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Introduction.
the book Visiting the Sick: A Guide for Parish Ministers by the Catholic minister
of Pastoral Care Patti Normile. The book comprises six chapters, one
Therefore, this chapter will not be studied and summarized here. Each sub-
Sick. The second part of this essay will draw some reflections about sickness and
healing as they are afforded in the original writings (and then, languages) and
thinking of the New Testament and how sickness and healing was understood by
the early Christian and their contemporary inheritors, the Orthodox Christians. It
evoking the centrality and importance place of prayer at the core of the Pastoral
Ministry for those who suffer some illness. These same prayers are provided at
the end of the book, more precisely in the chapter six. Patti also mentions that her
own ministry started by recognizing her own inability, or even fear, at visiting
Dick, who had been suffering of sclerosis. This two important aspects – prayer
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professional) – are quite appreciate, because prayer and humility are the nucleus
of any Christian ministry. “Without me, you cannot do anything.” (John 15), said
our Lord Jesus Christ. However, what would be the advantages for us? Ministry
to the sick does not necessarily imply personal benefits, though it can help the
minister out, as Patti mention the of the Michigan Survey Research Center in
1988, in which it was shown that people who aid the sick in hospitals or nurseries
homes live more. Beyond this personal benefices, other factors, like the lack of
ordained priests and the lack of emotional and affection preparation by hospital
staffs (doctors, nurses and so on), call the Christian faithful to carry out a
to 14, the author will add that visiting and caring the sick will be a valuable mean
Patti indentifies the pastoral minister to the sick as the sublime Christian
vocation. We help the sick because we are Christian. When we are visiting the
sick, “we come as Christians” (p. 5). The ministry to the sick is identified with
the healing ministry of our Lord during His earthy life, and we called to be herald
of God’s love to the sick person, as she herself asserts on page 16, “The goal of
pastoral care is to bring the love of Jesus to the individual so that fear may be
expressed and begin to abate – so that healing occurs.” She enforces her opinion
on the New Testament passage (Matthew 25: 34-37a, 40) and two ecclesial
documents issued by the Vatican City, Decree on the Apostolate of the Laity and
The Vocation and Mission of the Lay Faithful in the Church and in the World.
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After considering that this ministry is a Christian vocation, what are the
features and traces that convince us that we are called to this ministry? The
author enlists several reasons, being the main ones: the sacerdotal an priestly
appreciating the importance and active role played by the patients (word that
comes Latin and means “passive one”) as those who teach indirectly through
their painful experiences how to live humbly today. But, how can we confirm our
call? Advices and guidance of a spiritual father, priest, mentor or hospital director
along with the signals of the Holy Spirit may guide us to find out positive
answers. Others signals are: the positive and negative ways by which suffering,
illness and pain react and influence upon our emotional and affective self-reality;
how the terrific and ultimate reality of death helps us to understand our own
mortality and frailty. Patti concludes by providing such inquiries in order to know
oneself if one is truly able to engage in ministering to the sick (p. 10).
whether one is really able to care the sick, Patti provides a theology of the
pastoral care as afforded by some Christian authors. Her main thesis and topic
patients as they attempt to find God in their life situation, to listen as they grow
grow in faith.” (p. 15). Anselm of Canterbury is used by the author as affirming
theologically that sickness of water that is poured forth upon the little faith of the
patient in order to grow up into a fortified confidence. Patients are also called to
his book Mirrors of God. Illness as way directing one’s life to God is used as an
Christian pastoral care undertakers are those who bring peace, shalom,
to the sick people. They have to offer to sick three outstanding gifts,
confidentiality, respect and acceptance. Moreover, other more sublime gifts are
also necessary, like sympathy (to fell sorry for one bad condition of a person),
empathy (to put oneself in the situation of another person, to attempt at really
experiencing what he or she is suffering) and compassion (to fell pain with
other).
It is also important to keep in mind that the pastoral care for the sick is
Christians are members of the Church, the Body of Christ. When visiting the
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sick, the minister must always keep in sight that patients have right to privacy
care in hospitals, the author engages in explaining more practical activities that
involve the visit to the sick at hospitals and nursing homes as an expression of
pastoral care.
