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Flirting secrets
I’ve told this story before but you may not have heard it.
To parties, clubs, bars or even just normal hangouts with groups of people..
I could talk a *decent* (at best) game with the dudes but put a girl in front of me - I don’t care
if she was fat, ugly or (dear god) BOTH - at it I fucking sucked.
I had no idea how to LEAD a conversation. Truthfully, I didn’t even know you could do that,
or that the other person could possibly *want* you to do that.
Imagine how excited I was when I found out girls actually WANT you to take the conversation
where you want so long as you do it unapologetically and nonchalantly.
Imagine how stoked I was when I learned there were specific tools, techniques, fuck, even
formulas, to do that.
I’d look at guys I knew talking with girls and these girls would be dying laughing, giggling,
smiling like those moments with those guys were the greatest times of their life.
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I still remember, there were two kids named Zack and Evan who were amazing at it, from
a really young age.
We grew up together, and every conversation I saw them have with a girl was FUN,
EXCITING, CHALLENGING, PLAYFUL and ATTRACTIVE.
And I can proudly say to you today - I’m pretty fucking awesome at it now.
I actually consider myself the best at it in the world, and other dating coaches/gurus have
said the same.
It’s ok :-)
Every girl I talk to now, we have that fun, playful, teasing, challenging vibe.
I walk away feeling awesome in my ability to generate that shit, and she leaves like, ‘Damn…
that guy was different, fun, exciting, unpredictable…I want some more of that.”
What you’ll find below is a massive list of most of my favorite flirting techniques.
These techniques when used correctly will create that playful, challenging, unpredictable
vibe all women find so attractive, exciting and intriguing.
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If you’ve never used anything like these below, you’ll quickly find that a large part of how they
go depend on your delivery.
Like any good comedian, facial expressions/timing/tone play a major role in how they go.
Play around with different styles until you find the one that works best for you.
And dear god, don’t try and remember or use all of these at the same time.
Pick one that you like, and set a positively powerful intention to use it in every interaction for
a week.
Your brain will get it down right, internalize and then you’re freed up to add another one into
the repertoire.
Let’s begin.
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Why they work: Because they’re called Past Adventure Projections. That just sounds
awesome. Also, not as cool as the name but important nonetheless, an imagined past memory
can cut even deeper into the emotional circuitry than a future one. Very powerful.
How to use them: When someone comes up to the two of you and both of you do not know
the person (so it’s either a friend of yours, a friend of hers, or someone neither of you know),
introduce her as your wife or girlfriend.
When you’re trying to influence a girl to do something, say, “How long have we known each
other now…six years, ever since that first day at kickboxing class? We go way back, you can
trust me on this etc etc.”
Tell her you’re not sure you can trust her because of what happened all those years ago
between you two at summer camp. Make up the funny story of how she took advantage of you
behind the bushes and gave you your first kiss but also gave you cooties so since then, yes,
you’ve been attracted to her but the cootie thing has left you skeptical.
Example: “How long have we known each other now? 10 years? I remember our first night
here together, you were so shy and awkward back then. I remember the waiter came over and
you asked if they had a kid’s menu. That’s when I realized, you know, she may or may not be
the one for me, but at least she’s different..”
Note that none of this ever happened and you can (and should) say stuff like this to girl you’ve
been talking to for 5 minutes.
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Key points: Funny memories involving you and her romantically are usually best. Dinners
by candlelight, first kisses at summer camp, long walks on the beach mixed with deep
conversation…things like that.
Before we get to the techniques, theres one thing you gotta understand first.
And you need to comprehend this DEEPLY, as if your life depended on it.
Not cuz your life does depend on it BUT YOUR SEX LIFE DOES.
You know women love a guy with a big-ass, powerful, impenetrable frame.
But the truth is that they almost don’t care WHAT the frame is…they’re simply attracted to the
strength of it, the fact they you won’t change it or settle or sacrifice it for her or anyone else.
She feels like she can trust you when she can feel the strength of your frame.
And you are the most important person in your life so start acting like it.
If I tell a girl that I’m going to fuck her silly later tonight, and she says we can’t do that tonight,
I calmly reply, “You just earned yourself an ass-spanking too little girl.”
Techniques:
2. Brain Scarmblers
What they are: Statements that make no sense in a playful, flirty way, are almost always
the exact opposite of what’s actually happening and make her go, “Wait…what!”.
Why they work: They’re fucking fun as shit bro. Consider the idea of emotional transfer.
They also exhibit supreme nonneediness, bravado and simply that you just don’t give a fuck
about impressing anyone. All highly attractive.
<while smiling with excited confidence> “I’m really sad. Can you help me?”
<when she’s laughing at everything you say> “I like how you don’t laugh at anything I say..”
“I’m really innocent, I swear...” <as you smirk with seductive slyness>
You’re body language says one thing, your words say the opposite, all while you playfully
smirk, James Bond style.
<when you keep making her laugh> “You’re so funny, you keep making me laugh. Stop it.”
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<when she’s really short> You’re far too tall for me.
<when she’s really tall> You’re far too short for me.
Key points: These are said with a smirk, not a laugh, and that strong, piercing, relaxed
eye contact.
Why they work: They’re clever, funny and just a little too overconfident on your part, which
is of course WHAT SHE WANTS and the sweet spot for attraction.
How to use them: At any point you feel like it in the conversations, ask her any questions
that imply anything awesome about you, or you and her.
“So I’m curious, just what is it that you find so intriguing about me, besides my ability to be
humble of course..”
“It’s fitting that the two coolest people in here should be talking with each other, eh..”
