Leet ee a “HOW INVALID BELIEFS LEAD TO EGOTISTICAL INSECURITIES ‘The biggest obstacle that Mode Three men must overcome is their invalid beliefs and fears, and their myriad of egotistical insecurities. What is it that causes 4 man to develop an egotistical insecurity? I would say the starting point, or core, of all egotistical insecurities is invalid beliefs and fears and/or false assumptions. More specifically, you have @ misconception about what is desirable to women, and what is not. First of all though, what is an insecurity? ‘An egotistical insecurity is a perception within your own mind that an atuibute or characteristic you possess 15 not quite “up to par,” so to speak For example, if it is your belief that all women are only attracted to men who are six feet tall or tallet, and you happen to be five feet and seven inches tall, then you ate going to feel insecure anytime you ate in the company of men who are taller than you. If it is your belief that all women are only attacted to men with a tvelve-inch penis, and your penls measures no longer than seven Inches, then anytlme you ate in the company of men who you assume have a longer (and thicker) penis than you, you ate going to feel Insecure. ‘The Key thing to remember is that all egotistical insecurities begin, and end, in your own mind. Now if a woman specifically Informs you of her particular tastes ‘and preferences in men, all you can do is accept them, and if you do not meet her standards, move on to the next woman. If a Woman says to you, “I am only tracted to men who drive expensive sports automobiles,” and you happen to be diving an old Inexpensive automobile wh four doors, then what can you do? The reality is, most men make false assumptions about what they believe women find desirable in men. Never assume that 4 woman considets 2 physical or non- physical attribute that you may possess to be undesirable. Anytime you constanily find yourself comparing what you have to offer to women, ‘with what other men have to offer to women, you are setting yourself up to