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Running Head: TEACHER-STUDENT RELATIONSHIPS

Student perceptions of teacher-student relationships:

Examining the effects of self-awareness and community-building exercises

Allison Miller

ED 626 Classroom Research

University of Alaska Southeast

December 8, 2018
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Abstract

In this qualitative study, implications of teacher-student relationships (TSRs) for students and

teachers were explored, with special attention paid to affective influences on engagement and

motivation. Developed through research of the existing literature, a responsive, adaptive school

climate intervention program was implemented in a small secondary classroom for three weeks

to examine how the introduction of community and empathy building exercises and mindfulness

practices affected student perceptions of the school climate. Student responses, behaviors, and

observations were organized into five thematic dimensions that emerged from the data. Further

analysis of the data indicated that continual reflexive responses to student perceptions of curricu-

lum and classroom socio-emotional dynamics encouraged student as well as teacher engagement,

motivation, and overall classroom climate. My findings suggest that authentic relationships be-

tween teachers and students can even improve areas of the school climate not directly related to

social interactions, offering promising prospects for future research on the impacts of socio-emo-

tional learning in broader contexts.


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Introduction

My experiences as a pre-service educator in classrooms where I volunteered and have

been employed as an instructional aide and substitute teacher in a small rural school in Alaska

prompted me to consider the most effective ways for educators to interact and relate to students

of all ages. Experienced teachers have offered varied advice and role-modeling ranging from au-

thoritative discipline focused on compliance, to friendly relationships with students in which

academic expectations often seemed compromised and classroom management was haphazard.

During the development of this study, I was temporarily working as a long-term substitute

teacher for grades 6-12 after their teacher unexpectedly resigned without notice. The previous

year I worked as an instructional aide in the same classroom, and that year their teacher was also

their principal. Despite his welcoming, encouraging, and uplifting charisma and positive influ-

ence on his students, he simply didn’t have enough time to shine in both positions. Concurrently,

drastic budget cuts continued to plague our small school, affecting the number of teachers, and

consequently student enrollment. In our small community, there were 19 school-aged children

who were homeschooled. There were 29 enrolled in the school. As enrollment dropped, so did

funding, creating a reciprocal problem that could only be solved by having more students attend

public school.

As a result of this problem, those who were most at risk were the secondary students who

continued to remain enrolled in the public school. They saw their homeschooled peers complet-

ing their courses online in a fraction of the time they spent at school, leaving extra time for earn-

ing money, caring for family, and sometimes partaking in illegal and dangerous activities. Stu-

dents who were still in school needed persuasively positive reasons to stay in school. As more of
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their class subjects transitioned to online formats, there was less engaging interaction between

teachers and students, and even less interactions between students that were relevant to their ex-

periences at school. I wanted to explore the most effective ways to enhance the relationships at

school that might positively influence their perspectives of the school climate and their thoughts

about school in general.

Literature Review

Positive relationships between teachers and students have important and varied implica-

tions for both students and teachers. These relationships can affect students’ cognitive develop-

ment, engagement, motivation, and academic achievement. They can also affect teachers’ confi-

dence, efficacy, and professional identity, emotional dimensions that impact practice, and can

lead to possible stress and burnout. Therefore, strategies that utilize researched and successful

practices in building positive effective relationships are necessary.

Implications for students

Teacher-student relationships (TSRs) have long been shown to increase student engage-

ment and motivation (Skinner & Belmont, 1993; Skinner, Wellborn, & Connell, 1990; Worthy &

Patterson, 2001), and this engagement has been shown to act as a mediator between TSRs and

academic achievement (Furrer & Skinner, 2003). This indirect effect was found in first grade

readers to impact the following year of school, and be reciprocal in nature, so that the level of

student engagement also affects the quality of the resulting TSR (Hughes & Kwok, 2007).

In a meta-analytical study conducted by Roorda, Koomen, Spilt, & Oort (2011), it was

found that TSRs were influential even for older students, that they were more important for stu-

dents academically at risk, and that the effects of negative relationships were stronger than for
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positive relationships. The reciprocity found between TSRs and student engagement suggests

that, because student engagement links TSRs and classroom quality to achievement (Ponitz,

Rimm-Kaufman, Grimm, & Curby, 2009), student achievement may also influence the quality of

the TSR. A significant reciprocal relation has been found between students’ high achievement on

test scores and teacher’s emotional exhaustion that leads to teacher absence, inadequate prepara-

tion, and lower instructional quality (Klusmann, Richter, & Ludtke, 2016). This indicates that

poor relationships lead to poor achievement, from which poor relationships and achievement

perpetuate.

Skinner and Belmont (1993) also found this cyclical reciprocity in positive relationships,

to the extent of being exclusive to behaviorally engaged students. Students who showed high ini-

tial behavioral engagement elicited more teacher involvement, structure, and autonomy support,

whereas students who were behaviorally disengaged elicited fewer teacher responses. The im-

portance of TSRs on student behavior has also been indicated in research. Adolescent self-reports

found that students were less likely to get in trouble in school when they had more positive views

of their teachers, and that this intergenerational bonding can be a protective resource for future

achievement (Crosnoe, Johnson, & Elder, 2004).

These findings suggest that positive relationships are crucial in the developmental stages

of school adjustment, particularly for lower-achieving students, and have lasting effects that con-

tinue to predict and protect not only student engagement and behavior, but indirectly their acad-

emic achievement, and also determine the resulting quality of future TSRs. The literature indi-

cates that teachers should be aware of the reciprocal implications of how these relationships are

impacted by behaviors, engagement, and achievements. Research is needed to explore how in-
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tervening strategies can interrupt unhealthy cycles and ameliorate the detrimental affects of nega-

tive relationships and disengaged behaviors.

Implications for teachers

Teacher-student relationships have been shown to have both beneficial and detrimental

implications for teachers. TSRs can bolster teacher confidence and efficacy, but can also cause

confusion and power struggles that compromise the professional identity of teachers. Establish-

ing positive relationships with students can help new teachers evolve from having feelings of in-

adequacy to focusing on the needs of individual students, and mitigate the damaging effects of

labels and preconceived notions about children who are struggling (Worthy & Patterson, 2001).

Close relationships with students can also pose complicated decision-making issues.

Aultman, Williams-Johnson, and Schutz (2009) found that teachers were overwhelmingly con-

cerned with their ability to balance showing students they cared with keeping “an even keel” in

the classroom (p. 644). Drawing boundary lines in TSRs can cause teachers to struggle with is-

sues in emotional involvement. The emotional involvement often required of teachers in building

rapport and establishing positive relationships has been found to be a cause of emotional exhaus-

tion when concerns are brought home from work. This same involvement can sometimes cause

students to take advantage of a teacher’s kindness in way of behavioral or academic grading ex-

pectations (Aultman, Williams-Johnson, & Schutz, 2009). In fact, experienced teachers tended to

“change their approaches to developing involvement and changed the parameters of various in-

teraction boundaries as they gained confidence in their teaching role” (p. 645).

Many teachers have been shown to experience emotional exhaustion related to emotional

involvement, potentially leading to emotional exhaustion and burnout. Yilmaz, Altinkurt, Guner,
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& Sen (2015) found that the emotional labor required by teachers to establish and maintain posi-

tive relationships with their students without crossing any number of boundaries has predicted

burnout. The different levels of dealing with emotions in the teaching profession were studied to

find that teachers have the highest level of burnout when they experience emotional exhaustion.

The study also found that emotional exhaustion was predicted when teachers used a lot of sur-

face acting (to pretend to be feeling a certain emotion through words and body language). It was

concluded that surface acting leads to burnout. They also found that teachers’ emotional labor

was at a high level for deep acting (which acts to internalize emotion) and naturally-felt emo-

tions. The implications of this study suggest that the emotional involvement required in genuine

teacher-student relationships, and the emotional labor of establishing and maintaining appropri-

ate TSRs that benefit student performance, come with potentially detrimental consequences for

teachers.

Strategies

Classroom practices that potentially encourage the interpersonal closeness that leads to

excelled student performance while also enhancing teacher efficacy and professionalism without

compromising emotional integrity are explored.

Mindfulness. Mindfulness practices in the classroom have been shown to benefit not

only students by improving focus and motivation, optimism and self-concept, but also other

school personnel by decreasing stress and increasing social competence behaviors in the class-

room and improving relationships (Black & Fernando, 2014; Schonert-Reichl & Lawlor, 2010).

Mindfulness training (MT) has also shown to be beneficial for teachers, who by developing self-

regulatory resources to meet the cognitive, social, and emotional demands of teaching, are able
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to “conserve precious motivational and self-regulatory resources for investment in relationships

with students and classroom teaching rather than coping and defense” (Roeser, et al., 2013, p.

16). MT or mindfulness education (ME) can be characterized by incorporating strategies such as

sustained intentional attention and non-judgmental cultivation of positive emotion toward oneself

and others, and practicing self-regulating control of one’s thoughts and emotions (Roeser, et al.

2013; Schonert-Reichl & Lawlor, 2010).

Restorative Practices. Restorative approaches to maintaining relationships focus on

mending negative experiences and cultivating an atmosphere of respect (Zehr & Toews, 2004).

Recently, restorative practices have been expanded in schools to include methods for preventing

infractions, emphasizing an ethos of care and social and emotional learning (SEL)

(Blood & Thorsborne, 2005; McCluskey, et al., 2008). Drewery (2007) explains that “restorative

practice in schools includes a less confrontational approach to discipline and a focus on relational

practices earlier in the chain” (p. 207). Restorative strategies can be characterized by communi-

ty-building exercises, affective communication, shared ownership, and increased personal ac-

countability. Common practices include peer mediation, classroom circles to resolve problems,

restorative conferencing, student leadership training and parent education (Armstrong, 2007).

