and humbly corrected from time to time…
Current realities…
4. Too often people come and go from one church to another for the
wrong reasons and in the wrong way…
1. Heretical teaching.
- Moral/ethical error
- Financial impropriety
3. Am I being self-centered?
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4. Am I being unrealistic in my expectations?
- Problem: IF you expect Sunday morning to be the only (or most important)
time you “get feed” and grow spiritually then you don’t understand the need
to become a self-feeding, SEVEN day a week disciple of Jesus!
5. Am I being divisive?
- Leaving a church should feel like leaving your family! It should be difficult
and hurt because you’ve lived your life connected with a group of people
whom you love and who love you!
10. Will it matter to anyone if I leave (will anyone care)? And, if not, why
not? (What might that say about my willingness to truly
connect/serve/give?)
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If you must go…
2. Don’t slide out the back door and hope no one notices…talk to your
pastor!
- Pastors are not running a business and just trying to get more customers
(and more money)! They are shepherds who care for the flock!
- Don’t bail from here to return to your previous church unless God
and BOTH pastors agree it’s what must be done!
Conclusion…
- We are a FAMILY of faith…we WILL fail each other from time to time…we
WILL wound and disappoint each other…
- BUT when ONE member of the family BAILS…we ALL are affected by it!
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