32 most difficult people to work with :

Throughout your careers as an entrepreneur, you will encounter all types of

people. One of the keys to becoming successful as you deal with different
personalities, is to learn how to identify, coach, and work with these different
personality types.
How Manipulative People Use These 6
Tricks To Control You
1. They insult you through humor.
Manipulative people enjoy making you feel bad through evil or hurtful
comments, hidden beneath the cover of “being funny.” If they see you seem
saddened or hurt by their “humorous” comments, they will commonly
accuse you of having no sense of humor. Don’t negate your own feelings,
though, or fall into agreement with their “reasonable” suggestions that
you’re just “over-reacting,” etc. You know what you perceived and you know
what you feel.

2. They change the subject to avoid responsibility.

If you bring up the matter of one of their covert assaults it’s very common
for such a person to slyly attempt shifting the subject to you in a negative
way. For example, they may bring up some error you made three years ago
– often one that has absolutely nothing to do with the current
circumstances. The manipulative person will do whatever he or she can to
distract you from the cold, hard fact that they’ve mistreated you. Stay
focused; don’t be distracted, misdirected or confused. If the manipulator is
not interested in a sincere dialogue, then forget about it. It’s not worth your
time.

3. They accuse you of bad actions they themselves are involved

in.

The classic case here is the person who is flagrantly cheating on his or her
spouse but accuses the spouse of flirting with others. The manipulator
refuses or is unable to see his own behavior objectively.

4. They attempt to “gaslight” you.

“Gaslighting” is using clever tricks, lies and deceptions to manipulate

another into doubting his or her own knowledge, memories, perceptions
and even sanity. The term comes from a 1938 stage play in which one of the
principle characters tries to make his wife believe she is going insane.

Things like “That never happened!” “Are you crazy?!” and “You just don’t
understand!” are common with such attempts.
 If someone challenges what you perceive or believe, don’t just give up or
give in. Talk the matter over with someone else, preferably who is not
directly involved, who can examine the facts carefully and sensibly, and
who you’re certain can be trusted.

5. They test your limits.

A manipulator will constantly test your limits, trying to see how far you are
willing to stretch – morally, ethically and otherwise. Be firm, be true to
what you know is right and don’t give in.

6. They act loving, compassionate and understanding one day

and the complete opposite the next.

If a negotiating counterpart to talk about former partners, etc., in an

abusive, aggressive or arrogant way, watch out. Some day – maybe
tomorrow – you could be their target.

How To Deal With Sneaky Manipulative People

Most manipulative individuals have four common characteristics:

1. They know how to detect your weaknesses.

2. Once found, they use your weaknesses against you.
3. Through their shrewd machinations, they convince you to give up
something of yourself in order to serve their self-centered interests.
4. In work, social, and family situations, once a manipulator succeeds in
taking advantage of you, he or she will likely repeat the violation until you
put a stop to the exploitation.

Ways To Deal With Manipulators

1. Ignore everything they do and say.

When dealing with a manipulative person, the biggest mistake you can make is trying to
correct them.
By correcting them, you sink deeper into their trap.
Manipulative people will use frustration and confusion to bait you into conflict. They want to
get you emotional so they can see how you tick.

Once they know the things that trigger you, they’ll use them to influence your actions.

A better strategy is to ignore them completely.

Simply delete them from your life.

If you can’t delete them right away, like if they’re a boss, coworker, or family member, agree
with what they say and then go do your own thing anyway.

2. Hit their center of gravity.

Manipulative people are constantly using their own strategies against you.

They'll hold past actions over your head. They’ll become friends with your friends and turn
them against you. They’ll dangle some small reward in front of you and make you chase it
continuously—every time you get close to it, they’ll pull it away.

Turn the tables.

If you’re forced to deal with a manipulative person who keeps making your life miserable no
matter how hard you try to ignore them, go on the offensive.

Find their center or gravity.

This center might be the manipulative person’s friend, manager, or subordinate. It might be a
high level skill or an advanced understanding of a particular field. It might be a particular
resource that they control.

Once you find out what their center of gravity is...

Make it yours.
Create allies with people close to them, recruit people with their skill sets and knowledge
base to replace them, or siphon away their prized resource.

This will throw them off balance and force them to focus on controlling their career and life,
not yours.
How to Run a Kid Gang

Come up with a name. Try to start with your city, i.e. Nicholson City Saints. Make a good
name, but try not to copy the names of other gangs, and draft different logos that you and
your gang members agree on

Recruit members. One of your goals is to have as many members as possible. Try to
recruit 11-17 year old members.