Gregory, Clawson, Davis, & Gerewitz (2015) found that teachers who implemented restorative

practices in their classrooms had more positive relationships with their students, and that they

perceived their teachers as more respectful. Kaveney & Drewery (2011) found that restorative

practices improved the atmosphere in classrooms, making them calmer and more relaxed, and

that teachers experienced lower levels of stress, which they attributed to their acknowledging

how they felt in class meetings. The quality and output of student work also improved.
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Warm Demander Stance. Embedded in the literature of TSR strategies and techniques,

especially concerning culturally responsive pedagogy, is the warm demander stance that first ap-

peared in Kleinfeld’s 1975 study of effective teachers of Native Alaskan students to describe an

approach to building positive relationships with students characterized by warmth as expressed

by non-verbal language such as smiling and physical closeness coupled with an active demand-

ingness that students meet high academic expectations. The phrase began to appear later refer-

encing effective teachers of many diverse cultures (Irvine & Fraser, 1998; Vasquez, 1989; Ware,

2006). Warm demanding teachers approach relationships with their students as caregivers, disci-

plinarians, and pedagogues whose central concern is social justice to improve the lives of their

students, in and out of school (Ware, 2006). The warm demanding stance is characterized by

deep abiding care, an authoritative approach to discipline, and instructional activities that are re-

sponsive to their students’ cultural norms and traditions (Bondy, 2013; Irvine and Fraser, 1998;

Kleinfeld, 1975). It is through relationships with students that teachers are able to engage and

hold strictly high expectations for their performance so that students will internalize those expec-

tations and academic engagement (Bondy, 2013).

Conclusion

The relationships that are built and maintained in classrooms between teachers and their

students have significant and enduring influences on both students and teachers. For students,

relationships with their teachers can influence academic achievement, engagement and motiva-

tion, and behavior. The reciprocal nature of the correlations between TSRs and the implications

for students means that, as student achievement, motivation, and behavior also influences the re-

lationship, a cycle can result in either positive or negative relationships that undermines the ben-
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efits of building and maintaining TSRs. More research is needed on potential strategies to break

the cycle of unhealthy reciprocity and realigning relationships.

The implications of TSRs for teachers relate to efficacy and professional identity, emo-

tional influences on practice that can lead to exhaustion, and struggles with boundaries that can

be difficult to maintain. In order for TSRs to be truly beneficial for both students and teachers,

special care should be taken to design classroom relationship-building practices that lead to

closeness and community while drawing clear and consistent boundaries.

Three overlapping strategies have been identified to enhance teacher-student relationships

in classrooms: mindfulness, restorative practices, and the warm demander style of teaching.

While each strategy is characterized by different activities, attitudes, and focus or direction, all

three can be understood to build personal accountability within a classroom community and en-

hance awareness of self and others. In Figure 1: Relationship concept web, characteristics of

Figure 1. Relationship concept web


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each strategy are explored and connected to determine which traits are most common. The traits

that can be directly connected to four or more other traits have been highlighted in yellow. As

indicated in Figure 1, the most common traits between the three strategies are: personal account-

ability, community building, affective communication, self-regulation, and high expectations.

Theoretical Framework

Social Development Theory and Teacher-Student Relationships (TSRs)

The social development theory of Lev Vygotsky (1978) has long influenced the belief that

relationships precede cognition in child development. Vygotsky’s belief in the importance of the

more knowledgeable other (MKO) emphasizes the critical role that adults play in the cognitive

development of children. The MKO is anyone who has a better understanding or higher ability

level, and is integrated into another important Vygotskyan principle: The Zone of Proximal De-

velopment (ZPD). The ZPD refers to the difference between what a learner can do without help

and what can be done with help and guidance. Vygotsky claimed that a child follows an adult’s

example and can gradually develop the ability to complete the task without help. The ZPD and

MKO imply that relationships with adults are crucial to cooperative construction of new knowl-

edge.

The philosophical works of Martin Buber (1947; 1958) provide further insight into the

theoretical foundation of the current study. Buber held strong philosophical beliefs on the neces-

sity of relationships, dialogue, and inclusion in education, stating that “all real living is

meeting” (1958, p.25). Buber stated that we grow and develop as we learn to live in relation to

others, as we encounter one another and the space between. As we meet, Buber contends, the

primary mode of exploring the distance between one another is dialogue. Through this dialogue,
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we include ourselves in another person’s experience. This is not empathy, which Buber believed

risked the losing of oneself, but rather experiencing oneself and simultaneously perceiving an-

other person’s experience. These are profound implications for building and maintaining TSRs.

The Ethic of Care

Nel Noddings’ (1984) philosophy describes a feminist approach to morality, one that val-

ues relations, connections, and context. Caring is “rooted in receptivity, relatedness, and respon-

siveness” (p. 2), characteristics inextricably linked to relationships. In regards to education, she

contends that teachers and students need to interact as whole persons in whole communities, thus

incorporating the ethic of care into educational practices (Noddings, 2005).

Emotional Geographies of Teaching

Andy Hargreaves’ (2001) concept of emotional geographies considers the distance or

closeness in people’s interactions or relationships, and allows for the identification of supports

and threats to relationships. These geographies are imaginary and are continually reexamined and

remade according to interactions with others. It is through the examinations and recreations of

emotional geographies that teachers better understand how to create stronger emotional under-

standing in their relationships with students.

Emotional labor, emotional exhaustion, and burnout. Necessarily embedded in the

emotional geographies of teaching are the threats to positive relationships that these emotions

can incur. The concepts of emotional labor, emotional exhaustion, and burnout are challenges to

TSRs that many teachers face and struggle with in response to deeply caring about their students.

Emotional labor, as first defined by sociologist Arlie Hochschild (1983), is emotion regulation

used in the workplace to show positive emotion and temper true feelings. Surface acting is sup-
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pressing an actual (undesired) emotion (e.g., anger), or faking a desired emotion (e.g., excitement

or calmness). Emotional exhaustion (EE) refers to a depletion of emotional resources, thus feel-

ing emotionally overextended (Evers, Tomic, & Brouwers, 2004). Burnout has been defined as

“a psychological syndrome in response to chronic interpersonal stressors on the job” (Maslach,

Schaufeli, & Leiter, 2001, p. 399).

Because of the potential adverse affects of emotional labor on teaching efficacy and per-

sonal health, it is crucial that teachers implement appropriate TSR building and maintenance

strategies that not only promise beneficial implications for students, but have low risk of causing

detrimental emotional consequences for teachers.

Research Question

How will student perceptions of teacher-student relationships be affected by the imple-

mentation of a three-week homeroom program infused with self-awareness practice and commu-

nity-building exercises, supported by a warm and caring teacher with high expectations, in a

small rural Alaskan middle school classroom?

Research Design

In this exploration of relationships in a small rural Alaskan secondary classroom using a

responsive program to build and maintain positive community, I took a qualitative action re-

search approach to attempt to influence classroom relationship dynamics with the implementa-

tion of a three-week community-building and self-awareness program during morning home-

room period. I took a narrative approach in this research through a content analysis design high-

lighting the themes that emerged in student perceptions of teacher-student relationships. (Merri-

am & Tisdell, 2016).


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Participants

Participants were middle and high school students in grades 6-11 in a small rural K-12

school in Southcentral Alaska. The convenient sample was ten students, one of whom was in

sixth grade, one in seventh, two in eighth, one in ninth, three in tenth, and two in eleventh grade.

Two students were male, eight were female. The implementation of the program took place four

days a week (Tuesday through Friday) during the morning advisory period, a half-hour time

block during which positivity projects and classroom circles recently took place. During the sec-

ond week, however, an already short week (because of scheduled parent teacher conferences)

was reduced to a single day of the program due to researcher illness.

Methods

Pre- and post- intervention questionnaires on student perceptions of school climate were

completed by students before and after implementation of the three-week program. The Students

As Allies questionnaire, developed by www.whatkidscando.org, was designed and administered

by student-teacher research teams at twenty schools in five cities. It includes a common core of

questions focusing on school climate, teacher-student relationships, teaching styles, academic

expectations, safety and discipline, student voice, and improving student learning. It consists of

50 Likert-type survey questions and two open-ended response questions. This survey was modi-

fied for this study by adding questions about distractions and the ability to focus. The resulting

hybridized questionnaire (Appendix A), succinctly addresses student perceptions of relationships

and the school climate concerns explored in this study. The questionnaire was administered by

myself by talking students through each question as they completed it in order to dispel confu-

sion. Because the principal had required that all students who participate have parent permission,
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of the eight students who were present that day, six had returned permission forms and were

permitted to participate. The two students who hadn’t returned their permission slips sat with us

and listened while I guided the rest of the class through the questionnaire. The following day,

another two students completed the survey. Eight students completed the pre-assessment ques-

tionnaire over the course of two days.

The student responses to the pre-questionnaires were reviewed for themes that indicated

student interest and areas that students felt needed significant improvement, which determined

specific features of the intervention program. Thus, students indirectly designed the intervention

program via their responses to the questionnaire. A researcher version of the questionnaire (Ap-

pendix B) was color-coded by theme to indicate which questions were of particular interest in

five areas: green for relationships; yellow referred to empathy; orange related to the curriculum

and learning concerns; blue referred to mindfulness concerns relating to ability to focus as well

as intentional thought; and pink questions were those relating to emotions and how students felt,

some of which raised safety concerns.

