The students exhibit challenging behaviors such as lack of empathy, negative attitudes towards peers, and conflicts that often start in their WhatsApp groups. Cyberbullying occurs in these groups, with students harassing, teasing, spreading lies about, and ignoring each other. This is likely due to a lack of social-emotional skills to manage emotions, build relationships, and make responsible decisions. Initial steps would include explicitly addressing the cyberbullying problem, role playing problematic situations, teaching a process to promote responsible online posts, and having students create anti-cyberbullying materials.
The students exhibit challenging behaviors such as lack of empathy, negative attitudes towards peers, and conflicts that often start in their WhatsApp groups. Cyberbullying occurs in these groups, with students harassing, teasing, spreading lies about, and ignoring each other. This is likely due to a lack of social-emotional skills to manage emotions, build relationships, and make responsible decisions. Initial steps would include explicitly addressing the cyberbullying problem, role playing problematic situations, teaching a process to promote responsible online posts, and having students create anti-cyberbullying materials.
The students exhibit challenging behaviors such as lack of empathy, negative attitudes towards peers, and conflicts that often start in their WhatsApp groups. Cyberbullying occurs in these groups, with students harassing, teasing, spreading lies about, and ignoring each other. This is likely due to a lack of social-emotional skills to manage emotions, build relationships, and make responsible decisions. Initial steps would include explicitly addressing the cyberbullying problem, role playing problematic situations, teaching a process to promote responsible online posts, and having students create anti-cyberbullying materials.
Think about a challenging behavior that (a) student(s) in your school exhibit.
Provide some background
information about the student(s), identify the possible reasons for that challenging behavior, and think of some plausible first steps to begin to incorporate SEL in your school(s). (600-word limit).
Background information about my students
As I have already pointed out on previous posts through the forum, I am currently teaching students from 2nd and 3rd form from Ciclo Básico in Pando. The vast majority of these teenagers come from a middle-low sociocultural background. They have serious issues in building positive relationships among each other. They lack the tools to work cooperatively and they are unable to empathise with peers. This latter mentioned leads to a constant negative attitude towards each other. It has been really hard to strike a balance between setting clear and solid classroom rules to create an appropriate caring learning environment and building a positive rapport with them. Challenging behaviour found on my students The most challenging aspect I have been dealing with so far has been to detect the reasons of their fallouts or constant negative attitude towards each other. I felt that there was a missing piece since explicit problematic situations did not occur within the classroom. I discuss thess impressions with other teachers and we came to the conclusion that many conflicts started through their Whatsapp groups. Every beginning of the year, each group creates a Whatsapp group, which is supposed to be used for multiple purposes: for establishing closer bonds among each other, for educational purposes, for fun, etc. However, from the very beginning of its creation these groups started creating conflicts among students: some are harassed because they simply ask for class notes or homework, others start teasing the shyest ones; others use these peer grouping to spread lies, rumors or secrets, others are simply ignored when they try to interact. In other words: cyber bullying via Whatsapp. These peer groups are the clearest proof of the lack of social emotional competencies our students have. I found this issue particularly challenging since teenagers are especially vulnerable to cyber bullying. This is more so when they feel the need to seek the approval of a peer group for social acceptance. Steps to incorporate SEL strategies This challenge chosen embraces the five SEL competencies since these students lack the tools and skills to understand and manage emotions, set and achieve positive goals, feel and show empathy for others, build and keep positive relationships and make responsible decisions (CASEL, 2012). My first steps to tackle this issue would be: Deal with cyberbullying and its differences between traditional bullying. Speak about the problem explicitly and show students how their negative attitudes affect and reflect in the classroom and needless to say their lives outside highschool. Plan activities that include role-play cards that show typical Whatsapp group problematic situations and any other cyberbullying examples. Teach the THINK (T—is it true - H—is it helpful - I—is it inspiring - N—is it necessary K—is it kind) process to help students recognize responsible social media use before posting an unkind or untrue remark about someone. Present the material shown below and ask them to create a poster to exhibit at highschool about cyber-bullying on Whatsapp groups and a list of behaviour ground rules for these peer groups. Source: Pinterest “Cyber-bullying”
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