“Conflicts are necessary for a healthy relationship”

How we define a conflict? So, a conflict is a disagreement through which the

parties involved perceive a threat to their needs, interests or concerns.

Conflicts come up in every relationship, it sometimes makes us stronger.

Most times, relationships are perceived as successful, good, harmonious when they
are devoid of tensions, disagreements and conflicts. People tend to seek
confirmation oneself in this way, comfort and tranquility.

We feel good when in front of us is a person who shares our views, preferences,
values, in front of which there is no need to intervene to defend our own point of
view.

However, relationships involve much more than these moments of harmonization.

And if we look better, every relationship is normal to go through moments of
tension and conflict. These moments belong naturally in the evolution of a
relationship, the more so as each person passes in its evolution through stages of
crisis, reach a higher degree of growing up.

The conflict involves confronting values, principles and therefore provides an

opportunity to restore the relationship limits and a better understanding. However,
the general picture of confict is rather negative than positive.

So, people use to confuse,to give a “I don’t know” to their relationship. .This
confusion, however, prevents us look at conflicts as an opportunity for evolution,
knowledge and self-awareness. Also in conflict, strong emotional states that we face
may lead us to act impulsively, wounding feelings.

Conflict is an opportunity to establish standards or to consolidate those already set

out, giving them consistency. Most often, the expected change does not happen by
itself, but requires just these steps conflictual.