Once student questionnaires were collected and totals were tallied, I entered those totals

onto the researcher version of the questionnaire and looked at those responses that received the

highest frequency of disagreement. While most questions were framed with a negative correla-

tion between statements and students’ perceptions (for example, disagreement with the statement

“Teachers like me”), a few statements indicated positive correlations (for example, agreement

with “Most of my teachers don’t understand what my life is like outside of school”), for which

values were inverted. These results guided the specific direction of the intervention program. For

example, if students indicated that they were not distracted, and were able to easily focus during
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school, but the majority indicated that they did not feel understood by their teachers and other

students, then the intervention would focus more on community building within the classroom,

and less on self-regulation and intentional focusing. Students also completed a condensed ver-

sion of the same questionnaire at the end of the program which was limited to the questions that

had been used to guide the development of the program. Pre- and post- questionnaires were

compared and analyzed in reference to one another as well as triangulated with other data

sources.

The school climate program consisted of three weeks during the half-hour period in the

morning when students learned and practiced a variety of self-awareness strategies and commu-

nity-building exercises. Students explored mindfulness by becoming aware of their breath and

thoughts, recognized their emotional status by ‘checking in’ with the class, and built empathy

and community through talking circles, group activities, and sharing reflections. Specific lessons,

activities, and writing prompts were developed in response to the themes that emerged in the pre-

intervention questionnaire, and the daily activities were modified in response to student reactions

and written responses throughout the program. Appendix C outlines the activities, exercises, and

projects the class completed. Throughout the three-week program, I strived to improve my warm

demander stance by exhibiting a caring curiosity about all students backed by an insistent de-

mand of student effort and engagement.

During the course of the intervention program, I had intended to take field notes during

the homeroom period with particular attention focused on student participation, attitude, and

teacher-student relationship changes. Toward the beginning of the program, I found that I was

not able to take notes while actively guiding discussions and giving instructions, so I made notes
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immediately following our sessions. In a two-column format, I took chronological notes on the

occurrences of the session in the first column, also indicating any notable events or impressions I

had. In the second column I reflected more deeply on the immediate notes and added possible

responses to events and immediate impressions. Each day, I used my reflections on student be-

haviors and comments to guide future discussions and activities.

Weekly, I pored over my notes with colored pencils, highlighting passages in colors

matching the themes designated in the researcher’s version of the questionnaire. Then I placed a

plus or negative symbol beside each note to indicate whether the event or thought represented a

positive statement or one that I felt indicated a need for improvement in that dimension of the

school climate. These indicators of positive and negative interactions in the classroom during my

intervention program were entered into a spreadsheet organized by theme and date. Student

quotes, responses, and notes on behaviors were also pulled from my field notes and examined for

patterns and trends.

The final method of data collection was student-generated exit tickets twice per week that

inquired about student perceptions of self-awareness, relationships, and classroom climate. The

nature of these specific writing prompts was determined in response to emergent themes during

classroom discourse. Student written reflections were used as formative assessment for program

development as well as analyzed and compared to student responses in field notes and question-

naires. One exit ticket was issued on Wednesday of each week, and another on Friday. Student

responses were recorded in a single digital document and coded according to the themes deter-

mined for this study.


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Internal validity in this study was accomplished through triangulation of multiple meth-

ods and sources of qualitative data, and considered researcher reflexivity (Merriam & Tisdell,

2016). Narrative and content analyses of questionnaires, field notes, and exit tickets was con-

ducted. Data content was analyzed for emergent themes in student perceptions, and a narrative

approach was used to share the story of the study. Finally, researcher assumptions, biases, and

expectations is discussed in relation to the research process i.e., how the researcher is affected by

and affected the research (Merriam & Tisdell, 2016).

Results

Data for this study on student responses to an adaptive school climate program was col-

lected for this study from a secondary classroom in a small rural Alaskan school of grades 6-12.

Ten students participated in the study in varying degrees owing to a combination absence and

lack of parent permission. At the beginning of the implementation of this program, eight students

completed a pre-assessment questionnaire from which the following three weeks of program-

ming were designed. Also contributing to specific guidance for program curriculum were reflec-

tive field notes and students’ exit tickets. Not only were these data used as formative assessment

for intervention planning reasons, these three forms of data were also investigated and compared

to determine summative implications for this study.

Pre-Assessment Questionnaire

The student questionnaire (Appendix A) issued prior to the social climate program com-

mencement elicited responses that not only suggested indications of which areas of the school

climate students thought might need improvement, but also provided baseline data on student

perceptions to which subsequent student responses and behavior could be compared. It was
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found that the highest disagreement was found for statements associated with the challenging

nature of their classes (50% disagreement), feeling that students belong in school (50% dis-

agreement), self-motivation (37.5% disagreement), and the ability to focus (37.5%

disagreement). Three of eight students claimed that they had thought about dropping out of

school, the most frequent reasons being because school was boring, they did not feel prepared for

class, and because they had family responsibilities.

Students claimed that they found themselves most distracted when they were overly tired,

bored, and during conversations. They stated that they were most frequently distracted by

friends, technology, and noises. Students felt that teachers spoke with them most often about

good academic performance, their interests, not completing assignments, and disrupting class.

They rated more one-on-one from teachers and more real-world examples as the top choices for

what would help them learn better. The most effective teachers they characterized as being nice,

funny, and having knowledge and enthusiasm for teaching. All students agreed that they should

take responsibility for their learning, and there was a slight disagreement that student-teacher re-

lationships affect academic achievement and school climate. When asked “What do you think are

the most important issues that need to be addressed at your school?”, the most frequent responses

referred to teachers— the low number of them, and the lack of presence and changing consisten-

cy of a full-time teacher.

Field Notes

The field notes examined in the results of this study focused on student statements and

behaviors regarding their perceptions of the school climate. I tallied positive and negative stu-

dent responses and behaviors for each day of field notes that referred to the five dimensions of
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the school climate I had determined for this study: 1) relationships between students and teachers

and among students; 2) empathy and respect for their peers and educators; 3) curriculum and

learning concerns; 4) issues related to mindfulness and the ability to focus; and 5) the emotional

dimension of school climate.

As shown in Table 1, my initial field notes for the first week indicated one mention of

positive relationships, one negative reference to learning or curriculum, and one negative com-

ment about emotions. On the second day of the intervention program, negative indicators out-

numbered positive statements about issues relating to empathy, but student response and behav-

iors in the curricular aspects of school climate were slightly more positive. The third day showed

positive growth in relationships, but the empathy dimension continued to be dominated by nega-

tive indicators. On the fourth day, the empathy and curriculum dimensions joined relationships in

positive gains, as the mindfulness dimension remained in the negative range. During the first

week of the intervention, my field notes of student responses and behavior indicate that positive

relationships overrepresented negative ones, and references to the curriculum dimension of

school climate were more positive than negative. However, in the dimensions of empathy, mind-

fulness, and emotions, negative student responses and behaviors were more common than posi-

tive references.
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Dimension of School Climate

student response/behavior referred to


Relationships Empathy Curriculum Mindfulness Emotions

Date of + - + - + - + - + -
Number of notes on

field
student response/

notes
10/23 1 1 1
10/24 2 2 1 3 3 2 1 1 1
10/25 8 3 1 3 1 1 1 1
10/26 5 2 2 1 2 3 1 2
week 1 16 7 5 7 7 5 1 4 2 5

Table 1: Positive (+) and negative (-) indicators in field notes for week 1

October 30th was a day of the intervention for which my notes saw more mentions of

negative student responses and behavior in four out of five dimensions of school climate. That

being the only day in which the school climate program took place that week (due to parent-

teacher conferences and researcher illness), the second week of the school climate program was

characterized by negative statements and behaviors about relationships, empathy in the class-

room, curriculum and learning concerns, and mindfulness, as shown in Table 2.

Dimension of School Climate

student response/behavior referred to


Relationships Empathy Curriculum Mindfulness Emotions

Date of + - + - + - + - + -
response/behavior
Number of notes

field
on student

notes
10/30 3 4 2 3 4 3
week 2 3 4 2 3 4 3

Table 2: Positive (+) and negative (-) indicators in field notes for week 2
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During the final week of the school climate program, November 6-9, positive indicators

dominated my field notes for student responses to the dimensions of relationships, empathy, and

learning, while negative indicators were more common than positive for the emotions dimension.

Responses to mindfulness concerns were equally positive and negative. Looking closer at each

day of that week, it was apparent that this summary of the week is representative of each day ex-

cept for the second day, in which statements and notes on relationships and curriculum were

slightly more negative than positive. See Table 3.

Dimension of School Climate

student response/behavior referred to


Relationships Empathy Curriculum Mindfulness Emotions

Date of + - + - + - + - + -
field
Number of notes on student

notes
response/behavior

11/6 6 3 1 6 3 1
11/7 2 3 4 2 2 4 2
11/8 6 5 7 4 7 3 1
11/9 14 8 2 2 6 5 2 1 1
week 3 28 19 14 8 21 15 2 2 1 3

Table 3: Positive (+) and negative (-) indicators in field notes for week 3

Summarizing indicators in my field notes on student responses and behaviors for the

overall program, positive statements outnumbered negative ones in the relationships, curriculum,

and empathy dimensions. Student responses and behaviors in regards to mindfulness and emo-

tions, however, were predominantly negative in my field notes overall.


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Dimension of School Climate

student response/behavior referred to


Relationships Empathy Curriculum Mindfulness Emotions

Date of + - + - + - + - + -
Number of notes on student

field
response/behavior

notes
week 1 16 7 5 7 7 5 1 4 2 5
week 2 3 4 2 3 4 3
week 3 28 19 14 8 21 15 2 2 1 3
Overall 47 30 19 17 31 24 3 9 3 8

Table 4: Positive (+) and negative (-) indicators in field notes, a comparison of weekly totals and

overall totals.

