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"An erasure need not take place for us to be silenced. Tokenistic, objectlfying
voyeuristic inclusion is at least as damaging as exclusion. We are as silenced
when we appear in the margins as we are when we fail to appear at all"
(Crenshaw, 1993, p. 116).
A review of the growing, but still small, family therapy literature on domestic violence
discovers just one article (Almeida, Woods, Messineo, Font, & Heer, 1994) that addresses
the salience of race, class, sexual orientation, and gendered asymmetry. How can we
understand what now appear as glaring omissions? Considering my own work as
illustrative of a broader pattern (Bograd, 1982, 1984, 1986a, 1986b, 1987, 1988a, 19885, 1989,
1990, 1992, 1994; Yllo & Bograd, 1988), my oversights were due less to blatant racism or
classism (although presumably these also played a part) than to unexamined premises
influenced by then-popular systemic constructs and by my personal and social location. 1
wrote as a feminist with the goal of establishing the reality of domestic violence in a
sociopolitical context where the dimensions of gender and violence against women had
just been introduced into family therapy theories and practices. My goals were to
demonstrate the prevalence of domestic violence and to critique family therapy concepts
and practices that implicated the battered woman in her abuse. Heterosexuality was
assumed. Family therapy constructs led me to examine life within the family, with lip
service to extrafamilial dimensions. This coincided with my perspective as an upper-
middle-class white woman that gender inequality and domestic violence posed the major
In great appreciation to Rhea Almeida, whose vision and courage inspire me, and to Jim Ptacek, who
generously introduced me to a body of literature that expanded my way of thinking.
A portion of this paper was presented as a keynote address, "Revisiting dominant models of battering," at
the annual Culture and Diversity Conference, sponsored by the Family Institute of New Jersey in 1994.
Michele Bograd, PhD, is in private practice, 16 Webber Avenue, Bedford, MA 01730.
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threats to family life and the development of intimacy. At that stage of theory building,
family therapy as a field paid little attention to the psyche as well as to social constraints,
so the mechanisms between social conditions and individual behavior remained
unformulated. I privileged the dimension of gender over others because it seemed to
offer parsimonious explanatory power and clinical direction. I believed that gender-
sensitive models of domestic violence were universal, relevant to all families and, thus,
race-, class-, and sexual-orientation-neutral. Initially, I understood the additions of
those dimensions as just additions, enriching theory and intervention without requiring
their substantial modification.
However, different values now characterize the field, as social, theoretical, political,
and clinical contexts have evolved. These values promote cultural sensitivity, beginning
acceptance of diverse family forms, and recognition of oppressive social forces. In
general, these values are informed by a focus on the socially constructed nature of human
experience: life experiences and their meanings are qualitatively different for different
individuals due to general and idiosyncratic patterns shaped by social dimensions. Simply
put, once social contexts and meaning systems are taken into account, a rose is not just a
rose, nor a slap just a slap. This position paper is a beginning effort to describe how family
therapy thinking and practice on domestic violence can be strengthened by explicit
inclusion of dimensions such as race, class, sexual orientation, and the gendered
asymmetry of domestic violence. Outside of family therapy, the domestic violence
literature addresses these issues in exciting and thought-provoking ways. Surprisingly,this
literature is often neither acknowledged nor well integrated with family therapy theories
and practices. Therefore, special effort has been made to direct readers to this body of
knowledge. Given the purposes of this article, the literature review is illustrative rather
than comprehensive. The goals of this article are theoretical: to introduce the voices and
experiences of individuals not widely represented in family therapy theories while
describing omissions and their possible consequences for theory and practice. This task
is simplified through the concept of intersectionality.
INTERSECTIONALITY
Most current family therapy theorizing on domestic violence remains silent regarding
these intersections, unless they are addressed as special cases. But silence is neither
neutral nor benign. It renders many families touched by domestic violence invisible,
relegates some individuals’ experiences outside the realm of clinical concern, and may
guide us to intervene in ways that unwittingly compound clients’ experiences of abuse,
unpredictability, and domination. The impact of intersectionality will be demonstrated by
addressing: (1) the socially structured invisibility of certain victims; (2) who the
“appropriate” victims are and the denial of victimization; and (3) the real-world
consequences of intersections and domestic violence.
This article argues that domestic violence does not have a singular impact on all
families. Not only do different patterns of domestic violence have different consequences
for different families, intersectionality asks us to integrate into theory and practice the
simple recognition that, for many families, domestic violence is not the only or primary
violence shaping family life. Intersectionality also requires that we develop theories that
go beyond single-factor descriptions of domestic violence, such as gender inequality.
Intersectionalitiesand asymmetries are quite complex. Individuals may or may not differ
on dimensions including but not limited to gender, size, class position, culture, disability,
skin color, age, the use of violence, and race. These intersections shape meaning systems
and concrete avenues for escape. As new theories and techniques are developed, models
and practices must be anchored in descriptions of the contexts in which they were
developed and the populations that they are intended to serve. Rather than assuming their
universal applicability, it is crucial to ask: Who is excluded and why (Kanuha, 1996)?
Until recently, family therapy theories have tended to give an incomplete picture of
how domestic violence develops between individuals, how it is situated in the lives of
individuals at risk for violence and oppression of many sorts, and how external ongoing
objective dimensions of situations shape the nature and character of individual experiences
of and responses to domestic violence (Stark & Flitcraft, 1988). Domestic violence poses
a fundamental question still being debated by marital and family therapists: “Isthe problem
of wife abuse so philosophically and topographically distinct from other marital problems
that one must dismiss systemic explanations of behavior” (Margolin & Burman, 1993, p.60)?
Similarly, the beginning study of the diverse social contexts of battered individuals and
their partners leads to the question: Can present theories and practices encompass
intersectionalities without significant modification, or must we more radically expand
current ideas and interventions?
While answers to these questions await future experimentation and insights, some
family therapists are already creatively addressing these concerns. However, they are not
yet employing the construct of intersectionality, which I suggest is a useful tool for
capturing some of the complexity and layers of domestic violence. As earlier interactional
models of domestic violence are being replaced, two somewhat divergent models of
intervention seem to be emerging in marital and family therapy. One is based on the
stance that theoretical lenses that seem to be logically contradictory can be simultaneously
held in view as the therapist takes a “both/and’ position (Goldner, 1990; Goldner, Penn,
Sheinberg, & Walker, 1990). Criminal, psychodynamic, feminist, and interactional stances
all give partial pictures of domestic violence. The therapist tries to enhance flexibility by
shifting between lenses-and, at times, layering them-in order to bring to light, language,
and understanding the many levels of domestic violence. Although not neutral regarding
the use of violence, the therapist tries to create a space separate from the legal and criminal
structures. In contrast, another approach focuses more on asymmetries as a primary
condition for why a man uses violence against his partner and focuses as well on the
asymmetries that violence creates and sustains. In this model, the therapist takes a
stronger position to counterbalance asymmetries and inequalities and often explicitly
sequences when levels of asymmetries and violence are addressed in treatment gory,
Anderson, & Greer, 1997;Vivian & Heyman, 1996). For example, Almeida et al., (1994) and
REFERENCES
Nmeida, R. (1993). Unexamined assumptions and service delivery systems: Feminist theory and racial
exclusions. Journal ofFeminist Family 7hm.,5, 3-23.
Almeida, R., & Bograd, M. (1991). Sponsorship: Men holding men accountable for domestic violence. In
M. Bograd (Ed.), Feminist approachesfortreating men infamily therapy (pp. 243-2591, Binghamton,
Ny: Haworth.
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