Come up with a gang sign to flash your members. You're going to want to have a quick
way to identify other members of your gang once membership has become infectious.
Simple yet distinguishable hand gestures will get your gang noticed in your territory.
Get the gear. Have at least one computer in your house for data. Make wooden tools and
weapons for gang play. Wear your gang colors to represent your gang. All members should
have a bike, scooter, or a car, and have patrols out on the streets for rival gangs.

Find your turf. Find a spot around your city where you'll hang out like the woods, a forest, a
car park, a school, or an abandoned building.

Assign jobs for members. As a gang you need to assign jobs, including a leader, lookouts,
patrollers, and guards.

Deal with rival gangs. If enemies attack, get together as a group and stand your ground.
Use protective gear to protect yourself and any of your members. Put patrols on the streets
and increase your defenses.

If you are reading this textfile, then you are probably interested in
starting you very own
little gang. Why should I start my own gang? Well, you can definitely make
some money. You can
get some hardcore respect, and you Choose your Own hours. There are some
downsides to this Idea
though. You have to watch your back from rival gangs. You have to put up
with the Cops, and you
must keep your guys inline.

Now, lets move on to you setting up your business.

You will need some people willing to join you. Friends that you have will
work just fine. But
keep in mind that your friends will ALWAYS want to be the leader. Do not
let this happen. TAKE A
STAND. Make it CLEAR that YOU are the leader of your gang. Once you have
some members, you can
move onto getting a few things that you will need.

GUNS.
Every gang must have guns. It is what protects you from rivals. If you are
over 21, go to your
nearest Gun Store and buy one. If you are under 21, Go to a very large
city. Hang around the
streets until you see a drug dealer. Once you see one, ask him to point you
to an area where you
can get some guns. Once you find some, give the money, and you got some
heaters. Make sure that
you keep the Arms dealers Phone Number. You will need it for ammunition.
Street Guns usually run
about $50 to $100 each. Sometimes you can find some for $25. These are good
prices. Learn how to
shoot your gun, and pass them out to your men. Carry your gun everywhere
that you go, you will
need it sooner or later.

SETTING UP
Every gang needs money. You will need to buy some cheap dope, or make your
own. You can find many
many files on the internet on how to make your own drugs. Go to
www.textfiles.com for manuals on
how to make your own. Make your drugs. Once your product is finished, get
some of your guys to go
out on the street and sell it. You will need to get some walkie talkies.

SELLING
There is an effective process that you should follow when selling your
product. You should have
three of your guys out on the streets each. Give two of your guys one
walkie talkies. Give one of
your guys all of your dope. Now send them off on the streets with these
instructions.

Stay together.

One with the walkie talkie will be the lookout. If he spots ANYTHING, he
will contact the other
with the second walkie talkie. Then they will split out of there.

Now onto the one that you gave all of your dope to. He carry the money, and
give the dope. He
should be standing next to a payphone, so he can call you for more if he
needs it. If he calls
for more, you will send another guy out to deliver it.

Now for the seller. He will stand around the streets selling the dope. When
he gets the money, he
will give it to the guy that carrys the money.

SELLING GUNS
Once you have made enough cash selling dope, you can make a buy for a bunch
of guns. Once you
have made your buy. Put them all in the trunk of a car, and drive to a real
bad part of town.
Walk around and ask people "hey, you need some protection?". If they say
"ya, sure." Then lead
them to the car, and let them make they're pick. Sell them for about $20
more than you bought
them for. You should now have a FUCKLOAD of money to start moving on to
bigger and better things.

PIMPING
A very effective way to get some money is through pimping. Pimping is when
you go to a hooker on
the street, and ask her if she needs a pimp. A Pimps job is to offer her
protection from assholes
that won't give her the money, or try to rape her. When you get some girls
working for you, send
them out on the street. Tell them where to do business. Once every two
hours, you need to go and
visit them. She will give you all of the money that she has made. When her
job is over, you give
her a 40% cut. Stick with this plan for a few months. After a few months,
you should have some
real heavy money buy now.

SAFEHOUSING
You now have some real good heavy cash. Go to the worst part of town, and
search for a house, or
a shitty apartment building for sale. Try to find one with a nice size
garage. If you find one
for the right price, buy it. You will now need to have a meeting with all
of your members. You
will tell them you are opening a safe house, and that they need to guard it
heavily. You will
need at least 10 people guarding it at all times depending on the size of
the safehouse. Once you
have your safehouse guarded, you will need to attract some business. Go
around town to some
people that you know, and tell them that if they get in any trouble, they
can hide out there. If
they have stolen any cars, they can hide them in your garage for a price.
Tell your guards not to
take any heat from the cops. Tell them to fight to the death if they have
to. When you start
getting business from your safehouse, you should be getting hardcore money
coming through to fuel
your next project.