Exit Tickets

Writing prompts for four exit tickets were administered twice a week, on Wednesdays

and Fridays. Because I was not able to meet with the class on Wednesday or Friday of the second

week, no exit tickets were collected for that week. The writing prompts were as follows, present-

ed in the order in which they were issued to students:

• Why does school climate matter?;

• How does learning more about each other impact school climate?;

• What was difficult about the mindfulness exercises you participated in and how did you feel

immediately after the mindfulness exercises?; and

• What is the best way to improve school climate?

Student responses were collected and color-coded according to the underlying theme of

their statements (Appendix D), which referred back to the five established dimensions of school

climate: relationships; empathy; curriculum and learning; mindfulness; and feelings and emo-
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tions. Although one of the prompts referred directly to only one of the five dimensions (mindful-

ness), the other prompts elicited responses relating to a range of aspects of the school climate.

Initial student responses to exit ticket questions predominately referred to curriculum and learn-

ing as the reason why school climate matters. One student said that “If the school climate was

bad then it would be harder to learn and to be successful in life because no one would want to be

at school.” Another student even referred to the implications of school climate for post-secondary

education: “I think you need a school with a good climate to truly succeed. You need a good edu-

cation to get in a good school.”

As the intervention program progressed and students participated in team-building exer-

cises, more responses indicated the importance of relationships and how students treat one an-

other. One student claimed that “by learning about eachother, we can get along more, and im-

prove our relationships with our friends and our school.” Another student introduced the idea of

adverse effects of close relationships in school: “When learning about each other it can affect the

schools climate either negatively or positively. We could have HUGE differences that could

cause arguments or it could help us get along.”

The exit ticket prompt that addressed student reactions to mindfulness exercises referred

only to the mindfulness and emotional dimensions of school climate. Students found noise and

an overwhelming amount of thoughts to be the most difficult obstacles to successful mindfulness

practice. Most students claimed that they felt no different after the mindfulness exercises, al-

though one student did claim to feel calmer, and another was more relaxed.

The final exit ticket elicited responses that stressed the importance of student cooperation

and teacher-student relationships, respect and kindness, flexible and cooperative learning, and a
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comfortable environment. When asked what they thought the best way to improve school climate

was, some illuminating responses were: “The best way to improve school climate is to improve

our relationships with our fellow students and teachers.”; “The best way to improve school cli-

mate is to respect and realize peoples beliefs and point of view”; “Students can be kind and

school can be flexible”.

Post-Intervention Questionnaire

On the last day of the program, students completed a condensed version of the pre-as-

sessment questionnaire issued prior to the start of the program (Appendix E). The questions in-

cluded in the condensed version were those that received the highest frequency of negative re-

sponse in the pre-assessment questionnaire. These were questions that had raised the greatest

concern, were addressed by the responsive development of specific activities designed to im-

prove the given dimension, and student responses to curriculum, one another, and the teacher re-

searcher had been observed and noted. Eight students participated in completing this survey,

however it must be noted that this group of eight is not the exact same eight as those who had

completed the pre-assessment questionnaire. Two of the students who took the initial question-

naire were not present on the final day, and two students who had not participated in the pre-as-

sessment questionnaire due to absence or lack of parent permission were able to participate in the

post-intervention questionnaire.

Students most frequently indicated that most of their teachers didn’t understand what

their life was like outside of school (50% agreement), disagreed that classes in their school chal-

lenged them (43.75%), disagreed that they really wanted to learn (25% disagreement, 12.5%

strong disagreement), disagreed that they were able to stay focused and motivate themselves
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(37.5%, 31.25%), and disagreed that student-teacher relationships affect academic achievement

and overall school climate (31.25%). Two of the eight students disagreed that they felt they be-

longed at school, two felt distracted by other people talking, and were worried about problems

outside of school. Other questions that elicited responses indicating a need for improvement in

the school climate were related to extra help with school work, students helping one another even

if they were not friends, and students taking responsibility for their own learning.

Pre Post

7. Classes in my school are challenging. 4 3.5

10. I feel that I belong at school. 4 2

17. I can motivate myself to learn. 3 2.5

20. While doing schoolwork, I am able to stay focused. 3 3


13. Students in my school help one another even if they are not friends. 2.5 1
22. It’s often hard to pay attention in class because I’m worried about 2.5 2
problems outside of school.

23. I can calm myself in challenging situations. 2.5 0

16. I really want to learn. 2 3

21. While hearing what others are saying, I become easily distracted. 2 2

3. I feel emotionally safe in school. 1 0

6. Faculty and staff value what students have to say. 1 0

19. I often need extra help with schoolwork. 1 1.5

1. Students in my school treat one another with respect. 0.5 0

46. Students should take responsibility for their learning 0 0.5

47. Student-teacher relationships affect academic achievement 1.5 2.5

48. Student-teacher relationships affect overall school climate 1.5 2.5

Table 5: Comparison of pre- and post- intervention questionnaire responses with the highest val-

ues.
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Comparing student responses to pre- and post- intervention questionnaires, as shown in

Table 5, it was found that values for all but several questions decreased, which indicated a lesser

degree of concern as students more frequently agreed with positive statements and disagreed

with negative statements. There were, however several questions for which student response val-

ues increased. The responses of highest concern related to student-teacher relationships. Student

disagreement values for how student-teacher relationships affect academic achievement and

overall school climate increased, as well as disagreement that students should take responsibility

for their learning.

Analysis

Because the focus of this research study was on student responses and perceptions about

the school climate, the data collected during the program duration continuously informed the de-

velopment of the intervention program, and was also examined in retrospect to determine the

success of the program that resulted. Initial student responses to the pre-assessment questionnaire

suggested that students perceived a need for improvement in the quality and rigor of curriculum,

many felt that they did not belong in school, and over a third of them stated that they had diffi-

culties with self-motivation and focus. Students who had thought about dropping out of school

claimed it was predominantly because school was boring, and stated that receiving more one-on-

one from teachers and more real-world examples would best help them learn better. They charac-

terized the most effective teachers as having personality traits that lead to better relationships

with students like kindness and a sense of humor, and also related to their efficacy as peda-

gogues: knowledge and enthusiasm for teaching. While all students agreed that they should take

responsibility for their learning, there were two students who expressed disagreement that stu-
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dent-teacher relationships affect their academic achievement and school climate. They also iden-

tified the number of and consistency of full-time teachers in their school as the most common

issue of importance to be addressed.

It was from this summary of results from the pre-assessment questionnaire that I designed

a responsive school climate program that addressed three dimensions most explicitly: relation-

ships, mindfulness, and empathy. I created a curriculum that progressed from establishing posi-

tive relationships to building empathy, interspersed with self-awareness and intentional thought

exercises. Because I was not their full-time general education teacher, I could not directly ad-

dress the curriculum concerns they expressed, however I could attempt to address their need for

challenging curriculum by insisting on high expectations for their participation and behavior

while I conducted the school climate program. The field notes and exit tickets I collected during

the program provided insight to changing student perceptions of these three dimensions of the

school climate, and allowed me to assess the accuracy and efficacy of how I responded to student

behavior.

Relationships and Empathy Dimensions

Student behaviors and statements increasingly referred to the importance of relationships

and understanding other perspectives as they learned more about each other and participated in

interactions that encouraged the improvement of relationships. I recorded an increase in eye con-

tact and smiling, willingness to elaborate in responses, and a growing atmosphere of camaraderie

and community in the classroom as the program progressed, both with myself and between stu-

dents. Analyses of the activities that ensued during the school climate intervention program fol-

low.
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Emotion check-ins. The introduction of emotion check-ins to the initial program brought

a few students out of their shells. These were students with whom I had previously noticed trou-

ble connecting with. They were typically disinterested and often off-task in my previous interac-

tions as an instructional aide and substitute teacher in the classroom. Although it took a few days

of practicing this procedure to teach students to respect and pay attention when classmates were

speaking, and there were a few students who never really did offer more than a vague response

like “OK” or “fine”, this activity was effective in decreasing the distance between myself and

four students who up until this point behaved disinterested and disengaged in any classroom ac-

tivities I asked them to partake in. It should be noted that all of these students who I noticed im-

proved relationships with after this activity were high school students. However, the burgeoning

relationships resulting from the emotion check-ins were slow-growing. During a discussion on

school climate that followed, one of the students still exhibited reluctance to being completely

honest about his perceptions of school climate. While other students offered positive adjectives

about the social aspects of the school climate like fun, silly, relaxed, and ottertastic (the school

mascot is the sea otter), Z2 hesitated to write boring and not many people on our collaborative

poster. He said his comments under his breath, and I confirmed that those were valid comments

to make about student perspectives of their school’s climate. Exit tickets from this activity indi-

cated that students felt that the school climate mattered because of concerns with academics. Two

students referred additionally to comfort and boredom, but every student alluded to learning or

success.

2 truths and a lie. I responded to exit ticket information by scheduling the ice-breaker

game 2 truths and a lie for the next day, which was intended to establish a sense of community in
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the classroom by learning new things about each other and nudging them to conclude that the

social aspect of school climate matters too.