“Yo, I usually can’t say stuff like this to most people but I feel like you can actually relate:
How awesome is it to be this awesome all the time..”
“Can you even imagine how jealous is everyone gonna be when we get married..”
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Key points: Ask these with a big smirk on your face and don’t actually expect her to answer.
You’re not saying it for her response, you’re saying it because it’s hilarious and makes you feel
good.
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Why they work: The emotional brain can’t decipher between what is real and what is
imagined. They both feel the same to her in the moment so if you tell her you’re going to take
her to a sunny beach and play in the sparkling blue water together, the emotions she’s feels
are extremely similar to what she feels when you and her actually go do that. Think about how
powerful and versatile this knowledge is (talking about travels, adventures, sex, etc).
How to use them: When either of you are talking about something you want to do in the
future, make it a future adventure projection.
Tell her she’s awesome so you’re going to take her with you on your rise to the top of the
world. Talk about what you two are going to do when you’re there.
Find out something she likes to do, or talk about something you like to do, and then make
a FAP with the two of you doing that thing.
Example: “What’s the best adventure you’ve been on lately?” <she answers something about
a hike, then you share your experience swimming with dolphins, then you say..> “You know
what, I’m totally going to take you swimming with me and the dolphins next time I go. The
whole family is going to dig you but Percy’s gonna like you best, he has a thing for brunettes
who are just a little more interesting than they should be. We’ll swim and play with them, then
you’re going to take me on that hike but while we’re out there, we’re going to run into a fierce
mountain lion but since I speak mountain lion, I’ll talk to him, he’ll relax and chill with us for a
little bit then we’ll go home cuz that was a really eventful day.”
That’s how you make a FAP. Notice the leading question to start it, the combining of our two
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adventures together, my status throughout the story and of course, the general ridiculousness/
nonsense I’m spitting throughout it. It’s hilarious and totally does not need to make sense.
Indifferent, playful illogicality = attraction.
The status dynamics in your FAP’s should be you in the leader/power position and her
following with you. Think Teacher/Student, Coach/Player, Guide/Follower, Doctor/Nurse,
Boss/Secretary etc.
And throw in a couple challenges in there for her during it. You already make her work
for you in the present - and it will be no different in the future.
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5. False Disqualifiers
What they are: False disqualifies are fake reasons why you and her can’t be together.
Why they work: Humans want what they can’t have. Even when she knows you’re just
teasing her when you say one of these, her emotional circuitry does not, and so the same
feelings of desire are triggered as if the barrier was real.
How to use them: There are two main ways to use false disqualifiers. The first are little
one-liners, which you toss in there every so often to spike that sexual tension.
The others are actual frames you set as themes early on in the relating, and then continue
to play around with those for as long as you want (the whole relationship, like... for years,
if you want).
Examples: Here’s a quick list of false disqualifiers that I’m about to brain dump right now:
You know, it’s really too bad you’re not my type, we could have had some fun.
It’s really too bad we’re not at all attracted to each other.
You know why me and you would never get along? I’m far too adventurous for you, I’m not
sure you could keep up.
It would never work between us, I can totally tell, you’re the jealous type.
Wait, how tall are you? <she answers> Oh, you’re way too tall for me. I think I’m going through
a midget phase right now.
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<if she has blonde hair, but you can say this for any hair color> You’re way more interesting
than I thought you’d be. It’s really too bad me and blondes don’t get along, we always end up
fighting to see who’s going to end up on top.
And here are some frames you can set and play with. Again, once you have one of these
going, you can playfully come back to it whenever you want.
The “Most girls only like me for my body/I feel like a piece of meat” frame
-Say, “You know what’s so annoying? I feel like no one I talk to even sees the real me, like
every girl just likes me for my body and not my brain…it’s so hard to be taken seriously when
they keep checking out your body. I feel like a piece of meat.”
-This is hilarious
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Why they work: It’s a common law of life: You’ll almost always end up with exactly what
you think you deserve.
So when you make giant, absurd requests like these, sure, she knows you’re joking, but
you wouldn’t make a joke like that unless a part of you believed that you deserved it, and
subconsciously, she feels that. Since you see yourself so highly and deservingly, she’ll
begin to look at and treat you that way.
“Hey I’m hungry. Can you go to the grocery store for me and make me a sandwich?”
“Yo there’s a long line for the men’s bathroom. Can you go over there with me and tell all the
guys waiting you’ll give all of them blow jobs if I can cut..”
“After we get married and divorced and then married again, do you promise you’ll still love me?”
And when she asks you for something, sometimes say something like, “Sure, all I ask in return
is <insert something ridiculous here>, that’s cool with you, right..”
The “insert something ridiculous here” can be a 20-minute massage from her that lasts an
hour or her coming over to your house to do the dishes/laundry or if she’s your girlfriend/wife,
12 blowjobs. Lol. You know what I be sayin.
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Why they work: It’s funny, first of all. Different, exciting and a very advanced flirting skill.
Also, a passive, underlying frame is set when you imply she’s doing something and she
doesn’t seriously disagree with it.
So if I tell her, “Stop being so cool and making me like you, this is so not cool,” and she laughs
(aka doesn’t seriously disagree), the frame is *still* set that she’s MAKING you like her, as in
she’s doing things to make you like her which she would only do if she liked you first, which
is what her subconscious will read.
Crazy but true. See more from Robert Cialdini on the Commitment/Consistent Principle
for more.
How to use them: At any high point, where she made you laugh, or gave you a seductive
glance or really did anything unique, playfully be upset with her for making her like you.
Some lines..
“Stop looking at me like that. It’s way too seductive for a public setting..”