She begins the second chapter by asserting what is the purpose of the
visit in practical way. It is necessary, she advises, that the pastoral visitor should
who is the one to be visited and the most important of all not to attempt at
drawing on mentally how the patient actually is. People are different from each
other and diverse, and one pastoral “method” to one might not work out for
another. This is the underlying premise throughout the whole chapter: people,
better to say, the patient are different, thus different approaches to ministry to the
sick must be taken into account. Individual is always the unique and sole object
Not only patients are different, but also the visitor himself or herself.
The author in the section “How are you today?” advises that “in preparing for the
visit it is important to deal with personal issues in your life. An argument at home
may carry over to your pastoral visit. Acknowledge the incident. Seek whatever
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reconciliation is possible. Then proceed with the understanding that the event is a
factor in your relationships with other at that particular time.” (p. 31-32). Thus, it
is important that the visitor should be able to sort out personal and individual
issues from his pastoral activity. Without this awareness, the whole ministry of
Then, the next parts of the chapter are dedicated to a theological and
making the human nature of Christ our Lord as the source of the divine
participation with out suffering humanity and, more closely, human flesh.
Because, Christ has become human through Incarnation, He knows the meaning
avoided. However, how does pain – and by extension, suffering – react in the
patient? What are the psychological features and disturbances? The author enlists
several ones: blame oneself, guilty, fear of loneliness and for the so-individual
she quotes a list of the most common symptoms that follow a patient at his/her
home; anger at self, doctor, God, Church, family; impatience; sadness; guilt, self-
psychological factors can be found in the patient to be visited and vary depending
on the person. The visitor might keep in mind these factors, their causes, how
they work out in the individual and how to deal with them.
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Chicago, who had observed how different people used to react to the loss and
grief. Actually, the sick individual, when finds himself sick or limited by an
illness, runs over five distinct and psychological stages: 1) denial (the first and
and walls, for instance), 3) bargaining (when seen with the unavoideness of the
feelings subsumed, a period of recollection of past harmful habits and vices runs
through the intellect of the patient. In this stage, he blames himself for much
eating, drinking, smoking… Patti Normile advises that, at this stage, silence or let
the patient put out his inner depressive feelings are the best ways of dealing with
the sick) and 5) acceptance (a positive final reaction. Loss and pain cannot be
avoided. They cannot be measured. They are part of our human experience).
“prayer-paration for visit,” she counsels that “if we are to be helpful companions
for others during times related to illness, we must be willing to permit the
‘should’ or ‘ought’ them through pain (…) Our presence and our encouragement
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to share the feelings that surround hospitalization make the time of awaiting
After being prepared for the visit, how should the care visitor proceed?
What tips should he use? When to visit? And, while visiting, what should he say
clinical treatment, like showering or changing linen sheets. When we arrive the
hospital, we must proceed to inquire from nurses and doctors who is the patient,
at what level of infirmity he or she is in or, at least, how he passed the previous
night. Once again, it is fundamental that the privacy of the sick person must be
kept. If we approach a closed door, knock lightly and wait for answers. If there is
no answer, open quietly and slowly and announce who we are, why we came
Always address the patient by the surname, “Mr. Johnson” or “Mrs. Normile,”
unless of course we are very intimate to the patient. Patti advises that we should
follow our instincts and feelings when we are first experiencing a pastoral-care
visit.
people who are sharing the same fate and goals: to be healed. If we attempt to
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pray, it is good to invite the roommate for a prayer with the patient whom you are
assigned to visit.
