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Empathy, Sympathy, and Pity: 21st-Century Definitions


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Empathy, Sympathy, and Pity: 21st-Century Definitions and


Implications for Practice and Research
Karen E. Gerdes

ABSTRACT. Empathy is prominent wherever humans attempt to create more just and compassionate
social structures, and cultivating empathy is critical to being an effective social worker. This article
outlines the historical semantic evolution of empathy, sympathy, and pity. Careful attention needs to be
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given to avoid conflating these concepts. If used improperly, the results can range from counterproductive
outreach efforts to emotional and physical burnout. Clear and precise definitions of the three terms
are provided and incorporate concepts taken from 21st-century social-cognitive neuroscience. This
epistemological foundation can help to better define this concept to facilitate research and avoid biased
emotional reactions. Implications for future social work practice and research are discussed.

KEYWORDS. Empathy, sympathy, pity, perspective taking, mirror neurons, self/other-awareness,


emotion regulation

At the end of the 20th century, new tech- to stem from the lack of one particularly signif-
nologies began radically transforming our un- icant emotion: empathy. Conversely, empathy is
derstanding of human consciousness and the prominent wherever humans are creating more
brain. One important counterintuitive finding just and compassionate social structures. Under-
from neuroscience is that the ability to make de- standing and cultivating empathy is key to being
cisions is not based on our capacity for rational an effective social worker (Forrester, Kershaw,
calculation. Our faculty for rational calculation Moss, & Hughes, 2007; Shulman, 2009).
evolved only recently. Our ability to make de- This article discusses empathy in light of re-
cisions is based on our capacity for emotion—a cent social-cognitive neuroscience, a field that
much deeper and more ancient phenomenon. As studies the way “social emotions” operate in
Jonathan Haidt (2006, p. 13) wrote, “It is only the brain. I will clearly articulate what empathy
because our emotional brains work so well that is by differentiating it from two related emo-
our reasoning can work at all.” Humans are the tions that are often confused with it: sympa-
most social of animals because of emotions that thy and pity. This may seem a trivial distinc-
allow different individuals to understand one an- tion. It is not. Linguistic epistemologists have
other’s experience and make socially functional convincingly argued that while thoughts create
choices rather than purely individualistic ones. words, words also play a role in creating and
Total failure of the social contract, seen in phe- directing thoughts—thoughts that, in turn, pow-
nomena such as genocide or serial murder, seems erfully influence actions. This is certainly true

