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Recount an
incident or time when you experienced failure. How did it affect you, and what did
you learn from the experience?
An Origin Story
IV.
I.
One of my first memories takes place on the water. In it, I am in an inflatable boat
that suddenly flips over. My parents had just bought the boat and I remember sitting next to
my father as he blew it up, his confidence palpable as he guided me into the sea, my delight
as I played captain of a ship, and then--the sudden thrust of water. I was underwater,
everything upside down, my father’s legs colored green by the sea, the permeating memory
of betrayal. As I held my breath and tasted the salt in my mouth, I realized, at the age of
three, that parents sometimes fail to keep their children afloat. I’d have to know how to swim.
II.
During another family vacation there was a storm. As a result, the beach was filled
with jellyfish scattered about like half-deflated balloons. As I walked around, I thought: this is
my chance to be a superhero. I went up to the biggest jellyfish, took it with both hands and
carried it to the water. The rescue mission continued slowly as I repeated the process while
tripping on the slippery sand, getting back up again, battling my smallness. However,
countless jellyfish still remained, and I started crying: I couldn’t save them alone. Being a
superhero is not easy, it turned out. For some miracles, I need to ask for help.
III.
On my very first day of school, my friend Katya and I walked onto the campus,
bursting with pride. My education was finally about to begin. Entering a classroom, as we were
eagerly absorbing our surroundings, the teacher appeared, asking, “ Girls, what are you doing
here?”
My smile vanished and Katya’s face turned white. I exclaimed, “ We are students from
1-B!”
The freshly painted door was shut in front of our faces. Ultimately, I remembered that
we were now responsible students and tugged at Katya’s hand, taking charge. “ Let’s go,” I
said, forcing a smile. Someone had to be brave. This mistake was our fault, and as a mature
six-year-old, I was ready to fix it. One foot in front of the other, we walked. While earning an
education, one sometimes must get lost, for revelation begins with a search, one step at a
time.
IV.
My origin story comes in three parts: they are who I am.
Above my desk, the wall is filled with pictures: reminders, inspirational mottos,
awards, and photographs. The other walls are filled with posters of school plays and my
artworks, a large world map. A chorus of moments carefully curated for display, the first
painted a portrait of my seventeen years on this planet, it would not resemble the perfection
of my walls. Instead, it’d be a collection with snapshots of my failures: ridiculous moments,
behind-the-scenes bloopers, lines said after the curtain falls. Looking back, my mother still
laughs at how, when little, I always ran ahead, excited, and inevitably fell face down. The next
day I would run off again, exhilarated and undaunted to embrace the world. To this day, I still
do.
Ukrainians say that how the first day of something goes is how the rest of it will be. If
that’s true, then the rest of my life will be shaped by what I’ve learned from my childhood:
first, when times get tough, I need to know how to swim; second, superheroes also need help
with their feats; and third, earning an education, as a journey to transforming the mind,