and spiritual situation) of the patient. It is necessary to observe how the physical
appearance of the room is: are the curtains opened or shut in? Is the room
illumination gloomy or bright? Is the patient performing any activity that implies
he is interest on the out-side world or nor? All these physical features might help
the visitor to glimpse an idea of how the patient is and who he really is. Patti
advises not to take extremes at the first verbal contact with the patient. “A soft
cheerfulness is a safe tone for your entry. A too-cheerful approach may stir
resentment (…) A too-dour attitude may depress the patient.’ (p. 48). Comments
conversation, dialogue. It is crucial that the patient himself or herself sets the
tone and the content of the conversation. Your first and immediate role to be
remarks, like “I stopped to see how you are feeling today” might call out several
and varied answers. Some patients may simply reply with an “O.K.” or tell you
to “create silence” as Normile asserts in her book. This aspect of vital role of
silence and its unique importance is happily stressed on by Normile when she
always good to set a plan, to draw steps and possibilities before meeting a
patient. Naturally, talking about God is not always easy and welcomed but the
patient himself, even unwilling, can lead the way to express his or her own
preference on the hospital admitting form does not necessarily indicate a strong
may not signify an absence of faith. Because we cannot assume the level of
religious connectedness, we must always rely on the patient to articulate it.” (p.
51). It is not a curious causality that listen and silent are only one word with the
letter rearranged.
After that, let the body language communicate. Each small bodily
gesture performed during the conversation can point out how the patient is really
feeling, even though their words express something completely opposite. Also,
these bodily movements might inspire the visitor to invite the patient for a
conversation about his or her inner feelings. Are the hands shaking and grabbing
toughly the edge of the bed? When the patient is talking, his eyes glance to the
floor or far away from the speaker, which signals depression? When is he or she
smiling and saying “Oh, no, everything is alright!”, is there any tears dropping
author mentions that the personality and emotional strength of the person do not
let him to speak. Some people are inner-sighted than other. Medications and
Just listening does not necessarily mean that the visitor should not speak
treatment. Visitor and patient are communicating, dialoguing with each other.
hear. Your response assures the patient that your are with him or her at this
moment.” (p. 57). This active listening is also important to lead the people to
know themselves. This self-knowledge process is made concrete when the visitor
patient to know his or her hidden troubles and feelings. It is what Normile say by
using the expression “naming the demons” after the Gospel narrative when our
Lord asked the name of the demons that were possessing the pigs. This “devil-
naming” help the patient to discover his limitations and interior complexes and
troubles that sometimes is related to the illness itself. After coming to realize his
or her own inner limitations, the patient realizes fully how he really is. In this
the patient. This is throughout the book strongly avoided: to invade the spiritual
Only when the patient takes a full realization of his or her own is that the
appropriate time to speak about God, about faith. Normile sets her approach to
the ministering to the sick upon a relationship between faith and experience
(which is broadly understood as our daily experiences and even feelings). The
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individual himself is an act of faith, a concrete realization of the will and creative
act of God. He came into existence through the will and creation of God. The
patient, should not be afraid to induce the patient to talk about God. “Where is
God in all this for you?” is an adequate inquiry to the patient. As they are varied
and different, their answers are also expected to be. Some may say that He is a
Loving Father Who sent those wonderful people to take care of them and their
families. Other can angrily tell the visitor that God does not exist at all. Even this
himself is a God’s gift to that person; a tool of Providence to tell the ill that God
loves him. “Many patients are not ready to speak of God. Life’s hurt, rejections,
failures have dimmed their concept of God. God-talk may only solidify their
God’s presence in their lives. In such cases – as indeed in all pastoral care visits –
After dealing with the sick people in general, whether young or old, Patti
Normile sets the whole chapter 4 apart to talk about the elderly people in nursing
home and elderly-care centers. Elderly, according to Patti, have their peculiar
problems and circumstances that usually differ from the sick patients in general.
physical perspective, the elderly individuals usually do not bear the same
physical aptitude and performance that young people have. Their sight, hearing,
smelling, legs and touch have possibly have been degrading through the passing
of years. Mental disfunctions might also occur. From the emotional and
psychological point-of-view, some old and sick individuals still feel need of
human company and love, which usually their own relatives do not provide them.
They are lonely and isolated individuals who need our love and care. The
isolation are primary enemies of the elderly. As the years go on, friends and
family move away or become involved in their own busy lives. Some die.
fewer. Diminished hearing and sight may further narrow the world of the elderly.