Karen E. Gerdes, PhD, is an Associate Professor at Arizona State University, College of Public Programs,
School of Social Work, Phoenix, AZ.
Address correspondence to: Karen E. Gerdes, PhD, Arizona State University, College of Public Programs,
School of Social Work, 411 N. Central Ave, Suite 800, Phoenix, AZ 85004 (E-mail: kegerdes@asu.edu).
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of the way social workers utilize the three re- precise, and very useful information about how
lated but separate concepts of empathy, sym- empathy is instantiated and mediated in the
pathy, and pity. Many people, including social brain. This makes it more possible—arguably,
work practitioners and theorists, blur or con- imperative—to create a richer and more pre-
flate these concepts. The results can range from cise definition of empathy, especially as the
counterproductive outreach efforts to emotional term is used by helping professionals (Decety
and physical burnout (Clark, 2010). This arti- & Moriguchi, 2007; V. Gallese, 2003a, 2003b).
cle outlines the historical semantic evolution of Utilizing a social-cognitive neuroscience con-
empathy, sympathy, and pity and provides clear ceptualization of empathy can help us bring lan-
and precise definitions of the three terms, while guage “up to speed” with scientific constructions
incorporating concepts taken from 21st-century of empathy, sympathy, and pity.
neuroscience. It also includes a discussion on
how this epistemological foundation can help
social workers better articulate their own emo- THE HISTORICAL ROOTS AND
tional reactions and creating a more robust, use- SEMANTIC EVOLUTION OF
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ful, and effective way of intervening in clients’ EMPATHY, SYMPATHY, AND PITY
lives. Finally, the implications for future social
work practice and research are detailed. Many English words describing emotional
states were originally taken from simple nouns:
“Depression” began as a description of a low
EMPATHY, SYMPATHY, AND PITY: A point in a physical landscape; “elation” meant a
HISTORY OF MISUNDERSTANDING high point; and the very word “emotion” simply
meant a physical stirring of a liquid substance.
Some terms, such as simple nouns, have rela- The term “pity” comes from the Latin pietas,
tively unambiguous meanings, while others are meaning “good” or “kind.” Pity emerged as a
mutable, contextually nuanced, and understood concept in the late 13th century and was ini-
very differently even by two individuals who tially used to describe a feeling of tenderness for
have much in common. Words that describe hu- someone who was suffering or had experienced
man social interactions and subjective emotion misfortune. The feeling of pity included a desire
are especially vulnerable to misunderstanding. to relieve the suffering of the other person or to
The terms discussed in this article—empathy, show them mercy (Wilmer, 1968).
sympathy and pity—have been used to mean so Eight centuries later, the conventional under-
many things, to so many people, at so many dif- standing of “pity” has drifted far from its origi-
ferent times, that their meanings are confusing nal meaning. In modern parlance, being “pitiful”
and often contradictory. Empathy and sympathy, is decidedly negative, even insulting. Self-pity is
in particular, are frequently conflated (e.g., Bat- associated with whining and victimization; most
son et al., 1997; Raines, 1990). In social work people experiencing difficulty, even if they wish
theory and practice, these words are used without to be helped, loath to be pitied. In a 2006 arti-
detailed guidance about how to effectively iden- cle, Geller outlined pity’s semantic journey by
tify, develop, use, and teach empathy and sympa- noting the following landmarks:
thy (Gerdes, Segal, Jackson, & Mullins, 2011).
Both of these phenomena can lead to a third re- 1. In Greek dramas the objects of pity are
lated emotional response, pity, which needs to be heroes, kings, and noble individuals who are
diverted or avoided to prevent counterproductive perceived as “innocent victims,” and their
approaches to social work intervention. predicaments are the result of some human
The need to more clearly define emotional error or frailty. (Compare this to modern se-
reactions to others is imperative in light of the mantics, in which Wilmer writes [1968, p.
emerging 21st-century neuroscience of empathy. 244], pity is “more likely to be felt by a
New technologies that physiologically measure physician for a poor patient than for a man
emotional reactions have led to unprecedented, of means.”)
232 K. E. Gerdes

2. Michelangelo’s 15th-century masterpiece the and tender feelings. However, Geller’s overview
Pieta is perceived as the classic personifica- showed that pity is currently culturally under-
tion of pity. Jesus has just been taken down stood as a condescending or contemptuous form
from the cross; his body is placed in his of “feeling sorry for” someone, often directed at
mother’s lap. The look of loving tenderness people who are perceived as self-destructive or
and reverence on Mary’s face is the embod- blameworthy.
iment of pity as the word was understood
at the time. Contemporaneously, in the Jew-
ish tradition, pity was something to aspire SYMPATHY
to achieve. The word was used to communi-
cate feelings and thoughts of compassion and The use of the word “sympathy” was first
mercy. recorded sometime during the 16th century (see
3. Around the turn of the 20th century, Ni- Table 1). The word itself is derived from the
etzsche (1895/1954) was one of the first Greek word sympatheias (syn- “together” +
philosophers to attribute a negative connota- pathos “feeling”) and means “having a fellow
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tion to pity or in his native German mitleid— feeling, affected by like feelings” (Free Dic-
“suffering with.” In his book The Antichrist, tionary, 2010). The initial rendition of sympa-
he wrote (p. 572): thy included the ability to “feel with” both the
joyful and painful feelings of another. In fact,
Pity stands opposed to the tonic emo- early descriptions and definitions of sympathy
tions which heighten our vitality: it has sound similar to early 20th-century descriptions
a depressing effect. We are deprived of of empathy. In 1739, philosopher David Hume
strength when we feel pity. That loss (1739/2000) wrote:
of strength which suffering as such in-
flicts on life is still further increased and The minds of all men are similar in their
multiplied by pity. Pity makes suffering feelings and operations; nor can any one
contagious. be actuated by any affection, of which all
others are not, in some degree, susceptible
As the modern world adopted Nietzsche’s (p. 368) . . . No quality of human nature
highly rationalist models of human inner life, is more remarkable, both in itself and in
pity lost its associations with noble innocence its consequences, than the propensity we
and began to evoke negative judgments to- have to sympathise with others, to receive
ward the “pitiful.” by communication their inclinations and
4. At this writing, common usages of the word sentiments, however different from or con-
“pity” are usually intended to be condescend- trary to our own. (p. 206)
ing and often are reserved for people who are
perceived as having brought their troubles Black (2004) uses Hume’s (1739/2000) words
upon themselves. “I pity you”; “For pity’s to argue that sympathy was originally intended to
sake”; “I pity the fool”; and “Get off the pity describe a propensity or spontaneous capacity to
pot” are all modern expressions of contempt “pick up” or sense the feelings of others (p. 581).
toward persons who are considered inferior, The economist Adam Smith (1759/1976) later
reprehensible, or worst of all, self-absorbed described sympathy less as an attunement and
whiners. “Self-pity” is virtually never seen as more as a simple tendency to care about others—
a positive trait (Geller, 2006, p. 190). the “fellow feeling” we experience when we see
or hear about another person’s happiness or suf-
In his 2006 study of therapists’ attitudes to- fering.
ward pity, Geller concluded that therapists, like In research literature, through the 1950s,
the general population, interpret pity primarily “sympathy” was used largely to describe what
as a negative emotion. A small minority re- we now call “empathy” (Escalas & Stern, 2003;
ported that pity was the manifestation of loving Olnick, 1984). For example, Scheler (as cited
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TABLE 1. Origin and Meanings of Pity, Sympathy, and Empathy