“Why are you doing this to me? I’m not trying to like anyone right now…I hate you so much,
stop it <playfully push her away, then bring her in for a big bear hug and say, “Fuck, why do
we have to have so much fun together..”>
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“You’re a dancer? You know I have a weakness for women skilled in movement, this is so
not fair, making me interested in you like that.”
He’d find out a girl was an accountant and blame the economy on her.
Or she was a bartender, and he’d blame her for the alarming number of alcoholics in this
country.
Or she was a nurse, and he’d blame her for starting this cold that’s currently going around
town.
If you have some success with variations on this too, holler at me and let me know.
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8. Role-plays
What they are: Made-up roles between the two of you that set you guys in character.
Why they work: Role-playing isn’t just for kids on the playground, or swingers.
Remember how much fun it was to play cops and robbers, or cowboys and indians when
you were a kid..
There’s somethings fun and freeing about being able to step into someone else’s shoes for
a little bit and just PLAY.
And when you do it with a girl you just met, it’s even more fun for the both of you (and fun
is the ultimate attraction switch).
Also, setting up a role play with someone you just met fast-forwards the connection
and rapport the two of you feel for each other.
No longer are you just two kids in a bar, now you’re boyfriend-girlfriend.
How to use them: There are 3 main role-plays that you’ll ever need to know..
The “Boyfriend/Girlfriend” role-play - After she says something you like or that makes you
laugh, wrap your arm around her, bring her in, say, “You’re just too much fun, you’re my new
girlfriend for the next 10 minutes.”
And then go play boyfriend/girlfriend. Walk around the place, show her off, let her show you off,
talk about how jealous everyone is of how awesome of a couple you guys make, get a pen and
draw love tattoos on each others arms, pretend to fight, break up and then get back together.
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The “Partners in crime” role-play - Anytime there’s something that you guys can’t figure out, do
a FAP and say you guys are going to be detectives together and you’re going to solve the case
together. You can be Sherlock Holmes, she’ll be your Watson (remember the status dynamics).
Or if there’s anything else that comes up where you two can pretend to be patterns-in-crime
in it, do it.
The “Teacher/Student” Role-play - Anytime something comes up where she wants to know
about something or know how to do something and you’re going to show her, immediately put
out the teacher/student role-play. Say, “OK, I’m going to show you this because you’re such
a good listener, but make sure you pay close attention…it will be on the final exam at the end
of the semester. Are you ready..”. She’ll laugh and instantly pick up on the new role-play and
excitedly play along. Anytime you throw out a pretend role-play or game, the girl will basically
always get all excited and want to play.
So long as you qualify and challenge and create memories while you guys play, she’s yours.
Here’s just a smattering of what guys have said about it in the last 24 hours:
“My God.”
-Ryan M.
“I love your stories but this one was really funny. The ending in the police car was the best.”
-Michael F.
I laughed everytime I read you saying something along the lines of “Life’s OK” or that
MAYBE you’ll see model girl if she came to LA.
I just can’t believe that one man can have such ferocity and authority. What I mean is even
when you get what you want, you’re still not satisfied.
I’m gonna post it for you below so read up but before you do...the announcement I
mentioned:
The guy working there found out what I do, and told me he had this girl who wouldn’t text him
back.
By the time I left with the new ride, with me texting for him, he had already set up plans with
her for drinks later that night.
I don’t like having to pay for things I didn’t expect, that weren’t in my budget,
like having to rent a car.
So I’m going to open up my Phone Coaching over the next few days. I normally go at $500/hr
but since it’s a special deal thing, it’ll be less and for 20 or 40 minute sessions.
Whatever you need fixed, don’t yet understand or want to know what to do with a specific girl,
that’s what we’ll go over on the phone and solve in that time.
If you want one of these few spots, reply back asap to this email and my asst. will put us in
touch to discuss dates, time and payment.
Please know before you write us now:
It’s how I can see things so clearly and know exactly what steps to take to get the desired
outcome.
I care far more about getting you the result you tell me you want than stroking your ego or
making you feel good.
If that won’t click with your personality, no worries, I’m sure there are hundreds of Dr. Phil
wannabes who have no idea what they’re talking about but will gladly tell you what you want to
hear :-P
For the rest of you, I certainly look forward to talking with you, it’s been a while since I’ve done
this.
And now, let’s get to the Adventure Report one guy called, “the greatest night of my life, and I
didn’t even live it.”
Enjoy dude.
INTRO
It’s been a while since I’ve written one of these..
Months, I think.
“I started messing with her, then challenged her, then raised the stakes, then fvcked her.”
As usual, feel free to write me back your thoughts and questions on what you read below, we
usually get dozens of replies back after sending out a new one of these, and they’re always
cool and fun.
Also, this is not for the faint of heart, or cock. This is most-certainly ADVANCED stuff below,
specifically for my guys who have been gaming for years.
If you’re new to the game, just understand this is what it’s going to be like for you down the
road as you keep learning from me..
So for now, kick back, relax and enjoy one of the wildest nights of my life.
The Detroit Heat
Adventure Report By Jason Capital
My little sister was graduating from prison, I mean college last weekend so I came in to watch
that.
After landing and a quick dinner with the family - my brother, our mutual female friend who we
always hang with when we’re home (we’ll call her Asian Cookie) and I headed out to the bar
scene in Royal Oak, MI.
They both knew a girl who worked at a popular spot and since she was off that night, there we
went.
We get there.
And since she’s socially retarded, she didn’t introduce my bro or me to her friend with the
super tight body that was with her.
The friend’s at the bar, so I step into that area and say something about her watching the
hockey game.
