Flirting

Creepiness is different for men and women, Men thinks that creepy is scary while Women thinks that men are creepy, Eye
Contact follow the goldilocks’ rule (too much or too little are bad) Too Much Eye Contact is offensive while Too Little is
uncomfortable. 1) Enough Eye contact that she senses you approaching, but not so much that you hesitate. Have confidence
and do not hesitate. Do three eye contact before you start a conversation. 1a) Start making brief eye contact with everyone.
1b) Add a smile, wave, or high five. Be internally comfortable with micro interaction, these are simple ways to start a
conversation with anyone. Be happy and do not be nervous. 1c) Speak to the women who smile back. Start with a joke or
something humorous or simply say Hi. Do not over compliment just be yourself. 2) Combine compliments with jokes to
release tension. Touching like eye contact too much and too little is bad. Incongruence what you are saying and doing does
not match; it creates a bad impression that you have something to hide. 3) 1-3 second touches on the arm are enough to
indicate interest without being creepy. If she makes her laugh do a high five or something. It gives you Information. 3a) Pay
attention to how receptive she is to physical contact and respond accordingly. See if she is comfortable with you or not.
This a point where you can end a conversation or start talking to her again without being touchy and see if she will be
comfortable later on. Pick up the feedback and act accordingly. You are a physical threat to them. Do not trap them in an
enclose place. 4) Avoid making her feel trapped by positioning your own back to the wall.

#1: Logistics - Where to Meet Women

Go to an event/activity you have a non-romantic interest in
#2: Wear Your Interest on Your Chest
#3: Open-Ended Questions
#4: Elaborate Then Relate
Connect values
#5: How to Land the Date
Ask them out
Non-needy confidence steps
1. Acknowledge the social situation
2. Say what you think about them
3. Invite them to something fun
Bring somewhere you can chat with her privately. Bring away from groups of people.

Save yourself in her phone as something fun

Send yourself a text as her after you have saved your name
Do not make things all logistical
Use callback humor
Get her excited about the plans you will make