« Anonymous asked: convince me phan { real oho i see how it Is: ok. you're given this Image of dan and phil. two best friends who live together in 9 london apartment and have done for many years, you know, you see them as happy. they show no sign of wanting to move out. you know even though they could, | used to have this mind frame they could never move out and live seperately be of their brand, but they easily could, but they choose not to, they choose to live together. but on thar subject, you have @ man nearly in his 30's and @ man nearly 25 living sogether, nox that it’s weird but when you think of the fact these two have established no felationships azide each other in 7 years it does raise a few eyebrows. but then the argument comes in of ‘secret gf/bt's’ be they're private people but people forget how famous dan and phil are. it would be hard to mainzain 9 healthy celasionship and keep that person @ secret. the person Involved would need to be in their lives somehow. a friend you may say? they couldn't do normal couple things like go shopping, dates, be their viewers would spo: them. what dan and phil have is perfect, be they ARE best friends. they can easily hide a relationship behind their friendship, they're private people. but they fail, not in ¢ sense of people seeing them kiss, hug. etc etc but people see how much they love each other, and how in love they are. you tell @ person who has never watched dan and phil before and the first ‘question more or less out of their mouth is ‘are they dating?” it’s so telling. it’s not because people have a twisted mindset it’s bc we're perspective humons. we're clever! it’s like a sixth sense, we know when someone #5, lying, not that dan and phil are lying but you see through the filter. you see ‘wo guys who absoluzely adore each other. the way they act, the way they look at each other, the woy they choose to be around each other constontly! | don’t know about you bur | couldn't be around my best friend 24/7. but | would never compare my own friendships to theirs be theirs is like nothing else. y'know it's their actions it’s the holidays together. | mean look at Japan. honest ro god. japan. romantic country, just the two of them. you'd bring up the subject of ‘two beds’ but what people forget Is having two beds doesn’t mean you're not a couple. some couples need the space, oF like In dan and phil’s case they got :wo and pushed them together. ONE HUGE BED. not about needing evidence or proof, it’s sbout seeing the little things it's seeing two guys who have a business and a brand, it's brilliant selling [point of zing that friendship to their advantage. but alzo having a private Ife, having something special and sacred to them away from public eye with no confirmation, you can see how much these two love each other. It's gorgeous. nothing wrong at all with platonic love. platonic love all the way, but these two don't have strictly platonic love, they fell in love with each other and sometimes you can't hide that from the world.