I think it was that she didn’t have to pretend to like sports in order to impress me.
We talked about a bunch of random shit - mostly just me teasing her, connecting on casual
things, sharing stories, anecdotes, random thoughts, whatever.
This is what we call a pure, fun “I’m fvcking with you vibe” to play over the high-status
subcommunications that are booming loud and clear via body language, movements, eye
contact and tonality.
I rack my brain.
I leave her, talk to other people, come back, leave her again, etc.
I didn’t see her at the end of the night and truthfully didn’t think much of it - not cuz she
wouldn’t look fabulous bent over in front of me but because fvck man....there’s just so many
options nowadays.
Cheerleader girl, who’s had Asian Cookie’s number since they’ve met before, has been texting
her wondering what we’re doing tonight..
Cookie thinks this is hilarious because Cheerleader has never texted her before even though
they see each other every weekend, and clearly just wants to see me.
Cookie shows me these texts when we’re out again that night.
Cheerleader last told her that she was at home and didn’t think she was gonna come out..
“This is Jason. Stop being a little shithead and get out here.”
I’m upstairs at the bar, she comes and finds me - we talk for maybe 15 minutes. Nothing
special at all, just laid back normal talking. We exchange phone numbers this time under the
pretense of “I’ll text you tomorrow about what we’re doing”.
I go out that night with a bunch of my old college buddies to the ultimate shitface bar in
Michigan, this dark little place called Luna.
It was here on this night that I met one of the most awesome girls from Michigan I’ve actually
ever met, a model who wasn’t quite aware of how awesome she was (is there a better
combination?).
I ended up spending the night with her, hooking up in the jungle gym of a random stranger’s
suburban backyard since I had nowhere to actually take her..
I’m crashing at my parent’s house while in Michigan, which was 30 minutes away, plus.. It’s my
PARENTS house. Weird.
This would later prove to be troublesome. Or awesome. I’m gonna go with awesome.
So Sunday arrives, my final night in Michigan, and I make plans to hang out with model girl.
Model girl flakes on me, texting me last minute with some bullshit excuse.
I’m aware she’s lying to me so I ignore her but now I’m pissed.
Plus this is my last night in Michigan? Fvck it. This night has BENDER written all over it..
I go to my college buddies house, who live in Royal Oak a mile away from the Main St bar
scene.
They still live like they’re in college and such, have copious amounts of dark and light liquors in
their kitchen.
I scoop the Svedka bottle off the fridge and start swigging.
Mind you, I’m just meeting my brother and Asian Cookie out in a half-hour at the bar. No one
expects anything crazy to happen. This is just another Sunday night for my buddies, who have
work in the morning and no interest in bending like Beckham. Their loss..
I start pounding the fifth, while showing one of my far too celibate friends this little site called
OKCupid.
He’s skeptical of meeting girls online but my logic is strong. I tell him he can continue his
nightly weed-smoking habit but now, instead of watching TV, he can do it while lining up girls
all week. He makes an account.
I applaud his decision, announce Cheers, and pound a triple shot with no chaser.
I see my brother and Asian Cookie. We do a shot and are celebrating everything and nothing. I
see cheerleader girl. She’s with another guy. He’s not me, so I decide he’s a loser.
We make eye contact, I smirk, then turn away and go back to partying.
They have one of those mini basketball hoops at this bar, so me, my bro and Cookie go to play.
If you’re new around here, you might not know that while I was an antisocial virgin in college, I
also played basketball.
The vodka seems to have no effect on my motor skills as I set the high score on the game.
This night is already a success.
I see this, and immediately know something no one else in this bar does.
Sure, it’s an obvious sign she wants me to notice her, talk to her, etc but what’s being sub
communicated about the current relationship between her and loser guy is far more important..
Answer this crucial question correctly: If she’s the one dragging him over, WHO’S LEADING
that interaction?
If the girl’s leading the interaction, she cannot truly be attracted to you.
But if YOU’RE the one leading the interaction, then she’s inherently attracted to you.
This doesn’t mean you have to be domineering and telling her what to do (cuz that really works
*sarcasm*), but it does mean that the underlying dynamic of your interaction with her needs to
be you leading, and her following your lead.
Most guys don’t make fvcking decisions and are pushovers and ask her retarded questions like
“What do you think?
What do you wanna do?” and other pvssy shit like that, and then later wonder what they did
wrong.
So as they’re both hanging out around us, I’m not really paying attention to them, but just me,
my friends and sharing the awesome that is with all.
A little later, it’s time to go back to the bar and really bend this night.
I make friends with a cool dude at the bar, and buy me, my bro and him a round of vodka
bombs.
Oh, shit.
Just then, I feel a tap on the shoulder. It’s her. She starts explaining to me why she’s here with
that guy, and how they used to talk like 5 years ago and he’s just been texting her a lot lately
and they had made plans to meet up tonight two weeks ago and he was so excited and she
didn’t want to let him down, etc etc.
I think I’m still furious about awesome model girl going full retard and flaking on me, and that
furious energy is fueling my intense indifference to cheerleading girl, which is probably driving
her crazy, minus the probably.
(Model girl’s actually been texting me all day today too...go figure. I think if she comes out to
LA, I’ll give her a chance to see me. Maybe).
We talk for a second, then I tell her he seems like a “really nice guy”. For those that ain’t know,
this is me subtly throwing him under the bus, although he really did it to himself here, letting
her lead and take charge of their dynamic.
I then tell her that I can clearly infer she has “this good girl inside of her but she also has this
bad girl too, and let’s face it... the bad girl is constantly beating the good girl.”