The game elicited effort from all students, and all were engaged in writing statements that

were interesting and believable. Student T commented that the game was hard because they all

knew each other so well. This would lead one to believe that a strong sense of community and

friendship existed in this classroom, but I noted that there were two students who were regular

targets for ridicule, and varying degrees of alienation were present among peers. One student

who was not familiar with the rules or goal of the game had written her name on her slip, and

was scoffed at by the student who read her statements aloud because the two truths she wrote

were so visibly obvious, there was no guessing which statement was the lie. Another student who

frequently dressed provocatively and often made statements that several students regarded as

condescendingly stupid was often made fun of and publicly shamed for her flirtatious and naive

personality. Her choices of statements for this game were also laughed at for their simplicity and

how easy it was to guess who wrote them. I knew I had let the opportune learning moment pass

when I had addressed the instances of disrespect that had occurred with subtle redirection and

direct eye contact with the offenders. I didn’t want to turn a fun game into a harsh lesson in em-

pathy and possible embarrassment of the victims. So although I ended up writing notes in my

journal that the ensuing camaraderie was palpable and that I was beginning to feel welcome and

a part of the classroom, the lingering feeling of disrespect that several students had for their peers

needed to be confronted with sensitivity, while insisted upon with gravity.

Discussions about culture. The students had been discussing discrimination in their so-

cial studies class, and thinking about the comment T had made about how well they knew each
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other, I thought talking about culture and learning about their personal cultures would be relevant

and insightful. Comparing this decision to pre-assessment questions about what teachers spoke

with them about, their family responsibilities, and the worries they had about issues not related to

school, student responses suggested this was a curriculum choice that would be responsive to

student needs. The following four sessions were highlighted by discussions about and student

interviews on personal culture, punctuated by self-awareness exercises that attempted to address

their responses in the pre-assessment questionnaire regarding the challenges of focusing in the

school setting.

We started our exploration of culture with a general discussion about what culture means.

Students offered many examples of aspects of culture including religion, foods, music, traditions,

skin color, actions and thoughts. When asked if a white American has as much culture as some-

one who just immigrated to America from another country, Z2 stated “Yeah! We all have

culture.” After reviewing our discussions about school climate and the new things we learned

about one another from the 2 truths and a lie game, I gave them an exit ticket prompt, asking

them to write about how learning more about each other impacts school climate. They worked

diligently at writing their reflections, which overwhelmingly referred to friendships, getting

along, relating to others, and the ways people treat one another. It was interesting to note that

three responses diverged from this line of thought from students who were absent during the 2

truths and a lie game, responses related to the adverse effects of getting to know more about peo-

ple: meanness and drama; differences that can cause arguments; and the distractions that new

friendships can cause.


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Cultural suitcase interviews. The next time we met, I introduced the Cultural Suitcase

project to the students by providing them with an instructional handout that explored differences

in cultural traits among nationalities, religions, and personal family traditions. They were en-

couraged to begin thinking about and asking family members about their heritage and share six

different traits of their personal culture. Possible traits included their values, heritage, foods,

things that give them joy, family traditions, family mottos, and what is most important to them.

Engagement in these discussions was low, and my field notes indicate that students were unre-

sponsive and numerous side conversations occurred that I attempted to redirect. One student

asked what I meant by the trait values, and while I offered several examples that at least one stu-

dent nodded in recognition of, I realized that I had not planned this project in a way that provided

enough structure for students to succeed. I had initially intended the free-form nature of this

project to culminate in a visual representation of students’ cultures we could adorn the bare walls

of the room with, but given the short school week due to parent-teacher conferences, I began to

envision a more interactive format that would foster more personal discussions between students,

and concluded that the following week students would partner up and conduct interviews.

After a long weekend, we started the new week with partner interviews on their personal

cultures. I provided students with templates to write their partners’ responses in on the six differ-

ent cultural traits stated above. When students were instructed to pair up with someone in the

class whom they felt they knew the least about, not a single student made a move, and one stu-

dent looked helplessly at me and pleaded me to partner them up. Although it would have been

very interesting to see how this would have played out had I insisted that they self-select their

partners, I knew that our time was limited to a half-hour, so I methodically paired up students
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according to difference in gender, age, and seating arrangement. Once students joined with their

partners and interviews were underway, I noted that there were no off-task conversations and all

students were engrossed in the interviews and their partners, laughing and responding to one an-

other’s answers with examples of their own. There was only one pairing that seemed quiet and

perhaps uncomfortable. When I stopped by to check in with their progress on the interviews and

elicit more substantial responses from each, they reacted with openness and conviviality. After

students completed their interviews, one pair offered to be the first to introduce their partners’

personal culture to the class, and shared what they learned about one another with a comfortable

ease that was a stark contrast to the awkwardness that had filled the atmosphere when asked to

self-select partners. While I interjected questions and statements of interest during presentations,

I noticed that all students were completely willing to offer more information about themselves

and not a single student was closed-off emotionally or unresponsive.

During the conclusion of presentations, I took a few minutes to assess their perceptions of

the activity, and many related this exercise to a project they had participated in during elementary

school, Student Spotlight. When asked how the Cultural Suitcase Interviews differed from Stu-

dent Spotlight, they responded that Student Spotlight was better because they were each the fo-

cus of all of their classmates’ questions for an entire week. I agreed that it would be really great

to dedicate more time to learning more about one another. “Aren’t you different people now,

with different values and interests than when you were elementary students?” I asked. There was

an uproar of agreement, and one student exclaimed “I sure hope so!”, confirming my validation

of them as maturing, unique young adults with intriguing and interesting lives and values.
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Thinking back about the disrespect and lack of empathy I had witnessed in the class pre-

viously, and also in response to exit tickets that referred to differences between people and the

impacts of those differences, as well as initial responses to pre-assessment questions about be-

longing, I asked students if they thought that learning more about each other could help people

get along better. Many students thought that it depended on what they learned. Examples like

politics, religion, and a criminal past suggested that students acknowledged that relationships are

complex constructs. One student claimed that if she learned that someone had killed another per-

son, there would be no way she’d want to know any more about him. I asked them how we can

disagree respectfully, and student responses included “Don’t say mean things” and “Maybe it’s

just better to not know as much”. Statements like these insinuated that students were not readily

willing to empathize with perspectives that differed from their own, and I wondered if this was a

trait that could be taught in school.

Empathy scenario. I presented students with a short scenario about a new student and

recorded their impressions about him and wonderings they had on the whiteboard as we talked

through the scenario. I asked students for input at specific intervals in the scenario: first impres-

sions/wonderings; impressions after hearing negative rumors; feelings about being partnered

with a student about which dangerous rumors are circulating; and feelings about the student once

they learn more about his background and life story. My intention was to show students, through

their own words and statements, that there is often a reason why people make the choices they

make and behave the way they do, and these reasons are often beyond their control. I wanted to

illustrate a context in which the roots of violence and theft might be better understood and per-

haps even empathized with. It was fascinating to me that even once students learned that the new
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student was rumored to have been in jail because he had beaten kids up and stolen things, they

still thought he was cool and they claimed they wouldn’t be intimidated with being his partner.

My field notes mention that one student changed her mind after I specified that maybe he had

beaten girls, but another student still said she was not judgmental and wanted to hear the new

kid’s story. On one hand, their unexpected response altered the outcome of my lesson so that

there were no drastic changes to their first impressions of the new student with which to compare

and contrast changing impressions. But on the other hand, I was shown that these kids were not

as judgmental as I had believed. There was still an undesirable element of disinterest and annoy-

ance in being burdened with the uncomfortable feelings associated with hearing a classmate’s

painful story, but their suspension of harsh judgement as well as their ability to come to see the

new student as “an innocent kid who made a few poor choices” suggested that these students

were indeed practicing socio-emotional skills like empathy and compassion.

Social values brainstorm. On the last day of the school climate program, students were

encouraged to make connections between their own values and those of their classmates by par-

ticipating in collaborative brainstorming about social values. The class was invited to form their

own two teams of four people and given ten minutes to decide upon which social value was most

important to their team. They wrote responses to open-ended questions about examples of their

social value, the importance of it in everyday life, and what life might be like without it. The stu-

dents indifferently teamed up with whoever was nearest, and each team went to work using dif-

ferent approaches. My field notes tell of one team who was visibly influenced by the oldest team

member, whom instinctively reached to record their responses on the worksheet and read the po-

tential social values aloud. That team chose cooperation as the most important social value. The
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other team appeared to avoid the suggested social values, actively debating about other terms

they deemed important and considered whether or not each would be an appropriate “social”

value. Relaxation and leniency were two terms they discussed before settling on friendliness as

their team’s most important social value.

Team Cooperation did not at first exhibit pervasive cooperation as I watched them fail to

include the youngest student, who was also one of the previously mentioned students who were

the most often alienated and disrespected. The eldest student recorded answers that she seemed

to come up with on her own while speaking quietly among the other two students. It didn’t ap-

pear that she was eliciting input from other team members. Team Friendliness, on the other hand

displayed strong collaboration and cooperation, but not exactly friendliness. They were comfort-

able debating or defending statements, and took their time discussing their thoughts about each

question before recording a response they all agreed with.

No-hands cup pyramids. This team-building game was the last activity of the interven-

tion program. The teams established in the previous activity segued into competing against one

another in transporting and stacking paper cups from one side of the room to the other using only

rubber bands linked to a central rubber band they could cooperatively expand and contract by

pulling on their individual rubber bands. From the very beginning, it was apparent that the two

teams were using different strategies. Team Cooperation worked together to strategically get one

cup over and stacked before they moved on to the next cup, which would then be perfectly

stacked before continuing on. They took their time and seemed to instinctively communicate as

they struggled with cups nestling within each other and perfecting the alignment of their pyra-

mid. This team was definitely led by the oldest member and her closest friend, with the other two
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members abiding by their decisions happily. Team Friendliness, however, prioritized transporting

the cups and worried about stacking them after they completed moving them from one side of the

room to the other. They dropped cups under the table and flipped them upside down and side-

ways in their haste to move the cups, and they got very adept at manipulating the cups and com-

municating verbally about the cups and how they behaved, terming the space between stacked

cups “lippies”, and cuing synchronized rubber band expansion with the signal shout “PULL!”.