Pity Sympathy Empathy

Date of First Use 13th Century 16th Century 20th Century


Original Sorrow felt for another’s Feeling with or similarly to Feel and perceive the world from
Meaning suffering or misfortune and someone else including the perspective of the other.
had a positive connotation. happy and sad feelings.
Described as a feeling, a capacity, an attitude, capacity, a tendency, an capacity, a cognitive ability, a skill,
... a state of mind, and a moral affinity, a feeling, a sharing a feeling, understanding, a
stance. of emotion, a mutual disposition, a process.
affection.
Popular 21st- A condescending, or Expression of concern or Empathy is the physiological
Century contemptuous form of sorrow about distressful experience of feeling what
Usage feeling sorry for someone, events in a person’s life another person is feeling and
often directed at people who (Clark, 2010). the cognitive processing of the
are perceived as pathetic or experience (Batson,1987;
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having brought about their Hoffman, 2000). The ability to


own misery (Geller, 2006). perceive and feel the world
from the subjective experience
of another person (Misch &
Peloquin, 2005, p. 42).

in Barnes & Becker, 1952) defined sympathy as person) while compassion, sympathy, empathic
having four levels, including an emotional con- concern denotes the observer’s emotions are in-
tagion level that is more commonly associated herently other oriented (‘feeling for’ the other
today with what social scientists call the “affec- person)” (p. 84).
tive sharing” component of empathy. Scheler de- The displacement of sympathy or its devo-
scribed sympathy’s “lowest level [as] the imme- lution to a more simple feeling or regard is
diate sharing of the same emotion with another likely due in part to the parallel, growing so-
. . . (e.g., two parents feeling sorrow and pain phistication of the definition of empathy. In fact,
over the death of their child)” (Olnick, 1984, pp. Black (2004) defines sympathy as the “elemen-
141–142). The highest level of sympathy occurs tary and involuntary capacity that makes affect
when there is “genuine emotional identification” attunement possible . . . [it] is the capacity that
or oneness with the other person. Similarly, All- makes possible the more sophisticated opera-
port (1954) defined sympathy as identifying with tion of empathy” (pp. 592–593). On the other
the feelings of another in reaction to the same ex- hand, others have argued that sympathy or em-
ternal stimulus and understanding and respecting pathic concern follows empathy; it is evoked as
the emotional state of mind of another. a result of cognitive perspective taking that oc-
Twentieth-century definitions of sympathy by curs after an “affective sharing” or empathic ex-
social and developmental psychologists (see Ta- perience. Proponents of this view further argue
ble 2) moved away from the empathy-like def- that sympathy that is evoked as the result of an
initions toward a more straightforward concep- empathic experience motivates helping behavior
tualization of sympathy as a feeling of sorrow or (de Vignemont & Singer, 2006; Lamm, Batson,
concern for someone based on the other’s emo- & Decety, 2007). It is likely that sympathy can
tional state or condition (Batson, 1991; de Waal, be evoked at any time, including time periods
2009; Hoffman, 1982; Wispe, 1986). Singer and that follow after an empathic experience (Eisen-
Lamm (2009) state, “The crucial distinction be- berg & Morris, 2001). More research needs to be
tween the term empathy and those like sympathy, done to distinguish between empathic and sym-
empathic concern, and compassion is that em- pathetic brain responses, specifically to learn
pathy denotes that the observer’s emotions re- whether one is a necessary component of the
flect affective sharing (‘feeling with’ the other other (de Vignemont & Singer, 2006).
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TABLE 2. 20th- and 21st-Century Definitions of Sympathy