Physical limitations begin to make it difficult to attend the church. (…) Thus the
elderly in nursing facilities or in their homes.” (p. 90). This is the diagnosis that
Normile draws for the elderly; however it gives the key to identify and
characterize the mission of the pastoral-care for the elderly: “someone seeks to
develops less theologically as she did on the previous chapter. Yet the
practiceness of visiting and caring the elderly does not exclude the theological
insight that the pastoral visitor and elderly care-takers are primarily the Body of
Christ in the nursing homes and hospitals, the active Church inviting the sick
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and elderly to be and stay in communion with Christ and God. But, what are
The first one is to taken into consideration that, although the elderly
present the physical and emotional limitations listed above, it does not
necessarily mean that they are automatically disabled. Normile advises the reader
to speak normally to the old patient at the nursing home, for instance. Speaking
aloud or mimically with expansive gestures and words might sometime become a
caricaturized and ridiculous. The old one may hear you quite well and converse
with you spontaneously about several things. Regarding the childish and
pathetical scenes in which elderly are presumably playing the role of solitary and
granddaughter had felt offended when the nurse asked if her grandfather was
ready to make “wee-wee” (p. 93). Patti summarizes the whole matter like this:
of the elderly, that is, to visualize previously how he or she “might” be feeling or
actually is. In this situation, Patti advises to avoid to discuss about the physical
appearance of the elderly or to imply through your remarks something of the age
The third tips (in plural) involve a more physical and practical actions
that can make visiting the elderly pretty successful: in sum, to bridge a sincere
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friendship with the elderly. They are: (1) Establishing a rapport, (2) to be
pleasant, (3) to listen frequently, (4) bringing gifts and (5) touching.
who are unable to attend the Church for several reasons: “You bring Church, that
gathering of two or more in the name of Jesus, to one who is unable to attend
worship services. As a pastoral care visitor you bring your own personal
charisma: your smile, your touch, your compassion conveyed face-to-face. (…)
You come in the name of the Church; your visit represents the concern of many.
Your visit enables communion, union with the Body of Christ.” (p.99)
sickness, age or loneliness. Humans need other humans, especially when we are
sick. After brilliantly describing her own and others’ experiences of dealing with,
living and ministering to the sick and elderly individuals, Normile now begins
briefly to draws attention to the opposite group: the health one, those who care
and treat our limited brothers and sisters: doctors, nurses, care-takers in general.
Caring for them is as essential as caring for the sick and elderly.
In this chapter, Patti Normile only enlists cases and incidents that
situation of the caretaker and how this “personalness” can become involved in his
interfere in our daily caring and life-saving job at hospitals and nursing homes.
However, a personal contact with those being cared aid the person to known
knowing God. Experiences in hospitals and nursing homes aid at our upbringing
experiences] becomes a part of your life’s journey. How you process your visit
determines how it will affect your life and your ministry. What you learn from
each visit will guide and shape your ministry to the sick and to their families.
Feelings and emotions that are not dealt with will weigh you down.
Unrecognized feelings fuel emotional burnout in ministry to the sick.” (p. 107)
This was the experience of Mary which is narrated by Normile at the end
of the chapter, from pages 107 to 109. From her own experience of caring her
own mother, she had decided to take a practicum at pastoral caring to hospitals
and nursing homes. It was not an easy experience. Many feelings and traumas
kept hidden in her heart and sentiments. Being a strongly sensitive person, Maria
realized that it was necessary to deal with this sensitiveness in order to not take it
to sick individual whom she would eventually minister to. Thus, Maria plans out
did I like about what I did?” Maria puts her spiritual and emotional reality at the
core of her ministering. Thus, she was able to grow both personally and also be
thus: “Beware of the tendency of ministry to the sick to draw you into a vortex.
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Take time for yourself. Laugh, pray, love, gather vitality into yourself. You will
then have joy and peace, energy and life to share through your presence.” (p.109)
on the ontological reality of man and how this ontologically created man relates
deification – is nothing less than the history of two fundamental realities: God
and His creation; God and the crown of His creation, the man.