“And if the bad girl is constantly beating the good girl, maybe you should just stop fighting and
go with what you obviously really want - let the bad girl do what she wants.”
Loser guy comes over and sits on the other side of her.
Not twenty minutes later, I’m at the other side of the bar getting some other girl’s phone
number when I feel another tap on my shoulder.
She announces she has sent loser guy where he belongs - home.
(I don’t mean to put this dude down so much but YO - if you’re gonna be a supplicating,
chasing, pushover with no verifiable boundaries or standards, that you clearly don’t respect
yourself - and why would I? That’s why I’m going to pound your dream girl in a second bro..)
Our hands explore each other’s bodies. I bend her over and pull her hair.
Now she’s grabbing my ass, and telling me how she never does this, has never hooked up at
a bar, that she only kisses guys she’s dating. I tell her she’s such a bad girl and needs to be
punished.
Tension and temptation both reach max levels simultaneously, so I tell her, “You need to go to
the bathroom”.
She does.
I’m not sure if she thought I was gonna follow her in there but I wasn’t. I found my brother and
Cookie and we started a dance party in the middle of the bar.
She comes back 10 minutes later. I tell her we’re all getting food and she’s coming.
I lead her outside and slam her against the window in front of the bar. We’re going at it
hardcore now, and all of our friends, plus strangers we don’t know are watching us kiss, claw,
scratch and bite each other into sexual tension heaven.
The bouncer’s laughing and says we need to shoot a porno here. I tell him we’re not free, while
grabbing a full palm of her NFL cheerleader ass. Yeah, life’s OK.
I’m slowly whispering in her ear, describing exactly what I want to do to her and what she’s
going to be feeling as I do. Her legs are going weak, she can barely stand - ironic since I’m
the vodka-fiend here.
Fvck.
Cops.
Wait.
Ohhhhhh, I see.
They wanna fvck her, so they’re being wussy pushovers. How is it possible guys still think this
nice, pushover guy shit works? WAKE THE FVCK UP SASQUATCH.
I tell the cops we’re trying to get food, can they give us a ride to the spot, it’s like 9 blocks
away.
They know she’s with me and wants the ride, so they say “yes, but no making out back there”.
VOLUNTARILY.
Fvck it.
We immediately start making out in the back. They say nothing so I decide I wanna see if I can
take this further..
I run my hand along the inside of her thigh and start teasing her, before sliding one inside her.
I’m fingering this girl in the back of a cop car with two policemen who want to fvck her while
drunk as fvck off vodka red bull after getting flaked on by the girl I originally wanted to see not
3 hours ago.
This gives me 3 different boners in unison: Soul, vodka and the normal kind.
I’m looking for a secluded spot I can take this girl where we can fully physically express
ourselves..
Nothing.
Fvcking Michigan.
All I see is a post office with dozens of mail trucks in the parking lot.
Lightbulb.
I grab her hand, lead her 100 feet between a couple of trucks and slam her against the wall of
the truck, using my arm to brace her impact.
Brushing a strand of hair behind her ear, I slowly move in and take her.
When we’re done, I take her back to the restaurant where all our friends just finished.
I go clean up, send her on her way with her friends then kick back with Asian Cookie for a
delicious 4 AM chicken stir-fry.
I feel like I say this every time I write a new Adventure Report..
If the girl’s leading the interaction, she cannot truly be attracted to you.
But if YOU’RE the one leading the interaction, then she’s inherently attracted to you.
The person who reacts to you is saying “Yes, you are of higher status than me”.
When NFL cheerleader dragged loser guy over with her to us at the start of the night, who was
acting, and who was reacting?
When she came up to me to explain why he was there, who was reacting?
When I grabbed her hand and led her into the post office parking lot, who was acting, and who
was reacting?
Do I say what I want to say? Do I do what I want to do? Do I talk about what I want to talk
about?
Lead, motherfvcker, lead.
2. Subcommunications
From the very beginning, this thing was on between us because of my sub communications..
Even though we had the fun, playful, flirty vibe, which is obviously important, the real reason
she was so attracted was because of my body language.
My voice.
My indifference.
Any good seducer of women will tell you this is the stuff that really matters for you, long-term.
Between my playful teasing, challenging cold reads, authentic indifference and consistent use
of takeaways, the frame between us was obvious from the very beginning.
She immediately realizes, “Oh, I’M pursuing him..” and then she gets excited.
All girls LOVE to chase, then get penetrated by the prize they just worked so hard for.
After the model girl from Saturday night flaked on me, I was pissed.
I actually yelled at the top of my lungs for a good 20 seconds to help release some of that
energy.
Most guys in that situation would have sat back, dejected, and sulked the rest of the night.
I chose to positively channel that energy into what I can only call ‘intense indifference”.
I fvcked with cheerleader girl a lot. A lesser female would have bowed out far sooner. But that
combination of status + fun/challenging + intense difference is just so damn irresistible.
Ahh.
You like her eyes but you’re concerned she’s just too naive and inexperienced for you.
You’re playing with her and giving her attention, then you’re ignoring her while having fun with
other people.
If I had to teach a guy one lesson he would carry with him forever about sparking attraction
and sexual tension in a girl, this would be it.
Peace beast.
Aaron Wilcoxxx' 3 Step Stamina Program PDF (eBook)
Discover How 3 Step Stamina Can Help You Achieve RAGING Erections And World-Class Stamina In Bed... Without Any Drugs
Superstar
Stamina:
How to get hard
and }stay hard}
Superstar
Stamina:
How to get hard
and }stay hard}
Did you know that there’s a number of techniques you can use so that you last for 45 minutes—and
even as long as 2 hours? Superstar Stamina shows you a variety of approaches that include
exercises, positions, diet and physical conditioning—and some re-thinking of long-held attitudes
about sex and sexual performance and the role they play in your life.
