Message Read ‘tp netadress. usa. hp Mossage/INRBINOF Read? Qmx03-ecbDDUA079 inbox Message 1 of 63 (NEW) delta : Sat, 28 Mar 1998 03:46:07 MDT From: Laura GEARED L lexing77@pacific.net. 59, andyseow@mbox4. singnet, .com.sg, mowyw@mboxs.singnet.com.sg, babyboy@eyberdude.com, kradio@acrond€net, sckuang@cybemay. com.sg, nytiong@rocketmail.com, bdesmond@ pacific. ne} Jinyong@cyberway.com.sg, ganvin@pacific.net, ‘89, ptirin@hotmail.com, mdhafiz@cyberway. .com.sg, Ihl@mailexcite.com, i_opal@hotmail.com, dooks@mbox3. singnet.com. Sg, yayu@cybertech.com. .8g, izzio@hotmail.com, jamies7S@hotmail.com, jas51@mboxS.singnet.com. 9, jgraham@dsuper net, To: Geiavuse@yahoo.com, reiko@pacific.net.sg, kenningst@rocketmail.com, ” lawyek@hotmail.com, uspanda@ix.netoom.com, ssas@tallships.istar.ca, nileguard@hotmail.com, khonc@tm.net.my, doug. blaney@the-spa.com, blade66@cyberway.com.sg, thriller@pacific.net, 89, golden389@globalserve.net, g ranerara@rocketmal.com, sandwich@mboxs.singnet.com.sq,cruxifer@hotmail.9, zany’ @usa.net, tobbe_78@hotmail.com ‘Subject: Fw: Things that make sense Things that make sense ve leamed that you cannot make someone love you, All you can do is be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them, l've leamed that no matter how much I care, some people just don't care back. |'ve leamed that it takes years to build up trust, and only seconds to destroy it |'ve leamed that i's not what you have in your life, but who you have in your life that counts. ''ve leamed that you can get by on charm for about 15 minutes. After that, you'd better know something, I've learned that you shouldn't compare yourself to the best others can do, but to the best you can do, {xe-leamed that i's not what happens to people that's importa I's what they do about I've leamed that you can do something in an instant that will give you a heartache for life. ''ve learned that no matter how thin you slice it, there are always two sides, ''ve learned that i's taking me a long time to become the person | want to be. ve leamed that it's a lot easier to react than it is to think 03728198 12:59:38,np notaddross. usa netip/Mossape/INRBINQF/Read?Q-Imx03-cobDUA0798 I've leamed that our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for who we become. I've leamed that sometimes when my friends fight, I'm forced to choose ‘sides even when | don't want to. I've learned that just because two people argue, it doesn't mean they don't love each other. And just because they don't argue, it doesn't mean they do. I've leamed that sometimes you have to put the individual ahead of their actions. I've leamed that we don't have to change friends if we understand that friends change. I've leamed that if you don't want to forget something, stick it in your underwear drawer. I've leamed that you shouldn't be so eager to find out a secret. It could change your life forever. I've leamed that the clothes | like best are the ones with the most holes in them. yy {yelleamed that two people can look atthe exact same thing and see Y Something totally different. i I've leamt that looks actually count in a relationship but it has to. go beyond that to make the relationship grows. Mediocrity knows nothing higher than itself, but talent instantly Fecognizes genius. « = Sir Arthur Conan Doyle | oa [Sent (Copyright © 1997 USA NET, Inc Al Righs Reoovel, Usr of tis ste ype tobetund bythe NETADDRESS Subscriber Agresrent cf NET@DDRESS sd sociated srviess, 3083 03/2888 12:50:412083 nap /inetaddress.uss.nettp/Message/INRBINQH/Read?Q=mx03-cchDUA0 708, (Tye teamed that you should always leave loved ones with loving words, Wimay ie you I've leamed that you can keep going long after you k you can't I've leamed that we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel. I've leamed that either you control your attitude or it controls you. I've leamed that regardless of how hot and steamy a relationship is at fs the passion fades and there had better be something else to take its I've leamed that heroes are the people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences. I've leamed that leaming to forgive takes practice. I've teamed thit there are people who love you dearly, but just don't know how to show'it. I've leamed that money is a lousy way of keeping score. I've leamed that my best friend and | can do anything or nothing and have the best time. I've leamed that sometimes the people you expect to kick you when youre down may be the ones to help you get back up. I've leamed that I'm getting more and more like my grandma, and I'm kinda happy about it. I've leamed that sometimes when I'm angry | have the right to be angry, but that doesn't give me the right to be cruel. I've leamed that true friendship continues to grow, even over the longest distance. Same goes for true love, I've leamed that just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have, I've leamed that maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you've had and what you've leamed from them and less to do with how many birthdays you've celebrated. I've leamed that you should never tell a child her dreams are unlikely or outlandish. Few things are more humiliating, and what a tragedy it would be if she believed it. I've leamed that your family won't always be there for you. It may seem funny, but people you arent related to can take care of you and love you and teach you to trust people again. Families aren't biological. ''ve leamed that no matter how good a friend someone is, they're going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that. I've learned that it isn't always enough to be forgiven by others. ‘Sometimes you have to leam to forgive yourself. |'ve leamed that no matter how bad your heart is broken the world doesn't stop for your grief. 03/28/98 12:59:40