It is undeniable that man – exactly for being the crown of God’s creation
both visible and invisible – must be the core of the universe, the goal and aim of
the deification and participation in Christ. All human created reality, I means,
care and attention, to bring back the primeval deified and pure condition of Adam
in Paradise. Within this framework, how did the early Christians, as being Greco-
Roman and speakers of Greek, understand illness? What is it? How do the Holy
Scriptures, specifically in the Gospels and the Epistles, communicate about this
topic?
In antique Greek through which the New Testament Holy Writs were
written, “illness” was usually signified by using the item ασθενής (in modern
Greek, one has ασθένεια). This item meant any kind of sickness and had a broad
meaning; sickness was understood not only in healthy sense, but also morally or
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economically. One finds this item, for instance, in the Gospel of Mathew, chapter
25 verse 43, when our Lord identifies Himself with the naked, destitute and sick
among human beings: “I was a stranger, and ye took me not in: naked, and ye
clothed me not: sick, and in prison, and ye visited me not” (ξένος ἤμην, καὶ οὐ
συνηγάγετέ με, γυμνός, καὶ οὐ περιεβάλετέ με, ἀσθενὴς καὶ ἐν φυλακῇ, καὶ οὐκ
ἐπεσκέψασθέ με). In the apostolic tradition that is found in the New Testament, it
can also be found, for instance, in the Book of Acts (5: 15f): “Insomuch that they
brought forth the sick into the streets, and laid them on beds and couches, that at
the least the shadow of Peter passing by might overshadow some of them” ( ὥστε
κατὰ τὰς πλατείας ἐκφέρειν τοὺς ἀσθενεῖς καὶ τιθέναι ἐπὶ κλινῶν καὶ κραβάττων, ἵνα
ἐρχομένου Πέτρου κἂν ἡ σκιὰ ἐπισκιάσῃ τινὶ αὐτῶν.). Thus, the early Christian
understood and defined sickness not only as a simple physical disease, but as a
whole negative reality that comprised physical sickness, moral and economical
This is the main implication that the Holy Apostles applied when they
were writing the Gospels and the Epistles. Healing ministry, in the New
Testament, simply means “becoming wholly again.” Healing is not only freedom
“Do you wish to be healed?” or “Do you wish to be made well?”, the originals of
the Gospel make it as “Do you wish to be made new?” θέλεις ὑγιὴς γενέσθαι;
sickness and sin. This is one of the many inheritances that Jewish Christianity
had brought from its Jewish past and gave to the Orthodox Church. In the First
Epistle of St. Paul to the Corinthians (11:30), he uses the Greek item άρρωστος
passage says: διὰ τοῦτο ἐν ὑμῖν πολλοὶ ἀσθενεῖς καὶ ἄρρωστοι καὶ κοιμῶνται ἱκανοί
(“For this cause many are weak and sickly among you, and many sleep”).
Exactly because sickness is seen as result of sin that the healing ministry of the
Church bases this sacramental reality of healing on the Holy Unction upon the
Enferm, as one finds in the Epistle of the Apostle James (5:13-15). Therefore, the
both of them, due to the fact they are related, are a twofold part of the decayed
visiting and ministering to the sick, her book would become more valuable if she
added this ontological theology of relationship between man and God, between
sickness and sin, healing and salvation. Sin, Fall, Repentance and Confession are
never mentioned throughout her booklets, at least when she deals with
the Holy Mysteries of Eucharist and Holy Unction mentioned at the end of the
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between the visitor and the sick. It would be more necessary to draw them as the
sacramental tool and way of healing and redemption; as ways of God’s action of
grace.
become a pathway to salvation; especially it is seen within the tense reality of our
References
Bauer, Walter. A Greek-English Lexicon of the New Testament and other Early
Christian Literature, trans. William F. Arndt, and F. Wilbur Gingrich. Chicago:
the University of Chicago Press, 1979.
Normile, Patti. Visiting the Sick: a Guide for Parish Ministers. Cincinatti: St.
Anthony Messanger Press. 1992.