In this book you’ll discover how to put these ideas into practice. Gaining more stamina requires more
than just a laser focus on your cock. It’s also about what you eat, getting in shape, assuming a sex
positive attitude, finding intimacy with your partner, creating romantic settings, letting go of stress,
taking the right supplements, and more.
Of course, you’ll be exercising your cock as a core part of the program, but if that’s all you do you won’t
gain much stamina. If you think your cock is the only element in play here, you’re not going to succeed.
When you comprehensively address all the factors involved, soon you may just find yourself lasting
longer than you ever thought possible.
You’ll know you’ve done your work well when you and your lover wake in the morning feeling groggy
and spent because you didn’t get enough sleep. Maybe you’ll have enough leftover stamina for a quickie
before heading off to work. That’s the way stamina works: it’s the gift that keeps on giving.
contents
SUPERSTAR STAMINA: HOW TO GET HARD AND STAY HARD
ROCK ME BABY, ALL NIGHT LONG
COCK LIKE A BOTTLEROCKET
HELLO STAMINA, GOODBYE INSECURITY
MORE STAMINA MEANS HOTTER SEX
LAYING THE GROUNDWORK: SOME ATTITUDE ADJUSTMENT REQUIRED
THE AGONY OF THE ECSTASY
YOUR FIRST SEX PARTNER
A CULTURE IN SEXPLOSION
OPEN YOUR LINES OF COMMUNICATION ABOUT SEX
EXPOSE MORE THAN JUST YOUR COCK
HOW TO USE DIRTY WORDS
BEGIN THE CONVERSATION
-QUESTIONS YOU COULD ASK EACH OTHER
STOP WORRYING AND LOSE YOUR STRESS
WHAT IF YOU NEED TO TAMP THINGS DOWN?
SETTING THE STAGE
WARMER ROOM = HOTTER SEX
WARMER BODY = HOTTER SEX
SHED YOUR CLOTHES—AND LIGHT ON THE SUBJECT
INDOORS OR OUT?
SEX GAMES
THE PHYSICAL PART OF THE EQUATION
YOUR COCK’S DAILY WORKOUT
THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN ORGASM AND EJACULATION
TRY SOME NEW POSITIONS
-THE RIDER
-THE REVERSE RIDER
-THE DRAGON
-THE MISSIONARY POSITION
YOU ARE WHAT YOU EAT
-OYSTERS
-DARK CHOCOLATE
-CHILI PEPPERS
-AVOCADOS
-ASPARAGUS
-RED WINE
OTHER FOODS TO GET YOU IN THE MOOD
GET YOUR BODY INTO SHAPE SO YOU’LL LOVE IT
Rock me babY,
all night long
Better stamina in bed is something all of us guys would like to achieve. There are two basic reasons
why stamina might be an issue for you, and you probably fall somewhere along a spectrum between
them. On one end is the problem of premature ejaculation, where you blow your load in less than a
minute or two. The other end is an inability to sometimes even get hard, and if you do, to stay hard
long enough to reach a climax.
A culture in sexplosion
Today we find ourselves in a society soaked in sexual images and messages. Advertisements, movies,
plays, and TV shows with extreme sexual themes are in our face everywhere we look. Internet sites offer
easy-to-find pornographic photos and videos that are so exciting that we sometimes find ourselves
jacking off to them.
People are flaunting their nakedness at Burning Man in the Nevada desert, and in broad daylight,
tooling down Broad Street at the Philadelphia World Naked Bike Ride, cocks painted in bright colors,
waving in the wind. They’re frequenting nude beaches and private pool parties where everyone sheds
their suit and lets it all hang out.
We’re watching from the front row as society abandons the constraints imposed since Queen Victoria’s
time. Obviously, you can’t keep a good thing down. And the old adage makes sense: if you can’t beat
‘em, join ‘em. It’s time to root out and abandon any negative or repressive attitudes about your cock.
You get to put it to use any way you please, as much as you want.
Open your}lines of communication}about sex
Why is it that we often treat the most intimate part of what we’re sharing with another person—
physically merging our bodies together—as something we aren’t willing to discuss openly with one
another? There are many reasons, and when you examine them, you’ll see they’re pretty much bullshit.
The first reason is that on some level most of us have accepted the idea that sex is something to be
hidden, or worse, that it’s dirty or degrading. But just stop and think about this absurd proposition for
a minute: sex is how we all get here. You are the irrefutable evidence that at some point your parents
had sex, and more than likely, they enjoyed it. The point is, no matter what messages you got growing
up—verbal on non-verbal—sort through them and discard the ones that tell you having a full sex life
is bad.
Is there something you’d like me to do when having sex with you that we haven’t done before?
Do you really like it when I go down on you? Can you suggest a way I could make it better?
When you go down on me is it OK if I come in your mouth? Or would you rather I spill it on your
stomach?
How much do you enjoy kissing? What can I do to make my kisses more erotic?
Are there things that happen outside the bedroom that make you want to fuck me?
Where is your favorite place for being touched when we’re making love?
Are there things you’d like me to say to you during our lovemaking?
Do you prefer to make love in the dark or with some lights on?
Does having this conversation make you more comfortable or less comfortable?
Choose a few questions that you’re sure your partner won’t find threatening or that will put him or
her on the spot. Start talking and see where the conversation leads. Most likely it’ll lead to some hot
lovemaking. That’s what happens when people let down their guard and tune in to each other’s needs.
