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The only persons who do not experience conflict are dead persons. There are many
reasons why conflicts arise between individuals.
A. Different backgrounds
B. Different training
C. Different orientation
D. Different ways of viewing things
E. Different temperaments
F. Different mind set
G. Different past experiences
H. Different sexes
I. Difficult persons to get along with
A conflict is “a situation in which two or more human beings desire goals which they
perceive as being attainable by one or the other but not by both.” McSwain, Treadwell,
Conflict Ministry in the Church, p. 25
A conflict is “a struggle over values and claims to scarce status, power and
resources, in which the aims of the opponents are to neutralize, injure or eliminate their
rivals.” Coser, The Functions of Social Conflict, p. 8
E.
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IV. Getting Along with Those People No One can get Along With
A. Over-sensitive
B. Jealous
C. Competitive
D. Gossipy
E. Unforgiving
F. Try to see the good in the problem. It will help to build your
character.
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M. Be respectful even to the ill mannered.
Don’t be afraid or reluctant to seek the help of your pastor or another trained
professional, if your own attempts to settle the conflict prove futile. Eph. 4:11 - 13
God has a deep and abiding interest in the happiness and success in our relationships..