Song of god

Phone Ring… . Phone Ringing… ..

Mam: Hello

Me: Hello mam. Its kiruba

Mam: Tell me kiruba

Me: Mam I want to discuss about one problem. Shall we speak now?

Mam: Tell me kiruba

Me: Mam I have one friend called Naveen. He is working as IT engineer. 1.5yrs back he invited me to join
with him to start a small business. It was like buying some garments from textile companies in Thirupur
and resales in Andra.

We planned to create a Application in future to connect the manufacturer and to reseller.

Initially we get into the field and initiated manually. That project is totally different. I don’t know
anything about that. He told he will take care and teach me. What the Profit comes we will equally
share.

Mam: Okay. Good .. What happened?

Me: After 4months, he stuck with his personal commitments like marriage, father health issues like he
diverted from the business. Initially didn’t gave up, I continued doing that. But I did lot of mistakes, at
one point of time the business went down. I lose some money. My friend came after 8 months.

I started shouting and fighting. I trusted you, how you can leave me?. He explained the situation but I
didn’t listened mam. He is a good friend of mine, but now the relationship is spoiled. I don’t know what
to do mam.

Mam: Kiruba, you tell me if you are at his situation what you will do?

Me: I wont give up on who trusted me mam. I might pushed myself to give the support to him.

Mam; Okay good. Kiruba you have to understand one thing. Don’t expect everyone has to be like you.
Everyone are different. everyone will act differently to same situation. Am I correct?

Me: Yes mam. But…

Mam: Do you ever read the book called “Bhagavat Geeta?”

Me: I didn’t read mam but I know what it is!

Mam: In that one beautiful narration will come. When Arjuna get into the battlefield, initially he wont
accept to fight against Gavravas. His ego stopped him to think beyond emotions. On that time, Krishna
will tell him how he stuck with the temporary feelings and emotions. The same for you too.
Ego will contaminate your mind which stores the all information of your life events, memories. And it
will start taking control over it. Your mind only reminds the moments which all are pleasure to ego. It
will suppress the pain moments for ego. Your ego will comfort the intellect. Because “Ego won’t love the
change”

Because of your friend left, you are thinking what all the bad moments happened with your friend. Did
you thought about the good moments you had with him?. He only gave you the opportunity. He gave
you the knowledge and support. Because of he left how you can forget that?. Your ego suppressed all
the good things he did for you. Ego started highlighting the bad moments. That’s why you are angry on
him.

“Karna was killed in the war because he followed his emotion even he knows what is correct and what is
truth”

“I f you follow the soul that will lead you to understand the world and truth as it is”

“Make your intellect to choose to follow the soul not the emotion”

Me: Yes ma understood. In that situation everyone do like that only. He had no option. I have to keep
the ego baggage aside and start fresh.

Mam: ha ha see kiruba, in your life you may face these kind of situations again. You should have your
inner piece to have a stable mindset. Then you think about the solution.

Then I apologized to my friend and now we are growing together.

Thank you