CRACKHOUSING
This project requires a lot of balls, and a lot of guards. To set up, you
will need a lot of
guns, and about 20 guys helping you out. Go find an apartment building for
sale. One that is in a
shitty part of town. Buy it. Now, completely clear the entire place out. If
there are people
still living there, then kick them out. Kill anyone that gives you a
struggle. Storm the place
clean. When you are done, find a room or someplace in the building where
you can setup a
chemistry lab (you should have somebody that knows how to make crack).
Clean a big room out, and
put a bunch of tables down. The room should be big enough to hold about 75-
100 people. On each
table throughout the room, should be some glass pipes for your customers to
smoke they're Crack.
Once everything is setup, you can start getting people to come there. Set
as many guards as you
need in the building, and out of the building. Now start attracting
business. You now have the
BEST crackhouse in town. Tell your men to protect it from the cops with
they're life. By the end
of the month, you should have about $200,000.

TERRITORY
Now that you have a quite large gang, some of money, and members, you
should start moving onto
other gangs territory. Your goal is the entire city!!! Begin a complete war
against any other
gangs that stand in your way. Hit the leaders of the gangs as hard as you
can. Because you are
the leader, you will not be doing this yourself. You will be at your
Safehouse making battle
plans. Before you know it, every other gang will be coming to you for work.
But be careful, they
may be looking for revenge. If you know that they are, then kill them.
MURDER FOR HIRE
You will need to recruit some new members that know a lot about killing.
Once you find someone
that you trust, you can hire him to work for you as a member. Anyone that
comes to you asking for
someone to be dead, you will give the mission to your Hit Man. The person
that wants someone dead
must pay you at least $9,000. Your Hit Man must do an A+ job, or else you
won't get any more
business. If you can not find a Hit Man that will work for you, then you
should take a willing
member, and give him "Hit Man: A Technical Manual for Independent
Contractors." Here is the link
to the book.

http://web.textfiles.com/destruction/hitman.txt

When you Hit Man does a Job, you should give him 60% of the Money paid.

BUSINESS FRONT
A Business Front is a legal business that you set up to hide what you
actually do. By now, you
will need one. You must first think up a business that you want to set up.
It can be an art
gallery, a night club, a church, etc. You now have enough money to make a
business. So make your
pick. Your front is meant to look legit, but is really not. You could even
open up a hotdog
factory. If so, then all of the people that you kill will turn into hotdog
meat! You will need a
business front in order to hide from the cops.

MONEY LAUNDERING
Since you are now a leader of a giant gang, you will probably be bringing
in serious cash. The
cash that you bring in is probably dirty. So you will need to launder it in
order to spend it.
The only bad thing is, when you launder it, you will only get about 75
cents to the dollar. So,
in order to launder it, you will need a business to launder it through.
Let's say an art auction.
First, get somebody to paint a picture. You must now get the business to
except the auction. Once
that is done, take your dirty money to the auction, and bid on that
painting for the exact amount
that you need to launder. The money will then go to the artists bank
account (the artist is a
fellow gang member). The artist will then pull out all of the money, and
give it to you. Now you
have clean money that is almost impossible to trace. This can also be done
on ebay with paypal.

By now, you probably have millions of dollars, and the police, and rival
gangs hate you. You will
need some body guards. You are no longer safe being by yourself anywhere.
You will need guards in
front of your house. You no longer will be able to be a street soldier. You
are now a boss. Your
gang is so big now, that you probably shouldn't even call it a gang.

COMMUNITY PROTECTION
If you are a real asshole, then you should use this one. You and your men
should go around town
and force people to pay you for protection from other gangs. If someone
refuses to pay you, then
he gets the living shit beat out of him. It is an old trick to get money.
It has been used many
times, and proved successfull.

LOANSHARKING
Loansharking is when you lend somebody a heafty amount of cash, and the
person has to pay you
back with intrest within so many weeks. Set up connections with some people
to let them know that
you are now in the loansharking business. Loan your money, and after a
period of time, he will
have to pay you back. If he fails to do so, then you break his arm. The
more time passes, you
break more bones. If he is just way to late on his payment, he will have to
die. If he fails to
pay you, you should send some of your men out to follow him frequently.
Because if he is not
being watched, he will probably try to skip town.

and that Concludes this textfile. Be Carefull with your gang. Keep it
protected!!!