This is because he gave the invitation letter to a servant who was
illiterate. The servant gave it to a montugue known as Romeo. Romeo went to the party spotted Juliet then fell head over heels in love. Act 1 scene 2 lines 57-103. This is where you see the servent give off the letter to Romeo and it’s all downhill from there. If lord capulet just made a better decision on who it give it to this story would have never existed.