Counseling/Psychotherapy
Sympathy is an expression of concern or sorrow about distressful events in a person’s life (Clark, 2010, p. 95; Meier &
David, 2008). Sympathy is the “elementary and involuntary capacity that makes affect attunement possible . . . precursor
of successful interventions . . . [it] is the capacity that makes possible the more sophisticated operation of empathy . . .”
(Black, 2004, pp. 592–593).
Social Psychology
Sympathy is a heightened awareness of the suffering of another person. A person who feels sympathy wants to alleviate
the suffering of the other person (Wispe, 1986).
Sympathy is a feeling of sorrow or concern for someone based on observation of their emotional state or condition or
hearing or reading about their condition (Batson, 1991; Hoffman, 1982).
Developmental Psychology
Sympathy is derived from cognitively processing feelings of empathy or by comprehending someone’s emotional state
through perspective taking without first feeling empathy (Eisenberg, 2000; Eisenberg & Fabes, 1992; Eisenberg et al.,
1996).
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Like pity, the concept and meaning of “sym- through “an iterative, mutually interactive” re-
pathy” have been moving farther and farther lationship “in which the behavioral, emotional,
away from their original meanings toward more and cognitive signals of one participant are read
straightforward, less affectively complex defini- and responded to by the other” (p. 42). Sim-
tions. By contrast, as I will shortly argue, the ilarly, Decety and Jackson (2004) concluded
more scientifically driven construction of “em- that empathy is an induction process or an ex-
pathy” has become more actionable, elegant, and perience derived from observation and shaped
complex—a difference that might be explained by the knowledge, memory, reason, and emo-
by who is doing the defining. Popular culture tional understanding of the observer. De Waal
has largely taken over the defining of pity and (2009, p. 281) describes the process of empa-
sympathy, while science or evidence-based defi- thy as “the capacity to (a) be affected by and
nitions are increasingly being used to define em- share the emotional state of another, (b) assess
pathy (Szalavitz & Perry, 2010). the reasons for the other’s state, and (c) iden-
tify with the other, adopting his or her perspec-
tive.”
EMPATHY To understand the differences in the concep-
tualizations of empathy in Table 3, it is important
In contrast to the longevity of the terms “pity” to acknowledge discipline-specific perspectives.
and “sympathy,” the use of the word “empathy” Developmental psychologists like Nancy Eisen-
did not emerge until the beginning of the 20th berg (2007) focus on the internal affective reac-
century (Lipps, 1903; Titchener, 1909). The evo- tion of the observer or “true/pure” empathy. By
lution of the term empathy has been extremely this, they mean the initial unconscious and auto-
well documented in the modern medical and so- matic affective mirroring of another’s emotional
cial science literature (Decety & Jackson, 2004; state. By contrast, social psychologists and so-
Gerdes, Segal, & Lietz, 2010; Hackney, 1978; cial workers are equally if not more interested
Misch & Peloquin, 2005; Pedersen, 2009). Table in what the observer thinks (i.e., cognitive pro-
3 offers some of the most often-used conceptu- cesses) and does (action) after the initial auto-
alizations of empathy. matic affective-sharing reaction (Batson et al.,
Two relatively recent, comprehensive, and al- 1997; Gerdes, Lietz, & Segal, in press; Gerdes
most simultaneous reviews of the empathy liter- & Segal, 2009).
ature (Decety & Jackson, 2004; Misch & Pelo- Social-cognitive neuroscience is an in-
quin, 2005) drew very similar conclusions. Most terdisciplinary field that utilizes cognitive
recently, Misch and Peloquin (2005) stated that neuroscience combined with theories from the
empathy is a synthesis of information garnered social sciences to ask questions about and to
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TABLE 3. 20th- and Early 21st-Century Conceptualizations of Empathy