During the first half of the fifteen minutes of the game, team Cooperation appeared to have a

more defined presence with their goal in mind, as they had a pyramid up on the table that they

were gingerly adding to, while team Friendliness appeared to struggle with even grasping and

releasing the cups. But it didn’t take long for Friendliness to catch up and literally during the last

minute come neck and neck in pyramid height. As they attempted to place the last cup upon the

top tier inverted, team Friendliness bumped their pyramid, sending a large chunk of it toppling.

After this happened, they bickered for a short time about who bumped it and who insisted on

placing that last cup right side up while team Cooperation jumped in a huddle and cheered.

The exit ticket I gave them after the game provides a summative conclusion of how stu-

dent responses were impacted by the social climate program they participated in for three weeks.

I asked them What is the best way to improve school climate? and I clarified the prompt by ex-

pressing that their answers could include ideas for students, teachers, principals and districts and

could address any aspect of school. Five of eight student responses referred predominantly to the

relationships between students and teachers, working together, and cooperative learning. Three

mentioned respect and kindness, and two referred to flexibility of school and group activities.

These are quite different responses than the responses to the first exit ticket question, Why does
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school climate matter? While initial student perceptions of school climate referred overwhelm-

ingly to learning and success in an academic sense, final perceptions stressed the importance of

the more social aspects of school.

Mindfulness

Although the majority of activities and discussions that took place during the intervention

program were focused on relationships and building empathy, there was also an element of dis-

traction and focus that needed to be addressed, according to the responses of students in the pre-

assessment questionnaire. Mindfulness and self-awareness was intended to be the focus of the

second week of the program. Even in the very beginning stages of the program, a spontaneous

discussion relating to mindfulness was spawned during the first emotion check-in. One student

was distraught and distracted by her new phone being locked because she lost the pass code. She

exclaimed that everyone should have to go without their phones until she was able to access hers,

and this morphed into the idea of an experimental phone-free day. I was surprised to learn that all

of the students bought in to the idea, and this informed and validated my decision to include ex-

ercises in mindfulness aimed at improving the ability to focus.

During the first mindful moment, some students chose not to close their eyes, and were

distracted by one another’s mock-serious expressions. They tried to halt the giggling that result-

ed, but they had already disturbed the sense of calm that might have existed had they just closed

their eyes. Other students claimed they were distracted by the noisy forced-air heater in the

room, and that it was difficult to focus on themselves and how they were feeling because it was

boring. During the second exercise I asked students to focus on the thoughts that entered their

minds. I encouraged them to allow any thought to come into focus, acknowledge it, and then try
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to let it go. This time, all students closed their eyes and were quiet during the exercise, however

many were hunched over on their tables and appeared to be sleeping. Students offered no verbal

reflections coming out of this exercise other than one student claimed she was unable to let go of

her thoughts. It was the day before Halloween and a short week, and I do not think that I offered

enough scaffolding for students in the most effective ways to sit and breathe and visualize during

mindfulness exercises. I wanted to help further develop their abilities to focus, and had planned

to do a breath awareness exercise with more detailed explanations and visualizations, but the

short week turned into a single day when I became ill and was not able to meet with them the

other day I had planned to lead the exercise. I did however make a point to have them reflect on

their mindfulness experiences in writing. The mindfulness exit ticket I gave them asked them to

reflect on what they found difficult about the mindfulness exercises, and how they felt directly

afterward. The majority of students referred to the noises in the room as distractions that made it

difficult to focus. Others wrote about how difficult it was to push thoughts out of their minds.

Afterwards, most students said they felt no different, a few thought maybe a little tired, and one

student said she felt calmer.

Patterns

Visible in all activities that took place during the school climate program were recurring

patterns of interactions between teacher and students. Students who were initially unresponsive

and disengaged in classroom activities opened up and began to participate in more meaningful

and personal ways after I had kept insisting on a relationship that may have not initially been

there. These students continued to engage in conversations with myself and their peers about top-

ics related to the curriculum as the program progressed from ice-breaking to establishing rela-
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tionships to building empathy. Yet, when I did not involve students in discussions and attempted

to cover more material in a shorter span of time, I lost these students’ engagement first, along

with most of the rest of them. Another pattern that emerged was that when spontaneous, authen-

tic discussions surfaced and I was able to use them as bridges between their experiences and the

curriculum, not only did students better understand the information, but I felt closer connections

to them and noted that they related to one another with genuine affection as well.

Discussion

My findings in this study indicate that timely response to student input in developing cur-

riculum engenders an increased level of student engagement, and remaining responsive to stu-

dent perceptions by eliciting ongoing student feedback about activities and spontaneous relevant

events in classroom dynamics fosters not only improved relationships between students and the

teacher, but also more respectful and understanding relationships between students. Activities

that involved a high level of group work, regardless of whether groups were student-chosen or

teacher-arranged, when scaffolded with adequate structure and informative and enlightening dis-

cussion, gave students relevant opportunities to practice and strengthen the community-building

skills that the activities were designed to develop. Giving the students multiple venues by which

to reflect upon their own points of view and how the curriculum added to or changed those per-

spectives offered me ongoing assessment of the effectiveness of the curriculum and allowed me

to subtly communicate my care and concern for their opinions, thus further improving my rela-

tionships with students.

My research question focused on how student perceptions of the social and emotional

climate of their education might be impacted by giving students opportunities to explore and dis-
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cover how their personal identities contribute to school climate and confront differences between

students with respect and understanding. Findings were determined by triangulating three differ-

ent formats of student perceptions.

The pre- and post- intervention questionnaires were anonymous and gave me general

“average” class perceptions, but did not offer any insight on how individual students’ perceptions

may have changed over time. The fact that student disagreement with the statements that student-

teacher relationships affect academic achievement and overall school climate increased after the

intervention was disconcerting because it suggested that my intervention program had a negative

affect on teacher-student relationships. Although the difference was only one response, and it

could be due to different students taking the two separate surveys, it would have been helpful to

compare individual student responses instead of generalized collective changes in the classroom.

The exit tickets offered more insightful information regarding changes that occurred in

student perceptions. These writing prompts were responsive to interactions and activities that had

occurred in the classroom, and although the framing of the questions and the time at which they

were administered may have influenced the nature of the responses, this format contributed

deeper reflections than the constricted perceptions gleaned from the questionnaires. The exit

ticket responses suggest that at the culmination of the school climate program, more students

identified positive relationships with teachers and one another as crucial components to a good

school climate.

Researcher field notes offered a wealth of information about individual students as well

as overall classroom climate changes, and although they are subjective to what I noticed and

where my attention was focused, and were not able to be recorded during the class sessions
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(which probably caused some mental notes and impressions to be forgotten by the time I sat

down to record them after class), they were valuable as evidence of changing student reactions to

curriculum choices I had made. Another weakness of this method was that these were merely my

impressions of students thoughts— or the outward expression of their thoughts, which hypotheti-

cally could differ greatly from their internal thoughts. Although I tried to omit my perceptions

about their behaviors and statements in order to limit personal bias, I also realize that what I re-

membered and noted are inextricably tied to my thoughts and impressions.

The self-awareness and ability to focus component of this study produced findings that

are not fully understood because mindfulness activities were not entirely successful, and the time

frame was much too short to gauge changes to students’ ability to focus or awareness of their

selves and how that contributed to school climate. More time would be needed to give students

more practice with becoming comfortable with the practice, and I wonder if a teacher needs spe-

cial training in guiding students through meditation to be effective. The findings of this study

suggest that several students did note an improvement in the ability to calm themselves, as found

in both the comparison between pre- and post- intervention questionnaires and exit tickets. My

impressions in field notes fail to recognize any changes that might have occurred in response to

mindfulness activities.

Overall, the findings produced by this study addressed the problem of practice by con-

firming my assumptions based on the theoretical works of Vygotsky, Buber, Noddings, and Harg-

reaves. More meaningful relationships between teachers and students can improve areas of the

school climate not directly related to social interactions, because most areas of the school climate

depend on positive relationships and communication. Although some teachers and administrators
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might argue that current academic concerns leave little time for socio-emotional learning, I

would argue that all academic learning depends on strong socio-emotional foundations.

As the theoretical foundations of this study proclaim, my findings confirm the importance

of social development theory, specifically Vygotsky’s Zone of Proximal Development (ZPD) and

the More Knowledgable Other (MKO). As students engaged in lessons led by myself, the MKO,

it was apparent that those lessons in which interactions between myself and students were the

most natural, meaningful, and relevant were the occasions when students extended their ZPDs

the furthest. Buber’s contention that we grow and develop in the space between one another

while exploring that distance through dialogue leading to an understanding of another person’s

experience is also apparent in the findings of this study. Students were given the opportunity to

explore and discuss the differences between one another’s perspectives, and consequently came

to believe that learning more about one another improves relationships and school climate.

I found Noddings’ assertions about the ethic of care (Noddings, 1984) to be true in this

study as I applied a responsive receptivity to the unfolding development of the curriculum, and

thus relationships overall. Had this study been extended for a longer period of time, I might have

encountered occasions in which my level of caring might have caused emotional labor and diffi-

culties establishing boundaries with students, but given the short time frame I did not confront

this issue. There were moments that my empathy with certain students caused me to examine my

emotional involvement, and during those times I strived to look at the situation through all the

perspectives present. I struggled in the moment, unsure whether to apply a stricter demeanor

characteristic of warm demanding teachers toward the offenders, and decided it would not truly

benefit the victim to confront the aggressor publicly. I was able to respond sensitively by adapt-
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ing the curriculum to address the problems, and if I had had more time with these students, I

might consider using a restorative justice approach to more comprehensively address issues of

respect in the classroom.