Stop worrying and lose your stress
Of course, it’s hard to stop worrying if you’re tied up in knots thinking in advance about how you’re going
to perform in bed. When beginning a sexual encounter, if you find yourself retreating into your own
head, take some deep breaths and be fully aware of your surroundings and your physical sensations.
If you had a bad day of work and are stressed out about it, running it through your mind over and over,
put it out of your head for now by thinking of something pleasant.
Stress kills hard-ons. Money worries, problems with your kids or your job, health issues—all of these
and more can climb into bed with you and your partner if you’re not careful. Don’t have conversations
about any of these things when you’re in bed. Try not to even think of them. Breathe deeply and
center yourself, and focus on the good time you’re about to have. Putting them out of your head for an
hour or so won’t make your problems go away, but it may create the space for you to have a pleasant
experience, and that will make them seem less important.
Shift gears and seek to connect with your partner on an intimate level. Look into her eyes. Smile. Say
something sexy about her. Tell him how good he looks, or how you have been anticipating this moment
all afternoon. Sex is as much about intimacy as it is about pleasure. Stamina and staying power are a
byproduct of that intimacy, not the reason for it. Intimacy does not happen because you’re able to keep
a raging hard-on for an hour or more. It comes because you care about your lover and want to make
them happy.
What if you need to tamp things down?
If your stamina problem is more related to premature ejaculation than to performance issues, you
will benefit from taking an honest look at the attitudes you carry into your sex life. First question to
ask is, are you making it all about you? Be honest: do you have sex just so you get your rocks off? If
that’s your only objective, you need to reorient yourself so that your partner comes first. Otherwise,
you’ll probably destroy the relationship you’re in, and you’ll walk away with a reputation as ”cocky,”
thoughtless—and a bad lover.
If you’re with a woman and you don’t bother to make sure she has an orgasm every time you fuck her,
you’re only in it for yourself. Some women have been brought up to think of sex as an obligation they
owe to their partner, rather than a pleasant and fulfilling experience themselves too. Even if you’re with
a woman like this who is reluctant to let the pleasures of a sexual encounter wash over her, you can—
and must—be the agent of change. You can gently persist, upping the pleasure for her by doing things
that turn her on like gently biting her nipples, fingering her pussy, tickling her ears. Find her clitoris with
your tongue. (If you don’t know what that is, you’re bush league; educate yourself.)
If you make sure that your partner is the object of attention rather than focusing exclusively on yourself,
both of you will be winners. She’ll be basking in the glow of sexual satisfaction, and you’ll be able to stay
rock hard while you fuck her over and over. She’ll want to be your lover not just to satisfy your desires,
but also because it brings her immense pleasure. You can easily see how that’s to your advantage.
She’ll find you a complete turn-on and
you’ll multiply your opportunities for
hot sex well into the future.
If your lover is a guy, things are more
likely to be on a more egalitarian footing.
He probably won’t let you get away with
blowing your load unless you help him
to blow his too. After all, you’re both
getting your rocks off the same way, so
it’s quite evident if it happens for one
and not the other. You need to do him
right and make sure he’s the object of
your attention; be sure that your main
objective is to satisfy him first—and
Setting the stage
You can’t have hot sex that lasts for an hour or more in an inhospitable environment. Sure, those
occasional moments—like that frenzied fuck in a toilet stall in a nightclub, or that blowjob in the back
seat of your car, or the hand job you got in a hidden doorway in a back alley—can be extreme turn-ons.
But they usually don’t call for much in the way of stamina.
When you’re seeking a to lengthen and draw out a sexual encounter, you want conditions to be as
pleasant and private as possible. If you have kids or roommates, the door should be locked. The bed
needs to be clean and not piled up with your dirty clothes. And of course, the lighting matters.
Indoors or out?
While you can have some amazing and long-lasting sexual encounters in your bedroom, consider what
it would be like to take your show on the road. Fucking in broad daylight on a nude beach will be an
amazingly erotic experience for both of you. If you or your partner are a little timid you can arrange to
do it in a secluded place under a blanket; if you’re less inhibited, do it on top of the blanket. If you’re
ready to be brazen and want to take the sexual experience to the peak, find a place where raunchy be-
havior is accepted practice, forget seclusion altogether, and make it a public performance.
Imagine receiving a blowjob from your lover while you’re looking up at the stars beside the campfire
outside your tent in the Colorado Rockies. Experiences like these can leave you with erotic memories
you’ll revisit in your mind over and over for the rest of your life. You’ll find your cock swelling up every
time you think back on them. Call them to mind when your stamina needs a jolt and they’ll usually come
to your rescue.
Sex games
Remember how thrilling it was the first time
you played strip poker? Depending on how
adventurous your playmates were, and how private
the setting, all of you may have gotten buck naked.
Who knows where it went from there? You love sex.
You love games. Combine the two.
You can find a wealth of suggestions on the internet
that include word games, board games, card games and
more. Games are a great way to get things moving in
unexpected directions, helping you break out of the
rut. And because they add time to the experience
of the sexual encounter, you can build up the
tension more slowly. Your stamina will increase
because once you associate sex with play
you’ll want to play and keep playing.
OK, enough with the psychology part for
now. But don’t brush it aside. Keep asking
yourself—and your partner—questions
about your sex life and attitudes. Engage
in fantasies and visualizations whenever
you can. Tune out repressive and negative
messages about your body and genitals.
Seek out new experiences. Give your cock
plenty of personal, loving attention. Find a sex
positive attitude.