Social Psychology
Empathy is motor mimicry or the physiological experience of feeling what another person is feeling and the cognitive
processing of those feelings (Batson, 1987; Batson et al., 1997; Hoffman, 1982, 2000).
Developmental Psychology
Empathy is an involuntary, vicarious response to affective (and sometimes cognitive) cues from another person (Eisenberg
et al., 1994; Eisenberg & Lennon, 1983).
Psychology, Ethology/Zoology, Neuroscience
The perception action model of empathy is the process in which the “attended perception of the object’s state automatically
activates the subject’s representations of the state, situation, and object, and that activation of these representations
automatically primes or generates the associated automatic and somatic responses, unless inhibited” (Preston & de
Waal, 2002, p. 4; see also Hoffman, 2000).
Social-Cognitive Neuroscience
Empathy is an induction process that is facilitated and instantiated in the brain through the interaction of four observable
neural networks: 1) automatic neural mirroring and shared representations that result in affective sharing; and the
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cognitively controlled processes of 2) perspective taking, 3) self-awareness, and 4) emotion regulation. The result is to
feel and know what someone else is feeling (Decety & Jackson, 2004; Decety & Moriguchi, 2007; Rameson &
Lieberman, 2009).
Empathy refers to an intersubjective induction process by which positive and negative emotions are automatically shared
(affective sharing), without losing sight of whose feelings belong to whom (Decety & Meyer, 2008, p. 1055). It is also the
capacity to imagine one’s self into the thinking of another (perspective taking) and the ability to use self-awareness and
emotion regulation to decouple one’s self from the automatic affective sharing of your experience and cognitively
process it (Decety & Jackson, 2006; Young, 2010).
Empathy is an affective state that is isomorphic to another person’s affective state. This state is elicited by the observation
or imagination (perspective taking) of another person’s affective state. The observer knows that the other person is the
source of one’s own affective state (self/other-awareness; V. Gallese, 2007; de Vignemont & Singer, 2006, p. 435).