As research has suggested, I found that teacher-student relationships increased student

engagement and motivation (Skinner, Wellborn, & Connell, 1990; Skinner & Belmont, 1993;

Worthy & Patterson, 2001); that these relationships were important even for older students and

especially for students who were disengaged (Roorda, Koomen, Spilt, & Oort, 2011); and that

these relationships helped me as a new teacher overcome my feelings of inefficacy and uncer-

tainty (Worthy & Patterson, 2001).

Interaction with the data has impacted my classroom practice immensely because it was

from the ongoing collection and examination of data that I was able to develop a responsive,

adaptive program that directly answered students’ stated shortcomings in the current school cli-

mate in a timely fashion. My relationships with students have consequently grown more com-

fortable, relevant, and meaningful. Particularly with students whom I had noticed a need to im-

prove the quality and quantity of meaningful interactions between myself and them, as well as

their interactions with their peers, this was an extremely effective and rewarding study.

Conclusions

Given the context in which this study is uniquely situated, it would be helpful to explore

components of the study in different contexts. My problem of practice surfaced in response to

my current educational setting, which is pre-service teaching in a small mixed-grades rural

school. I’d like to conduct this study when I am an in-service teacher responsible for academic

curriculum. I feel that the warm demander component of this study was not fully utilized because
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I was not the full-time teacher of the students. The non-academic nature of the activities did not

encourage much enactment of the warm demander stance. I would like students to additionally

know me for my insistence on high quality work and high expectations of students academically.

It would be interesting to learn how a school climate program like this affects academic subject

areas as well.

Additional questions generated by this study are Would these practices and exercises be

just as effective at improving school climate if they were conducted across subject areas? and

How can teachers transfer the lessons learned from this study to single-subject classes or across

subjects? In the current educational climate where pressure to meet standardized expectations is

often the first priority of classrooms, teachers may not immediately recognize the necessity of

explicitly teaching socio-emotional skills and directly addressing the social climate of their class-

rooms. If it were easier for teachers to integrate these skills into content areas, teacher buy-in

would likely be greater. Realizing that we can find ways to incorporate community- and empa-

thy-building exercises into lesson plans through creative group work and cooperative learning

strategies is a promising lead.

The results of my study have helped me to realize that even though sometimes students

only engage in small ways with curriculum, these small ways add familiarity and personal com-

fort to relationships in the classroom. These aren’t qualities that can be forced upon students. Es-

tablishing, building, and maintaining relationships with students can be a gradual process with

some students, but I found that with all of these students, my (almost annoying) persistent insis-

tence upon establishing relationships was what eventually broke through their disinterested, un-

responsive exteriors. My previous wonderings about how to reverse and ameliorate the effects of
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negative relationships have been answered by this approach to responsive pedagogy in socio-

emotional learning. The very structure and design of my study, in which I was continually adjust-

ing my curriculum and techniques according to student reception, communicated to them in sub-

tle ways that I was indeed listening to them, cared about what they thought, and that their opin-

ions truly mattered to me. Ensuring that communication and relationships maintain a priority of

equal importance as specific curriculum and delivery techniques means that the curriculum and

the success of student performance depends in large part on the quality of the relationships we

are able to construct in classrooms.


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Appendix A

Student School Climate Questionnaire


Strongly Disagree Agree Strongly
Disagree Agree

1. Students in my school treat one another


with respect.

2. Most of my teachers don’t understand what


my life is like outside of school.

3. I feel emotionally safe in school.

4. My school disciplines students fairly.

5. Faculty and staff model respectful behavior.

6. Faculty and staff value what students have


to say.

7. Classes in my school are challenging.

8. Students are involved in decisions about


things that affect them in school.

9. Teachers are enthusiastic about teaching.

10. I feel that I belong at school.

11. Teachers like me.

12. I respect my teachers.

13. Students in my school help one another


even if they are not friends.

14. I feel physically safe at school.

15. Students are encouraged to say what they


think.

16. I really want to learn.

17. I can motivate myself to learn.

18. I participate regularly in class.

19. I often need extra help with schoolwork.

20. While doing schoolwork, I am able to stay


focused.
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Strongly Disagree Agree Strongly


Disagree Agree

21. While hearing what others are saying, I


become easily distracted.

22. It’s often hard to pay attention in class


because I’m worried about problems
outside of school.

23. I can calm myself in challenging situations.

24. Have you ever skipped Yes No


class?

25. Have you ever thought Yes No


about dropping out of
school?

Please answer with honesty. Your opinions matter!


Never Once or A few times More than
Twice a year three times a
year

26. You did not feel prepared for class.

27. You were feeling bullied or harassed by


other students.

28. You were not getting along with a


teacher.

29. You did not feel safe at school.

30. School was boring.

31. You had family responsibilities.

If you answered yes to either 24 or 25, indicate how often you did due to
any of the following reasons.
32. When do you find yourself most easily distracted? Choose up to 3.
In conversations During class Doing homework Any time I’m bored

When I’m stressed out If I’m overly tired When I’ve had a ton of sugar, caffeine, or junk
or overwhelmed food

33. What distracts you the most? Choose all that apply
My phone Noises Technology Friends

Family My own thoughts about _____________________ Other __________________________


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How often do your teachers talk to you about the following?


Never Once or A few times a More than
twice year three times a
year

34. Disrupting class

35. Good academic performance

36. Not completing assignments

37. Poor academic performance

38. Your interests and things important to


you

39. Your worries

40. At school , how many adults do you feel 0 1-2 2-3 More than 3
you could talk to if you had a problem?

How much would the following help you learn better?


Help a lot Help a little Not at all

41. More one-on-one from teachers

42. More examples of how the things I learn in school


matter in the real world

43. Classes that are more challenging

44. If other students were more accepting of me

45. Think of the most effective teachers you have had. List at least 2 charac-
teristics that made them effective.

Please indicate how much you agree or disagree with the following:
Strongly Disagree Agree Strongly
disagree Agree

46. Students should take responsibility for


their learning

47. Student-teacher relationships affect


academic achievement

48. Student-teacher relationships affect


overall school climate
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49. What do you think are the most important issues that need to be ad-
dressed in your school?

50. What is your gender? Female Male

51. Is a language other than English spoken regularly at Yes No


home?

52. What grade are you in?

6 7 8 9 10 11

53. Indicate your race Alaska Native, Hispanic Asian Caucasian Other
American
Indian

Thank you for your honesty and participation!

This questionnaire has been adapted from the Students As Allies survey at www.whatkidscando.org

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Appendix B
Student School Climate Questionnaire
Strongly Disagree Agree Strongly value
Disagree Agree
1. Students in my school treat one 0.5 7.5 0.5/8
another with respect.
2. Most of my teachers don’t 1 4 2 1 3/8
understand what my life is like
outside of school.
3. I feel emotionally safe in school. 1 6 1 1/8

4. My school disciplines students fairly. 7 1

5. Faculty and staff model respectful 6 2


behavior.
6. Faculty and staff value what students 1 5 2 1/8
have to say.
7. Classes in my school are challenging. 4 4 4/8

8. Students are involved in decisions 5 2


about things that affect them in
school.
9. Teachers are enthusiastic about 5 3
teaching.
10. I feel that I belong at school. 1 3 4 4/8

11. Teachers like me. 7 1

12. I respect my teachers. 4 4

13. Students in my school help one 2.5 5.5 1 2.5/8


another even if they are not friends.
14. I feel physically safe at school. 6 2
15. Students are encouraged to say what 6 2
they think.
16. I really want to learn. 2 5 1 2/8

17. I can motivate myself to learn. 1 2 5 3/8

18. I participate regularly in class. 8

19. I often need extra help with 1 6 1 1/8


schoolwork.
20. While doing schoolwork, I am able to 3 5 3/8
stay focused.
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Strongly Disagree Agree Strongly value


Disagree Agree
21. While hearing what others are 6 2 2/8
saying, I become easily distracted.
22. It’s often hard to pay attention in 3 2.5 2.5 2.5/8
class because I’m worried about
problems outside of school.
23. I can calm myself in challenging 2.5 5.5 2.5/8
situations.

24. Have you ever skipped class? Yes- 1 No- 7 1/8

25. Have you ever thought about Yes- 3 No- 5 3/8


dropping out of school?

If you answered yes to either 24 or 25, indicate how often you did due to
any of the following reasons. If you answered no to both, skip to question
32.
Never Once or A few More than
Twice times a three times a
year year

26. You did not feel prepared for class. 1 1 2

27. You were feeling bullied or 3 1


harassed by other students.

28. You were not getting along with a 2 1 1


teacher.

29. You did not feel safe at school. 4

30. School was boring. 2 2

31. You had family responsibilities. 1 1 1 1

32. When do you find yourself most easily distracted? Choose up to 3.


In conversations- 4 During class Doing homework-2 Any time I’m bored- 5

When I’m stressed out or If I’m overly tired- 6 When I’ve had a ton of sugar, caffeine, or junk food
overwhelmed- 3

33. What distracts you the most? Choose all that apply
My phone- 1 Noises-3 Technology- Friends- 4
3

Family- 1 My own thoughts about :Duuuuuu, Randomness Other: Boredom

How often do your teachers talk to you about the following?


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Never Once or A few times a More than


twice year three times a
year

34. Disrupting class 2 4 1 1

35. Good academic performance 2 4 2

36. Not completing assignments 1 5 1 1

37. Poor academic performance 4 3 1

38. Your interests and things important to 1 2 4 1


you

39. Your worries 3 1 1 1

40. At school , how many adults do you feel 0 1-2: 7 2-3 More than 3
you could talk to if you had a problem?

How much would the following help you learn better?