The physical part of the equation
Let’s turn to the physical strategies for increasing your stamina. We’ll start with the easy part first: how
playing with your cock as much as you want can help you get harder than you ever imagined—and stay
that way longer.
You’ll find the cock exercises in our other bonus book Healthy, Happy, and Hung.
The difference between orgasm and ejaculation
While they clearly go together, and you may have always thought of them as one and the same, orgasm
and ejaculation are separate physiological processes. By learning to sublimate your ejaculation, not
spew it into your partner or a waiting tissue, you can reach a point where you can have multiple
orgasms during one sexual encounter. If you’re sharing your progress with your partner and he or she
is beginning to have multiple orgasms too, the two of you have reached sexual nirvana.
Women often think they’re the only ones capable of having multiple orgasms. But guess what? The
early Kinsey studies showed a greater percentage of men (15%) reporting that they were lucky enough
to have them. Practicing your cock exercises with devotion will quickly get you to a point where your
PC muscle is strong enough to get your motor revved up without any trouble.
Mastering the jacking on technique will train you to be able to have several orgasms without ever
ejaculating. Keeping your semen inside yourself is nourishing, and as you get better at doing so, you’ll
be able to stay hard, please your lover for hours, and have deliriously happy series of orgasms, one
after another.
THE RIDER
If your stamina issue is that you come to soon, you can try lying on your back and letting your partner
mount you. This does two things: it puts your lover in charge, and gives you better control. Lying on
your back means you’re more relaxed and it’s easier to let go of stress. Then you’re in a better position
to just let the sensations course through your body.
OYSTERS
Oysters have long been seen as an aphrodisiac.
Is it because they resemble a woman’s vulva, slick
and oozing, or because they contain so much zinc?
Maybe it’s for both reasons, but settling down to a
plate of raw oysters in a New Orleans jazz club with
your lover will definitely help you get hard and stay
hard when you get back the hotel.
DARK CHOCOLATE
It’s no wonder chocolate is associated with
romance. It’s coming to be seen as a superfood, and
that’s because all the good things it does with the
endorphins and neurotransmitters in your body.
Share some gooey dark chocolate in bed with your
lover before you begin your loving. Smear some on
your cock and ask him or her to lick it off. Just don’t
do this too often, because too much of a good thing
has its consequences. You’ll start getting fat again.
CHILI PEPPERS
Eating chili peppers will easily spice things up in bed. That’s because they contain capsaicin, a compound
that raises your heartbeat, causes you to sweat, and pretty much does all the same things as what
happens to your endorphins when you start getting aroused. Begin the evening at your favorite
Mexican restaurant.
AVOCADOS
Did you know avocados name is derived from the Aztec word for testicle? They’ve long been associated
with fertility. Crack out the guacamole.
ASPARAGUS
It makes your piss smell funny for a day or so after you eat it. Anything that has that kind of an effect
“down there” is telling you something. Just look at its phallic shape. Eat it often.
RED WINE
Besides relaxing you and your partner, a glass or two of wine helps you both lower your inhibitions
and get in the mood. It also contains elements that help build your HDL—good cholesterol—and it
lowers your chance of blood clots. But keep the too much of a good thing rule in mind: getting too
drunk will probably make your sexcapade sloppy and shitty, and kind of depressing.
other foods to get you in the mood
In no particular order, here are just a few of the other foods that will improve your sexual stamina.
The list includes:
blueberries
• nuts
• watermelon
• garlic
• celery
• bananas
• eggs
• tomatoes
• olive oil
• pomegranates
• oatmeal
• honey
• dates
• figs
• wheat germ
Notice anything the things on this list have in common? They don’t contain meat, cheese or milk. You
don’t have to switch to a diet that only contains these items, but at least be sure to incorporate them
into every meal or snack whenever you can.
On the other hand, there are foods that are your cock’s worst enemies: fried foods, ice cream, alcohol,
processed cereals, margarine, high fructose drinks and candies, fatty cheeses, cakes, pastries, potato
chips and last but not least, artificial sweeteners. You’re really doing yourself harm if you think you’re
saving calories by drinking diet pop. You’re sending bad chemicals down to your balls is what you’re
doing. You’re harming your stamina, not helping it.
Get your body into shape so you will love it
If you’re ashamed of the way your body looks, that should be a clue of something you need to address
if you want to increase sexual stamina. Whether it’s been months or years since you actively exercised,
you need to start right now. Otherwise, you don’t have a prayer to be successful getting hard and
staying hard.
If the mast is standing tall and proud on a sailboat, but everything below it is leaky and falling apart,
how far do you think that boat will get? How long can it last? Just like that boat, your cock can be trained
and fed supplements and maybe look and work a little better than it did before, but it will stand alone
while the boat sinks. It may be the last thing to go under, but why allow that to happen?
When you start exercising after a long period of neglect, don’t overdo it with newfound enthusiasm.
Instead build up slowly. If you want to get to a point where you swim laps for a mile three times a week,
start with just a few and add to the number each week. If you start out swimming a mile from scratch,
you’ll tire out and demotivate yourself. Same if you’re running. Start with a quick jog around the block,
build up to the marathon.
Being in top physical condition is sexy. You look good in a pair of running shorts and a t-shirt when
your gut is gone, and catching a glimpse of yourself in the mirror at the gym is a turn-on. Maybe you
can even rock a Speedo. Playing basketball with a bunch of guys, where everybody gets all sweaty and
physical causes your testosterone to rage. A long hike is a great opportunity to center yourself and
breathe deeply. And, if that hike is to a remote enough area, it might even lead you to a great place to
strip naked and lay on a warm rock, tightening your PC muscle, jacking on in the sun.