better understand the biological correlates of other words, when our mirror neurons are acti-
human interaction (Lieberman, 2007). Social- vated, we spontaneously and involuntarily “reen-
cognitive neuroscience has recently introduced act” an inner experience of the observed be-
a new understanding of empathy—a focus on havior and emotions. Mind-to-mind communi-
how mirror neurons and neural networks medi- cation is an act of involuntary mimicry; we just
ate the process of empathy in the brain (Decety & have to observe another person, pick up his/her
Moriguchi, 2007). Primarily through the use of signals (language, vocal tone, expressions, ges-
brain imaging techniques, social-cognitive neu- tures, etc.), and we will experience an “embodied
roscience researchers have been investigating simulation” (V. Gallese, 2001, 2003a, 2003b; V.
the interpersonal biology of empathy: how hu- Gallese, Keysers, & Rizzolatti, 2004). Once we
man minds communicate directly through “neu- begin to resonate with the other person’s signals,
ral resonance, mirroring, and empathy” (Young, three other components of empathy emerge: Per-
2010, p. 6; see also T. Gallese, Fadiga, Fogassi, & spective taking, self/other-awareness, and emo-
Rizzolatti, 1996; V. Gallese & Goldman, 1998; tion regulation allow us to decouple ourselves
Iacoboni et al., 2005). from the automatic or unconscious affective-
sharing aspect of our experience and cognitively
process it (Decety & Moriguchi, 2007).
THE INTERPERSONAL BIOLOGY OF The question then becomes: When or how
EMPATHY do we decide to “tune in” to others? We
could not cope if we were always tuned in;
Young (2010, p. 6) described mirror neurons we would be overwhelmed by the myriad and
as a cell network that creates “a sensory mo- often-conflicting emotions we would experi-
tor gateway forming an internal representation ence. Based on research findings, de Vignemont
of the observed person’s state and intents based and Singer (2006, pp. 437–438) proposed that
on their body language, facial expressions, ac- the experience of empathy is modulated by at
tions, and so on” (see also Dinstein, 2008). In least four factors: 1) the intensity, prominence,
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and valence of the other’s display of emotion; 2) tress) or project their own motivations onto their
the relationship between the empathizer and the clients (Gerdes & Segal, in press). The purpose
“other”; 3) personal characteristics of the em- of this section is to focus on how practitioners
pathizer (including variables like gender, age, can begin noticing and distinguishing between
personality, or past experiences); and 4) the “sit- their own experience of empathy, sympathy, and
uative” context. The more intense the emotion pity. This is a first step toward optimizing the
and the more familiar with or similar the target client–worker relationship.
is perceived to be, the easier it is to tune in to the
situation presented. When the situative context Social Workers’ Expressions of Empathy,
is recognized, feelings are placed in a cognitive Sympathy, and Pity
context; for example, most people are less likely
to empathize with someone who is seeking com- Considering the contemporary definition of
fort after being convicted of a serious crime. pity (i.e., condescendingly feeling sorry for
Mirror neurons can give us an extremely so- someone), pity is rarely a helpful emotional
phisticated way to understand another’s expe- reaction in a therapeutic context. Pitying a
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rience, but empathy is not “mind reading.” We client might result in paralyzing, infantilizing, or
cannot obtain “an exact, complete, or absolute shaming. On the other hand, expressions of em-
understanding” of another person through em- pathy and sympathy are often useful for creating
pathy (Pedersen, 2008, p. 328). The empathizer social bonds and helping a practitioner remain
is historically and socially situated in the context sensitive to a client’s experience. Therefore, it
of an experiential identity based on socioeco- is important for practitioners to remember that
nomic status, gender, and ethnicity/race and so empathy and sympathy are qualitatively differ-
is the target of the observation. The more differ- ent experiences with distinctive therapeutic im-
ent our lived experiences are, the more necessary plications (Clark, 2010).
it is to utilize cognitive perspective-taking skills Having sympathy for someone, as opposed
to achieve empathy. Segal (2007) has identified to empathy, initially takes less attention, focus,
social empathy as “the insights one has about and energy on the part of the practitioner. It is
other people’s lives that allow one to understand also less efficacious than empathy for developing
the circumstances and realities of other people’s mutual trust and respect. Table 4 compares the
living situations” (p. 335). We cannot have these characteristics of empathy and sympathy. It is
insights without a macro-understanding of the designed as a guide for the careful observation
structural inequality inherent in most social con- and assessment of one’s own emotional state.
texts, as well as other factors such as institu- The mindfulness needed to distinguish between
tional sexism, racism, or ageism. By “filling in empathy and sympathy has already been shown
the blanks” of interpersonal experience, social to be a useful strategy for cultivating the cog-
empathy can help us experience and use individ- nitive skills required to be fully empathic (Cof-
ual empathy to its fullest extent. fey & Hartman, 2008; Decety & Lamm, 2006).
The suggestion is not that a practitioner should
never express sympathy for a client, rather that
IMPLICATIONS FOR PRACTICE our overall perspective and mental state be one
informed by empathy and not sympathy.
Social workers have only begun to apply the Table 4 indicates that the urge to reduce an-
implications of the new social-cognitive neuro- other person’s distress is part of personal dis-
science on empathy to social work education tress and sympathy, and not empathy (empathy
(Gerdes et al., 2011) and practice (Gerdes & may certainly include a desire to lessen an-
Segal, 2009). Social workers who lack mind- other’s suffering, but it is not, itself, experienced
ful observation skills (such as mental flexibil- as a painful and therefore self-focused sensa-
ity and self/other-awareness) can unintentionally tion). Some researchers, including at least one
turn the reflexive aspect of empathy into an un- neuropsychologist (Watt, 2007), argue the op-
bearable emotional liability (i.e., personal dis- posite position. However, a growing body of
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TABLE 4. Comparison of Empathy and Sympathy

