Heng Seng Jing U63

Not everyone will like you and that's okay

Good morning everyone. Well, each of us here has a job to do. My job is
to talk and yours is to listen. The challenge is for me to finish my job
before you have finished yours. So I would like to start my challenge from
now. Today I’ve got a truth bomb for you all. Here’s the thing, it doesn’t
matter who you are, how wonderful you are, how lovely you are, how
talented you are, there is not a single person in the world who is
universally liked. If you stop and think about it for just a second, it’s
perfectly okay that not everybody likes you, because you don’t like
everybody. Receiving criticism is crucial to any person. But when
random people start being jerks to you, you have to step back, figure out
how to accept that not everyone is going to like you, and learn how to be
totally yourself without fear of what people are going to think. Keep
remind yourself that you are the captain of your own ship, and you do
not exist to make everyone happy. If you find out someone doesn’t like
you, try to remember these things. First, loving yourself is always
priority one. From the moment you’re born until the moment you pass,
you are stuck with yourself. All of your thoughts, beliefs, pain, happiness,
sparkling moments, and regrets will be constantly swirling inside your
heart and mind. If you work hard to be positive, you will be stronger
than those who smash your confidence with nasty things. Next, focus on
those who love the real you. No matter how bad you are, it still hurts to
find out someone doesn’t like you. Instead of trying to make everyone
like you, think of the people in your life who truly love you for who you
are. Last, it’s inevitable. for the rest of your life, there will be people who
don’t like you. If you dedicate your life to trying to make everyone like
you, you will end up emptied out and unsure of who you are. Stand up for
yourself. Be yourself. Love yourself. Those feelings of self empowerment
can come from no one else but you. If someone is just being a jerk, create
a clear boundary between yourself and that person. It’s time to bring this
presentation to a close, if you’ve made a mistake, try to right the wrong.
Learn from it, forgive yourself and move on. Your attitude is up to you,
you can bravely do your best, be yourself and move onward, thank you.