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MATERIAL SELF When their lives are in success, we feel

William James – a Harvard psychologist in the their victories as if we are the one holding
late nineteenth century, He described self into the trophy.
components as: In their failures, we are also put to shame or
1. Constituents guilt.
2. The Feelings and Emotions they arouse (Self When they are in disadvantage situation,
Feelings) there is an urgent help like a voluntary
3. The Actions of which they Prompt (Self- instinct of saving one’s self from danger.
Seeking and self-Preservation) We place huge investment in our
immediate family when we see them as the
The Constituents Self – are composed of the material nearest replica of our self.
self, the social self, the spiritual self and the pure ego.
HOME – is where our heart is. It is the earliest nest of
 The Material Self – according to our selfhood. Our experience inside the home
William James primarily is about our were recorded and marked on particular parts
o BODIES and things in our home.
o CLOTHES
o IMMEDIATE FAMILY Old Cliché about rooms – “if only walls can
o HOME speak” – The home thus is an extension of self,
 We are deeply affected by these things because in it, we can directly connect our self.
because we have put too much
investment of our self to them.
o Having investment of self to things, made us
BODY – The innermost part of our material self. attached to those things. The more investment of
self-given to the particular thing, the more we
Intentionally we are investing in our body. identify ourselves to it. We also tend to collect and
We are directly attached to commodity that we posses properties. The collections in different
cannot live without. degree of investment of self, becomes part of the
We strive hard to make sure that this body self. As James (1980) described self: “a man’s self is
functions well and good. the sum of all what he can CALL his”. Possession
Any ailment or disorder affects us. We do have then become a part or an extension of the self.
preferential attachment or intimate closeness
to certain body parts because of its vital value WHAT ARE WHAT WE HAVE
to us.
There were people who get their certain body Russel Belk (1988) posts that “…we regard our
parts insured. Celebrities like Mariah Carey who possessions as part of ourselves. We are what we have
was reported to have placed a huge amount for and what we posses.”
the insurance of her vocal cords and legs.
The identification of the self to things started in
CLOTHES – influenced by the Philosophy of Dress by our infancy stage when we make a distinction among
HERMAN LOTZE, JAMES believed that clothing self and environment and others who may desire our
is an essential part of material self. possessions.

Lotze – Microcosmus, stipulates that “any time we bring As we grow older, putting importance to
an object in the surface of the body, we invest material possession decreases, However, material gains
that object into the consciousness of our higher value in our lifetime if we use material
personal existence taking in its contours to be possession to find happiness, associate these things
our own and making it part of the self. with significant events, accomplishment, and people in
our lives. There are even times, when material
According to (Watson, 2014) The Fabric style of possession of a person that is closely identified to the
the clothes we wear bring sensations to the person, gains acknowledgement with high regard even
body to which directly affect our attitudes and if the person seated there; a well-loved and kept vehicle
behavior. Thus, clothes are place in second of the person, which some of the bereaved family
hierarchy of material self. Clothing is a form of members have a difficulty to sell or let go of because
self-expression. We choose and wear clothes that vehicle is very much identified with the owner who
that reflect our self. passed away; the favorite pet or book, among others
that the owner who passed away; the favorite pet or
IMMEDIATE FAMILY – Our parents and siblings hold book; among that the owner placed a high value, these
another great important part of our self. What favorite things are symbols of the owner.
they do or become affects us.
The possessions that we dearly have tell
When am immediate family dies, part of our something about who we are, our self concept, our
self dies too. past, and even our future.

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