Characteristic Empathy Sympathy

Feel what the client is feeling; and know A reaction to or heightened awareness of
what the client is feeling. Affective sharing the client’s distress or predicament
with self/other-awareness, emotion (Black, 2004; Wispe, 1986).
regulation, and perspective taking (e.g.,
Decety & Moriguchi, 2007; V. Gallese,
2007).
Impact of social worker’s Client experiences “feeling felt” by another A nonjudgmental expression of sympathy
expression of empathy person. Someone shares or understands can comfort a client. A clumsy expression
or sympathy their internal world—this is very validating of sympathy can be experienced as cliché
(Siegel, 2010). or corny (Clark, 2010).
Social worker’s impulse to Emotion regulation, self-awareness, and There may be an urge, based on one’s own
take action perspective taking allow the worker to and the client’s anxiety, to do whatever is
decouple from the affect and avoid necessary to alleviate the client’s distress.
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personal distress or anxiety. Hence, there This can lead to enabling actions or “give
should be no immediate impulse to take them a fish reaction.” For example,
action. As the 13th-century Sufi Mystic, offering money or short-term attention
Hafiz said: “Troubled? Then stay with me, that requires nothing from the client.
for I am not.”
Empathy is a “Teach them how to fish”
reaction (e.g., empowering actions such
as providing information and options and
facilitating insights).
Emotions or states a client Empowerment, self-efficacy, competence, Gratitude, comfort, eventually could lead to
might experience optimism, resiliency. dependency or entitlement.

evidence suggests empathy is followed by more Personal distress and the sympathetic urge
diverse decision making and action choices, to relieve another’s anxiety can lead to egotis-
which are distinguishable from and more sophis- tic motivation (i.e., offering insights or guid-
ticated than the immediate urge to comfort or ance that are really directed at relieving the
relieve distress (V. Gallese, 2007). For example, practitioner’s own unpleasant sensations, rather
de Waal (1996; 2009, p. 285) describes empathic than empowering the client; Lamm et al., 2007).
action as “targeted helping, which is help fine- Practitioners who feel mainly sympathy (or
tuned to another’s specific situation and goals.” worse, pity) for clients are likely to eventu-
This distinction is emphasized between empa- ally develop irritation, resentment, and anger
thy and sympathy partly because it is useful: toward the client as their energy is being de-
The sympathetic impulse to provide immediate pleted by taking on the client’s burden. In con-
comfort lessens mindfulness and increases anx- trast, empathy is energizing because clients are
iety, which makes truly useful empathic action viewed as capable of solving their own prob-
less likely. lems, especially when practitioners decouple
As mentioned earlier, affect sharing or mir- themselves from the affective-sharing compo-
roring can lead to anxiety and personal distress nent by using self-awareness, emotion regula-
if the practitioner does not have the ability to tion, and perspective-taking skills. From an em-
utilize self/other-awareness, emotion regulation, pathic perspective, there is no need to take on
and perspective-taking skills. A practitioner who the client’s burden or problem. Instead, there
has these abilities or skills can experience em- is often an enormous sense of gratification for
pathy to its fullest extent; those who do not have the client and the practitioner when a client
these skills are likely to be quickly overwhelmed “feels felt,” or when his or her experience is
by personal distress and therefore never have a validated and seen by the practitioner (Siegel,
truly empathic experience. 2010).
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All of this suggests that the definition of em- important than any other comment on existing
pathy as affect sharing alone (as in Nancy Eisen- scales—is that both instruments were created
berg’s [2007] view) is less useful for a social before the new social-cognitive neuroscience on
worker than the view of empathy from a social- empathy was developed. This is a fundamental
cognitive neurological perspective. The addition reason why neither the IRI nor the Carkhuff and
of emotion regulation, self/other-awareness, and Truax Empathy Scale fully captures the affect-
perspective taking creates a much more robust sharing/mirroring, self-awareness, or emotion
and valuable experience for the social worker regulation components of empathy, all of which
and allows practitioners to function more effec- can now be empirically observed.
tively, without as much risk for burnout, than One way to compensate for the lack of a com-
simple emotional identification with a client’s prehensive measure of empathy is to use mul-
feelings. For this reason, social work as a whole tiple outcome scales. For instance, researchers
needs a clear understanding of empathy that in- might administer a subscale IRI to determine
cludes all the components revealed by social- subjects’ level of perspective taking, and then,
cognitive neuroscience. to assess self/other-awareness, add the Levels of
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Emotional Awareness Scale (LEAS), a written