Help a lot Help a little Not at all

41. More one-on-one from teachers 2 5 1

42. More examples of how the things I learn in school 2 5 1


matter in the real world

43. Classes that are more challenging 1 2 5

44. If other students were more accepting of me 1 7

45. Think of the most effective teachers you have had. List at least 2 charac-
teristics that made them effective.
High energy, but not pushy / Likes to teach / Friendly, not too strict / Conversations about sub-
jects in class / kind/ nice / caring / funny / serious / nice / funny / helps with math / tried to
connect with us / didn’t try to push their own beliefs on us

Please indicate how much you agree or disagree with the following:
Strongly Disagree Agree Strongly
disagree Agree

46. Students should take responsibility for 5 2


their learning

47. Student-teacher relationships affect 1.5 3.5 2


academic achievement

48. Student-teacher relationships affect 1.5 3.5 2


overall school climate
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49. What do you think are the most important issues that need to be ad-
dressed in your school?
student population / fun activities outside school / opportunities to get exercise / an actual teacher in class
/ number of teachers

50. What is your gender? Female- 5 Male- 2

51. Is a language other than English spoken regularly at Yes No- 7


home?

52. What grade are you in?

6- 1 7-1 8- 1 9 10- 1 11- 2

53. Indicate your race Alaska Native, Hispanic Asian Caucasian Other- 2
American -4
Indian- 3

This questionnaire has been adapted from the Students As Allies survey at www.whatkidscando.org

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Appendix C

School Climate Program Activities

Empathy-Enhancing
Cultural Suitcase Empathy Scenario
10/30- 11/8 Discussion
11/8

Mindfulness
Mindful Moments Awareness of Thought Emotion Check-Ins
10/26 10/30 10/25,10/26, 10/30,
11/9

Team-Building
2 truths and a lie Social Values No-Hands Cup
10/25 Brainstorm Pyramids
11/9 11/9

Empathy-enhancing Activities

Cultural Suitcase

Following a discussion about culture and exit ticket reflections on why learning more

about one another can improve relationships, students were paired with classmates they may

not have know a lot about. They interviewed one another about their cultural values and traits

and filled in a table will spaces for characteristics of family, foods, traditions, values, heritage,

family mottos, what brings them joy, and what is most important to them. Following the inter-

view, students introduced the culture of their partners to the class. Students that were not able

to be introduced due to classmate absence were interviewed publicly by myself.


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Empathy Scenario Discussion

Students had responded to the culminating question from the cultural suitcase activity,

Can learning more about each other helps us get along better?, with “it depends”. After prodded

to explain what it depends on, they gave responses that alluded to the fact that learning more

about people means that some disagreements and negative traits and past decisions can

change your feelings about people. Some students said that sometimes it was best the less you

know. I wanted students to explore an instance in which learning more about a person can re-

veal surprising discoveries that alter impressions.

I designed a scenario in which a new student joins their small class. I deliberately gave

the new male student no physical characteristics except that he was “just normal looking”. He

was a reserved kid who kept to himself and the only thing they learned about him during intro-

ductions was his age, where he came from, and his interests. Through rumors, they learned

why he was here and some details that gave him a reputation. They were asked to imagine be-

ing paired with him to conduct cultural suitcase interviews, and learned the story behind the ru-

mors. Throughout the discussion, students were asked for their impressions of the new student

and what they wondered about him.

Mindfulness Practices:

Mindful Moments

Students were asked to take a moment to pay attention to themselves. They were asked

to close their eyes and try to become aware of their bodies, their thoughts, their feelings for

about thirty seconds.

Emotion Check-Ins

Students were welcomed to class and invited to share about how they were feeling.

Each student was given the opportunity to respond in a round-robin fashion. During the first

check-in, students were seated as they would normally sit during class, facing forward at their
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tables. The second time the class participated in this activity, they were asked to swivel around

in their seats or sit on the opposite side of their table in order to face one another. For the third

and forth check-ins, the table arrangement had been modified to offer a more circular formation

in which students faced one another.

Awareness of Thought

Building on the mindful moments exercise, students were asked to relax, close their

eyes, and focus on the spot directly above the space between their eyes, commonly called the

third eye. They were encouraged to pay attention to their thoughts, acknowledge each as it en-

tered, but then letting each one go, attempting to empty the mind of all thoughts.

Team Building Exercises:

2 Truths and a Lie

In this icebreaking game for people who already know a few things about one another,

each student is asked to write 2 truths and one lie about themselves on a slip of paper. Then

they were instructed to crumple up their papers, and all at once the class threw their “snow-

balls” into the air. Students then retrieved one snowball each and took turns reading out loud

each paper and trying to first guess who wrote it, followed by guessing which statement of the

three on the paper is a lie. Students were surprised at some of the things they learned about

classmates many have know their whole lives.

Social Values Brainstorm

Students in teams of four were given a list of possible social values to choose from or

were encouraged to collaborate and determine a social value not listed. Teams were instructed

to involved all team members in choosing the social value most important to them as a team,

and provide their collective reflections about what the social value means to them, why it’s the

most important to them, examples of it in and outside of school, and what the world would be
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like if not one valued it in society. They were given approximately 15 minutes to complete a

team worksheet.

No-Hands Cup Pyramids

The same teams that were student-chosen for the Social Values Brainstorm were invited

to play a game in which rubber bands are connected in such a way that four rubber bands con-

nected to a main middle one allowed all four team members to work together to pull open the

rubber band and use it to lift, move and stack paper cups. Each team had 18 cups on one side

of the room that they were instructed to pick up with only the use of the rubber bands, transport

to a table on the other side of the room, and stack the cups in a pyramid. The team that con-

structed the highest pyramid at the end of 15 minutes wins!


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Appendix D:

Exit Tickets

Curriculum/Learning Relationships Empathy Mindfulness Emotions/Feelings

1. 10/24 : Why does school climate matter?

If the school climate was bad then it would be harder to learn and be successfull in life

because no one would want to be at school.

Good school climate helps students feel more comfortable in their setting.

It would be boring. No one would be successful

All of things we wrote on the board mean to me because there all true.

School climate matters because, you can learn in a fun way & it sticks with you.

I think you need a school with a good climate to truly succeed. You need a good educa-

tion to get in a good school.

2. 10/26 : How does learning more about each other impact school climate?

By learning about eachother, we can get along more, and improve our relationships with

our friends and our school.

The way that you treat people.

Because when you meet and learn more about eachother they can help you with your

work.

When you know more about one student, it can help you relate to them and be more

responsive. When someone knows a lot and can relate to them and work better with

them.

You can think differently about them & then act differently when your around them

maybe.

It brings us closer together and makes it more fun

Brings everyone closer maybe in a friendly way or in a mean way it can bring up maybe

drama in school or like maybe a good impact on yourself. *

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When learning about each other it can affect the schools climate either negatively or

positively. We could have HUGE differences that could cause arguments or it could help

us get along.*

I talk a lot so I can start certain conversations but I can also distract the other students*

*these responses were made by students who were not present for the team-building

game.

3. 11/7: What was difficult about the mindfulness exercises?

I don’t know man I just sat there and didn’t think about anything like, that’s what I do all

the time

It was hard to push things out of my head.

Hard to focus.

It was difficult to focus with small sounds around.

There were too many noises going on in the room (laughing, talking, and this huge

heater thing)

Thoughts were racing through my head.

It was very difficult to keep all thoughts from my head. Noises didn’t seem to distract

me too much.

I couldn’t get rid of my thoughts

How did you feel afterwards?

When we were done I felt calmer.

I felt the same afterward. Tired.

I didn’t feel different afterward, maybe a wee bit tired

I felt normal like nothing happened.

Nothing really changed.

Afterward, I felt normal like nothing really changed

After we finished I felt relaxed but thoughts were still in my head

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4. 11/9: What is the best way to improve school climate?

laid back = good school climate

The best way to improve school climate is to improve our relationships with our fellow

students and teachers.

group activities

The best way to improve school climate is to respect and realize peoples beliefs and

point of view

Having friendly relationships between students & teachers

Students can be kind and school can be flexible

Working together & kindness

Students and teachers should cooperate to make the climate better. Being nice and

working together makes everything better.

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Appendix E:

Condensed Student School Climate Questionnaire and Student Responses

Strongly Disagree Agree Strongly valu


Disagree Agree e
1. Students in my school treat one another with 6 2
respect.
2. Most of my teachers don’t understand what my 1.5 1.5 4 4/8
life is like outside of school.
3. I feel emotionally safe in school. 0.5 6.5 1 .5/8

6. Faculty and staff value what students have to say. 5 2

7. Classes in my school are challenging. 3.5 4.5 3.5/8

10. I feel that I belong at school. 2 6 2/8

13. Students in my school help one another even if 1 5.5 1.5 1/8
they are not friends.
16. I really want to learn. 1 2 5 3/8

17. I can motivate myself to learn. 2.5 4.5 1 2.5/8

19. I often need extra help with schoolwork. 6.5 1.5 1.5/8

20. While doing schoolwork, I am able to stay focused. 3 5 3/8

21. While hearing what others are saying, I become 6 2 2/8


easily distracted.
22. It’s often hard to pay attention in class because 1 5 2 2/8
I’m worried about problems outside of school.
23. I can calm myself in challenging situations. 8

Please indicate how much you agree or disagree with the following:
Strongly Disagree Agree Strongly value
disagree Agree

46. Students should take 0.5 6.5 1 .5/8


responsibility for their learning

47. Student-teacher relationships 2.5 2.5 3 2.5/8


affect academic achievement

48. Student-teacher relationships 2.5 1.5 4 2.5/8


affect overall school climate

Thank you for your honesty and participation!

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