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Magallon
ENG 78 A
As I’ve pondered, I can say that I’m a Personal Communicator for 2 reasons. Mayhap it manisfests
from our learnings in our undergrad course — Psychology as we were taught how to counsel and
assess clients. And more than that is the fact that I’m an empath. I have a tendency to be drawn
to broken people with heavy pasts, people with hearts that have cracks in them, people with
experiences that they are still bleeding from. I have a habit of absorbing other people’s pain and
making it on my own. I find value in assessing not just how people think, but how they feel. I tend
to be a good listener and diplomat, I can smooth over conflicts. People often turn to me as the
‘glue’ that holds groups together. And I’m typically able to pick-up ‘vibes’ that others may miss
Ironically however, I have this trait that I can’t express my thoughts vocally involving emotions of
love and affection. It’s kinda frustrating when you have so much to say but doesn’t have the guts
to spit it out. That’s why most of the time, I resort to writing. I’ve written letters that I never sent,
scribbled notes of what I wanted to say but never did, and composed poetry that I rarely revealed
who was it about or who was it for. Until lately,I have able to ponder about the people I’ve let go
in life just because I was holding back all the things I should’ve said that could’ve kept them, that
could’ve made them stay. Writing has always been therapeutic for me but the truth is— the unsent
letters, the sribbled notes and all the poetry I’ve written cannot make someone stay unless I talk
to them. I’ve realized the need to learn how to communicate for I now firmly believe
communication is the key to every relationship whether it’s romantic or genuine friendship. I need
to overcome such frustrating trait for I want to be a better person— a person who’s not only