response to hypothetical vignettes which essen-
FUTURE RESEARCH IMPLICATIONS tially estimates the level of subjects’ awareness
of their own feelings, others’ feelings, and the
How can we best teach empathy to future so- ability to differentiate between the two (Lane,
cial workers? What are the benchmarks for es- Quinlan, Schwartz, Walker, & Zeitlin, 1990).
tablishing the levels of empathy required to be To determine levels of emotion regulation, re-
an effective practitioner? How can we effectively searchers could then add the self-report Cogni-
distinguish between an empathic and a sympa- tive Emotion Regulation Questionnaire (Garnef-
thetic perspective? How can we determine the ski, Kraaji, & Spinhoven, 2001). Finally, to mea-
efficacy of empathy-driven actions or helping sure affect sharing, the researchers could also
versus sympathetic action? use the self-report Toronto Empathy Question-
In a recent meta-analysis of empathy training naire, which includes seven items that reflect the
programs for client populations, Butters (2010) physiological, affective-mirroring component of
concluded that we still cannot answer such ques- empathy (e.g., “When someone else is excited,
tions effectively, let alone conclusively, because I tend to get excited too”; “I remain unaffected
of inconsistencies in how empathy is concep- when someone close to me is happy”; Spreng,
tualized and measured. Embracing a social- McKinnon, Mar, & Levine, 2009).
cognitive neuroscience conceptualization could This concatenation of instruments could be
move theorists and practitioners much closer to relatively effective in measuring empathy, but
an empirical measure of empathy—particularly obviously, the process would be cumbersome for
if a comprehensive and robust empathy index both researchers and subjects. It is rarely feasible
can be built on the foundation of neuroscience. to administer four different measures, including
Currently, the two most widely used empa- some, like the LEAS, that require considerable
thy scales are the observer-rated Carkhuff and time to complete and score. Furthermore, But-
Truax Empathy Scales (Truax & Carkhuff, 1967) ters (2010) found that changes in empathy level
and a self-report scale created by Davis (1980) vary as a function of the type of measure used
called the Interpersonal Reactivity Index, or IRI (e.g., self-report vs. observer rated). A far more
(Butters, 2010). The Carkhuff and Truax scale productive approach would be to develop a com-
is predominantly used in professional training prehensive and concise self-report empathy in-
programs, while the IRI is most often used in dex that incorporates the new social-cognitive
studies on client populations. Butters (2010) has neuroscience (Gerdes, Lietz, & Segal, in
delineated many of the problems and limita- press).
tions of both scales. However, one factor But- In addition to the logical and logistical advan-
ters does not mention—one that may be more tages of such an index, it has the advantage of
Empathy, Sympathy, and Pity 239

being more objective than existing instruments. effectively. So far, the history of these words
Although self-report measures are the most eco- has led to a popular degradation of the term
nomically feasible means of measuring empathy, “pity” and a conflation of the words “sympathy”
they are inherently limited. An empathy index and “empathy.” Because empathy is so pivotal
grounded in social-cognitive neuroscience could for the social contract, social-cognitive neuro-
be tested against objective measures (such as scientists have paid particular attention to see-
functional magnetic resonance imaging [f MRI] ing how it is mediated in the brain. They have
scans) to determine if it is consistent, robust, and found that four discreet neural functions (affect
valid (f MRI measures brain activity through sharing, perspective taking, emotional regula-
blood circulation in specific neural networks). A tion, and self/other-awareness) are necessary for
broadly applicable and accurate measure could a full experience of empathy. Including all four
be created and validated by triangulating self- of these elements leads to a generalized appli-
report questionnaires, forced-choice vignettes cation of “social empathy,” which leads to the
(i.e., expressed reactions or judgments to vari- creation of more just and compassionate social
ous situations), and neuroscience technology. systems, while sparing social workers from com-
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For example, participants could read vignettes passion fatigue (Thomas & Otis, 2010). It is to be
while connected to f MRI equipment and be hoped that the new clarity that social-cognitive
asked to make explicit judgments about a fo- neuroscientists have given the term “empathy”
cal person in the context of affective sharing, will be integrated into social work theory and
perspective taking, self-awareness, and emotion practice and that future research will utilize the
regulation. The goal would be to establish a link new, 21st-century understanding of this basic so-
between the observations of brain activity and cial capacity to enhance our ability to create a
the feelings, self-reports, and vignette responses truly empathic society.
associated with empathy. The end product would
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